Nezzjnr:

Your Dumb headed fool

Did I see where OP posted her age?

greggng:



Is a sin to look into other people's affair except one is invited to do so. Granted is your phone but you gave them authority to use it. Why going through his stuff....common sense demands that one could 've logged out her account and loggin yours....there is no excuse for that blunder ..,.

Dobson43:
Quick points here:

You were supposed to mind your business.

You crossed a line poking your nose in her personal affairs.

Being her Boss doesn't give you the right to judge her. She is under contract to serve you in a certain capacity. Stick to that capacity.

If her atitude to work affects your business in anyway, then you can let her off.

Why should you be bothered as a father? What's the point of drinking paracetamol on another man's headache?

If you had used this amount of time in snooping around in pushing your business forward, you would actually enjoy better patronage.


You should draw a line as regards your relationship between yourself and your workers.


It appears you have feelings for this lady thus your uneasiness that she has underperformed in your own estimation. Kill that feeling. It's her life, let her define it how it suits her

This time actually do mind your business.

OritaIbadan:
I employed this 21years old lady last year as a sales rep. At resumption to work she appeard so decent and godly always With her Bible and Sunday school manual. I was really impressed by her spiritual and respectful nature. This made me treat her different from others. I buy her things and sometimes gives her money and always discuss her good life style with my wife. But what amazed me was that my wife was so indifferent about her each time I discuss her my wife will quickly change the topic. I thought, well woman with their naughty behavior towards other women.

Fast forward to June first this year her phone was stolen and I have a phone in office that I allow them access to incase their phone is off I can easily reach them through it. This faithful day, I tried to access my Facebook account using the office phone and found out that this same lady had used it but forget to logout. Well, I knew it was wrong to check her inbox but all the same I did.

After checking her inbox I couldn't sleep all night. I found out that she is having unprotected sex with 5 guys each guy per Sunday and she just did an abortion March this year the very day she told me that she was sick and can't make it to work and she wasn't sure who among the guys that impregnated her. I also found out that she had missed her period again and trying to hang it on one of the boys. The amazing thing is that non of these guys suspects her, they all believe she is a faithful girl friend.

I have thought of relieving her of her job, but my wife is asking me what should I give as reasons. But the truth is that I had never winessed such a wayward life before. If I pretend as though I know nothing she will eventually commit another abortion and continue with such life which is very dangerous at her age. What if she is my own daughter?

Please I want the mode to push this to the front page. I want to seek others opnion about it

ume1000:
how come we speak of loving our neighbors and still say mind your business,
How come we say no to irresponsibility and still support sexual immorality

Lots of the problems we face today in this country all started in senerios like this

From ignoring internet fraud to ignoring immorality

The truth is that no one can ever sit on the fence it's either you are here or there , because silence is an answer of its own

kalmebad:


You very stupid at that ur comment. Craze dey worry u and ur generation. U have no reason to insult me. If u don't like my comment.just passed.

Like u don't know d country we live in..what if she frames and turn it against her employer.

And for u guys saying it's d girls life..what life does she have at 21....we r not speaking of dating one guy but 5 at a time. Sometimes this young girls need some counseling...some don't even know d consequences...of abortion, unprotected sex and viral diseases and u guys r yelling OP has no biz but forgot she used a wrong phone..not that he went snooping into her personal phone.

Once again..we all type behind sceens and spew nonsense as we like. I hardly comment here but some how am interested in him saving d girls future...it could be salvage with right counseling. My thunder wet no get name and part 2 fire u...congugated slowpoke

I hardly insult anyone ....I have bn on this thread for many years, I started retracting when silly ones like u started becoming part of this forum

eni4real:
They don't pay bride price In Kim Kardashian Country!!!

The man that marry Mia Khalifa has the worst self esteem in history!!! That's the truth.. Khalifa, being a mainstream sex pot in their 'industry', the guy definitely has zero moral fibre for dating/marrying her. Too much masturbation must have beclouded him !!

In Nigeria, men work hard to pay bride price, sponsor thier weddings, be in charge of upkeeps of the woman and the family!

Did you just compare that chameleon girl to Kim and Mia?? None of your A list celebrities in Nigeria has the same background and Government compared to them let alone this chameleon salesgirl!!

Kanye knows about Kim's sex tape

Mia 'horseband' knows about Mia numerous extreme x-rated sex with guys on screen, yet they got married!!!

Any Nigerian lady that want to copy them should tell their fiance all their sexcapades including abortion events... Let's see if the wedding will not be cancelled

She should tell the next man too, let's see if he will tolerate him!!

You have to travel through many oceans just to defend a poor Chameleon salesgirl??

Despite all the love that the OP show her, that girl is a disappointment and should remove her sister Mary cloak before more people get hurt!

Op, stay away from her!!

Sack her if that give you a peace of mind

OritaIbadan:
I employed this 21years old lady last year as a sales rep. At resumption to work she appeard so decent and godly always With her Bible and Sunday school manual. I was really impressed by her spiritual and respectful nature. This made me treat her different from others. I buy her things and sometimes gives her money and always discuss her good life style with my wife. But what amazed me was that my wife was so indifferent about her each time I discuss her my wife will quickly change the topic. I thought, well woman with their naughty behavior towards other women.

Fast forward to June first this year her phone was stolen and I have a phone in office that I allow them access to incase their phone is off I can easily reach them through it. This faithful day, I tried to access my Facebook account using the office phone and found out that this same lady had used it but forget to logout. Well, I knew it was wrong to check her inbox but all the same I did.

After checking her inbox I couldn't sleep all night. I found out that she is having unprotected sex with 5 guys each guy per Sunday and she just did an abortion March this year the very day she told me that she was sick and can't make it to work and she wasn't sure who among the guys that impregnated her. I also found out that she had missed her period again and trying to hang it on one of the boys. The amazing thing is that non of these guys suspects her, they all believe she is a faithful girl friend.

I have thought of relieving her of her job, but my wife is asking me what should I give as reasons. But the truth is that I had never winessed such a wayward life before. If I pretend as though I know nothing she will eventually commit another abortion and continue with such life which is very dangerous at her age. What if she is my own daughter?

Please I want the mode to push this to the front page. I want to seek others opnion about it

safarigirl:


LOL.

So, bride price that you paid, means you should get one clean, untouched babe, abi?

Are you clean and untouched? Is it not Nigerian men that go extra miles, to convince women they are unmarried to, to sleep with them? Then, the same Nigerian men, think they can decide how many women the girl sleeps with

If you are not a virgin, take several seats abeg.

Thank God no be only una dey this world. As long as you are not the person that will marry her, face your front and save your sympathy for yourself, because you don't even know what you will use your bride price money to bring to your house

OritaIbadan:
I employed this 21years old lady last year as a sales rep. At resumption to work she appeard so decent and godly always With her Bible and Sunday school manual. I was really impressed by her spiritual and respectful nature. This made me treat her different from others. I buy her things and sometimes gives her money and always discuss her good life style with my wife. But what amazed me was that my wife was so indifferent about her each time I discuss her my wife will quickly change the topic. I thought, well woman with their naughty behavior towards other women.

Fast forward to June first this year her phone was stolen and I have a phone in office that I allow them access to incase their phone is off I can easily reach them through it. This faithful day, I tried to access my Facebook account using the office phone and found out that this same lady had used it but forget to logout. Well, I knew it was wrong to check her inbox but all the same I did.

After checking her inbox I couldn't sleep all night. I found out that she is having unprotected sex with 5 guys each guy per Sunday and she just did an abortion March this year the very day she told me that she was sick and can't make it to work and she wasn't sure who among the guys that impregnated her. I also found out that she had missed her period again and trying to hang it on one of the boys. The amazing thing is that non of these guys suspects her, they all believe she is a faithful girl friend.

I have thought of relieving her of her job, but my wife is asking me what should I give as reasons. But the truth is that I had never winessed such a wayward life before. If I pretend as though I know nothing she will eventually commit another abortion and continue with such life which is very dangerous at her age. What if she is my own daughter?

Please I want the mode to push this to the front page. I want to seek others opnion about it

IamPlato:
Girls See Sex As Fun, they Bang Whenever They Like. Many Are Prostitutes who Hide Under The Name Of Relationship And fake Love.


The Children That Are Suppose To Be Virgins, rapists don Dis virgin Them.

We Are All Mad In The Planet

Nezzjnr:
You guys are saying OP should mind his business... For what exactly??
Didn't you see where OP stated that he's like a Fatherly figure to her and she's different from the others

This girl is still a minor working as a sales rep... If something bad happens to her... All fingers will be pointing towards OP.

OritaIbadan:
I employed this 21years old lady last year as a sales rep. At resumption to work she appeard so decent and godly always With her Bible and Sunday school manual. I was really impressed by her spiritual and respectful nature. This made me treat her different from others. I buy her things and sometimes gives her money and always discuss her good life style with my wife. But what amazed me was that my wife was so indifferent about her each time I discuss her my wife will quickly change the topic. I thought, well woman with their naughty behavior towards other women.

Fast forward to June first this year her phone was stolen and I have a phone in office that I allow them access to incase their phone is off I can easily reach them through it. This faithful day, I tried to access my Facebook account using the office phone and found out that this same lady had used it but forget to logout. Well, I knew it was wrong to check her inbox but all the same I did.

After checking her inbox I couldn't sleep all night. I found out that she is having unprotected sex with 5 guys each guy per Sunday and she just did an abortion March this year the very day she told me that she was sick and can't make it to work and she wasn't sure who among the guys that impregnated her. I also found out that she had missed her period again and trying to hang it on one of the boys. The amazing thing is that non of these guys suspects her, they all believe she is a faithful girl friend.

I have thought of relieving her of her job, but my wife is asking me what should I give as reasons. But the truth is that I had never winessed such a wayward life before. If I pretend as though I know nothing she will eventually commit another abortion and continue with such life which is very dangerous at her age. What if she is my own daughter?

Please I want the mode to push this to the front page. I want to seek others opnion about it

OritaIbadan:
I employed this 21years old lady last year as a sales rep. At resumption to work she appeard so decent and godly always With her Bible and Sunday school manual. I was really impressed by her spiritual and respectful nature. This made me treat her different from others. I buy her things and sometimes gives her money and always discuss her good life style with my wife. But what amazed me was that my wife was so indifferent about her each time I discuss her my wife will quickly change the topic. I thought, well woman with their naughty behavior towards other women.Dont go into people's privacy without permission.

Fast forward to June first this year her phone was stolen and I have a phone in office that I allow them access to incase their phone is off I can easily reach them through it. This faithful day, I tried to access my Facebook account using the office phone and found out that this same lady had used it but forget to logout. Well, I knew it was wrong to check her inbox but all the same I did.

After checking her inbox I couldn't sleep all night. I found out that she is having unprotected sex with 5 guys each guy per Sunday and she just did an abortion March this year the very day she told me that she was sick and can't make it to work and she wasn't sure who among the guys that impregnated her. I also found out that she had missed her period again and trying to hang it on one of the boys. The amazing thing is that non of these guys suspects her, they all believe she is a faithful girl friend.

I have thought of relieving her of her job, but my wife is asking me what should I give as reasons. But the truth is that I had never winessed such a wayward life before. If I pretend as though I know nothing she will eventually commit another abortion and continue with such life which is very dangerous at her age. What if she is my own daughter?

Please I want the mode to push this to the front page. I want to seek others opnion about it

Nezzjnr:
You guys are saying OP should mind his business... For what exactly??
Didn't you see where OP stated that he's like a Fatherly figure to her and she's different from the others

This girl is still a minor working as a sales rep... If something bad happens to her... All fingers will be pointing towards OP.

BlueAir:
Leave the wayward girl be. It's herself she's doing not you or your business.keep using her for sales.you can sack her when she's turning ur shop to brothel or hookup centre

eni4real:
If she is confident enough, let her mention all sexcapades and numerous abortions if the hardworking man will not withdraw the bride price!!!

Men don't commit abortion, stop likening men to women on sexual ground!!!

Men don't have wombs or tubes that can be damaged from abortions!

And, he who pays the Pipers.......

Fearlez:
as a psychologist I will tell you you have interest in this girl. Probably why your wife was jealous.

This is also why you snooped into her inbox. Something that isn't your concern. It is also why you're heartbroken (disappointed) when you did discovered she's been taking random Dick's.

This is why you are now attaching emotional matters into official business.

Typical African hypocrital sanctimonious goat.

wisdomkid:


This is why Africa is this sick, malnourished and painstakingly spitted on today by the world, you know why?
Because we all carry on because it does not affect us. No, what affects Ghana, indirectly or directly Affects Nigeria.

If your daughter is in the same situation today, and someone else is in a fatherly position to help, how would you take it? It's sickeningly to see about 1,200 people supporting your notion. This is why Nigerian government are getting away with any dubious behaviours, because we hate each other.

Fearlez:
as a psychologist I will tell you you have interest in this girl. Probably why your wife was jealous.

This is also why you snooped into her inbox. Something that isn't your concern. It is also why you're heartbroken (disappointed) when you did discovered she's been taking random Dick's.

This is why you are now attaching emotional matters into official business.

Typical African hypocrital sanctimonious goat.

Fearlez:
quite the opposite!!! Africa is behind the world because of how sanctimonious and hypocrital we are as against how productive we are.

Every advanced countries in the west wouldn't care what their employees do outside their official hours as long as it's their personal life.

How very ignorant.

Fearlez:
quite the opposite!!! Africa is behind the world because of how sanctimonious and hypocrital we are as against how productive we are.

Every advanced countries in the west wouldn't care what their employees do outside their official hours as long as it's their personal life.

How very ignorant.

eni4real:
If she is confident enough, let her mention all sexcapades and numerous abortions if the hardworking man will not withdraw the bride price!!!

Men don't commit abortion, stop likening men to women on sexual ground!!!

Men don't have wombs or tubes that can be damaged from abortions!

And, he who pays the Pipers.......

eni4real:

I am sure she is not the only good salesgirl in the world.. There are many girls that can perform better than her without stressing the OP this much!

Op should sack her...

All insults just because OP do not want her to go hungry through sacking!!

OP is a moral guy.. He detest a chameleon in a sister Mary cloak!!

Your psychology is goofed on this one!!!

Fearlez:
quite the opposite!!! Africa is behind the world because of how sanctimonious and hypocrital we are as against how productive we are.

Every advanced countries in the west wouldn't care what their employees do outside their official hours as long as it's their personal life.

How very ignorant.

wisdomkid:


What about the case of George Floyd?

Fearlez:
yeah. Employer snoops into the Facebook inbox of his female employee. Sees the girl bleeps well and is disappointed and wants to sack her. Looooooooolz.

Yes, goofed psychology or busted motive?