I don't support this opinion, ladies should learn to be independent, It gives respect to ur personality.

Liposure:
u are beating around the bush. But i like ur point sha

How did I beat around the bush? I was straight forward with my points.

This OP vibe is pandemic itself....watch out.

Our society is producing very confused men. The writer of the post has placed himself as a world leading expert in relationships and money matters but he is only a young man with a phone and some MB.
Young man we have heard you. You have become an online sensation. It's your breakthrough.

Broke guys will come for ur head
3,2,1

2017 thread Just made frontpage in 2020. Hmm

Ariza:
But he's right nah... If I weigh your impact in my life and you can't even offer what Nigerian men take as their Number sign of affection (MONEY) then you can be easily dismissed.

Painful but bitter truth

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Greenbullet:
I hear guys saying all girls are gold diggers at any small request, but why refer to a girl as a gold digger if you can not care for her needs.

Many people venture into relationship these days and most male partners do not understand their role, one basic role is your ability to provide for your household, if you can not do this then you are not a man but a weakling, if your female partner request for money most times it is not to "gold dig" rather is it to test your financial capacity and reasoning.

I wonder how some guys think "if she loves me she won't ask for anything". Excuse me are you all right? She loves you and intends to spend her life with you so she is trying to assess what your financial limits are so she can add to it or know how to request.

Imagine a boyfriend not being able to pay for his girlfriend's hair or even buy her a new shoe or even just give her money to buy foodstuff, and saying " am I her parents?" Well you are more than that because the moment you asked her into your life, you also asked her needs and accepted her as your responsibility.

PLEASE STOP DATING IF YOU CAN'T LEARN THE MAIN responsibility ATTACHED TO IT

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OP is thorough bred Igbo man

This one dey mad... must be a yahoo plus boy.

Greenbullet:
I hear guys saying all girls are gold diggers at any small request, but why refer to a girl as a gold digger if you can not care for her needs.

Many people venture into relationship these days and most male partners do not understand their role, one basic role is your ability to provide for your household, if you can not do this then you are not a man but a weakling, if your female partner request for money most times it is not to "gold dig" rather is it to test your financial capacity and reasoning.

I wonder how some guys think "if she loves me she won't ask for anything". Excuse me are you all right? She loves you and intends to spend her life with you so she is trying to assess what your financial limits are so she can add to it or know how to request.

Imagine a boyfriend not being able to pay for his girlfriend's hair or even buy her a new shoe or even just give her money to buy foodstuff, and saying " am I her parents?" Well you are more than that because the moment you asked her into your life, you also asked her needs and accepted her as your responsibility.

PLEASE STOP DATING IF YOU CAN'T LEARN THE MAIN responsibility ATTACHED TO IT

Tcwork:
Our society is producing very confused men. The writer of the post has placed himself as a world leading expert in relationships and money matters but he is only a young man with a phone and some MB.
Young man we have heard you. You have become an online sensation. It's your breakthrough.

nice response

If that is how you give to other people, then it is okay. You are not married to her and so you are not yet committed to take care of how responsibilities.

That's new

Eulalia:
True.

If I don't love you, I can't take or ask anything from you cos I know I don't have feelings for you and my conscience will prick me badly.

I have had to reject stuffs from people who showed interest in me just because I don't feel same way and can't live with the guilt.

Godly lady.... Nice one.

Too many ladies today think otherwise especially when they have myriads of guys as admiers.

This OP would lose his claim to manhood if a woman rejected his money and gifts.

AfroKnight:

The truth

Abike, God bless you. I expect her to be independent then me go come spoil am in my own little way.

Abikeade11:
I don't support this opinion, ladies should learn to be independent, It gives respect to ur personality.

Eulalia:


How did I beat around the bush? I was straight forward with my points.

if am ur boyfriend for example n i dont spend on u. will u complain? Just asking

Too dumb!!!!!
So i'm dating you to take care of your bills or what?
Which kain yeye mentality be dis. U must be a simp OP.
I can do things out of love but i can't take over ur parents responsibilities because of ordinary dating. Hu born u? Hu you?

This person na girl trust me.. she is trying to justify her selfishness and self centered nature. God punish u and ur needs ..

Greenbullet:
I hear guys saying all girls are gold diggers at any small request, but why refer to a girl as a gold digger if you can not care for her needs.

Many people venture into relationship these days and most male partners do not understand their role, one basic role is your ability to provide for your household, if you can not do this then you are not a man but a weakling, if your female partner request for money most times it is not to "gold dig" rather is it to test your financial capacity and reasoning.

I wonder how some guys think "if she loves me she won't ask for anything". Excuse me are you all right? She loves you and intends to spend her life with you so she is trying to assess what your financial limits are so she can add to it or know how to request.

Imagine a boyfriend not being able to pay for his girlfriend's hair or even buy her a new shoe or even just give her money to buy foodstuff, and saying " am I her parents?" Well you are more than that because the moment you asked her into your life, you also asked her needs and accepted her as your responsibility.

PLEASE STOP DATING IF YOU CAN'T LEARN THE MAIN responsibility ATTACHED TO IT

Abikeade11:
I don't support this opinion, ladies should learn to be independent, It gives respect to ur personality.

my god will bless u

hmm..goin thru d commentaries ave observed dat a lot of us dnt really "listen" we only "hear" and wait 4 any opportunity to air our view...wat d poster is trying to instill is very simple and quite correct if we read wit our minds...re-think..although wat he's sayin is nt totally correct..nd mind you,notin of such is...bt to his point of view, he is..

Ariza:
The truth

It appears you only came to this thread to colour it.

Like pouring oil on the floor. If we slip, we fall. If we don’t fall we wouldn’t have an easy time walking on it anyway.


Why?

If a girl truely loves you, she won't/would hardly ask you for money
Just as if a guy truely loves you he would never ask for sex.

Don't bash me

dalass:
2017 post made FP?

Now, @OP, your analysis is on point. Love is portrayed by giving. A man that can't provide for Hus family is worse than an infidel... She tests your "infidelity" by asking... Even without asking prove your worth....

But go dey do pass yourself

For his family not for any human being with hole between her legs

Naija girls are fast becoming liabilities.
The moment u begin to date them, u've automatically become their provider....
As a lady if you're in support of ur man covering all ur needs, u're a failure...
Stop asking, work!!!!!!

dayowunmi:
Is she hungry or in love? Ur write-up is lopsided. I hate this mindset cos it sort of make it seems like women are some less privileged beings that needs to be donated to. A man can give to his girlfriend the same way the girlfriend can give to her man. Relationship is the coming together of two givers. Giving HAS to be TWO way in a relationship, when it's only one party doing the giving and the other doing the receiving then you need to ask yourself if you are the boyfriend or you are just a sugar daddy. By the way, Money or material possession should not be the basis for love. The role of a man as a provider is only in marriage. Even if i have the means, i would be cautious of paying the school fees or house rent of a girl am dating cos you don't know whether the money you giving her is even being sent to her real lover.
Who can find a virtuous woman ? for her price is far above rubies .

my boss I duff my cap for u.


I love rational beings like you( no homo)

Liposure:
if am ur boyfriend for example n i dont spend on u. will u complain? Just asking

That's not what the post is all about na. Anyways... Why won't you spend on me? I'll leave you and ill let you know why im leaving you. Can't deal.

Please no body should come and tell me how to be independent.

Greenbullet:
I hear guys saying all girls are gold diggers at any small request, but why refer to a girl as a gold digger if you can not care for her needs.

Many people venture into relationship these days and most male partners do not understand their role, one basic role is your ability to provide for your household, if you can not do this then you are not a man but a weakling, if your female partner request for money most times it is not to "gold dig" rather is it to test your financial capacity and reasoning.

I wonder how some guys think "if she loves me she won't ask for anything". Excuse me are you all right? She loves you and intends to spend her life with you so she is trying to assess what your financial limits are so she can add to it or know how to request.

Imagine a boyfriend not being able to pay for his girlfriend's hair or even buy her a new shoe or even just give her money to buy foodstuff, and saying " am I her parents?" Well you are more than that because the moment you asked her into your life, you also asked her needs and accepted her as your responsibility.

PLEASE STOP DATING IF YOU CAN'T LEARN THE MAIN responsibility ATTACHED TO IT

The truth of the matter is, I cannot be giving money to someone when I don't even know I'll marry her tomorrow. These holes ain't loyal at all. The moment you say you don't have they'll look elsewhere just like my else told me that the reason she cheated on me was because she asked for money and I couldn't give her... I didn't even go further, I just cut her off

KIDfurniture:
This person na girl trust me.. she is trying to justify her selfishness and self centered nature. God punish u and ur needs ..

As in ehhhh....
I just got angry reading this shît.

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