₦airaland Forum

all4zionlover:
I'm very sure no good woman will abandon a loving husband in old age. What do she stand to gain?

Women rarely forget things ... They can just be anything you never expected... They do it well

Godwin4444:
what u should know is that old age is payback time for women n children to men


That’s is when u will reap whatever u have done as a man in your youthful days, all those shits u did n walk away with it that’s when u will reap it n if u were a good man, that’s when to enjoy cos your sacrifices are I’ll b remembered n u will b compensated for that

Na lie be this... After few years my father died my eye clear... Especially if you are a male ... Na later years you go understand how men dey feel wella...

onumadu:
This is not always true. At all.
In fact I've seen quite a few cases where this happened and the men involved where EXCELLENT fathers and husbands.
The problem is natural.
Monogamy has a reductionist demand on men that is impossible to meet. A women for example would want to avenge the fact that her husband looked at another woman 30 yrs ago! It is not that the man looked at another woman. It is that she is looking for a pretext to abandon him in old age!
A man gets married and at first controls 90% love and admiration. But as he ages, and he keeps investing in his wife and kids, he gradually drains himself of that love and admiration because he empowers them while he dis-empowers himself.
Over time, he would be lucky if he controlled 10% love and admiration.
How does love and admiration come about? Through MATERIAL THINGS: money, properties, etc.
Once he depletes all that and the kids grow up, the wife becomes "free" of the kids, and since he is sexually emptied as well for his wife, he loses everything and gets abandoned.
Life is NOT sentimental.
That is why a smart man must plan ahead and keep his materials very close to himself until his old age.
With those materials firmly under his control, he would retain love and admiration whether his wife and kids like him or not, or else ...

This is just it... Women control the home at old age... Just like my in law... My wife dey always talk am say common pencil their mama no fit buy for them... But now their papa no dey collect money ... Funniest be say the boys dey always fight their papa sef...

all4zionlover:
I'm sure if the man was a good husband and father to his children, they will not abandon him in old age.
Sow love, care and kindness now that you're a young husband and father.

I know a man in my street here he will be 72 this year... The man hustle for children and wife but now was abandoned ... If not be say na strong man sef...

Hendrixky:
Okay

When will adeboye die

Death to all god of men

Becareful

oz4real83:
do women go through labour everyday? Men worry everyday of their lives, especially when such a man is married to a lady that is never satisfied. Yahoo boys and Nigerian politicians have even created more problems for honest, hard working men. An average Nigerian lady will compare what she receives from her partner with what other ladies are receiving from their partners, when it doesn't measure up, such a man will have his lifespan reduce furthermore , even when such a lady has nothing to offer.

You dey mind am

KanwuliaExtra:
All about lifestyle.
Even without these 'pressures' you claim the 'man' goes through around you, it is still a global phenomenon that men in the anywhere in the world have a shorter lifespan than women.

There is NO STRESS worse that takes a toll than child bearing and rearing for women. . . .which most men escape. This stress on women alone TO CARRY AND RAISE A CHILD OR CHILDREN is enough to KILL EVERY WOMAN that has embarked on that journey. But they still manage to cope and survive right? If most men were single-parents, their lifespan would have been 1/4 that of women world-wide!

ESPECIALLY IN A FOREIGN COUNTRY WITH DIFFERENT CULTURES THAN YOURS, where our traditional methods of discipline will fail you.

Try ya luck. . . .especially raising FEMALE CHILDREN!!! You will die and resurrect everyday. . . till you finally stroke out!

Continue...

WHITELIGHTER:
Abeg shift. This useless talk of mind Ur business is one reason we are were we are...

Lolz

Corrinthians:
Oga shut up. They said the car is faulty. No government in history of this country has patronised locally assembled vehicles like this administration.

Look at Road Safety, VIO, etc all their vehicles are Innoson. Even your local governors don't patronise Innoson the way fg does.

When that stupid Igbo Olosho called Mercy Eke won an Innoson vehicle in BBN, she never drove it for a day, but rather went and bought a Benz and flaunted it everywhere. You ibos clapped for her still.

Your own Igbo people are most notorious for remarketing Igbo products, but your selective blindness and bigotry will never recognise that, let alone admit it.

Ekpa Simon like you.😐😐

See finishing

Ogonimilitant:
You paid N49million for 30 seater units of buses.
Which is less than 1.3m per bus. This is how you want to patronize your country.

Innoson was founded in 2007
Toyota was founded in 1937
And you want Innosson to be like Toyota. The government of Japan funded Toyota why innoson started and funded itself from the scratch.

The government of Sierra loan bought vehicles from Innosson and have not had any problem but Nigerians instead of supporting their own brand keeps demarketing their brand because he is an Igbo man.

Obi is coming and Nigeria shall be great again.

Because he is an igbo man... Continue... Continue

kay1one:
Therefore I exhort first of all that supplications, prayers, intercessions, and giving of thanks be made for all men, for kings and all who are in authority, that we may lead a quiet and peaceable life in all godliness and reverence. For this is good and acceptable in the sight of God our Savior, who desires all men to be saved and to come to the knowledge of the truth.
I Timothy 2:1‭-‬4 NKJV
https://bible.com/bible/114/1ti.2.1-4.NKJV

Your peace is also dependent on the peace in your locality. That's why the Bible admonishes us to pray for leaders (current and to be). In fact, the spread of the Kingdom of God also depends on it. That why the devil is always trying to start one war or the other.

Don't let the devil deceive you with that religious crap.

Dey play na...

kay1one:
Therefore I exhort first of all that supplications, prayers, intercessions, and giving of thanks be made for all men, for kings and all who are in authority, that we may lead a quiet and peaceable life in all godliness and reverence. For this is good and acceptable in the sight of God our Savior, who desires all men to be saved and to come to the knowledge of the truth.
I Timothy 2:1‭-‬4 NKJV
https://bible.com/bible/114/1ti.2.1-4.NKJV

Your peace is also dependent on the peace in your locality. That's why the Bible admonishes us to pray for leaders (current and to be). In fact, the spread of the Kingdom of God also depends on it. That why the devil is always trying to start one war or the other.

Don't let the devil deceive you with that religious crap.

Dey play na

LikeAking:
Oga this kind talk, our destiny is in our hand not govt.

I knw normal people wo became millionaires in this same regime..

Govt is just to assist us.

The poor will always suffer...

Na universal principle..

Govt will contribute only 10% to our future..

Its high time we reduce our blame on the govt and focus on our untapped potentials..

God bless you.. If you see how people dey build houses .. Big big ones with beautiful roofings... Same with market too... My suppliers kept renovating and building new warehouses in tradefair and Alaba... Money dey here aswear... Govt. No fit tie my own destiny ... No excuse at all...

LikeAking:
Oga this kind talk, our destiny is in our hand not govt.

I knw normal people wo became millionaires in this same regime..

Govt is just to assist us.

The poor will always suffer...

Na universal principle..

Govt will contribute only 10% to our future..

Its high time we reduce our blame on the govt and focus on our untapped potentials..

God bless you... People wan enjoy but no want open brain and workhard

neutralmind:
Do you know the unemployment rate in Jigawa state ?

Those guys are jobless. They will always come out. It may not translate to votes.

Just like east too

Righteousness2:
My Brother, he is not confusing anything. He is unveiling and exposing the scheme of the devil in these Last days.

Many do not understand spiritual things and so they fall forvtye schemes of lucifer.

Don't mind am... The man was talking about getting carried away calling youtself the greatest

obembet:
When I say all of them na criminal, the bastard Obidient will claiming that obi is saint.


Mad people.


Thief is thief.
Peter Obi is a criminal

Atiku is a criminal

Tinubu is a criminal

If them agree with you... Plenty likes for dey for you

kbams241:
Thief na thief nothing like small thief..ole ni gbogbowan

You dey mind our people ... Like na only them dey run for election

Cursed child! I hate seeing my mother cry and to think I may be the reason or the cause of those tears… cursed child!

Father nko

SmartPolician:
The US has a well-structured system that works for them. Their institutions know what they are supposed to do at all times. But in Africa, it doesn't work like that. Anyone you vote in will bring their character, behaviour or madness.

Those will shape his administration; the US system has strong checks and balances; African institutions are weak. Now, you see why you shouldn't compare the two.

Cc daygee12, BOLATINUBU01, Fearyourcreator

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SmartPolician:
Believe it or not, Africans no get sense...

Joe been contesting since 80s in America

Babaken:
If Peter Obi win I will bring part of my investment home if not until Nigeria is ready for that.

Na you get Microsoft or Apple?

Corrinthians:
He has taken to his heels. I'm glad he at least acknowledged his guilt with his silence. Urheadmaster, shame on you and all your brothers. You brought these upon yourselves.

Lol

Corrinthians:
God bless you!!!

Urheadmaster, this was your handwriting right?

Tell us, why should anyon sympathise with you? See how stupid you sounded, all because of hate. The same monsters are at your door today.

How do you like that?

Lolz... Una catch am

Roboto11:
I know your type.

Ye must repent.

Hate no dey make person see road.. They are unpatriotic to this country... See as you kast am

Chopcy29:
Which one be problem with tinubu?
Obasanjo is an old man that has few years to live on earth, he wakes up every morning to plead and ask God for forgiveness on his wrong doings on earth. Don’t forget he has money too.
Do you expect him to see good and look away from it all because of money or tribal belief?

Like two years ago in my area here ... He still dey drag land with people wey don pay before ... You know a lot na

Urchinpainer:
Soludo for the sake of history also, we will ensure you are a one term governor.

That's Anambras people problems

Reinaldo:
What is the cost of the project?

You wan pay

Nightwolf1:
RIP to them. You guys met your waterloo trying to reinforce evil on sane people.

Becareful

Malory:
Seyi should focus on attending to his father's ailing health than embarrassing his family further. Nigerians have totally rejected your thieving father.

Ambitious father and good son...

Solari8:
I still don't know why people heat Tinubu so much like this, honestly I feel for the man.he has only be governor of Lagos state no federal appointment but still all the problems of Nigeria is being hang on his neck and is not as if Lagos is not doing well even under his watch.

The day some Americans said if Jeff bezos should leave this earth to another planet the government shouldn't allow him to come back... I fear human beings more... Many people hate with extraordinary achievement...

Nwaezeudo:
Kikiki This urine bag should rest already. If you hire crowd for rallies shey you go hire them to vote you ni?

Anyways his ill gotten money must go round. He is headed to Iragbiji for sure

So he doesn't know this