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I believe FFK should do some thinking before he opens his mouth...too much contradictions in his statements and articles.

Crystalline: A man says...I don't love my wife because she is not submissive perhaps if she were submissive, i'd have loved her.


A woman says...I am not submissive to my husband because he doesn't love me, if he had shown me love, i'd have been submissive.


Ephesians 5:22...wives be submissive to your husbands as unto the LORD

Ephesians 5:25...husbands love your wives just as CHRIST loves the church.

Now my question is "which should come first...LOVE or SUBMISSION?"

Your honest views are welcome.

Male headship is a very controversial issue in our modern society, this can be for the following reasons:

1. We don't understand the concept of servant-leadership;
2. We don't like patriachial societies because of our modern ways of valuing the worth of the individual;
3. We're confused by the bible's paradoxical way of asserting male headship in some passages and equality in others.

In relation to your question, male headship should address a kind of leadership which serves the needs of others in a self-giving way.
Our modern society rejects authority, yet seeks power.

The husband is to act in sacrificial, self-giving love toward his wife, who then voluntarily submit, just as the example set by Jesus of true headship in relationship to the church and true servanthood (submission) to God the Father.

The husband should at all times set the spiritual atmosphere inthe home by continuing to love his wife as Christ loved the church. This was a radically positive statement in its day, but unfortunately in our day the whole passage seems negative because it reflects the theological concept of male headship in home (Gen 3.16; 1Cor 11.3; 2 Tim 2.13). However, christian husbands are servant-leaders, not bosses.

I really love that.
Well done.

Benzema and his gang will use the Super Eagles as a practice match before facing Germany in the next round.

Nothing less than a France win 2-0

It is so amazing that these sort of allegations still goes on in African football, especially sub-sahara countries.
No wonder the North African teams have the best coordinated leagues in African apart from South Africa.

Black people we are our own worst enemies. We just don't like positive development at all.

Quality stuffs..

A good replacement for Patrick Evra, young, versatile and a top defender in the making.
He has proved his worth in the Premiership last season playing for Southampton.

I hope this is only a speculation.

Nigeria to win by 1-0, by packing the bus.

Too much epistle, what we need is proper, coordinated and effective policies to curtail these barbaric acts.

This is now a nation issue and let those in power stop pointing fingers at imaginary forces.

VICTORCIZA: i suspect apc. Apc received hot backlash here after losing ekiti state. i suspect they have a hand in this!!!
meanwhile oga seun i share your pain, sincerely i do!
God shall restore all your loss and multiply your blessing ten folds, amen

Can you please shout up and apply your brain in the direct direction?

"Common stealing is not corruption" - so says GEJ.

We seriously don't have any government in Nigeria that is capable of fighting corruption.

It's even so sad that some people will go to any length to support and patronise this GEJ, fresh air indeed.

Will it be right for the National Assembly to declare state of emergency in the abuja, the nation's capital?
As our President, GEJ and the FCT Administrator cannot provide sufficient security for the masses.
Since 2010 when bombing have been happening in the nation's capital, what are the adequate measures taken by the government.
They have not yet identify, prosecute, jail or even sentence to death, those who are bent on causing destruction of lives and properties.
Instead of taking effective action, our government is blaming everyone apart from themselves.

In more sensible environment, if there is a bomb attack, their government will swing into action to find the perpetrators.
They won't be blaming anyone because the security and protection of the citizens is very paramount.

All we are hearing is just same old jingles, "we are on top of the situation", "terrorism will fail", etc

By the way, any update on the Chibok girls!!

My commiserations to the dearly departed citizens.

Blackchampion: Haters

At least he should care to wear disposable gloves...germs are subtle to been passed to him from the victims and vice versa.
Simple health procedure!!!

Blackchampion: Good President of d Federal Republic of Nigeria.
He even touched d victims. Very humanly of u.
#GEJ tilll mama call
BTW Firstus D'Commentus

Hope his hands are clean, he shouldn't pass germs to the victims!!!

It so amazing that all newly elected-governors in this nation are known for one thing within the first 100 days of their administration - building of fly-overs, which will be named after their so-called political godfathers.

I hope all known e-warriors will not be charged for carrying dangerous weapons on site!!!

http://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/2014/06/25/atheist-mubarak-bala-deemed-mentally-ill-medicated-detained-nigerian-psychiatric-ward_n_5528658.html?utm_hp_ref=uk

According to the report, Mubarak Bala, was detained because according to him, he doesn't believe in God.

The players have every right to demand for their bonus, if not the allocation will suddenly disappear into strange accounts.

The NFA like most Nigerian establishment swims in corruption.

No wonder African football is not developing as this situation is the same all over (Ghana, Cameroun, Ivory Coast) to name a few.