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daveyjay:
Good day NLers, please I need your take on this.
I'm a student in one of Nigeria's prominent public universities.

A girl decided to vie for admission in my school via the predigree programme but she had no accommodation. Because of the relationship between my parents and hers, I offered to take her in from January till now

I offered a roof over her head.

The first night she came, she slept on the floor and I wasn't okay with that, the following night, I told her she could have the bed, I vacated my bed and relegated myself to sleeping on the floor, we can't share same bed since she's neither my babe nor sister. And this sleeping routine has continued ever since then. The floor is my new bed

I gave her my spare key, uncensored access to my kitchen and everything within my legal occupancy.
Cut long story short, last week Tuesday she woke up, had her bath, ate then stepped out briefly, when she returned we were outta water. Tap water of course. She called my attention to it to which I remained calm. Meanwhile I hadn't eaten neither had I bathed. At noon, she came to me that she was hungry but couldn't cook due to unavailability of water, I then asked her if I am to fetch her water??!.

She said she was gonn take food stuff to her friend's place (upstairs) to cook.
I replied by asking how many of her friends had lacked water and brought food stuff to cook here??!


She got angry and took some money and left


That same Tuesday, I went to see Chelsea game, when I returned, I asked her if she cooked but she didn't dignify me with her attention talk more of a response.
I thought it was rude but considered it as one of the many tantrums of ladies

The following morning, she woke up, acted like I don't exist, couldn't greet... had her bathe and left. Returned, unlocked the door, walked in like I wasn't there, ate, left to her friend's place.

On Thursday she repeated the routine, I called her back when she was going out, I asked her if she considered me as her father, brother or boyfriend that she'd wake up and start throwing attitudes...
I made her understand that I am her benefactor.
Hardly did I finish before she left. She returned and continued in same path and that has continued till this very moment...

Last night she didn't sleep at home, when she returned in the morning, she unlocked the door with her spare, walked in, ate, brushed, dressed and walked out without a single word e come be like say I be ghost.

What I did, I changed the locks, took some stuff, sealed my door with strict instructions to the caretaker then moved to a friends place outside my lodge and I've been there ever since.

She has returned and has been calling my line but I've been ignoring...

Now, is my action too harsh or still in line??!

Na now your brain dey work.

If you wan fall fall.

APC OH PDP OH. They are all the same thing.

The guy done bribe Gumi.

We are all brothers and sisters if we consider how God greated man.

A sub marine should have a backup submarine attached.

Odewaleadesoye:
https://www.nairaland.com/6522907/festus-keyamo-exposes-eedris-abdulkareem

https://www.nairaland.com/6523321/jagajaga-reloaded-eedris-abdulkareem-replies



https://punchng.com/twitter-deletes-keyamos-leaked-chat-with-eedris-for-violating-rules/

Eedris food done ready for you. Sue his yansh. The money wey e no wan drop that time him go drop am now. All these Abele SAN self. He should know the rules.

This one no be league na.

vinehedge:
Hello Nlanders, so I have been in a relationship with this young lady for about 20 months now. We started dating when she was in her final year 2019 and will be going for NYSC service year this coming May, 2021.

Now the question is after paying my dues, I mean gave gifts(both monetary and material) and do surprises. The problem now is she is asking me how much monthly compulsory stipends I will be paying her during NYSC.

NLanders, Please I need advice...This is my first relationship and I don't know if this is right.

No try am. The one wey I work her 60,000 naira posting to Lagos na tears finish am.

Thug life

We know Eedris to be like that. Talk another one. Keyamo you are still a terrible human being.

GANDOOOKI:
https://prnigeria.com/2021/04/24/security-forces-ipob-commander/

I sorry for Nigeria. This is how Bokoharam became bigger They killed their leader and every thing burst.

If you want to choke.Choke with the people around you. Nwanne.

Geonigga:
I have sometime in February this year made a post of a lady I met and who refused taking my calls one certain night and which I did a post seeking for advise here.

Let me now go straight to the recent happening in the relationship with this lady whom I met in the church and who also live in the same estate with me in fact her house is not that far from mine though she is living with her aunt.

It happened that on Wednesday being the 21st of April, 2021, when I arrived home from work, it is my usual practice to call her and when I called her that very day, she took her call and told me that she is very hungry and her reason was that she didn't like what they cooked in her house. I have to invite her over to my house and she ate very well and even took a bottle of soft drink before leaving for her house that night which I also gave her a naira note in case she wants to buy anything the following day.

The following day being the 22nd of April, as usual when I came back from work around 6:30pm, I put two calls across to her which were made in different intervals, but lol and behold this lady I thought she was my girl friend didn't pick up the calls, I remained calmed and went to bed that night.

However, during the course of the night, around 11:30pm that night my phone rang and I took the phone to know who was calling, it was this my so called girl friend that was calling, I had to ignore the call.

The following day very early in the morning she called again but I was preparing for work and I didn't want anything that will ignite sad mood on me, I have to ignored her calls even when I was at the office.

Later in the evening when I was about leaving the office she called again and I picked up the call with a mild attention, she then asked why I refused taking her calls since, I replied her by saying that she started it, this lady has to immediately end the call and up until now she has refused to take my calls or call back.

Please I really want to know who is at fault here because she is now making it look as if I am at fault but as it is I have made up my mind to call it a quit if she can not step down her pride and apologize. I will appreciate you guys opinions on this.

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Them no go call Bokoharam insurgents na Esn be insurgent.

Where their Mama's?

Idiot go they talk like Parrot why dem no go quench am.

openmine:
The best form of defence is attack!
Had the front three put out at least 3 of the chances that came their way,we would have been talking about the ruthless return of the front three!
In my opinion,the defence have so far done very well considering the absence of VVD and Matip!
The attack has been our main issue this season...Like what someone rightly said,its obvious that there is some sort of competition between mane and salah which is silently destroying the progress of the team!

I don't believe that. In today's match they both combined really well on several occasions but couldn't finish.

Sunny Nneji - Oruka.

openmine:
Was Klopp the one who could not score with 9 shots on target?
Aside Mane,Firmino and Salah,which other attack do we have?

The sleeping defenders? They are conceding goals from set pieces any how.

Klopp just dey coach Liverpool like super eagles. His substitutions killed the game.

damilola4162:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/punchng.com/kaduna-abductions-banditry-now-war-situation-govt-should-cooperate-gumi/%3famp

Gumi, Pantami, Iboho, Kanu, Shekau

ijustdey:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2021/04/people-are-reporting-killings-as-if-it-had-never-happened-before-garba-shehu/

Who is saying you should remove him. Suspend him and show that what he said was wrong and you don't accept it. But you and your president came up with a statement that supports him 100%

We need a Manager that can attract top Nigerian Talents.

Omooba77:
https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=305290817625146&id=100044326904709

This man go chop slap after 2023.

Skibii Mayana.