Business › Re: Zenith Bank CEO, Dame Adaora Umeoji Celebrates Two Years In Office by femi4: 9:18pm On Jun 01 |
Wow..Sexy mama..o ya ka jo mama |
Phones › Re: Screenshot And Share Your Data Usage For May 2026 (Screenshots) by femi4: 9:18pm On Jun 01 |
Unlimited |
Politics › Re: Yahaya Bello Meets President Bola Tinubu. Sowore Reacts (Photo) by femi4: 9:16pm On Jun 01 |
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Politics › Re: Tinubu Approves 1000 Forest Guards In Oyo, Deploys Rescue Team by femi4: 9:15pm On Jun 01 |
Long overdue |
Nairaland General › Re: Man Who Died While Watching The Arsenal-PSG Game, Buried In Anambra by femi4: 9:14pm On Jun 01 |
Useless death |
Politics › Re: Alleged Attack In Awgu Is False - Enugu Government by femi4: 9:13pm On Jun 01 |
Internet n fake story causing unnecessary panic |
Sports › Re: Osimhen Responds After Chelle’s Comments On Absence From Super Eagles by femi4: 9:13pm On Jun 01 |
Damage control
Oga ..come out n tell us where you dey go |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Aftermath UCL Final Loss: How EPL Rivals, Players Mocked Arsenal by femi4: 9:07pm On Jun 01 |
Till 2046 |
Politics › Re: If I Ever Meet President Tinubu Face To Face, This Is What I Will Tell Him by femi4: 9:01pm On Jun 01 |
Who be this one again |
Politics › Re: ‘cows Roaming Abuja Streets, A National Security Issue’, Wike Laments by femi4: 9:00pm On Jun 01 |
All talk no action |
Family › Re: Before You Get Married by femi4: 8:54pm On Jun 01 |
Ibrahim1985: To avoid story that touch or to save you a lifetime of future headache and heartbreak. Please study the person first before you marry. Study them like person dey study for JAMB, ask questions so you will know or will not be surprise, knowledge is power.
See how they react to you when he or she is angry with you. Do they go incognito for days or weeks after an argument? Imagine a boyfriend or girlfriend who is not generous to your family or to you but is very generous to his or her family but you come marry person and expect them to change. You are in for the biggest surprise.
Do not assume that when she or he is married to you , he or she will change and improve. That is the biggest lie, you will just see their true color. If your fiancé is stingy to you before marriage, your fiancé will be stingy to you during marriage if your fiance do not like your siblings or family before marriage, you fiancé will not change. If you like study them like A level....Marriage is a different ball game compared to dating, courtship etc |
Family › Re: What Causes Most Siblings To Hate Each Other? by femi4: 8:52pm On Jun 01 |
Sirchiboy: What causes most siblings to hate each other? Money E.g psquare |
Family › Re: Is It Normal For Parent To Be Competing With First Son by femi4: 8:49pm On Jun 01 |
amancalledgodd: Pls is it normal for your parent to take you as rival. Today being Sunday my mum made general swallow food with egusi. After long fight i finally got egusi and eba no meat o. Then boom my friend came to visit she gave my guy meat. My brothers came back from school today she gave them meet and kept soup in her room and started singing wicked song.
This is a woman that was arrested by the police for illegal removal of an already furnished house o, she removed the glass, window, buglary, toilet wc and some irons ontil police recovered those items. Actually she paid someone to remove those items cos she taught they have travel oversees only for someone to report them as they went in the night to do their operations. They arrested me with her cos i was at home with her.
I can't wait for revenge many things I no talk o.
I noticed that that woman always has a need to quarrel or nag , she need a competitior. My dad is a simp. Hes not my dad anymore sha If must live in that house, you must be responsible, respectful and be of good behaviour. With your attitude, you don't deserve food..not to talk of meat. If you think you have grown..go n get your own place |
Family › Re: Is It Normal For A Father To Buy Underwear For His Married Daughter? by femi4: 8:43pm On Jun 01 |
Obavoh: Why would a Father buy pants for his mature 24 years old married daughter if not to insult her husband?
My Family stay in a one bedroom and my Mother-In-Law came to visit.
When my Wife was putting on her clothes, my Mother-In-Law noticed that my Wife had used white thread to sew her pants. The pant looked old and rough according to her.
My Mother-In-Law called my Father-In-Law in the village and that one sent money and asked his Wife to go and get new set of underwear from the market for their daughter. Stop lying...he only sent money |
Family › Re: His Mother In-law Has Turned To House Maid And Chief Chef In The House by femi4: 8:42pm On Jun 01 |
Doveheart: Hello Nairalanders,
This is what I just noticed in my friend's house each time I visit. His mother in law actually came to do omugwo, taking care and staying with the baby when his mum has gone to work. but to my surprise, I discovered she is the one doing the house chores, sweeping, watching both the husband's (my friend) clothes and the wife's clothes together with the baby's clothes.
She cooks and serves everybody's food while the wife only give the food to the husband. The wife seldom enter the kitchen even on weekends when everyone is around. I told my friend about my observation and he said he feels it strange to him too.
Please nairalanders how do you understand this scenario whether is normal or abnormal. The mother in-law is yoruba and my friend also is Yoruba. Busy body, mind your business What works in your family ...might not work in another 2. Why throwing the tribal card? So what you experience in a family as now turn to a general ethnical experience |
Family › Re: Alot Of Couples Prefer To Take Their Passwords Along With Them To The Grave by femi4: 8:37pm On Jun 01 |
guobe: Al ot of married couples won't share their passwords with their spouse and even with their kids and God forbid anything happens, banks will just smile and claim everything if care is not taken or stress the hell out of the people he or she left behind if they want to lay claim to the money.
Just a few share their passwords with their spouses while some have decided to write their passwords in diaries so that incase anything happens it can be found there.
Life is very delicate. You worried about little things. Even your family members n bankers will go n leave the money behind. Stop worrying yourself about inheritance |
Family › Re: Family Warns Against Selling Alcohol To Son (Photo) by femi4: 8:33pm On Jun 01 |
They should be more worried about their spellings |
Family › Re: “If We Tell Him, It Will Destroy Him”- Woman Left Devastated After DNA Test by femi4: 8:29pm On Jun 01 |
[quote author=EmmyMaestro post=139587675] lies
You dont look like who can afford 5 dna test |
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Career › Re: I Helped My Fiancé Get A Job In My Company… Now He Wants Me To Resign by femi4: 8:22pm On Jun 01 |
escortafrik: I’m a lady in my mid-30s and life was going very well for me except for one thing everybody except me seemed obsessed with - marriage.
I have a good career, I’m financially stable, respected in my field, and I genuinely loved the life I built for myself. But every family gathering, every wedding, every phone call from relatives somehow turned into:
“So when are you getting married?” You’re not getting younger oo
Eventually, I met someone through mutual friends.
He was unemployed at the time, but that did not bother me much because he was intelligent, kind, calm, and surprisingly very knowledgeable in the same profession as me.
We connected deeply and for the first time in a long while, I felt like I had found the ‘one’
As our relationship became serious, I started helping him professionally too. I helped him restructure his CV, prepared him for interviews, connected him to opportunities, and eventually introduced him to my organisation when there was an opening.
Thankfully, he got the job.
I was genuinely happy for him because I knew how difficult things had been for him financially before then. And after he got the job, things became even sweeter between us.
And some month after he proposed to me ! my joy became complete! My family was overjoyed.
Then, just as our wedding plans were moving forward smoothly, the company we worked introduced a new policy stating that married couples could no longer work in the organisation together. Once two employees got married, one person would have to resign.
That was when the real problem started.
I assumed we would sit down and discuss it logically.
I have spent years building my career there. I’m more senior. I currently earn more. And if we’re being realistic, my position is more stable at the moment.
But my fiancé shocked me.
He told me I should be the one to resign because:
“I’m the man.”
Initially I didn’t take him seriously but as the wedding date drew closer, he kept pressuring me to resign !
I then reminded him that I was already established before he came into the company. I was the one who helped him get the opportunity in the first place. If anyone should logically stay, shouldn’t it be the person whose career was already firmly built there?
But he said it would be embarrassing for him as a man if he was the one leaving while his wife continued working there, that I could do something else like supermarket business.
Imagine !
Since then, everything has changed.
Wedding plans have paused. We now fight everyday Even his family are supporting him, telling me to resign ! my heart is broken.
Not just because of the job itself, but because I genuinely believed I was building a life with someone who saw me as an equal partner.
Well I have concluded that I won’t resign and I will also make sure he is sacked. No one should call me wicked because he is very wicked for wanting to do this to me.
https://community.escortafrik.com/d/198-i-helped-my-fiance-get-a-job-in-my-company-now-he-wants-me-to-resign Go n get another person to marry...your destiny weren't tied together |
Family › Re: My Mum Wants Me To Attend Every Occasion by femi4: 9:04pm On May 31 |
Blessedarethepe: It's needless bro ki lomode e mo Some doors are open by association..you wont survive office politics with this mindset |
Food › Re: How Long Do You Boil Your Eggs? (picture) by femi4: 4:30pm On May 31 |
Mariangeles: What does perfectly boiled eggs look like to you? How do you like your boiled eggs?
I usually cook mine for 10mins, because I like them soft boiled
What about you? How long do you cook your eggs? same here..anything after 10 mins is waste of gas / electricity |
Business › Re: 70% Of Nigerian Firms Depend On Generators – AFDB by femi4: 3:36pm On May 31 |
Thats where solar comes in |
Crime › Re: Nigerian Catholic Priest, Anthony Odiong Convicted Of Sexual Assault In The USA. by femi4: 3:32pm On May 31 |
Send him home |
Properties › Re: What's The Biggest Challenge You Have Faced In A Rented Apartment? by femi4: 3:31pm On May 31 |
AngelSlay: What's the biggest challenge you have faced in a rented apartment So many..back then Noisy neigbour Uncooperative neighbour Borrow borrow neighbour Aggressive landload |
Car Talk › Re: How Much Should I Pay For This Motorcycle by femi4: 3:27pm On May 31 |
tallfish145: Though I have never ride a motorcycle before but a friend wants to sell this Honda cargo for me. Its in good condition but I don't know how much is fitting for it and moreover is it a good company? Its a 5gear machine As a first rider, go n learn first |
Education › Re: NUC Ban On HND To Bsc Conversion: What You Need To Know by femi4: 3:17pm On May 31 |
Long overdue |
Family › Re: My Mum Wants Me To Attend Every Occasion by femi4: 12:31pm On May 31 |
Jmichael1: I don't know what else to tell my mum just to let her understand that I get bored wen ever I'm around crowd of people and I'm an introvert.. My mum is that kind of person that believes in "I do for you,you do for me....
I'm currently 26yrs,and all my life, I've been to just 1 burial and just 1 marriage. Despite the fact I lived alone,my mum always call me wen ever there's occasion either in the village or in the neighborhood were I grew up here in yenagoa..
She don't want me to miss any occasion along I heard about it.....she will always say"Michael...my son,no forget say nah u be 1st pikin,na people wen u do for today,go do for u wen ur turn reach,dey try attend people party ooooh
I don't know what else to do oooh,I'm not into party or occasion lifestyle..
My phone has been switched off since on Thursday,bcuz I heard of burial of sum1 I knew,and I know she must call me to attend the burial and I'm not ready to go...
To cut the long story short,plz my fellow nairalanders,Wat will u do in dis situation if u were in my shoes. When you start having your own family ...you will understand You honor them by attending their events even if its just for 10 mins |
Celebrities › Re: I Want To Have My Child Through Surrogacy – Phyna by femi4: 12:28pm On May 31 |
She's depressed |
Politics › Re: Electoral Act Amendment Bill: NASS To Reconvene Over E-transmission Of Results by femi4: 12:27pm On May 31 |
E xmission is non negotiable |
Health › Re: Why Sleep Paralysis Feels Like A Spiritual Attack — Expert by femi4: 12:25pm On May 31 |
judewrites: Sleep paralysis is definitely a spiritual experience that cannot be completely explained in any other way except spiritually.
In my past experiences, I could sense the presence of beings that sounded very frightening.
But trust modern man to try and redefine the experience scientifically. Nothing spiritual about it Its been expained and reproduced |
Crime › Re: Rabe Abubakar & Wife Kidnapped In Katsina by femi4: 12:22pm On May 31 |
It will reach them all..they will all feel it |