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" I can forgive a cheating partner "

- Stan Nze pic.twitter.com/42LqPLDBZS

— Metro Naija (@metronaija) May 30, 2026

not, especially when you did not meet her as a virgin

[quote author=EmmyMaestro post=139581590]“I refused to do…” – Lady cries out after being kicked out of Abuja house party, sparks online reactions

A young lady has sparked reactions online after sharing her experience at a house party in Abuja, claiming she was sent away in the middle of the night after refusing to do what other attendees wanted.

In a video making the rounds on X (formerly Twitter), she recounted attending the party with high expectations, only to find herself stranded and confused after being asked to leave.

In her words, she said:

“I went to a house party in Abuja, and it was something else. I refused to do what they wanted, and they sent me home. Everywhere is quiet. How did I get myself into this?”

The lady expressed fear and regret as she found herself alone at night, questioning how she ended up in such a situation.

While she did not disclose exactly what was demanded of her at the gathering, her video has generated widespread discussion online, with many praising her for standing by her decision.

Social media users flooded the comment section with mixed reactions, as some sympathised with her ordeal while others advised young people to be cautious when attending private parties.

One user wrote, “Some parties no just be for everybody sha😂.” Another added, “Na this kind experience dey teach street sense

"I went to a house party in Abuja, and it was something else. Just because I refused to do what they wanted, they sent me home."

— Lady cr!es out as she claims she was sent home in the middle of the night from a house party in Abuja. pic.twitter.com/olcJa9Ldli

— CHUKS 🍥 (@ChuksEricE) May 31, 2026

did you get there abinito....follow follow

Lazy gender...always seeing men as poverty allevation programme

Using islam to defend her lazy nature but when the man now use same religion to marry more wives..it becomes a problem, hypocrite

jmoore:
In the video, South Africans invaded a shop owned by a Zimbabwean Lady.
They looted her shop .

Zimbabwean Foreign National Was Chased Out Of Her Own Shop During Unrest March

A disturbing incident involving women in a South African community has sparked widespread concern and public debate online. pic.twitter.com/hEs3uaO56m

— Crime_spotterSA (@Crime_SpotterSA) May 30, 2026

These samantha people na ewu

Jonathan dey fear

Always donating 100m

We cant wait...long overdue

TheBTCinvestor:
My ride just landed after a grueling 5 months wait from Carlifonia USA. Spent a Lotta time at Freeport Texas ports for 2months because of Grimaldi delays at that port. Omo special thanks to Gimporters I met on Nairaland that I blindly trusted and he delivered. Haven't met him b4...Very credible guy....This car is very very fast and it pops and bangs and turns heads....damn! Nothing beats a German machine..... the way babes dey turn heads as I dey pass eh..dey fear me lol..

Its just there ..nothing special from the camera angle

Failed skit maker

What has ole got to do with kidnapping

I blame those attending your meeting every market day

treesun:
Peter Obi doesn't like struggle, prefers 'Food is Ready' politics - Wike

Peter Obi doesn't like struggle, prefers 'Food is Ready' politics - Wike

Video Credit : AIT pic.twitter.com/6dkheSbkgh

— Vanguard Newspapers (@vanguardngrnews) June 1, 2026

Better than you wey prefer stealing another man's food

Wow..Sexy mama..o ya ka jo mama

Unlimited

bolaayenimo:
Old Things Passed Away: Yahaya Bello Meets President Bola Tinubu

Once sensationally declared wanted by the EFCC, ex-Kogi governor Yahaya Bello meets President Bola Tinubu in Lagos

Sowore Reacts:



https://www.facebook.com/share/p/18mvq5Ziva/

All sins are forgiven

Long overdue

Useless death

Internet n fake story causing unnecessary panic

Damage control

Oga ..come out n tell us where you dey go

Till 2046

Who be this one again

All talk no action

Ibrahim1985:
To avoid story that touch or to save you a lifetime of future headache and heartbreak. Please study the person first before you marry. Study them like person dey study for JAMB, ask questions so you will know or will not be surprise, knowledge is power.

See how they react to you when he or she is angry with you. Do they go incognito for days or weeks after an argument? Imagine a boyfriend or girlfriend who is not generous to your family or to you but is very generous to his or her family but you come marry person and expect them to change. You are in for the biggest surprise.

Do not assume that when she or he is married to you , he or she will change and improve. That is the biggest lie, you will just see their true color.
If your fiancé is stingy to you before marriage, your fiancé will be stingy to you during marriage
if your fiance do not like your siblings or family before marriage, you fiancé will not change.

If you like study them like A level....Marriage is a different ball game compared to dating, courtship etc

Sirchiboy:
What causes most siblings to hate each other?

Money

E.g psquare

amancalledgodd:
Pls is it normal for your parent to take you as rival.
Today being Sunday my mum made general swallow food with egusi. After long fight i finally got egusi and eba no meat o. Then boom my friend came to visit she gave my guy meat. My brothers came back from school today she gave them meet and kept soup in her room and started singing wicked song.

This is a woman that was arrested by the police for illegal removal of an already furnished house o, she removed the glass, window, buglary, toilet wc and some irons ontil police recovered those items.
Actually she paid someone to remove those items cos she taught they have travel oversees only for someone to report them as they went in the night to do their operations.
They arrested me with her cos i was at home with her.

I can't wait for revenge many things I no talk o.

I noticed that that woman always has a need to quarrel or nag , she need a competitior. My dad is a simp. Hes not my dad anymore sha

If must live in that house, you must be responsible, respectful and be of good behaviour.

With your attitude, you don't deserve food..not to talk of meat. If you think you have grown..go n get your own place

Obavoh:
Why would a Father buy pants for his mature 24 years old married daughter if not to insult her husband?

My Family stay in a one bedroom and my Mother-In-Law came to visit.

When my Wife was putting on her clothes, my Mother-In-Law noticed that my Wife had used white thread to sew her pants. The pant looked old and rough according to her.

My Mother-In-Law called my Father-In-Law in the village and that one sent money and asked his Wife to go and get new set of underwear from the market for their daughter.

Stop lying...he only sent money

Doveheart:
Hello Nairalanders,

This is what I just noticed in my friend's house each time I visit. His mother in law actually came to do omugwo, taking care and staying with the baby when his mum has gone to work. but to my surprise, I discovered she is the one doing the house chores, sweeping, watching both the husband's (my friend) clothes and the wife's clothes together with the baby's clothes.

She cooks and serves everybody's food while the wife only give the food to the husband. The wife seldom enter the kitchen even on weekends when everyone is around. I told my friend about my observation and he said he feels it strange to him too.

Please nairalanders how do you understand this scenario whether is normal or abnormal. The mother in-law is yoruba and my friend also is Yoruba.

Busy body, mind your business

What works in your family ...might not work in another

2. Why throwing the tribal card? So what you experience in a family as now turn to a general ethnical experience

guobe:
Al ot of married couples won't share their passwords with their spouse and even with their kids and God forbid anything happens, banks will just smile and claim everything if care is not taken or stress the hell out of the people he or she left behind if they want to lay claim to the money.

Just a few share their passwords with their spouses while some have decided to write their passwords in diaries so that incase anything happens it can be found there.

Life is very delicate.

You worried about little things. Even your family members n bankers will go n leave the money behind. Stop worrying yourself about inheritance

They should be more worried about their spellings

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“Me and my four siblings did a DNA test. Only the last born belongs to our father; two are from different fathers, and the other two are also from different fathers. My father is 65 and my mother is 62. If we tell our father, it will destroy him, and we don’t know what to do.”

—… pic.twitter.com/ujBWs2E5b2

— 𝐀𝐬𝐚𝐤𝐲𝐆𝐑𝐍 (@AsakyGRN) June 1, 2026

lies

You dont look like who can afford 5 dna test

escortafrik:
I’m a lady in my mid-30s and life was going very well for me except for one thing everybody except me seemed obsessed with - marriage.

I have a good career, I’m financially stable, respected in my field, and I genuinely loved the life I built for myself. But every family gathering, every wedding, every phone call from relatives somehow turned into:

“So when are you getting married?” You’re not getting younger oo

Eventually, I met someone through mutual friends.

He was unemployed at the time, but that did not bother me much because he was intelligent, kind, calm, and surprisingly very knowledgeable in the same profession as me.

We connected deeply and for the first time in a long while, I felt like I had found the ‘one’

As our relationship became serious, I started helping him professionally too. I helped him restructure his CV, prepared him for interviews, connected him to opportunities, and eventually introduced him to my organisation when there was an opening.

Thankfully, he got the job.

I was genuinely happy for him because I knew how difficult things had been for him financially before then. And after he got the job, things became even sweeter between us.

And some month after he proposed to me ! my joy became complete! My family was overjoyed.

Then, just as our wedding plans were moving forward smoothly, the company we worked introduced a new policy stating that married couples could no longer work in the organisation together. Once two employees got married, one person would have to resign.

That was when the real problem started.

I assumed we would sit down and discuss it logically.

I have spent years building my career there.
I’m more senior.
I currently earn more.
And if we’re being realistic, my position is more stable at the moment.

But my fiancé shocked me.

He told me I should be the one to resign because:

“I’m the man.”

Initially I didn’t take him seriously but as the wedding date drew closer, he kept pressuring me to resign !

I then reminded him that I was already established before he came into the company. I was the one who helped him get the opportunity in the first place. If anyone should logically stay, shouldn’t it be the person whose career was already firmly built there?

But he said it would be embarrassing for him as a man if he was the one leaving while his wife continued working there, that I could do something else like supermarket business.

Imagine !

Since then, everything has changed.

Wedding plans have paused.
We now fight everyday
Even his family are supporting him, telling me to resign !
my heart is broken.

Not just because of the job itself, but because I genuinely believed I was building a life with someone who saw me as an equal partner.

Well I have concluded that I won’t resign and I will also make sure he is sacked. No one should call me wicked because he is very wicked for wanting to do this to me.



https://community.escortafrik.com/d/198-i-helped-my-fiance-get-a-job-in-my-company-now-he-wants-me-to-resign

Go n get another person to marry...your destiny weren't tied together