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Politics › Re: Lagos Governor Sanwo-olu Swears In Speaker Obasa's Son As Agege Chairman by femi4: 9:59pm On Dec 22, 2025
Exousiang01:
Read ... read Nigga Read...
The chairman resign due to an illness and Obasa son who was the Vice chairman took over in acting capacity....
Still the same thing. He was postioned as no 2 for such a time as this
Car Talk › Re: How Nigerian Drivers Destroy Their Car Engines Without Knowing It by femi4: 2:52pm On Dec 22, 2025
Bittersweetnig:
Oga you lied! In tropical sub Sahara region like Nigeria, the temperature goes as higher as thermostat isn't require,
Same lies that kazeem sold to you

Your vehicle engine isn't an air cooling system

Without thermostat, your vehicle fails to maintain optimal temperature for effective performance
Sports › Re: Werder Bremen Speak On Terminating Victor Boniface’s Loan Deal by femi4: 2:40pm On Dec 22, 2025
iajour:
u meant DR9
The original is cr9

The wannabe is cr7
Politics › Re: Critic Questions FG's Preference For French Tax Experts Over Local Firms (Video) by femi4: 2:39pm On Dec 22, 2025
Summyoat:
A public commentator identified as Bro. Darlington has criticized the Nigerian government over its decision to engage foreign tax consultants, questioning why local expertise was overlooked.
He argued that Nigeria has numerous qualified tax professionals capable of handling revenue-related reforms, asking why France was chosen instead. According to him, bringing in foreign consultants raises concerns about the exposure of sensitive national information under the guise of tax administration.
Bro. Darlington also cited Remita as an example of a successful indigenous solution, noting that the platform performed effectively from the administration of former President Goodluck Jonathan through the tenure of President Muhammadu Buhari. He questioned why such local systems are now being sidelined, suggesting that personal interests and foreign ties may be influencing policy decisions.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mfa3AjGbCTg?si=4DJfnYImQnxRoAWo
Follow follow...france will drag you to where you no know
Romance › Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by femi4: 2:37pm On Dec 22, 2025
Fiscus105:
Sister A.
WORKING CLASS LADY.
FINANCIAL SUPPORTIVE.
CANNOT COOK/CLEAN.
GOOD IN BED.





Sister B.

JOBLESS LADY BUT CAN MAKE HAIR.
BROKE,BUT CAN PRAY.
CAN COOK & CLEAN.
LAZY IN BED.


For me I will go for sister A and cover up for her shortcomings
Prayer is habits that can be inculcated, and maid will be hired for cleaning.
No 1

A maid will do the cooking....pastor will handle prayers, you don't even need prayers to be successful
Car Talk › Re: How Nigerian Drivers Destroy Their Car Engines Without Knowing It by femi4: 2:34pm On Dec 22, 2025
Nteogwuija:
Which coolant would u guys recommend? Cuz most coolants I see look like colorings added to water.
Any holts product
Car Talk › Re: How Nigerian Drivers Destroy Their Car Engines Without Knowing It by femi4: 2:21pm On Dec 22, 2025
dederocs:
Using water instead of coolant makes the engine rusts quicker
Another one is change single cell radiator to double cells

Your engine will now struggle to hit optimal temperature even after driving for 30mins
Car Talk › Re: How Nigerian Drivers Destroy Their Car Engines Without Knowing It by femi4: 2:17pm On Dec 22, 2025
Gotocourt:
Removing thermostat is the number one killer
Honestly, was suprised it wasnt no 1

Kazeems with wrong advice

2. Use water instead of coolant..as time goes on radiator is full of rust
Sports › Re: Werder Bremen Speak On Terminating Victor Boniface’s Loan Deal by femi4: 2:02pm On Dec 22, 2025
damoobaba:
As an athlete, eating certain things can finish off your career even b4 you start. Thats how the likes of Neymar, ronaldinho and co used partying to destroy their careers despite their enormous talents. I watched one of his interviews and I saw that he wasn't really serious, I no sure say e suffer before e enter Europe dey earn football money.
Its not about what he eats. He once had knee injury. Same injury that killed cr9
Sports › Re: Werder Bremen Speak On Terminating Victor Boniface’s Loan Deal by femi4: 12:30pm On Dec 22, 2025
End of an era...injury killed the talent
Politics › Re: FG To Introduce Mandatory Vehicle Recycling Fee From 2026 by femi4: 12:29pm On Dec 22, 2025
The collector with little or nothing in return
Family › Re: Withholding Intimacy In Marriage Is Abuse by femi4: 9:16pm On Dec 21, 2025
Dpsychologist:
Let’s stop dancing around uncomfortable truths.

Marriage is a partnership, not a power game.
And when one partner deliberately withholds intimacy not for health, safety, trauma, or mutual agreement, but as leverage that’s not “setting boundaries.”

That’s control.

We rightly call it Financial Abuse when one partner withholds money to dominate or punish.
The same logic applies when emotional or physical connection is weaponized to manipulate behavior.

This isn’t about entitlement.
It’s about mutual responsibility.

Marriage operates on shared access, shared duty, and shared care. When one partner unilaterally shuts down a core pillar of the relationship without justification, the system breaks. Trust erodes. Resentment compounds. Stability collapses.

Let’s be clear about these:

Consent is non-negotiable.
Health and safety come first.
No one owes performance.

But patterned deprivation used as punishment is not consent culture, it’s coercion.

Healthy marriages don’t run on ultimatums. They run on communication, empathy, compromise, and alignment.

If intimacy disappears, the question isn’t “Who’s wrong?” It’s “What’s broken and are both parties willing to fix it?”

Because marriage isn’t sustained by silence, avoidance, or moral grandstanding. It’s sustained by adult conversations and shared accountability.

Power plays destroy partnerships.
Honesty repairs them.

Choose maturity. Choose repair. Choose partnership.

#Marriage #EmotionalIntelligence #HealthyPartnerships #ConflictResolution #Adulting
You can't give what you don't have

A man without money can't be accused of withholding money

Likewise a prick that refuse to rise cant be accused of withholding sex
Politics › Re: We Bought Our Lagos House For N100 In 1979 – 80-Year-Old Janet Brai by femi4: 7:42pm On Dec 21, 2025
aribisala0:
Old age
I do not believe there was ever a time you could buy a house for 100 Naira in Lagos State
It was one of those goverment schemes
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Aston Villa Vs Manchester United (2 - 1) On 21 December 2025 by femi4: 7:31pm On Dec 21, 2025
United blowing hot n cold
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Aston Villa Vs Manchester United (2 - 1) On 21 December 2025 by femi4: 4:49pm On Dec 21, 2025
Villa will beat them bala blue
Christianity Etc › Re: When You Struggle With Sexual Temptation by femi4: 2:59pm On Dec 21, 2025
Incognito403:
Why is 70% of christian posts about s*x and cornography?

Is this all what you people think about in church and on sundays.
I think this speaks a lot about Nigeria. christians. chromiscuity is their bread and butter especially those pulpitprenuers.

Remember yesterday's thread about how lack of modesty and self-control is why most pastors are going to jail? Yet, it's these same people that point hands to muslims and call them names.
May be on nairaland...if you enter physical church, its more about prosperity, blessing n killing their enemies
Christianity Etc › Re: Child Water Baptism: Is It Right Or Wrong? by femi4: 2:54pm On Dec 21, 2025
Dtruthspeaker:
Living right means that they first lived wrong, then they repented and all those things
yes but living right isnt enough

Cornelius was God fearing and all that yet still need to hear the gospel
Romance › Re: Man Retracts Statement He Made About A Bride-To-Be by femi4: 2:25pm On Dec 21, 2025
Orlandoo:
Money don exchange hands.
The fear of prison

He that alleged, must show evidence.

The era of hiding behind keyboard is over, they ll fish you out
Sports › Re: Buckley Targets Anthony Joshua Over Nigeria Flag Calls Him Ungrateful Hyprocrite by femi4: 2:20pm On Dec 21, 2025
Third world flag?

Yet without them, your healthcare would have been in shambles
Fashion › Re: Miss Nigeria, Tofunmi Adekola Wins Best Carnival Costume At Miss Cosmo 2025 by femi4: 2:18pm On Dec 21, 2025
Omo yoruba lemi o...swagger!
Sports › Re: AFCON To Be Played Every Four Years From 2028 by femi4: 2:17pm On Dec 21, 2025
Rubbish..must fifa president dictate to us

We need the competition every 2yrs to develop the game in africa

That's the only competiton that unite Africa...not chan, not africa champions league or the new nations league
Politics › Re: President Tinubu Arrives in Lagos For Christmas After Visiting Borno And Bauchi by femi4: 2:14pm On Dec 21, 2025
Presidents and attachment to their homeland

Naso Atiku go dey enter adamawa every festive season
Christianity Etc › Re: Child Water Baptism: Is It Right Or Wrong? by femi4: 2:12pm On Dec 21, 2025
Dtruthspeaker:
Which means that the child must first become guilty for him to require repentance, confession etc.

And by nature and Natural Law children cannot be held guilty until they reach as certain age.
lolz
Repentance is not in just living right but accepting christ as well

We have many people living right without accepting christ
Christianity Etc › Re: How To Conquer The Fear Of Physical Death by femi4: 10:51am On Dec 21, 2025
MrPresident1:
One of the most dreadful and most frightful thoughts that afflict human beings is the thought of death. Yet death is inevitable for all mortals.

But as with all things, knowledge causes ignorance to disappear, just as light dissipates ignorance. The fear of death reduces or dissipates when understanding comes.

Thankfully, the Bible helps us to understand what death is, what lies after it, and what comes after it.
lolz...no one can conquer that. Even Jesus in the 11th hour was full of fear just before his death
Christianity Etc › Re: Child Water Baptism: Is It Right Or Wrong? by femi4: 10:49am On Dec 21, 2025
It's wrong if the child have no knowlege of the act.

The knowlege is as important as the act..that's why it is done after confession / repentance
Christianity Etc › Re: Power Of A Renewed Mind by femi4: 10:46am On Dec 21, 2025
Rap sodi

Rap in other form
Politics › Re: US Signs Health Deal To Aid Christians In Nigeria. by femi4: 10:45am On Dec 21, 2025
Now they are using their resources
Family › Re: Women In Your 30's & 40's, What Advice Will You Give To A 20 Year Old Wom Today? by femi4: 10:43am On Dec 21, 2025
creolehunt:
Oga Femi even writes with "H Factor".

Izorite.
na typo grin
Celebrities › Re: Baba Fela Set To Receive Grammys Life Time Achievement by femi4: 11:30pm On Dec 20, 2025
When he dey alive....you no give am
Sports › Re: 2026 World Cup: Nigeria Reveals Why DR Congo Won’t Escape FIFA Sanction by femi4: 11:27pm On Dec 20, 2025
Putindbutt:
https://soccernet.ng/2025/12/world-cup-nigeria-congo-fifa-super-eagles.html
Dey play

Fifa didn't sanction them from game 1 till they meet you...na now they will now sanction them

A clown of a country
Family › Re: Women In Your 30's & 40's, What Advice Will You Give To A 20 Year Old Wom Today? by femi4:
GravityDefier:
I saw the opposite of this topic on F.P today.

According to the drop, this your one cent here as well.
Make your own wealth, stop seeing men as a gateway to wealth

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