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Sports › Re: $100,000 Prizes: When Too Much Is Inadequate by femi4: 6:41pm On Aug 07, 2025
lexy2014:
You have not answered the questions.

1. were the athletes not paid for the matches they played and won?

2.did they play for free through out the competitions?

3. ENgland won the women's Euros.

did you see ENgland giving them $100,000 and flats in england?
Your questions are irrelevant

Gifts ain't given for work done. It's an appreciation for being impressed
Sports › Re: $100,000 Prizes: When Too Much Is Inadequate by femi4: 6:37pm On Aug 07, 2025
lexy2014:
You have not answered the questions.

1. were the athletes not paid for the matches they played and won?

2.did they play for free through out the competitions?

3. ENgland won the women's Euros.

did you see ENgland giving them $100,000 and flats in england?
Hope you know the meaning of gift?

Why do you collect gift from your boss in the office...after all you get paid every month for workdone
Politics › Re: First Lady Donated ₦110 Million To Support The Families Of 22 Kano Athletes by femi4: 6:33pm On Aug 07, 2025
SuperEagles:
Bro you are funny. How then do you explain this loot discovered in pandora house on aerodome strewt in Apapa ?
FYI, I am not obidient...go and ask obi gang that question

You need to be wise to know that every non apcist isn't an obidient
Sports › Re: $100,000 Prizes: When Too Much Is Inadequate by femi4: 6:31pm On Aug 07, 2025
lexy2014:
were the athletes not paid for the matches they played and won?

did they play for free through out the competitions?

ENgland won the women's Euros.

did you see ENgland giving them $100,000 and flats in england?
Culture is different
England isn't a standard

Didn't you see the bronze medal Ghana also got monetary gifts as well
Sports › Re: Okocha, Eto'o, Others Shine As Traore Opens Burkina's Historic August 4 Stadium by femi4: 6:24pm On Aug 07, 2025
Politics › Re: First Lady Donated ₦110 Million To Support The Families Of 22 Kano Athletes by femi4: 6:14pm On Aug 07, 2025
Melezenawii:
https://x.com/Imranmuhdz/status/1953477433081950586
Bullion van things
E lo fokan bale...on your mandate mama

Politics › Re: "I Won’t Leave PDP For Buccaneers And Vampires – Wike Fires Shots!" by femi4: 6:10pm On Aug 07, 2025
soartrends:
"I Won’t Leave PDP for Buccaneers and Vampires – Wike Fires Shots!"

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c3TfV8wcuXo
pdp has left you
Phones › Re: How 9mobile Became Mtn's Number One Customer In Nigeria by femi4: 6:08pm On Aug 07, 2025
richeeyo:
If you know the history of telecom in Nigeria
You would never say 9mobile is a new entry
That the most sold network in Nigeria
From one buyer to the other, the origin of 9mobile (econet) has been since day one
9mobile no be econet

9mobile used to be Etisalat
Travel › Re: Japa: I Sold My Father’s House For ₦45m To Relocate To Canada, I'm jobless by femi4: 6:05pm On Aug 07, 2025
LagosOrigin:
I don't think he used the whole of that 40million to process his departure to Canada . He should keep pushing , he would get a job that will wipe his tears away for good.
He probably spend more. School fees alone is scary
Sports › Re: Super Falcons' Chiamaka Nnadozie Nominated For Ballon D'or Yashin Trophy by femi4: 6:03pm On Aug 07, 2025
Cherrybae:
She doesn't deserve the nomination. She will not even come 10th position.

Someone who didn't perform well at WAFCON.

I condemn this nomination. I condemn it, I condemn it
She had pre assist. Conceed only 2 goals in an open play. What do you mean by she didn't perform well
Travel › Re: Video Of Kwam1 Resting His Body On ValueJet Plane To Prevent It From Taxiing by femi4: 5:57pm On Aug 07, 2025
LagosOrigin:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4Xs6T7_FRuc

This is what terrorists would do.. infact, it's a national embarrassment.

Aviation industry isn't oshodi motor Park where anything goes.

Wasiu ayinde marshal should be punished for this act of terrorism.
God save his neck...not even oluomo n the whole NURTW can stop a moving plane
Sports › Re: Wilfred Ndidi Unveiled As Besiktas' New Signing After A €9.5 Million Move by femi4: 5:56pm On Aug 07, 2025
Apcshit:
They should stop inviting Turkey based players to the super chickens squad .Turkey is a retirement league
Around 94 to 98, most of the golden generation played in Turkey
Sports › Re: Wilfred Ndidi Unveiled As Besiktas' New Signing After A €9.5 Million Move by femi4: 5:51pm On Aug 07, 2025
kidap:
Source: https://sureodds.ng/wilfred-ndidi-unveiled-as-besiktas-new-signing-after-completing-e9-5m-move/
This guy is always lucky with transfer

See money...Tinubu’s 100k dollars no fit motivate SE players
Sports › Re: Super Falcons Coach Justine Madugu Nominated For Ballon D'or by femi4: 5:45pm On Aug 07, 2025
kidap:
https://sureodds.ng/super-falcons-coach-justine-madugu-nominated-for-ballon-dor-womens-johan-cruyff-trophy/
From Bala to Balon dior

Women football is gathering momentum around the world
Travel › Re: Festus Keyamo Reacts To Kwam1 - Valujet Incident by femi4: 5:42pm On Aug 07, 2025
sholatech:
This is a professional and bold response by the minister himself - Festus Keyamo!
That’s for social media

In the APC world, they will be laughing at you guys
Crime › Re: UK Based 33 Yr Old Nigerian Man Sentenced To 5 Yrs For Rape by femi4: 5:40pm On Aug 07, 2025
Host78:
There was no rape here. But white ass lickers won't see this.

Young black guys overseas please stay away from these women.

No one would believe anything you say once she use the word rape.
Dey play, you think na naija where you ll bribe the police
Travel › Re: NCAA To Blacklist KWAM1 From Flying In Nigeria For 6 Months by femi4: 5:32pm On Aug 07, 2025
free2ryhme:
This verdict is good. He will learn his lessons the big way .
Tinubu’s friend. Just a speed dial to abj and whoever took that decision will lose his job
Foreign Affairs › Re: Ghana Retrieves Bodies Of Officials Killed In Military Helicopter Crash by femi4: 5:27pm On Aug 07, 2025
FalseProphet1:
I see Ghanaians accusing Nigerians of the crash, I see Ghana military threatening to attack Nigeria, I see Nigerians tribalizing the matter, I see Ghana invading SW Nigeria, I see them carving out Lagos and other SW states.

I see Donald Trump ordering a ceasefire, I see Trump claiming that he has ended 20 wars across the globe in less than a year, I see him winning the noble peace award.

This I have seen.
Some technologies are necessary evil
See mass burial
Sports › Re: We Won 5 WAFCON Titles, Got Nothing -Ex-Super Falcons Captain Plead For Honours by femi4: 5:08pm On Aug 07, 2025
Mamayaro...still the best left wing back ever produced by the falcons

Unfortunately, life happens. You guys played when internet n social media are just gathering momentum in Nigeria n Africa as a whole.

You guys played when female football is just gathering momentum across the world.

Its normal, the OG always sacrifice for the IG

Crime › Re: 14-Year-Old Shoots Parents Dead During Domestic Dispute In Virginia, US by femi4: 5:02am On Aug 07, 2025
Train your children the way they should grow so that you will have rest of mind
Food › Re: My Carnivore Diet Journey Day 7 by femi4: 10:43pm On Aug 06, 2025
Mariangeles:
Carnivore diet. That's a new one.
So, what makes it different from keto diet?
I prefer the opposite...meat free diet.. you are on fruits n vegs 💯
Business › Re: Dee Utensils Partners Obi Cubana To Launch Vaib Slow Juicer by femi4: 10:41pm On Aug 06, 2025
Another catching name would have suffice...what is vaib
Romance › Re: 10 Honest benefits of marrying In late 30s or early 40s - A sober reflection by femi4: 10:35pm On Aug 06, 2025
Nnamdipapa:
As a Nigerian man who got married in his early 20s, I can now look back with clarity and say I wasn’t fully ready. Back then, the pressure to settle down felt real. Family, church, and society made it seem like once you hit 25 and have a good job, marriage and having kids should be your next goal.

With time and experience, I’ve come to see that marrying in your 30s or even early 40s can be a much better decision for a man. If you're in that age range and people are trying to make you feel late, don't let it shake you. In many ways, it might actually be your advantage.

Here are 10 solid reasons why marrying late, for men like me, could make all the difference:

1. You Understand Yourself Better
In your 30s and 40s, you’ve had time to figure yourself out: your values, your habits, your triggers, and what kind of life you actually want. That self-awareness makes it easier to enter a marriage with direction and purpose, not confusion.

This one is the BIGGEST of my reasons for my discussion. In your twenties, you think you know yourself and your desires and as you grow and have more exposures your expectations will change and you may grow to despise what you loved10/15 years ago and are able to make better decisions.

2. You're More Financially Prepared
In your early 20s, you’re usually just starting out. Money is tight, and the demands of marriage can be overwhelming. By your 30s or 40s, you've likely built some income stability, gained work experience, and learned how to manage money, which can reduce stress at home.

3. You’re Emotionally More Mature
When you’re younger, pride and ego get in the way. Older men tend to respond to issues with more calm, they know how to apologize, and they understand that love is not always about feelings but about decisions and sacrifice.

4. You've Lived a Little
Some men who marry young later feel like they missed out on life. Marrying late gives you time to explore, make mistakes, travel, grow, and learn. You go into marriage with fewer regrets and a sense of fulfillment.

5. You Choose a Partner with More Clarity
In your 20s, it's easy to choose based on looks, pressure, or church vibes. Later in life, you know what you want, and you can see red flags early. You choose someone for real compatibility, not just chemistry.

6. Your Communication Skills Are Stronger
With age comes experience. You’ve probably been through disagreements, breakups, and reconciliations. By now, you’ve learned how to listen, explain yourself clearly, and handle conflict with less drama.

7. You Take Responsibility with Less Stress
Responsibility is part of marriage. When you're younger, it can feel heavy and frustrating. But older men tend to carry it better. They know it’s not about showing off; it’s just life.

8. Fewer External Distractions
By your 30s or 40s, your circle is smaller and more mature. Peer pressure fades. You’re less likely to be swayed by noise from friends or social media. That peace helps you focus on your home.

9. You're More Independent from Family Pressure
When you're younger, parents and relatives often have too much say in your personal choices. As an older man, you're more confident in your decisions. You set boundaries and protect your marriage from outside influence.

10. You Appreciate the Relationship More
At this stage in life, you’ve seen failed marriages. Maybe you’ve had your heart broken. So when love comes and it feels right, you treat it with care. You don’t rush, and you don’t take your partner for granted.

Final Thoughts
Getting married in your 30s or 40s doesn’t mean you're behind. For many men, especially in today’s world, it’s when you're finally ready , mentally, emotionally, and financially. If you’re still single and people are calling you late, remind yourself that it’s better to enter marriage prepared than to dive in early and struggle. Marriage is not a race. It’s a long journey. Starting it with the right mindset can make all the difference. Additionally, some of the reasons for early marriages are to start having children, but this is 2025, where having many children is no longer in vogue like it used to be. You are now able to choose the right fit for yourself with a mature mind and good mental clarity.
Maturity n age aint synonymous. You can be 40 n still behave like 21.

You don't want to use your pension to train your kids in the university
Romance › Re: Marrying Into A Rich Family by femi4: 10:31pm On Aug 06, 2025
The conversation is always different.

Nothing like transfer of responsibilities as a father to your daughter inlaw

Nothing like tell your husband to help us renovate the family house

No crazy wedding list
Family › Re: Men, Learn To Cook – It's A Survival Skill, Not A Gender Role by femi4: 10:28pm On Aug 06, 2025
dollytino4real:
Wen man knows how to cook it spice relationship, and him com sabi knack jon women go faint and wake up on his beddie
You too lean how to change tire n do DIY around the house. It's a surviving skill
Properties › Re: Can I Get One Bedroom Apartment In Lagos For 500k by femi4: 10:25pm On Aug 06, 2025
davies:
You can get a good 1 bedroom in Lagos mainland.
Ikorodu and their ritual is always a redflag for me
The ritual doesn't disturb you ...it's always very late at night n not every where in ikd
Romance › Re: Before You Lose Your Virginity, Remember This by femi4: 10:22pm On Aug 06, 2025
cutecommend:
Someone Said: A Virgin Can Become a Non-Virgin, but a Non-Virgin Cannot Become a Virgin.

Another Said: "When the gift is open before its time, no excitement"..
No excitement but it doesn't lose its value

There is no difference in value between a new n old 1k note
Politics › Re: Many Abandoned Estates In Abuja Owned By Civil Servants Who Stole Public Funds by femi4: 10:18pm On Aug 06, 2025
A case of they will build and not inhabit cheesy
Their mind no dey touch ground
Travel › Re: The Moment Kwam 1 Nearly Got Crushed By ValueJet Aircraft In Abuja (Video) by femi4: 10:16pm On Aug 06, 2025
LagosOrigin:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5o7nKHPkCcs

This is the moment music maestro, Kwam 1 nearly got run over by value jet aircraft in Abuja yesterday.

News has it that value jet airline deboarded him for unruly behavior.

The federal airport authority of Nigeria FAAN, has released a statement on what transpired between K1 De ultimate and value jet airline yesterday in Abuja airport.
E go think say jazz fit stop the plane, why he bend now
Celebrities › Re: Bolanle Ninalowo Joins Hollywood Film With Blac Chyna, Vivica A. Fox by femi4: 6:44pm On Aug 06, 2025
Goodlady:
Old news that he debunked that it's fake.
Fake debunked old news
Honestly, nairaland n old n fake news these days. I don't even know who to blame
Politics › Re: Bianca Is 61 Like Me, Not 57 - Kemi Olunloyo by femi4: 6:41pm On Aug 06, 2025
PigTormentor:
This woman dey look for cheap attention, she must have studied the Agulu con, the lamb champion. That one is always looking for cheap attention. grin
Unfortunately. ..she get followers too grin
Politics › Re: Zamfara Lawmaker Renovates 80 Cemeteries As Constituency Project by femi4: 6:34pm On Aug 06, 2025
Wasted resources..why not invest on the living...smh

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