fman: OK. Make I leave girl wey dey give me kpekpus just because she billed me? I rather pay and keep enjoying the kpekus till am tired then I will move on
demoBaba: Church attendance doesn't guarantee salvation or a sin-free life. We can make a difference by helping others in need. Praying at home and lending a helping hand is the way forward. Sadly, some religious leaders, including those from Christian and Muslim communities, are heartless humans.
I did not say anything about salvation. Go back to the scripture n learn the purpose of Church
chibecanglobal: you will never ever test it in your life. If you like perch on all the available thread here on autos section. Your poverty will never depart you until you work on your poverty mentality
If you see my post in auto section, it's because it appears on trending thread
FYI, the last time I used a 1999 model car was 20yrs ago
Dpsychologist: I came across this conversation (see screenshot) and honestly, it just confirms what many of us have been saying.
Though the chat is about FWB but it still portrays hidden scenarios in our modern relationships.
We’ve reached a point where relationships aren’t even about love, attraction, or connection anymore. It’s all about how much you’re willing to pay. This is why girlfriends demand for monthly salaries, expensive gifts and outings.
Look at this:
FWB? Cool. But first, let’s talk pricing.
Weekly package: 100k for two meetings.
Monthly package: 200k for five meetings.
If we meet and don’t have sex, you STILL have to pay for my transportation and a ‘thanks for coming’ fee.
Let’s be real; this is a business model. And the sad thing? This mindset is becoming more and more common.
Social media has made entitlement the norm. Women now openly expect men to fund their lifestyles just for the privilege of being around them. It has turned into a financial obligation rather than a mutual experience.
🚩 If you’re not paying, you’re not valuable. 🚩 If you say "I love you," prepare for a bill. 🚩 If you refuse to comply, you’re “broke.”
Many relationships are more like soft prostitution since it's pay for play.
Seems most women’s first concern is what you can provide financially—you’re in a contract. And trust me, that contract will only benefit one person.
Now analyze this friends with benefits arrangement and see the huge benefits this lady intends to get who will In turn give the guy a worn out vjay and if she is not clean might be stacked with infection.
It's a losing game for men.
What are your thoughts?
It's poverty induced mentality...that gender is in surving mode in this part of the world
BarrSly: Why Women Don’t Struggle with You—They Move In When the Building Is Finished
A viral tweet exposes a harsh reality: women are not built to struggle with you. They don’t want to build; they want to move in once the building is complete.
One woman put it bluntly: “Don’t date broke men… because if there’s no peace in his pockets, there will be no peace with you.” This means women tie their happiness to a man’s financial stability. If you’re struggling, she won’t be your peace—she’ll be your biggest headache.
Here’s the truth:
🔴 Women want ready-made success. They claim to support you, but once things get tough, they start questioning their “investment.”
🔴 Money equals power in relationships. When you’re broke, you lack control. You become dependent—emotionally, sometimes even financially—and that’s when the disrespect begins.
🔴 Women are naturally hypergamous. They may say they’re different, but when a more stable man comes along, they rethink everything.
So, what’s the lesson?
✅ Stop chasing relationships when you’re still grinding. ✅ Women are not your motivation—your success is. ✅ Focus on your purpose first. Women will come later.
If you don’t build yourself up first, the same woman who promised to ride with you will be the first to jump ship when the storm comes.
Tinubu's grand children are half-Yoruba, half-igbo, half-lebanese..
this is a bill to ensure that they can be appointed into government positions..
some other politicians also have children that are half-Yoruba half-igbo or half another tribe so this is a bill to ensure their children can take over..
but the bill also gives room to non-indigenes and even non-Nigerians to lay claim to parts of Nigeria..
it is a bill that can cause civil war in different parts of Nigeria. unless the FG uses the army to kill the indigenes that will fight against the bill the same way they do for herdzmen right now..
Not the same thing. Their grandfather is a Lagosian
fman: She asked for 2k Which I agreed But now she says its no longer 2k That I should send her 100k. Am just confused here. I really liked her to a fault and I don't want to hurt or disappoint her. I need advises ASAP.
You don't need advice. Stop these act of a SIMP....Stop chasing girls that don't rate you
Bitcoinking1: Recent I wanted to have S3x with my girlfriend but you told me I have to pay her first, I was very surprised because she never told me such but since she went for her HND and always come back every weekend, any time I demand for S3x, she always has different excuses to give me just to decline me s3x. I'm now beginning to suspect if she is now into hookup at school. Guys what do you think, is my girlfriend now into hookup?
She's not just into you. If the sex can't happen without exchange of money..quit that relationship. That's a red flag already