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Sports › Re: Benin Republic Vs Nigeria: AFCON 2025 Qualifier (1 - 1) On 14th November 2024 by femi4: 8:34pm On Nov 14, 2024
Finally on front page
Family › Re: If Your Child Looks Exactly Like You, Will You Do DNA? by femi4: 8:03pm On Nov 14, 2024
atoliman:
If your children looks exactly like you or your sister , brother , mum , dad or relative. Will you do a DNA to confirm ?
That’s wasting of money
Nairaland General › Re: Best Decision You Made That Changed Your Life by femi4: 7:32pm On Nov 14, 2024
Sirchiboy:
After one year of doing uber without any single achievement.
Remember using my life savings of 300k within two weeks to fix the car.
Although I cried because i so much admire this my car that I took care of it but have to take this hard decision
I finally sold my car to have peace of mind.
Life is hard men and you need some balls to get through it.


What's Your Own Best Decision Ever? Shares Yours.
Stopped supporting arsenal....my BP is fine
Romance › Re: Why Do Girls Leave Me So Easily After Sex? by femi4: 7:29pm On Nov 14, 2024
Johnnoah1st:
Hey everyone, I’ve been struggling with something and would appreciate your advice.

I’m in my late 20s, 5'11", with curly hair, a fit and athletic physique, and I’ve been told I exude handsomeness. I’ve noticed a recurring issue: after we have sex, they seem to leave without much thought.

When I try to play the "ignoring game" to see if it keeps them interested, it feels like they interpret it differently. Instead of drawing them closer, they seem to feel unbothered and even triumphant, as if they’ve won something by walking away. They don’t show remorse, which leaves me confused about what I might be doing wrong.

Is it my approach, or is there something deeper I need to address? How can I change this pattern and build meaningful, lasting connections?

I’m open to any insights or suggestions. Thanks in advance!
They see you as intimacy gadget, you probably have nothing to offer outside physical appearance.

Improve other aspects that completes a man
Health › Re: Patients Protest Power Outage At UCH Ibadan, Management Responds by femi4: 7:26pm On Nov 14, 2024
Education › Re: Caleb University Lecturer Orders Students To Kneel As Punishment (Photo) by femi4: 7:25pm On Nov 14, 2024
Gistmedia10:
In a viral video sparking heated debate, a Caleb University lecturer was seen ordering a group of students to kneel as a form of punishment. The footage, shot from a high vantage point by a student, captures the lecturer loudly scolding and threatening the students who seemed hesitant or tried to leave. In the clip, the lecturer can be heard repeatedly warning, "If you go anywhere, you will never finish from this school! I promise you." shocked

Though it’s still unclear what led to the punishment, the video quickly attracted backlash online. Many netizens expressed disbelief at the treatment of students in a private institution where tuition fees run high. "Look at Caleb University! After paying millions in fees, they’re still treated like this," one commenter vented.

Another person shared, "My friends tell me horrible stories about the long lines in the cafeteria. Sometimes, if you’re not tall enough, they skip you until you speak up." shocked

Another user expressed disappointment with the university experience by saying, "You finish secondary school and enter secondary school pro max! " Many are now calling for a review of student treatment at private institutions, with some wondering if students have any voice against such disciplinary actions.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uR_SpVis12c
Glorified secondary school in the midst of forest in ikorodu
Foreign Affairs › Re: Sweden's Minister, Paulina Brandberg, Is Afraid Of Bananas, Has Bananaphobia by femi4: 7:22pm On Nov 14, 2024
WriterNig:
Politico || Sweden Herald
Take banana till you go yo!
Celebrities › Re: Korede Are ‘Baba Gbenro’ Is Dead by femi4: 7:18pm On Nov 14, 2024
RIP. Mount zion movies will miss him
Sports › Re: 8 Countries FIFA Doesn’t Recognise As Football-playing Nations by femi4: 6:52pm On Nov 14, 2024
jmichael259:
And what exactly will be their qualifications for Monaco citizenship?
Just by spending 2yrs, you qualified to be a citizen in some Countries

Vanuatu is the fastest country to obtain citizenship, with its citizenship program. The process can be completed in as little as one month. However, it's worth noting that Argentina also has a relatively fast process, where citizenship could be granted in as short as two years
Sports › Re: 8 Countries FIFA Doesn’t Recognise As Football-playing Nations by femi4: 8:01am On Nov 14, 2024
jmichael259:
The post is talking about the principality of Monaco not the football club called Monaco.

The people you mentioned, are they indigenes from Monaco?
And what stop them from switching nationality based on the love for city. Do you know how many Welsh or Irish born that had featured for England ? Do you know some full Nigerians playing in Benin Republic have switched nationality
Health › Re: What Is This Type Of Rash?(pic) by femi4: 10:26pm On Nov 13, 2024
[quote author=chikeze post=122655604]Please can
Romance › Re: Why Hard Work Doesn’t Pay Off — Lady Reveals by femi4: 10:22pm On Nov 13, 2024
chi900:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TzwsbOlHpdM
You re lucky , you have a job. Some don't have at all with all their qualifications. The world population has doubled or even more but the employment opportunities isn't increasing on geometric progression if it's increasing at all.

For example, In Nigeria, more companies are closing down than companies starting up in the last 20yrs
Family › Re: My Wife Family Mounting Their Father Burial Expense On Me, How I Reacted At Once by femi4: 9:15pm On Nov 13, 2024
BlindAngel:
Good evening Nairalanders, few months ago I posted here regarding how my wife forced me into marriage that I wasn't in anyway ready for because she got pregnant. I posted about the regret I'm still battling until date, because the love isn't there from my own end and I'm also not in anyway attracted to her physically. I have told her severally that I want to option out of the marriage and not doing again but until date she has refused to let me go.

Back to the main point, my wife lost her dad this morning. Her deceased dad has two wife's and several concubines that gave birth to lots of children, my wife doesn't know some of her half brothers and sisters.

So I went to their family house this morning to console them. The eldest son of the family (her half brother) told me and another in law that we'd be the one to pay for mortuary expenses and casket, and when the burial is getting closer they'd give us a list of things to buy and we'd both bring one goats each.

To be brutally honest I wasn't mad because of this latest expense, I got furious immediately and right on the spot because of the pressure my wife pressured me into getting married to her, by now I'd have been totally free of these unnecessary expenses. More than 19 of her sisters, both biological and half sisters that has given birth, no single expense was listed for their man that they got pregnant for and has a child for. But I and the other in law that paid dowry are the one going through these unnecessary expenses.

So immediately he told me about everything, I charged at my wife right on the spot, right in front of her mom, her brothers, her sisters and some of her friends that came for condolence visit. I got so furious and started shouting at the top of my voice, I reminded her how she forced me into marriage that I'm not in anyway prepared and ready for, both physically, psychologically, emotionally, financially. (I have been reminding her regarding this almost on a daily basis and whenever we are quarreling.

I reminded her how she threatened me with suicide and our of fear of the unknown I wasted almost 4m in getting married to her. I told her that I'd have been free of these expenses if not for her pressure.

Immediately she burst into tears, and started crying endlessly.

Her mom and sisters started yelling at me and I yelled back at all of them. They told me I met her a Virgin and now she's no longer good for me (truly, the whole family thought that I was the one that took her virginity) My wife and I agreed to keep it a secret, but the constant remainder from her mom and sisters made me let the cat out of the bag, I told them that I didn't met her a Virgin that she has already started having sex when I met her, they didn't believe me but with my tone, I know they'd.

I also made mentioned that I'm not buying any goat or paying for mortuary or taking any list from them. That it's their dad and they should take care of every responsibilities, after all he has uncountable children, why putting some of the expense on me? I walked away, and switched off my phone until now that I'm just putting it on.

I know that I acted wrongly and allowed my anger to get the best part of me. But I was furious because no single bill went to her sister's baby father's, absolutely nothing was listed for them. I got furious because these expenses won't be on me right now if not for her pressuring me into marriage that I want ready for. I was furious because I and the other in law that they billed became the scape goat by doing the right thing by getting married and not leaving theirs daughter In ruins, where as those that got their daughter pregnant without getting married to them were totally free from these unnecessary bills. I'm in so much pains and regret right now.
I stopped at using 4m to do wedding. Stop bowling to pressure from your woman.

Man up and stop bowing to pressure

She pressured you into forced marriage

Pressured you to spend 4M

Now the family want you to take over her father's burial expenses.....man up and refuse to BOW once in your life.

Support them with your token as an inlanw, don't let her confuse use with crocodile tears, it's called emotional blackmail.

She'll treaten to commit suicide...don't give in, it's emotional blackmail, they always play the victim. Follow your instinct, stop living to please others, do your best and let your mind be at peace
Sports › Re: Zimbabwe's Female Football Team Looking Like Men (Photos) by femi4: 8:59pm On Nov 13, 2024
ExAngel007:
Some players for the national women's football team of Zimbabwe have gone viral after their photos were shared online.

The women posed in their team's jersey in the photos.

Social media users left comments arguing about their gender, with many suggesting they can't be women.

See below.

https://alexis.lindaikejisblog.com/photos/shares/Screenshot_20241113_110511_X_1731492561.jpg

https://alexis.lindaikejisblog.com/photos/shares/Screenshot_20241113_100448_Instagram_1731492560.jpg
Thank God football is a team sport, Zimbabwe would have beaten everyone in Africa
Politics › Re: FCCPC Warns Discos On Obsolete Meters, Violation Of Nigerians' Rights by femi4: 6:31pm On Nov 13, 2024
nlfpmod:
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Figure head organisation. They can only bark , can't bite
Business › Re: Agbaawo Herbal Mixture: Daddy Showkey Launches His Non-Alcoholic Bitters by femi4: 6:29pm On Nov 13, 2024
Josepholome:
Daddy Showkey Launches His Own Bitters – Agbaawo Herbal Mixture; The Number 1 Non-Alcoholic Bitters for Everyday Wellness




https://leaders.ng/2024/11/13/daddy-showkey-launches-his-own-bitters-agbaawo-herbal-mixture-the-number-1-non-alcoholic-bitters-for-everyday-wellness/
Non alcoholic my foot. Did nafdac approve it. Don't destroy people's kidney
Politics › Re: Corruption We Discovered In Power Sector Will Make You Cry - EFCC Boss Olukoyede by femi4: 6:27pm On Nov 13, 2024
Foreign Affairs › Re: Arab-Americans Who Voted For Trump Write Him, Demand Ceasefire In Gaza & Lebanon by femi4: 6:25pm On Nov 13, 2024
nlfpmod:
The Arab-Americans who backed Trump in Dearborn, Michigan, sent him this letter today (but addressed to the White House…) urging him to fulfill his promises to the community and work on an immediate ceasefire in Gaza and Lebanon.



https://x.com/yasmineelsabawi/status/1856103959955435654?t=_MlePaZ1l2lt4S1akUIiyQ&s=08[/quote]He failed woefully....The war has gone too far for any president to stop it in the next 4yrs
Crime › Re: 'You Are Constituting Nuisance' - Lady Blasts Oyinbo Man She Met At Abuja Bank by femi4: 6:24pm On Nov 13, 2024
illicit:
Which one is go back to your country...?
That’s how they ll treat you in EUROPE too even without any form of misunderstanding
Sports › Re: 8 Countries FIFA Doesn’t Recognise As Football-playing Nations by femi4: 12:07pm On Nov 13, 2024
joebeckz:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2024/11/8-countries-fifa-doesnt-recognise-as-football-playing-nations/
Monaco contributes so much to the success of French national team. They can't stand alone as a football nation

The likes of Henry, Mbappe, Evra are product of Monaco....even our own prince of Monaco and former APOTY 97, Victor Ikpeba
Business › Re: When Last Did You Spend N5, N10, N20, N50 And N100 Notes? by femi4: 9:00am On Nov 13, 2024
N1k minimum
Politics › Re: Tunji-Ojo: All Our International Airports Are Monitored On Our Control Centre by femi4: 8:58am On Nov 13, 2024
flexybricky:
Exactly how America works, we need to know who comes into the country at all time.
When Americans soldiers came in to rescue theirs from the den of kidnappers....we didn't know
Sports › Re: Flamini: I've Made £10bn Since Leaving Arsenal, Won't Rule Out Gunners Takeover by femi4: 11:40pm On Nov 12, 2024
Flangelo12:
You carry out the research.

You guys just jump on any bandwagon without any analysis.

Flamini is not a billionaire.
Don't be lazy. Let me give you a snippets

Mathieu Flamini, the former French professional footballer, has indeed become a billionaire. His net worth is estimated to be around £10 billion, thanks to his highly successful biochemical company, GF Biochemicals, which he co-founded in 2008 ¹. This company has made significant strides in producing levulinic acid, a sustainable alternative to oil-based products, and has been valued at £21 billion ¹. Flamini's entrepreneurial venture has not only made him incredibly wealthy but also contributed to a more sustainable future.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GI0-M0jQ_xU?si=8D2V1Ii-zO8FMyNL
Politics › Re: Old Video Of Oba Of Benin Addressing Obaseki In 2020 Trends by femi4: 11:36pm On Nov 12, 2024
chi900:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lxFuPXD8CQ8
He really messed up...he thought 2024 will never come
Education › Re: Nairaland Education Section Mod, Richiez Releases Beautiful Pre-wedding Pictures by femi4: 11:30pm On Nov 12, 2024
Odunharry:
Congratulations to Richiez and his beautiful bride to be Frances and they get set for their big day #FR'24
franceswedsrichard2024.com .


A Match made in Heaven.
#FR'24.
Are you sure they are not related...the facial resemblance no be here . HML
Sports › Re: Flamini: I've Made £10bn Since Leaving Arsenal, Won't Rule Out Gunners Takeover by femi4: 11:19pm On Nov 12, 2024
Flangelo12:
He is not a billionaire.
Will you do the research or continue in this baseless argument
Politics › Re: I Turned Down N800,000 From Abiola — Sowore by femi4: 11:15pm On Nov 12, 2024
illicit:
MKO

Money Kudi Owo...

The man was a cheerful giver


He was exaggerating, 800k that time is a lot of money to hand over to a naive student leader
Ignorance
What is 800k to MKO who spent millions on election campaign

2. Student union in those days were in the forefront of Nigeria politics giving the military rulers headache, not the mushrooms with fragile heart that we have now
Sports › Re: Flamini: I've Made £10bn Since Leaving Arsenal, Won't Rule Out Gunners Takeover by femi4: 11:04pm On Nov 12, 2024
Flangelo12:
Fake news.
Study alternatives to oil-based products,
Christianity Etc › Re: Should The Pastor Forgive His Cheating Wife And Baltasar? by femi4: 11:02pm On Nov 12, 2024
Daejumong:
Should the Pastor forgive Baltasar, his church member, who slept with his wife and recorded the act?

Should he still allow him to be attending his church or he should be excommunicated? If he forgives should he tell the guy to move to another church?

Should he forgive his wife and continue in the marriage or divorce would be better for his mental health?
To err is human....to forgive is divine
Sports › Re: Patrick Pascal Warns Of Backlash If Lookman Misses Out On POTY Award by femi4: 10:53pm On Nov 12, 2024
mekleelex200:
Nonsense, is this where football is at now? Lookman is good player but he is lucky that there are no much African players doing much things at international stage.

If it was the modern time of Ego, Drogba, Diof,Yaya etc., who burn am to be nominated.
That’s not new
Where were you 1996 when Kanu won. Olympic isn't even a fifa or caf event

2. He was diagnosed with heart issue , so club wise , he didn't do much

Also Kanoute without African feel, won the year Drogba refused to honour caf award, mustapha hadji won ahead of okocha in 98 based on 3 good games at the world cup
Foreign Affairs › Re: 'He Misled Me’ — Lady In Baltasar Engonga’s Sex Tape Opens Up by femi4: 10:50pm On Nov 12, 2024
Olokolobo:
lier, pictures don't lie. She's looking straight at the camera.
Don't mind her.....1st min, she opened her vjj to the camera even before the guy approached the office table

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