Sirchiboy: After one year of doing uber without any single achievement. Remember using my life savings of 300k within two weeks to fix the car. Although I cried because i so much admire this my car that I took care of it but have to take this hard decision I finally sold my car to have peace of mind. Life is hard men and you need some balls to get through it.
Johnnoah1st: Hey everyone, I’ve been struggling with something and would appreciate your advice.
I’m in my late 20s, 5'11", with curly hair, a fit and athletic physique, and I’ve been told I exude handsomeness. I’ve noticed a recurring issue: after we have sex, they seem to leave without much thought.
When I try to play the "ignoring game" to see if it keeps them interested, it feels like they interpret it differently. Instead of drawing them closer, they seem to feel unbothered and even triumphant, as if they’ve won something by walking away. They don’t show remorse, which leaves me confused about what I might be doing wrong.
Is it my approach, or is there something deeper I need to address? How can I change this pattern and build meaningful, lasting connections?
I’m open to any insights or suggestions. Thanks in advance!
They see you as intimacy gadget, you probably have nothing to offer outside physical appearance.
Gistmedia10: In a viral video sparking heated debate, a Caleb University lecturer was seen ordering a group of students to kneel as a form of punishment. The footage, shot from a high vantage point by a student, captures the lecturer loudly scolding and threatening the students who seemed hesitant or tried to leave. In the clip, the lecturer can be heard repeatedly warning, "If you go anywhere, you will never finish from this school! I promise you."
Though it’s still unclear what led to the punishment, the video quickly attracted backlash online. Many netizens expressed disbelief at the treatment of students in a private institution where tuition fees run high. "Look at Caleb University! After paying millions in fees, they’re still treated like this," one commenter vented.
Another person shared, "My friends tell me horrible stories about the long lines in the cafeteria. Sometimes, if you’re not tall enough, they skip you until you speak up."
Another user expressed disappointment with the university experience by saying, "You finish secondary school and enter secondary school pro max! " Many are now calling for a review of student treatment at private institutions, with some wondering if students have any voice against such disciplinary actions.
jmichael259: And what exactly will be their qualifications for Monaco citizenship?
Just by spending 2yrs, you qualified to be a citizen in some Countries
Vanuatu is the fastest country to obtain citizenship, with its citizenship program. The process can be completed in as little as one month. However, it's worth noting that Argentina also has a relatively fast process, where citizenship could be granted in as short as two years
jmichael259: The post is talking about the principality of Monaco not the football club called Monaco.
The people you mentioned, are they indigenes from Monaco?
And what stop them from switching nationality based on the love for city. Do you know how many Welsh or Irish born that had featured for England ? Do you know some full Nigerians playing in Benin Republic have switched nationality
You re lucky , you have a job. Some don't have at all with all their qualifications. The world population has doubled or even more but the employment opportunities isn't increasing on geometric progression if it's increasing at all.
For example, In Nigeria, more companies are closing down than companies starting up in the last 20yrs
BlindAngel: Good evening Nairalanders, few months ago I posted here regarding how my wife forced me into marriage that I wasn't in anyway ready for because she got pregnant. I posted about the regret I'm still battling until date, because the love isn't there from my own end and I'm also not in anyway attracted to her physically. I have told her severally that I want to option out of the marriage and not doing again but until date she has refused to let me go.
Back to the main point, my wife lost her dad this morning. Her deceased dad has two wife's and several concubines that gave birth to lots of children, my wife doesn't know some of her half brothers and sisters.
So I went to their family house this morning to console them. The eldest son of the family (her half brother) told me and another in law that we'd be the one to pay for mortuary expenses and casket, and when the burial is getting closer they'd give us a list of things to buy and we'd both bring one goats each.
To be brutally honest I wasn't mad because of this latest expense, I got furious immediately and right on the spot because of the pressure my wife pressured me into getting married to her, by now I'd have been totally free of these unnecessary expenses. More than 19 of her sisters, both biological and half sisters that has given birth, no single expense was listed for their man that they got pregnant for and has a child for. But I and the other in law that paid dowry are the one going through these unnecessary expenses.
So immediately he told me about everything, I charged at my wife right on the spot, right in front of her mom, her brothers, her sisters and some of her friends that came for condolence visit. I got so furious and started shouting at the top of my voice, I reminded her how she forced me into marriage that I'm not in anyway prepared and ready for, both physically, psychologically, emotionally, financially. (I have been reminding her regarding this almost on a daily basis and whenever we are quarreling.
I reminded her how she threatened me with suicide and our of fear of the unknown I wasted almost 4m in getting married to her. I told her that I'd have been free of these expenses if not for her pressure.
Immediately she burst into tears, and started crying endlessly.
Her mom and sisters started yelling at me and I yelled back at all of them. They told me I met her a Virgin and now she's no longer good for me (truly, the whole family thought that I was the one that took her virginity) My wife and I agreed to keep it a secret, but the constant remainder from her mom and sisters made me let the cat out of the bag, I told them that I didn't met her a Virgin that she has already started having sex when I met her, they didn't believe me but with my tone, I know they'd.
I also made mentioned that I'm not buying any goat or paying for mortuary or taking any list from them. That it's their dad and they should take care of every responsibilities, after all he has uncountable children, why putting some of the expense on me? I walked away, and switched off my phone until now that I'm just putting it on.
I know that I acted wrongly and allowed my anger to get the best part of me. But I was furious because no single bill went to her sister's baby father's, absolutely nothing was listed for them. I got furious because these expenses won't be on me right now if not for her pressuring me into marriage that I want ready for. I was furious because I and the other in law that they billed became the scape goat by doing the right thing by getting married and not leaving theirs daughter In ruins, where as those that got their daughter pregnant without getting married to them were totally free from these unnecessary bills. I'm in so much pains and regret right now.
I stopped at using 4m to do wedding. Stop bowling to pressure from your woman.
Man up and stop bowing to pressure
She pressured you into forced marriage
Pressured you to spend 4M
Now the family want you to take over her father's burial expenses.....man up and refuse to BOW once in your life.
Support them with your token as an inlanw, don't let her confuse use with crocodile tears, it's called emotional blackmail.
She'll treaten to commit suicide...don't give in, it's emotional blackmail, they always play the victim. Follow your instinct, stop living to please others, do your best and let your mind be at peace
nlfpmod: The Arab-Americans who backed Trump in Dearborn, Michigan, sent him this letter today (but addressed to the White House…) urging him to fulfill his promises to the community and work on an immediate ceasefire in Gaza and Lebanon.
You guys just jump on any bandwagon without any analysis.
Flamini is not a billionaire.
Don't be lazy. Let me give you a snippets
Mathieu Flamini, the former French professional footballer, has indeed become a billionaire. His net worth is estimated to be around £10 billion, thanks to his highly successful biochemical company, GF Biochemicals, which he co-founded in 2008 ¹. This company has made significant strides in producing levulinic acid, a sustainable alternative to oil-based products, and has been valued at £21 billion ¹. Flamini's entrepreneurial venture has not only made him incredibly wealthy but also contributed to a more sustainable future.
He was exaggerating, 800k that time is a lot of money to hand over to a naive student leader
Ignorance What is 800k to MKO who spent millions on election campaign
2. Student union in those days were in the forefront of Nigeria politics giving the military rulers headache, not the mushrooms with fragile heart that we have now
mekleelex200: Nonsense, is this where football is at now? Lookman is good player but he is lucky that there are no much African players doing much things at international stage.
If it was the modern time of Ego, Drogba, Diof,Yaya etc., who burn am to be nominated.
That’s not new Where were you 1996 when Kanu won. Olympic isn't even a fifa or caf event
2. He was diagnosed with heart issue , so club wise , he didn't do much
Also Kanoute without African feel, won the year Drogba refused to honour caf award, mustapha hadji won ahead of okocha in 98 based on 3 good games at the world cup