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So no car, No money . The saga continues.........

Congrats on your wedding!!! Its a big,bold step and not for the faint hearted. May you enjoy grace and favour in this new phase.

There are times that everything don't make sense. Don't even feel like reading my bible. Feel does. Preferential treatment and all. If spirit filled songs doesn't help what help is talking it out. Mostly with my hubby. We reason together,then he can quote the scriptures to back up his point and it will make sense to me. Also you can just take a walk to clear ur head

A wake up call to be careful not to lay bad examples for our kids. And also to understand that our kids are looking up to us. Only God knows what he would have been thinking all through the arguement period, some parents are failling give time in their given responsibility as parent. God help us all. Tis well. RIP to dead child.

Love her dress and style only that when she came out to give the awards her nipples were charging.

What do you really mean by 'inspiration'? I think we need to redefine that then some names shouldn't be on that list. What's kate henshaw, toolz, linda ikeji,actresses that sleep around, some of this celebs are either gay or bi

Revist your list. There are better qualified women out there silently making impact than some people on that list

maclatunji: Exactly, 'make love' to your wife not coition. One is emotional with a physical expression, the other is just physical exertion. There is hardly anything that can be more depressing for a woman than having a man she is not pleased with exerting all his physical energy on her. Your being her husband won't mitigate the resentment.

If a man is frequently asking his wife for sex, there is something wrong somewhere, both of you need to be eager to have each other.

Having said that, your wife should be more expressive- it is totally wrong to be playing mind games with your husband.

FeminineA, you need to apologise to the Nkechis out there.

Lolz just using it for illustration. Sorry to all Nnkechi"s out there

For a woman sex isn't mama nkechi lie down and you romping up and down. Sex starts from when she wakes up, how she woke up, what you had done during the day to make her happy or sad.
Fatigue is just an excuse not to have sex with you. You need to find out why the denial. Re u selfish in bed?? Do u just want to eja. Culate and roll over and sleep?? Nah nah sex has passed all that. You need to be more patient with her and understand what makes her happy and tickles.

My husband carries it well with style and dignity!!he loves the way people stare at him. And the fact that he's carrying my bag does not reduce him as a man or. My husband so----.

My parents didn't know anything about gynotype but thank God they were both AA. Bringing it down to this present day where gynotype awareness is everywhere, if anyone decides to stil go ahead and marry against the result then they should both be ready to face the music.
However its unfair to bring kids into this world to suffer just because of your selfish behaviour

Get it right! The fact that you are pregnamt for him does not mean you should marry him.
What really do u want in a marriage? You want to rush in and rush out? What were you thinking when you were dating the muslim guy? And why will you marry a guy you have not seen for 5 years? You need to sit down and examine your self

Faithful is our God! He remains faithful despite our unfaithfulness. Congrats

Its càlled 'awin' in yoruba

@ op abeg make I send u my cv??. No jokes o

Have been using black soap like forever. Love it so much. I use dudu osun too but I love the natural one yet to be mixed. Then I mix it with coconut oil and shea butter.

For the lady complainning of the melting nature of dudu osun, get a bowl and put the soap in so even if it melt you can still use the melted liquid to take your bath

where is rthe land located?? send me details bunmi4real08@yahoo.com

What really does he spend the money aside the home front I mean school fees and home needs? If he's spending on things outside this then the woman needs to sit him down and have a heart to heart with him and if he's stil adamant then wisdom requires that she starts keeping money aside probably have a savings account.
However, if money is spent on maintaining a standard they have created for themselves then they need to cut cost. Remove their kids from the present school and put them in cheaper but quality school and the likes!

parisienne: Plese do not give your child bobo she is too young, that thing is laced with sugar!!! Besides it is to chemicalized (if there is such a word) ribena is cool but I would still dilute it when my daughter was below one
. Milo and bournvita are ok but I hope you don't mix it with cows milk till she is over a year old. Peak 123 is what I use and I think it is goob but still a bit sweet so be careful with that too. Like the others said, itroduce soft foods, boild irish and sweet potato with melted butter if she can't take stew yet, custard, oats she should eat anything you are eating.

Breastmilk has a lot of nutrients but they are not enough for her at 11 months she shld be taking more and more solids.

You have said it all. Not bobo please

A check on her mental stability should be done cause I can't fathom why a mother will bury her child alive

@op come and expantiate abeg. Did she I mean mil move in with them or they moved in with her?if they moved in with her why? And when are they moving out?
What I know and believe is this: a married man with living in the same roof with his mother, I mean moved to his mothers house with his wife is wrong. That's witchcraft on the path of the mother

@op there's no problem. Let your wife continue with her exclusive.

@urspry: please send her all she ask for before the day ends so she won't have any excuse on not paying.
You are doing great things for yourself and am very proud of you. Don't let anyone rip your joy off.

Please inform us immediately you get an alert of your payment.

coconut head: Now this is scary!. Times 10? Jeez

Don't worry you are a good man. it will be fine

Eyah what a caring man!!
@ post my dear all she needs is your support and understanding o coz by the time she's pregnant, its times 10 of what you experience or see during her period.
So be more understanding, help with the house chores(hope am not over stretching it) and all