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What kind of arguement will make your man slap you in public or what type of demon will possess him to?
The man and wife should be able to comport themselves well outside.outsiders read wrong meaning to everything. If a man slaps his wife outside it simply means
-he doesn't respect her
- he has no sense of dignity or decorum however small
-even if he makes up with the woman what of the wrong impression he has given outsidersremember bad news spreads like fire

Very wrong. That's how low self esteem starts. It starts with a little situation like that and blossom into something the little girl alone cannot handle

The woman is using her hands to dig her own grave. I hope its not too late for her sha. Really she needs to grow up and stop attaching herself to her parents apron. Immediately the man gets fed up its going to be a terrible outburst.
No wonder the bible says a wise woman builds her home but the foolish one pulls it down. But the man should have seen signs during their dating days but ignored them. as a friend continue to pray. That's all

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Just like the bible says "except the Lord builds a house they labour in vain that build it" male or female are both difficult to raise except the Lord helps you

You can also check with one or 2 doctors or a paediatrician to put your mind at rest.
How ever if all is well with him you will have to put more effort in his training

The communication gap between you two needs to be close. Just visiting once in two month is not good and that's what makes you too strangers when you see.
Be very patient with him. Avoid nagging. Don't give him opportunity to hit you. You should know him patient and endurance limit.
In all be prayerful it works

God help us. @ op thanks for been observant and sharing this

Its simple logic. The guy is tired,move on stop been faint hearted. You need to make up your mind another guy will cherish you better

Sorry for this trauma. The police can be an ass @ times but they can help. Can they get the service provider to trace where the calls on his phone is coming?
Pray you find him in one piece. Pls keep us updated

Cheers

debrief08: You or your friend should just use Nairaland s ;Dearch engine. There are 100s of adultery cases here already, same old advice, Hope it helps sha. Me sha I don taya to dey write the same thing over and over again. Just copy and apply as it fits

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Really there is more to it than this side of ur friends story. Its either he has been exhibiting this traits and your friend ignored them believing marriage will change him or the man has been bewitched.for his infidelity,except the woman frustrated her hubby into cheating,he can't stop o but prayers can do wonders sha.

Its not easy!so much pain,recovery process can be long especially if you had one issue or the other. But the joy of carrying your baby over rides it all

Her life is crucial. She should leave the house and stay with her brother. Whatever help her mom wants to render she can still render it.

I can't stand rats as a matter of fact I run when I see them but I hate the way they poo on everything and anything. I can kill cockroaches but when they a lot especially the small ones they become a nuisance. Mosquitoes re terrible coz of malaria.

Two wrongs don't make it right!why will you cheat because he cheated?instead why not bother yourself on how to build your fragile marriage?

Continue to assure her that you are not cheating on her. Probably she's feeling insecure but with time, she will come around.
But cheating because she doesn't trust you just means you've had it in your mind to do but just looking for a platform to carry out the act

There's no problem about changing your surname twice I did the same. Since your passport is expiring in 6mths make sure the new passport bears the new surname you two prefers.
Also,Make sure there's proper documentation for the change of the two names both newspaper publication n affidavit in the event of travellin and others

Its not about what God told your pastor but what jesus is saying to you on the issue. Been a member of the choir I believe you should have a bit of spiritual sensitivity like the ability to hear from God. You mean for 8 years jesus didn't tell you to leave the man? Why now?
You can pray n fast yourself let God tell you his plans for your marital destiny.
Please make sure you get confirmation of what God wants for you for your marriage from another person or yourself coz out of two or more witness shall it be establish. 8 years is no joke

I feel your definition of happily married is questionable. If she's happy then she's content with whatever her husband has to offer her even if its a bit below her expectation!

Debrief08 said it all.
In addition please find it in your heart to forgive him totally. Of cause its not easy to forget.Pele dear.
All will be well

If its the normal few hrs to wedding fever,then its fine just calm her down,letting her realise that all will be well. But if she is really unsure then she's sick and has no conscience coz she should have thought about all this @ one point or the other in the relationship.

The parents are the epistle that the children read.if we fail as parent then it will take grace and extra effort for the child to be a good. As parents what's our relationship with our spouse like?if a young boy sees that daddy treats mom like a queen,mom must say yes b4 somethings happen in the house you think when he build his own this same process won't re occur?
Don't have a female child yet but from child hood every child must see himself or herself as cherished n love. A mother must make it a point of duty to always pray 4 her children and speak positive word to her
Never ever love one female child more than the other you are breeding jelousy n sibling rivalry. Never support one child more than the other. When there is a quarrel between your female children don't always support the younger one more than the senior one(am very guilty of this with my siblings)just be fair and just.
Lastly we need to have time for our kids. All this workin class mom n dad is good but one must be available.let's stop leaving our kids in the hands of maids. The kids needs good memories that will help them form their future decision cos where a we are today is as a result of the happening around our childhood and teenage days

@ reema pls start a new post so we can concentrate on a post @ a time
@ poster am too sure you saw the signal button of your hubby been mummys boy b4 u married him but love Ignored them now its beginning to tell. Be patient and formulate a strategy by which anytime a quarrel crops up he stays indoor with you. Sorry does kill. Even if you are not wrong tell him sorry (not everytime o) but also make sure after he calms downs you pass the message to him with wisdom in such a way his anger is not aggravated that you are hurt.
Then pray it works! You re in it already so fix it!

@ poster
You are getting things mixed up! What's your definition of submission and control? A woman is submissive does not mean she's been controlled as a matter of fact because of our makeup, no woman wants a man that will be lording over her.
Yes the bible say wife submit, dat same bible says husbands love and honour your wife. Submission is earned o

From what I gathered from your post, ur friend and her boyfriend are based oversees? It makes it easy self let them get married according to the law of the land they are based and just inform their parents, they will just be angry for a moment. @ this time and age you can't do arrangee wedding for people again. But I hope you friend is sure that her boyfriend is the one she wants to spend her life with so she doesn't regret her actions later

She is equally going to be a mother in law one day and her daughter in law will also wish her dead. Karma!some MIL can be very inconsiderate but you can stil apply wisdom around them

Its obvious the both of you are not on the same page. You both started out wrongly. Beating a woman will never make her submit. Am not a fan of divorce but have you exhausted all options on reconciliation. Have you really taking time out to sit your wife down and really know what her problem really is? Coz even the toughest woman can be broken down with words of concern.
You know it takes two to tangle,would have love to hear your wife's part of the issue coz no good woman will open her eyes and use her own hands to destroy a good home.

The lagos state social welfare are very effective. Can't lay hold of their add and contacts number right now but when you get to alausa secretariat you will be directed accordingly.

The internet is very vast with load of information on this you can google it out. Also why not repost on health section?doctors are there to give you professional advise

Hello,
Sorry for what you are going through but why not repost in the career section?u will get better professional advise. One requires wisdom to deal with all this bosses.