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Please and please for the safety of the child tell your landlady. She needs to dispose of her quickly and get a another or a nanny.

Well I believe safety is of the Lord. So many people leaving in posh areas are been affected by so many factors. Yes looking for a good home is paramount but the culture we as parents has help culture will help them stand the test of time. I have a friend that grew up in mushin but you can never see traces of mushin in her

dav8id: Just go and block the atm card thats all

Did you read his post at all?? He said all the money in his account has been cleared.
It is well jare bros. Don't really know how this card pin works. Pele

Don't mind him. He's dreaming. Will soon wake up.

Foolish man! How dare him?? Did you beat and pound him well??he needs a big lesson and I hope you two taught him. Why must you apologize to that wife beater? Has he apologize to your sis for the beaten??
Apologize for peace sake but let him know if he tries it again, there's round 2 of that beating.

Fear not op. Its normal for men to be afraid. First your thingy cannot get to the baby. I remembered when I was pregnant my husband will say he doesn't want the baby to grab his thingy. But its not possible, the distance btw the baby and d*ck is much moreso the baby is covered in a sac.
Also, your wife is the one demanding give it to her and satisfy her. For now you can stil lie on her except if she says she's not comfortable then na backdoor straight. However be careful and considerate when thrusting always ask her if she's comfortable with it.
my husband and I did it all through my pregnancy period the last was 3 days before the birth

Never! I don't have why will my children have??. I get pissed when I see cute children been disfigured by tribal marks

Am the second and I got married b4 my senior sister infact she is yet to get married. So you mean I will continue to wait for hereveryone has their time.

Start buying in bulk. So many household things can be bought in bulk. In a month, buy your pack of your baby's food, every other thing you need. Reduce your spending. Keep money aside say 100k to spend in a month and work on a strict budget. depends on how good electricity is in your area buy a carton or half of chicken, fish, talk with the butcher that half or a quarter of cow. Get to your pepper seller ask her to get you half basket of tomato, quarter tatashe and rodo.
_ learn to price well well. Have a very good bargaining power it will save you cost.
Always have a target of what you will spend per month. Start with 150k and gradually reduce it.
Get a notebook to jot all your spendings. You will be able to understand what is sapping your money.

Sorry sis. First time is always something else. There's nothing to be frustrated about. Get to a pharmacy and buy k-y jelly or equate personal lubricant jelly. Even oil will do the magic but I personally prefers the jel.

petokey: okay am sorry for doing that, since the mistake has been done what should i do?

Start withdrawing slowly and gradually. She's already getting emotionally attached. Break this attachment in a subtle way and daily reduce the attention you are giving her.

I love my husband as my husband and my child as my child none can overide each other.

Its simple: you led her on. When you knew you weren't interested why did you give room for none sense chit chat?

That's why truth is very crucial in marriage. Its obvious the little distance is causing the hitch. No 3rd party interference please. Its something you can work together. Sit him down and talk with him its obvious he's beginning to doubt your integrity. And ask him what he wants. Is it possible to transfer back to where you two lives?? In all pray.

Baba Oyo: Hehehe....I guess ur ears go don full.
And how does Mr Masculine A react to all these? Share HIS experience please.
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Ko easy rara....

Baba oyo no be small thing. Anytime it happened my husband will just bon face as if to say ' this na my property, trespassers not allowed. If he's not with me and I tell him what I encounter that day he will smile and say 'nkan ti mon yin je' (what am eating small small so it doesn't finish)

I beg to differ with vikin. I don't like fitted clothes cause I love comfort upon all it can't be hidden

Well been someone God has enlarge behind, am used to such. Had a very bad name in secondary school cause of that. Then no hip just big bum but with child birth everything is out in their shapes and sizes.

Its due to all this cat call have learnt to insult well. Even with a baby at hand eyes will just be following and I will b like (won fi se yin ni) but wetin man fit do?? My husband loves it no be small.

Its not going to be an easy decision but you need to move out with your baby. Its not a crime to be a single parent and don't say you are staying cause of your kid. Even your baby is after your happiness. The truth is you are just co-habiting, retrace your steps and start all over again. Move out if he decides to come for you fine and if not move on. Life goes on.
If you continue to stay when he's tired of you he send you away with the baby you are thinking its because you are still staying on and legally marry another woman

Sorry am a bit harsh just the plain truth

What is worth doing at all is what doing well. Why not wait till you finish everything afterall you will still live together for a very long time. Why the hurry?

Forget the farting jor! If egg isn't in moi moi then the emi meje isn't complete

Yes! Yes!! Yes!!!. A woman needs to know what her hubby earns so she doesn't make unnecessary demands. Also so that she can help build the home

greatgod2012: You dont need to be worried, but just becareful you dont end up becoming 2nd or 3rd wife.
May God help you!

That's it. Just ignore them and stay focus

Sorry sis but first things first you need to get busy if its a job get one if its business selling clothes and all start just get busy profitable so you don't dwell much on your problems and you can help your own family members

Secondly looking at it from another angle are you really sure your hubby does not want to take care of your siblings or you ask him for money during the period he is broke?

Thirdly for a man that does not know how to talk its a man that does not know how to talk that will handle him. Talk to him exactly how he talks to you. Especially in similar situation, check out his reaction and explain that that's the way you equally feels when he talks anyhow to you. However guage his mood and atmosphere before you proceed.

In all pray. Its the best medicine in marriage

You called him your fiancee not your boyfriend so what is he afraid of??are you 2 not planning to get married?what is his financial status? Am not a fan of abortion so I don't encourage it. As a person what do you want for yourself?

Local chicken- ediye ibile

Your federal government is such on her own. I sell clothes and am not ready to stop!! That's the way I earn my living for now. So far my goods are or can be cargoed from the uk and smuggled in the FG should sit somewhere. They ban all form of fabric but left out lace while cause that's what they wear for owanbes

All this dilly dally is getting too much and we are de railing. All We are interested in is aigbe been paid his 900k and its obvious everyone is directly or indirectly fighting for his cause. Let's calm down abeg. I don't want any excuse come April

Why are you bothering yourself? From your write up everything is wonderful between you and you are bothering yourself?? Anyway just to be sure, talk with your hubby about it. However you should understand that what works for your marriage might not worlk for another

Continue to call and beg her. Even the bible refer to such behaviour as witchcraft. Allow her. Ensure you follow peace with her. After your baby is old enough buy lots of gift and visit her all in the name of peace.
However be prayerful

I believe there were warning signals of his rigid believe in culture before you got married but what has happened has happened now the way forward.
The truth is there's nothing she can do but to pray. Pray to God to soften his heart.
On the issue of joint account I will say she should hold on. So he can encourage joint account and reject sharing same room.