₦airaland Forum

@ poster
May God favour and bless your next marriage. Thanks for the wonderul advise.

ogeoflyf: Is this the latest trend

E bi like say na latest trend oh! Mind you very soon there will be revolution against mothers from these pikins

JbravoAdodger: Callin child services*

This pikin go too stubborn later in life,
Im go dey cAll him mama "vitafoam"

Please oh! are you a prophet?

Drniyi4u: the mother dey wicked, she suppose tie am for d back of a drum Na....d pikin fit fall at d back of pillow

Haba!easy brother. Back of drum? Na pikin oh!

Callmebabe: Lolzzz! Is dis real?

My sister, na so I see am oh!

@obo389& Jussi

Women are very intelligent and can easily initiate ideas but I still think that this may be funny but dangerous

I saw this picture on a friend's Facebook wall.
This baby got used to sleeping on her mother's back but it is a big challenge for her mum to perform her house chores. I personally think that it is risky if the child falls on her back with that pillow in front of her. What do you think?

amdman: Got such a beautiful insight while meditating on the story of the boat in the storm with Jesus sleeping.

First, Jesus had said to the disciples, 'lets go over to the other side'. Because His word never fails, it means that come what may, they would definitely get to their destination. If they had paid attention to what Jesus said, they would have known that even though the storm was heavy, the Master had said they were going to the other side. If they had an understanding of who He really was, they would have known that He had seen the end from the beginning, and if He said to go, it means they were coming out victorious.

Understand however, that some of them were hardened fishermen... Peter, James and John... so they knew exactly what a killer storm was, and they knew that was exactly what they were facing, hence their cry to the Jesus. Jesus however proved that the Word is superior to every situation, no matter how dire. With words from His mouth, He calmed the storm to the amazement of His disciples.

Therefore I know, that even in the midst of this storm, God has called us fruitful and productive, He has named us those that bear fruits that abide. It may have taken this long for the fruits to show up for men's optical eyes to see, but the most important thing is that the fruits are finally manifested. In this situation, the Word also shall prevail as it always does.

^^^^ Thank God all went well at the hospital. I know you will live to see your children’s children. Have faith God is able!

@ OP
Remember nothing is impossible with God.
Be strong for your testimony is on the way. All the best!

Good news!It's a press release on Ethiopian Airline website http://www.ethiopianairlines.com/en/news/

Jarus,your analysis was commendable and great, I think you need to join our coaching crew someday
It was indeed a good match even with the best Spanish players they could only score 3 goals.Lol!
I thank God for Mikel and Emyema they both deserve a bottle of champagne each for saving us from further embarrassment
In my opinion,Keshi needs to work more on our strikers. What else can I say, Up Keshi!

@ poster
Most ladies experience pain when they are deflowered and female body tends to delay most times for fear of pain so, it is normal. Just as your hubby said, you have no reason visiting the doctor. I will suggest the following:
1. You just have to relax and if possible play cool music like blues it will help you relax in the process. You need to be in a calm state; this will help to relax your muscles so it won't be so painful to penetrate.

2.Your hubby should try to introduce lots of pre-intimacy. You will need to be aroused either by Kissing and caressing it will entice you into the right mood.

3. Plenty of lubrication will be needed since your vagina will be very tight. Keep plenty of lubricating jelly, like Vaseline and so on handy. Direct your husband on were you would love to be touched this helps you too reach organism.
However, ensure you play with your husband more at home. Remember, it takes time but you will soon enjoy love making there is nothing wrong with you.
Finally,relax, relax and tell us when you become Oliver Twist
Goodluck!!

It maybe true I saw this short story on this topic. Here's the link
http://news2.onlinenigeria.com/headlines/177855-bomb-blast-at-nysc-camp-in-bauchi-state-50-dead.html

I think it is better to lease, although when I did my wedding I bought mine with ease but regretted it after my wedding. My reasons:
1. I found out I wasted that money which I would have used for something else.
2. My wedding gown have beautiful stones which fell off after drycleaning.
3. No longer in vogue now.
4. Heard the white gown now looks brownish or yellowish.
I wanted to sell it off after my wedding they were pricing the amount used for leasing. I told my friends to avoid making my mistake for it is better to lease, even if u want to lease a brand new gown,It is available.

Kimmo: A number of things . . But nairaland isn't the place for her. If she's been bleeding nonstop for an entire month, she shd get to an Obstetrician immediately. Anyways, here r a number of possible causes
Fibroid, hormonal issues, ectopic pregnancy, botched abortion etc

@ Poster, This can also be a cause Endometriosis. I doubt if our doctors can diagnose it yet in Nigeria (maybe). Endometriosis is a gynecological medical condition in which cells from the lining of the uterus (endometrium) appear and flourish outside the uterine cavity, most commonly on the ovaries. Symptoms often worsen with the menstrual cycle.

I am hurt and I wish to spread this news fast. If you had listened to the network news in FRCN this morning, this issue was seriously broadcasted and analyzed by the Reporter. It was also broadcast Monday last week.
The Indian operated Specialist hospital in Karu Site, Abuja are Quacks, Fake, 419 and exploiters of Nigerians. If you know anybody going or planning to go to that hospital, please stop the person immediately.
The hospital was built by FCT as Karu General hospital but all of a sudden it was leased to this killer Indians to operate as specialist hospital.
Charges in this hospital is exploitative, only registration alone in N25,000.00.

MAIN ISSUE

In November 2011, my sister went to the Indian Hospital for Fibroid operation. The Indian thieves diagnosed her and said her case is very complex. She was charged a total of N700,000.00. On the day of operation, she was taken to the theatre and was Open up. What do I mean. She was torn OPEN-UP and stitched back without removing any fibroid. When she recovered from the effect of the Anastasia, they congratulated her for successful operation and that lumps of fibroid had been removed from her. My sister requested from the doctors to see the lumps which is a normal practice in every hospital, the Indian thieves said the lumps had been taken to lab for analysis, that they will show her later. Till today my sister have not sighted the fibroid lumps that was removed from her.

From the night after the operation, my sister started feeling serious pains than what she had before. She complained to the Indian thieves, they said it will be okay and discharge after three days with the pains. She went home and had more pains than ever aside the torn wound. We decided in December 2011 to go for scan in another lab. The scan result shows that there are heavy lumps of fibroid in her and that there is absolutely no sign that any removal attempt had been carried out even though there is evident that she was opened up for surgery. We tried the scan in another specialist hospital in Asokoro, Abuja. It was the same result. My sister then disguised herself with another name and went for scan in the same Indian specialist hospital Abuja and they confirmed that she was open up but not an iota of fibroid was removed from her. My sister lied to the scan officers that the operation was done in Benin hence she will require a comprehensive report from the Indian Killer hospital and the they did a beautiful job in putting the whole report in black and white.
January this year, my sister went for the same fibroid operation in another hospital in Asokoro, Abuja and she was operated successfully and the lumps of fibroid removed were shown, the operation was videoed and pictures of everything were taken and are well kept She has written petitions to Medical and Dental Council of Niger, Nigerian Medical association, Minister of Health, and we making effort to present it to the National Assembly. Many media reporters have interviewed her, Some have written already. FRCN has carried twice as main news item.
Investigation by media reveals that those Indians are quacks, they do not posses basic medical credentials. The Head of the hospital an Indian woman is not a medical doctor. The deputy is her son and not a medical doctor as well. A specialist hospital operating in a Nigerian Government Built Infrastructure do not have a medical director!
Nigerian Medical Council have confirmed that this Indians were brought during the former Minister of FCT and were horridly given temporary permission to operate without passing through the normal registration procedure by the council.
DONT BE A VICTIM, BE WARNED. SPREAD THE NEWS TO ANY NIGERIAN YOU KNOW. AVOID INDIAN SPECIALIST HOSPITA, KARU SITE, ABUJA.

http://news2.onlinenigeria.com/news/top-stories/167489-quack-indian-doctors-allegedly-exploiting-nigerians-in-abuja.html


Please, my people be prayerful and watchful of the hospitals you visit !!!
May God protect us Amen

Whenever we suffer some affliction, we should regard it both as punishment and as a correction. Our holy Scriptures themselves do not promise us peace, security and rest. On the contrary, the Gospel makes no secret of the troubles and temptations that await us, but it also says that he who perseveres to the end will be saved. So we must not grumble, my brothers, and for as the Apostle says: some of them murmured and were destroyed by serpents. Is there any affliction now endured by mankind that was not endured by our fathers before us? What sufferings of ours even bear comparison with what we know of their sufferings? How then can you think that past ages were better than your own?

-- St. Augustine

deleted

Yield: Which's why you should've included the source.

What a wicked world. Here is the source
http://news2.onlinenigeria.com/headlines/164045-parents-force-their-eight-yr-old-to-watch-them-have-intercourse-and-lick-their-privates.html

toluxa1: Imagine your grandpa on his sick bed and his last words were my son/daughter, I left you 100million Naira in the! In the!! In the!!! ( Cough)...... and he died.. Wot wuld u do?

Very funny!

@Poster, Maybe,you should plan a family project that will engage you two more and like shushu suggested allow her visit motherless baby home or visit the sick it helps alot. Work on her fears we women are afarid of the unknown(Did you understand?) so reasure her of your love and ensure you pray for the family.It is really painful to be in this situation and women feel they are the ones to be abused by the society. Please,tell her you are not leaving her with or without kids. You can try IVF if you have money and let her take multivitamins pills. Finally, I admire your strong faith in God it counts alot help your wife build on hers too. You are a good man and be rest assure that your bundles of joy are on the way. Don't give up in God!.

ronkebp: The mother can visit her son whenever she likes, the lady in question should get a help, who will assist her in doing house chores so that the wife can concentrate on taking care of the baby and her MIL, it is not that she will be nursing the MIL too, cook, and serve her, that is the wife's responsiblity. Tell your friend to get a help, because dwelling on this type of issue will start unnecessary wahala in the home.

^^ Nice.
@ Poster, tell your friend to conduct herself well like everybody adviced especially ronkebp.I believe nobody will advice your friend to fight her MIL, try to forget about the past be nice to her and allow her help you with the kids. Please, let her shower MIL with love and you will see her sing her name forever Goodluck!

johnboyy: In my neck of the woods, this is the norm in large commercial building projects. I have witnessed entire blocks of downtown office complexes go up in weeks, complete with multilevel underground parking lots.

There is nothing wrong with this technique, the problem as I see it is the Nigerian factor.

You are right Johnboyy. Over here in Europe most buildings were built like that but if accurate measurments are taken and Nigeria factor excluded I have no fears. Oga Spider, it looks beautiful but what do you think of pic 14?

chidexy: Oga Spyder, good job so far on your duplex. A suggestion though, why don't you consider using Silicon or Acryl for the junction where the 2 walls meet instead of just normal grout. Prevents the growth of mildew on tile edges. Also the juction floor/wall should be filled with Silicon.

Meanwhile, it seems you are on the way to eating watery soup since you missed Madam's deadline for moving in hahahahahaha!

[b][quote author=chidexy]Oga Spyder, don't worry about the watery soup jooo!.No woman will ever serve watery soup when the husband is hardworking oh! she will be very proud of you. Infact,she will always prepare your favorite dish with a glass of palmwine to wash it down Ask my husband now.....

Your house is beautiful Good job!

Fhemmmy: I am with you too . .

Me too oh! Oga Spider,I have voted in support of separate thread if you can
I no easy

@ Poster So sad this happened. It is really painful for the man at this moment to cough out 700k for you but I think the best way to solve this problem will be:

1) informing the Unit Head where she was working before her death. Present your bounced cheque to them they can investigate and call the attention of the husband to it. The bounced check is proof that she owed you the money.They can solve it in the Department.

2)I cannot say about your office but some offices have something like social welfare Organisation that protects interest of the staff while the staff are made to contribute some money from their salary maybe monthly incase of death, birth etc of a staff. If you have such then get them informed they can organise a meeting with the man and either pay you from her savings/contribution before her death but on the man's agreement oh!.

3)Your welfare organistion or Head of Account should be informed in writing immediately, it is their responsibility to invite this man just to inform him while you can be paid from the late woman's last salary or benefits. It maybe long or short term payment.

4) Are you guys from the same State? If you are from the Ibo speaking area I know that after burial the family of the deceased give room for such cases like yours. If it is the same in your area you can present the suitation to the Elders. You can only use this last suggestion if the husband of the deceased refused to pay you. The Elders must find a way to settle it. According to their belief the woman will not rest in Peace if you refuse to forgive her debts or if they did not pay on her behalf.

Finally, please remember the late woman is your friend and have a surviving child that needs care and the man have not recovered from the death of his wife yet and needs money presently.
Once there is life there is hope for you to make more money. Be wise in your decisions!

Efemena_xy: I see.

Be that as it may, the mother should not be dictating how you run your home (even though you aren't married yet). Advice is good, for which you can decide to either take up or not - but not to be told how to run your ship.

With regards to finding out how fertile you both are, this can be easily done medically. If either of you have any underlying issues that could prevent conception or successfully carrying a pregnancy to full term, then this could be found out on time. Infact, this in my opinion is a good move. Get a full M.O.T health check.

You say the mother has a high preference to kids - do you mean this is her no. 1 priority? I think the question you should be asking yourself is: "What is my no. 1 priority? What is my intended wife's no. 1 priority? Are we both on the same frequency?" Any differences in priority between you both should be discussed and properly ironed out.

I did not agree with what your MIL adviced you to do although, she may have the interest of her daughter at heart. She should not use her own condition to judge the future of your marriage. Please, the above suggestion from Efemena is the best for this kind of suitation go for full M.O.T health check. Do not allow MIL to control your opinon discuss with your intended wife and move on. God is above any sutiation and should be your focus. Good luck !

Demain_man: @Prof Spyder, I am trying to use stainless steel balustrade in my uncompleted house in the villa. Can you help me look around for prices and quality ones in owerri please. I need to have an idea. Thanks in advance for your assistance. By the way you have lovely kids!!!

[b]

Well said They are cute!!!

Oluwa4Sure: it is not easy ooo
But I'm putting in my best sha!!!
More pictures to follow

You are too much! I love everything, so nice. May God guide you.