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By definition: A perfectionist is a person who wants everything to be perfect and demands the highest standards possible. -(Google)

My Experience: It took me time to notice that, My grandmother is a perfectionist.

When I was young we(I and my siblings) used to visit her during the holidays(on vacation). I begin to realize this during her last visit to our place before i travel back to school. Though it's not quite clear and noticable when I was young.

She complained about everything, nothing is ever perfect for her.

She complained about how you eat, how you dress, how you arrange things, how you talk, how you play, how you bath, how you cook, how you wash, how you brush etc.

She become so nagging and annoying, there is no how perfect you cook or do something to her satisfaction, she even complained about her own food when she cook..... That's when I begin to observe her.

Although, there are good character I found in her is as she always correct wrong doing and she didn't care if her word hurt you or not, she will say it to your face.... And sh get to like the food she complained so much about when you're preparing it(funny )

When you stay with her; firstly, you need to understand her, if not you might be frustrated and grow to hate her.

Her way of commenting and talking make people around her sometimes frustrated and tired of her.

Apart from this, she is lovely and has a perfect heart to correct, she is someone you will really miss after you're away from her , quite interesting right

Have you ever stay with a perfectionist? Or
Narrate your experience....
You might be a perfectionist without knowing.


Note: This page is to enlighten your view about how to treat people.

colonel ewe awe
I was like.....what d..

it's scabies...

get permethin cream and apply it every night before you sleep.

do this for complete 2 or 3 weeks.

Thank me later.


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The earlier the better, when it's in full form, it is very contagious.

Ensure cleanliness while applying the cream after bathing in the night and by ensuring you constantly change your clothes before sleeping.

Speaking from experience.

This Three bible verses below demands that only the bishops, deacons be husband of one wife....that is, you can have more than one wife as long as you don't aspire this posts.


Although, it is advisable to have only one wife to reduce the stress of taking care of them which come with a lot of responsibilities.

The bible have not once condemned the idea of having two wives or more but it encourages we have our own wife to avoid furnication.

what the bible/God word always disagreed/hate is divorce, furnication and adultery.

Check this out
1 Timothy 3:2 A bishop then must be blameless, the husband of one wife, vigilant, sober, of good behaviour, given to hospitality, apt to teach;

1 Timothy 3:12 Let the deacons be the husbands of one wife, ruling their children and their own houses well.

Titus 1:6 If any be blameless, the husband of one wife, having faithful children not accused of riot or unruly.

Arsenal, Odabo.....
glory, glory Manchester city.

How I wish our governments are more mindful of this country as much as we masses are.

This country needs a leader who is mindful, diligent, vibrant, industrious with full of passion and wisdom to act where this country lag behind.

We can't pray that God should change the hearts of thousands of people(o'r governments) who are not mindful diligent this country, all I pray for is just One man.... Only one man, God abeg.

To resolve this...
when the add pop up
1. Go to app manager under setting.
2. you'll see recently used apps...click on the earliest one.
3. click on the app to see it's notification and data usage.
4. click on uninstall.
5. if it's the IOS.....click on the upper right corner button...and uninstall update. then
6. go to Google play store.
7. go to settings and click on where you see the updates....when data is on option.
8. Cancel the selection of auto update when WiFi is available and when data is on....only leave for when I click on update.

final.

A true christian(believer) don't hide their faith... in fact it's a pure sign of salvation.

Christians preached good news of Christ. it's called Good news because it saves, it's healing, it's peaceful, it's glorious and pure.

Don't waste your time trying to defend your present believe... because I know deep down you, there's that uction and thought that Christ is the way the truth and the life. You can verify the truth in you without anyone telling you.

I know there are lots of things and reasons why you don't want to give in... ( friends, families, background believe, addictions of different kinds, thinking there's no righteousness, that nobody serve the lord, that you can't be accepted, some christians around me are so bias and some are even worse than I am, or that some pastors are corrupt and evil etc.)

All this are slumbline Stone that should be rolled over before you can release yourself to seeing the truth. They are end time Obstacles....


Pray for help by seeking God's face today.
pray to God through his Son Jesus...ask for help and enlightenment,ask for forgiveness and true in him.

I see the Lord working in you right now In the name of Jesus.

Men will start to understand what they really are when they go back to what God created them to be compare to a woman.

God have the intention of creating Man to dominate and replenish the earth... so he gave them power, thought, ability to reason and every other good quality you can imagine.

A man has all it takes to stand with so much pressure will nearly few woman can do this.

In general, men are created of higher quality than women, because when God was to Create woman he only say, an helpful mate for a man.

my point is that, women are programmed in a sense that they should help a man, so if you're expecting something outstanding or an opinion that is really productive from a woman and you can't find it, don't be disappointed because Man is to bring about an idea that a woman will help to develop into reality.

that's one of the major reasons why man and woman need each other......

Skyfornia:
Trust police at your own risk..

Only God is our most trusted and surest security who never fails.

MedicH:
And god will come down from heaven and sit in aso rock.

You don't have sense.

what you just said is the most sensibly part of it... it may look foolish to you.

God indeed need to come down from heaven and set his sit there ..

Jack500:
Yes, I dey focus on him because of people like you, that prefer Ronaldo over Man u.
Ronaldo at this moment is not better than Rashford. Know that and have peace.

leave am like dat...

Even if he is worst than the worsest player... leave am.

Goal........
Dalot scores
Man Utd 1 - 0 sherif

chai.... Naija Pl
una get wahala oo
Always finding something to bring up as a topic even if its not necessary.

At present, money have been the most important object, so I can predict that many will vote because of money in the next presidential election.


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I will only accept money if it is to be distributed per say na the party I support.

Brilliant

No politician worth killing/to die or vowing for......
They are the same.... They have good and very bad parts.
I pray God interfere this time IJN.

No man could solve Nigeria problem, only God can.

All i know is that Tinubu, Obi and Atiku debate and argument will end very soon....

I will see who will later on win the election.

all I know is that any of them will not be as worst as buhari.

We don't need to fight or disqualify any of this candidates....

This is the best time and period to pray for this country if you're patriot.

I pray we'll never lose it this time IJN.

A competent leader we need......

dawnomike:
I love her positive energy..

like..... she choose happiness over sadness from disappointment. This her principle should also be applied to our lifestyle that no man or woman should determine your happiness in life, you're the one to choose. someone once said "the only person who can disqualify you is you"

ominilongest:
SATIVA
For me it's 420,no Rizzla I hope you familiar with INDICA Me roll up me wan reason m in Rizzla hey Flames in the here like a SMOKING gun

What you have typed is not making sense to me..
I dn understand....

MuMuOnBail:



May Allah punish all those that don't want this strike to end.

It will never be well with their Generations.


I have really missed my Uni-Side chick that come to service me every weekend, wash my clothes and clean my house before the strike.

FG and ASUU please just because of me, end this strike, or I will Castrate myself.

chai ..... abeg no castrate yourself ooo..

me self here, I don wait for so long..the thing don tire me.. now ah don find work to dey do oo, as he dey go now if dey like make dem no resume again I go dey make my cool cash here....till any fucking time.

All of una just carry politicians put for head ......

If Nairalanders don't talk about Obi they will talk about Tinubu or Atiku ... am tired of all this irrelevant news.

Adetayo41:
My wife has been depriving me intimacy for the past 1 months, i touched her yesternight, she declined, and later in the middle of the night, I caught her using a vibrator, although I did as if I was sleeping,


What should I do house.? I am pained though

Pray and Study the scripture if you're a believer; asking God for direction.

It's the work of the devil, so submit yourself to God, resist the devil and he will flee from you.

After prayer, call her and discuss with her....I pray God help you IJN.

iiifedimma:
Please let's support his excellency Mr Peter obi for the president of federal Republic of Nigeria, we are tired of those thief's now,

Without a tribalism and nepotism any sane Nigerian know it's only someone like Peter obi that can now rescue Nigeria from total collapsing, but seriously some ethnic bigot people will just still prefer to hav their own man at the affairs of the country either he is capable or not than to go for what could have been the best solution to all nigerian's current problems, #ObiDatti2023 is certain

You too carry this peter obi thing for head.... The person wey go win go still win even if you shout till the next 10 decades. It's not a matter of pls let's support or not.

We're in Nigeria together and we know how thing are running.

All Nigeria Politicians are clowns, they will make fake promises to deceive us by showing compassion to the hope of making Nigeria a better place.

Politicians will always be Politicians, they're only after their own selfish interests. The best is to pray that God help us, so the best of them win the general election.... It's all on God because he already knows the winner.

My point is: support who you want to support and pray that God help.

A song said "Those who will win will win."

Kurutinto:
You are an urchin and a fool. Now if you don't know, Tinubu boasted to have brought Buhari into power and foisted him on Nigerians due to his hunger to receive power once buhari is done. So how then won't you blame the fool for buhari's incompetence?? Buhari was chilling under dogon-yaro tree in Katsina with his fura when Tinubu went to pick him and packaged him to Nigerians as a change reformer

I'm not saying I support what they(APC) have done but i'm saying you shouldn't generalize a curse. Politicians will always be what they're... The best is not to curse but to pray that God should help us to choose the right person this time. I'm not a supporter of any party yet.

Kurutinto:
Tinubu and Buhari has really finished this country. It will never be well with them and their supporters and their families too

You're a definition of foolishness to have cursed a family. Think before you act and say anything.

What's the borrowing of Buhari dealing with Tinubu and his supporters.

Imagine one of your families going to vote Tinubu now... That means you're under your own curse. Baba no dey too take political thing for head.

Those who support a particular politician on social media do not guarantee who wins....

We're all in Nigeria, We can all see the result when buhari was re-elected... Na so people dey shout here..

The best thing is to get your voters card and vote... Am very sure most people who are shouting here doesn't have their personal voters card.

Na weather wey spoil Makurdi... Too much cold during harmattan and Too much sun burnt during every normal day

If not Makurdi is a very nice place to reside.

This is the time to pray and act(by getting one's voters card to vote) for Nigeria, during the time of making decision which can affect years.

We don't need to fight on whether Muslim to Muslim or Christian to Christian ruler but we should rather ASK that God direct us this time that our past cries be not futile.

Our major problem in Nigeria is Religion.... Religion have block our view to seeking or knowing the truth. Let's be wise this time.
I pray God held and help us IJN