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_*HUSBAND SCARCITY...*_

_*(By Maryam Habu Shinga).*_

_This may not be the best time for me to write on this because of misinterpretations, but I can no longer resist the push. "Husband Scarcity" has become one of the challenges faced by many young girls today. If you go to prayer houses, majority of the intentions are prayer for a life partner. And this calls for concern._

_Casting our minds back to the time of our mothers and grandmothers, was there really much of a "Husband Scarcity" problem? Or, maybe there were more men than women then, or there was an adequate corresponding numbers of both genders. I don't think so. Maybe then, the women had values and were prepared to build a home and not park into a built home._

_Then, once a young man comes of age and can at least feed himself and his wife, he goes out in search of a wife and the woman really appreciates him and helps him to build a future. What am I really trying to say? We created what we now see as "Husband Scarcity" for ourselves._

_Today, the reverse is the case. Ask an average girl to define her dream husband; you get things like "he has to be tall, handsome, fair, and rich, own a house at least, and be presentable" and then she adds "God fearing" in order not to sound so worldly. Then, check the number of girls around you and the number of men that meet that standard, and you will see the problem._

_You hear girls say, "I cannot suffer in my father's house and then go and start suffering with a man." What a wonderful dream! What if from the beginning, you have everything you want and there is no suffering, and later in the marriage, the table turns around, then comes suffering? Will you run away? No one prays for suffering, but it is good to start small and end big, than start big and end small._

_The problem is that the description majority of girls give of their ideal man is virtually the same. When 50 girls want the same kind of man and the man that fits what they want is just 1 man, and the man can only pick one. Then, what becomes of 49 others? They simply start lamenting of "Husband Scarcity"._

_Another irony of our time is that it is hard, due to the face of our economy to find a man who is of marriage age who possesses all those things these ladies want, legally (except those involved in Internet fraud); even the number of those in Internet fraud is not enough to match all those searching for already made husbands. If you look around, majority of the ladies of substance, of good value and virtue, who are ready to build a home with a man who has prospects, are married and not complaining of husband scarcity._

_The easiest way to find a husband now, is to change your view of who a husband is. A husband is that man God made and then saw that it may be hard for him to really actualize his purpose for making him, without a help mate and then made the woman and gave to him, and he felt complete and fulfilled MARRIAGE IS NOT A POVERTY ALLEVIATION PROGRAM. It is a mission of building the family of God here on earth._

_For those who see marriage as a way out of poverty, it is a way into bondage. Women are HOME BUILDERS, not HOME WARMERS... DON'T CONFUSE A MAN'S PATH WITH HIS DESTINY. Where he is today, may only be a route to where God has destined him to be tomorrow._

_Another truth is that YOU MAY BE THE ONLY FAST MEANS TO THAT HIS DESTINATION. Join in alleviating "husband scarcity". PICK UP THE RIGHT VALUES. I am not saying that you should pick anyone that comes your way and talks of marriage, not all men are husband materials._

_What I am saying is that you should stop setting your standard on material acquisitions or physical appearances. Look beyond the physical. WHAT MAKES A MAN WHO HE IS, IS NOT WHAT HE OWNS OR HOW HE LOOKS, IT IS WHAT HE IS MADE UP OF. And that which he is made of is, most times, not seen with the physical eyes, only its effects can be seen._

_Marriage is a permanent thing. Whatever is seen is temporal and that whi

_*HUSBAND SCARCITY...*_

_*(By Maryam Habu Shinga).*_

_This may not be the best

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Follysho707:
Jesus instructed us to pray EVEN for our enemies. We as Christians should live a "Christ-like" life... Just imagine. If course gullible ones would rush to his defense.

Are u so dumb and stupid?..Dont u see d conditional statement ?"If deyv fail tovrepent"..do u know how many loaded destiny carrier we have in d grave?.coutesy of d evil ones..f u Dont kill those destiny snatchers n destroyer in ur family n dey finally succeeded in making u miserable ...if such a person repent after ur death,our lord Jesus is so mercyful n gracious to forgive such an individual..Mercy fall on You in Jesus name.May u not die loaded in Jesus name..pls,change DAT mindset n stop minding DAT demon possessed man called daddy freeze..

LagosNIV:
Hello fetrillion -

You are permitted to reschedule your appointment once at no cost. The visa application fee is valid for up to 1 year from the date on which it was paid.

LagosNIV

Thanks sir...

OmoBendel24:
Longer or LATER?

Your visa fee is valid for one year, and you can reschedule interview date free of charge once on it still. Put your travel plan together again, fill out a new DS160 form to reflect the new plan if there be any yet, or just wait till you are sure you have a justifiable purpose of travel. Christmas and New Year celebration 2017 are out of the time frame now for example, but there's Easter and Summer 2018 ahead still along the line of same example. Strong ties plus sound purpose of travel equals visa issuance most of the time....

Pls I'm having similar issue... kindly advice me on dis pressing issue.The appointment for my visa interviews is on 17th of Jan 2018
But I wish to include my wife to be in my visa application n apply for a family visa instead..
Pls note..our wedding comes up by may 2018
Can I delay my appointment till den or I would have to cancel n pay anoda visa fee to start afresh...

Helooo house ...someone sud kindly advice me on dis pressing issue.The appointment for my visa interviews is on 17th of Jan 2018
But I wish to include my wife to be in my visa application n apply for a family visa instead..
Pls note..our wedding comes up by may 2018
Can I delay my appointment till den or I would have to cancel n pay anoda visa fee to start afresh...

kinibigdeal:
Are the people donating complaining? or did the G.O point a gun on anyone to donate by force? if you understand deep things you wont complain if am blessed today i will donate more than that to Gods work, How they spend it is none of my business, my donation is between i and God

No wonder our youth keep complaining and wailing.its really a pity reading various post of nairalander castigating d man of God.The church of God will continue to match on and d gate of hell wud never prevail.I plead for mercy on daddy Freeze n I pray he repents.I use dis platform as a point of contact lord,bless me to fulfill ur kingdom obligation,
Make me a channel of blessing O lord so DAT I can propagate n use my resources for ur kingdom...God bless u real gud daddy adeboye,May d lord uphold you and give u an evalasting inheritance...

Aibisoye0:
Hello house,

So after almost two years of collecting US visa. I visited last week for 5 days. Back in Nigeria.
Poe was smooth, new York. No much stories asked. Thank God for journey mercies. I visited a lot of towns. Flew Delta local, paid for luggage (e pain me) but it was worth it.

Vo do ask repeated question,its a systematic way to deduce if u are lying...congrat

Sebastine1606:
From experience, if you apply again with your family.
You may just be lucky
The VO gave you an insight

From my observation,u claim to go for vacation n celebrate ur birthday without d presence of ur family...it would have been better if it was a business trip or coferrence..DAT was wot disqualified u

if u have no reasonable things to say,kindly clear off..Only serious buyer sud contact,I know it sounds too cheap to be true
prospective buyers are already on the look,so d two poster above me sud kindly keep off..No b by force ooooo

A four bedroom apartment is urgently going for 2.5million naira...location...imota,ikorodu,Lagos state..call 08100578790 for more enquiry

their site is not yet opened

Danielmoore:
that's his choice my dear
and his girl accepts so no problems there

who says such situation would be permanent.. I wonder why nigerians are just so myopic.
There will definitely be a change of status.

This is an inspirational story everyone will love to read about Oluwatoyin Aladejana, the wife of a wealthy Nigerian entrepreneur, Adewale Aladejana, who owns Sapphire scents. She stood by him during trying and difficult times and even squatted with her husband in his friend’s house in Abuja. Now, her struggling days are over as she is apparently reaping the fruit of supporting her man.
Read below what a friend, Olusegun Daniels Ursherfemi shared about the couple online to celebrate her.
Can I tell you about this woman here with the Saphire King?
1- she married a man who all he is worth was in a Ghana must go just about 3 or 4 years ago
2- Stayed with and believed in her husband all through..
3- She followed her husband to put up with somebody in to city of Abuja as a pregnant woman with their first child and as a married woman. Beat that!!!
4- Took all the looks, all the likely occasional insults associated with living with somebody for free in a place like Abuja.
5- I can’t even imagine as a wife you feel like cooking something and you can’t because the kitchen isn’t yours… Close your eyes and imagine it…
6- She stayed with him encouraged him till the expected break through came.
7- they both slept ON THE FLOOR IN SOMEBODY’S HOUSE…
Saphire scent is just 2 years and its worth millions of Naira minus investments and endorsements today.
Today again, in the same building they were squatters, they have their own apartment and also another one in same building for an office… She has all the space to herself now, she can point at any holiday destination today and be there in hours…
My simple message goes to the slay queens, I mean the ones scouting social media looking for a guy who drives, who has a good apartment, who looks all self made… I know I shouldn’t encourage you to stay with lazy go no where men… BUT I will stand to say anywhere,
THERE ARE MEN WHO STILL DON’T HAVE A TELEVISION YET BUT ARE LOADED WITH VISION…THEY MAY NOT HAVE ANY JEEP YET, BUT ARE DEEP IN THE WORD OF GOD. Deep callet unto the “jeep”…
It is sweeter to watch your husband become wealthy right in your presence, he won’t rub it on your face like he brought you in from poverty to come enjoy. This is where discernment is needed. That spirit tells you a man going somewhere, it shows you a raw material and its potential worth when refined.
Don’t just marry car keys and Behind kitchens… Once a while, look out for that man who you can tell that with this his passion and drive, he can be watched out for. Sometimes I look at my picture when my wife said yes, and ask her, wetin you see? Her reply is I just knew you are going somewhere… She ditched a medical student in 300L in unilorin for me an Agric science guy. These are powerful women… Their husbands treat them well… Cos we know they didn’t come for money.
You can’t sit and envy Mrs Oluwatoyin Aladejana today. IF YOU WERE TO PLAY HER ROLE, 90% OF YOU LADIES WILL QUIT AT 1ST HALF. Also before you use somebody as point of contact, be sure to know their story, because God won’t give you their glory without their story.
She is off with her husband now for holiday…. She has paid her dues… Single ladies these type of wives are wives we men cherish and love to pet…not the ones rolling long eye lashes at good cars and settled places.
Guys!! This is not endorsing laziness…despite where u are let the woman be able to tell you have a drive for success. Not pressing phone all the time.
I pulled over to celebrate my friend’s wife today. Been looking for a day to do this. Lots of respect for you ma. Thank you for being a support to this great man. We celebrate you dearly. We pray for more of your type on planet earth.
Source: Tori

As many of you DAT keep having HIV test everyv3months ...Dont worry,continue,u will soon see what you are looking for...

godchildjayboy:
He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from God. God bless you sir and ma. My mentor in the making. More fresh anointing....

why your mentor in the making if he is not your mentor..

I see ur bvn do not match

Barney11:
what is the reason for selling please?

Relocation

A four bedroom flat apartment is going for 2.2million on an half plot.It is situated at express road,imota,ikorodu,Lagos state.
Only serious buyer should contact me 08100578790.

A 4 bedroom flat apartment ready for sale.Fully connected with electricity, it has a large parlour,a master bedroom and three other rooms..Each rooms with its own toilet.it is located at imota express road.Reason for sale is specifically for relocation...contact us now,we are giving it for a token.Offer could close before Monday.we appreciate your patronage..contact Femzade Real Estate venture 08100578790

A four bedroom flat located at imota express road,ikorodu,Lagos.
It has a parlour,master bedroom and 3 other rooms with its own toilet.It is already connected to electrity.
reason for sale is because owner is permanently relocating to his home town.
Only serious buyer sud contact me on 08100578790

If you have to choose between being kind or being right.which would you go for..?

Modsenemy:
You were asked to drop and you insisted that they must show you the road , knowing fully well u re in danger . Who does that?

Seems she loved being kidnapped .

Someone does DAT..guess who?
THE HOLYSPIRIT

NairalandCS:
You won't see them feminists in this thread now.

Op. You're not stingy, you did the right thing.

20k no be small money for this recession. Except she wan really use am do business wey go bring in more money then you fuckup, but aisde that, you're good.

This is not the time for unnecessary spending.

I wonder y d ladies won't comment.If a story doesn't suit dem,dey will rather keep quiet ...

I met dis girl few months ago in my church.We started dis courtship and we were counselled by our pastor never to engage in premarital sex .Base on dis fact,our relationship had been purely platonic
Characteristically speaking,she has been good,she's romantic n cool.One challenge I'm having with her is DAT she's a bit materialistic but im d conservative guy n I'm very meticulous wen it comes to finances.she wants me to take some of her responsibilities like pay for her hair,subscribe for her n give her cash at times.I do d extreme little I cud.
I'm just an average guy DAT still hustles to make life meaningful wen we get married.I cud have gone out of my way to satisfy her financial needs but I fink we aren't married yet .She recently asked for abt 20k ,although she told me wot she intended to use it for .but im not financially bouyant enough to let go such amount for now.
Note:I love her but I just cudnt give in her request for now ..we are both 28plus
I'm not really happy bcs av not been meeting up with her financial demand...My question is..Av explained to her to be patient n she said OK but I know deep down she isn't happy.
have I really done d right thing or I'm being unnecessarily stingy?
lastly,giving in for her demands would really affect my financial productivity...

Bigboyz32:
Have you heard this principle: LEARN IT, DO IT AND SELL IT?

That I decided to sell my knowledge doesn't make me a scam, except you have another definition for it.
I've released a video of my account, released my account ID. What else do you want as a proof? Give you my password too?

boss no mind am...pls I really need ur help and teach me ..do I pm you pls...?

[quote author=MissCuppy post=58529468]She was feeding your ego by continuously begging you and you were busy forming, now you are feeling lonely and missing her.


Not every woman will beg you, if she manage to do so, try and forgive her, she put her self esteem on the line by begging you at the first place.[/quote
see talk ooo
its Berra u didn't comment..birds of d same feather.

lifexpress:
If I have to choose between two departments in the same company, I would look out 4 performance and not sex as a first option. And if they are rated equal in every way, I would choose the one whose physical appearance is more charming. My boss must be able to be a role model for me.
When u know that we come into this life as equal children of God, reincarnating again and again each time alternating between the sexes, then u can lose your likes and dislikes. The human mind is so strong as the prison-warden that locks us away from our divine knowledge, because it's best weapon is to make us like and dislike to create in us fear and anger, greed, lust for power/sex etc, vanity and undue atachment to our beliefs/properties. Spiritually though, the male is cut out for serving in the role of ultimate boss or spiritual leader of the universe! And u can't choose here.

dey asked u just simple question... male boss or female boss?...