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If you're familiar with 'Discovery ID' a cable channel...you will see how easy it will take to uncover the perpetrator of this murder.

Different strokes for different folks

What did i just read.....


Op a lot of thought will most be going through your mind now...as would anyone. What I will say here is, if your wife has been "a great woman, supportive and all" then you shouldn't bother your mind on this new revelation.

My honest 2 cent.

Women always mean the opposite. Mind you Op, the more she's jealous the better for you. Do not quit your other relationship bcus of her.

Savedday:
Don't waste ur precious love on a 9ja girl. They don't love and dey will never love u.

They are nothing but useless. All of them...

Know this and know peace

gbam

Lolz...one relation from the father side or mother side will be base abroad but will.not remember or have help those in Nigeria.

When I'm depressed, I will be talking to my self ...as in saying the situation to myself while and the same time encouraging myself. Because in this life ' It just you against the world, never stop encouraging nd motivating yourself.'

Op, I you didn't 'mess up' by beating small sense into her. You mess up when you agreed to marry a stubborn, aggressive, disrespectful, annoying, nagging and arrogant woman.

What you learn now, is how to cope with her..

E don dey be like Yoruba film o

lessonotes:
Make una just dey tell them the truth. Oyinbo no get wahala. Dem no like wayo wayo; their way free; that's why they easily fall into relationship traps. Tell them as is and they'll easily understand.

why can't you love like them....it not every guy out there that is bad youknow.

Na Demons dey use this one so.

I no fit laugh again.... Op abeg no kill me

Following

Op, for even contemplating accepting her Back chai.....make I no talk hmm...bcus them fit barn me.

Life,time/ era if social media. No more secrete.

Op let her tell her parent....you're not her husband yet na for crying out loud... Even if you were, its will be hard to succeed in life with this are lifestyle.


All the best man, God bless you and your wife to be.

Stephen2324:
It’s really funny how a girl can reject you and expect you to keep trying like you don’t have what to do.

just like one girl that came to stay for time in her elder bro place...so I have known her before she came to stay. Due to the closeness of her place and mine We started seeing each other often. I let know I like her and all the toasting stuff na. But her own shakara planty....she came to my house one day and was forming sleepy...she lay on the chair, place her head on my lap, I seize the opportunity caress are body up to her butt....this girl still dey form sleep o...imagine

fineberry:
why you say e no fit happen na...show/tell me what is new under the sun.

op my advice for you abi na your friend is to bleep that bitch and make her cry by dumping are silly ass like a pack of cards.

Powerbandoo:
You and your made up story na idiot

why you say e no fit happen na...show/tell me what is new under the sun.

Knowing yourself very very well will go a long way to assist in getting partner u want. There are diverse character, behavior out there, but if you don't know what you want e go hard.

LutherSanchez:
Women never wants you to need them only to want them. The moment your want becomes need,they no longer wants you

hmmm

TOPMAN4LIFE:
Nowadays, many prank videos are made to disparage Christianity
Prank videos where a man acting as pastor bathing some women and annointing their veejay under camera.
And many ignorantly believe

I have the video on my phone set lolzz

I see sense in this...I for one, I hate whining...don't whine me o, I fit change for you kpata-kpata we no go relate again

vastolord4:
Good business man.. he could resell for £400,000 cos it's a Ferrari and rich whites spend money like ritualists

I tell you...most especially those Saudi billionaires. They will love to acquire the car knowing its already have a story attached to it.

pansophist:
Your brother is the kind of men UyaiIncomparabl want us to be, according to her, not tolerating rubbish from women makes a man bitter. The more docile and allowing for girls to take you as a caricature, the real of a man you are in her book. Later they say good men are scarce, when they can't even look at their behaviours.

The problem is not her, it's your brother. He is attacking the problem externally (her behaviour), instead of the internally (his character). He is docile and too meek. Thats where he needs to attack the problem from because even if he got rid of her, another woman who sense the weakness in him will come and repeat the same thing. Other men will use him as well. He will be everyone's beach.

There are men she won't try that nonsense with, because after her proper assessment of his character, she knows intimately well that such behaviour won't fly with him. For her to have the audacity to refuse to leave a house she didn't pay for, a man that is not married to her and dont want to marry her, a man she has no kids for, and even disrespect him and his family, is a different level of liver.

How did he end up with such a girl in the first place? It's easier not to allow someone into your life, than chasing them. Because even after breakup, they leave you with emotional scars, waste your time and money, knows your secret etc. The world is richly populated by wicked people, but your character protects your from them. Attack the problem from this level.

IThis world is not for the weak, and if women sense it, you're gone. You go suffer for nothing. Ending things peacefully is what you use for people that have sense, not a agbero like her. He should give her a deadline and if she didn't leave by then, throw her out. Simple. You don't negotiate your peace with someone that peace is not an option.

Your brother should learn that as a man, being kind should not be the only "mode of being" used to navigate the world with. Being kind should be just an option in his collection of behaviours. If the person you're dealing with is reasonable, then you employ reasoning. If not, then you give it to them in the language they understand.

you have said it all....Op's brother is a weakling and he will suffer it if he doesn't change.

Op I can relate.... I feel moderation is just the thing here.


Even the Holy Bible say " there is time for everything under heaven.read Eccl 3 if you be christian ( there is a time to talk and a time to keep quiet) time to.joke and time to be serious. Etc

Bleep to death.

The yanch be like 'Don Kunu' wet dem rap for dried maize back

So fake na, its glaring.

That's why to just have sex any how they fear me.....