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Glory to God.

Am not a party person but I think Wine has a point here,you can't through mountain and cross valley to help a candidate of your party to campaign and later that person will just defect it's bad.

Let call a spade a spade.

Totilopussylick:
I pray his head is still intact

South West i don't trust them

I say big amen to this.

So many back and forth for this thread...hahaha....it is well o. Of I have the chance to leave 9ja I won't think twice.

Is not coat na #50 for.one. better still you could have just make it your self.....that is, if you won't turn it to balls of charcoal instead if balls of akara

MufasaLion:
No human have the power to kill other human. Don't be decieved.

Really >: so which continent are you from? Let me first ask.

If you're not continuing just tell us na, e no be by force to continue o.

MadeINchenzen2:
That's because you have a brain for nothing

see as everyone dey bash you because you no get sense........what does age has to do with who you love or who love you, ode guy.

Op you're senseless honestly, I red through I couldn't make a single sense out of your write up. Sigh

BSsniffer:
Typical Nigerian 90s youth still living with his parents. Learn to knock and if you're still living with your parents you probably need to start planning to get your place and give your folks the freedom they deserve.

Out of all on ground now, "it is for Op to move out"that you can say.

Do you know if he can't just move out because he can't just afford it nw,
Whether he still schooling and so still need to be home or whether his been home has some health related cause. So many reasons can be responsible.

Very simple lifestyle, free from celeb controversy. Hbd ma'am

What a way to die,Amos paid 5k to die. Op your loyal followers are waiting o. Thanks for the great job man, you valid.

bestman09:
VALUE ADDING WIFE (VAW)

Many think that Jacob loved Rachael because she was beautiful....Noooooooo! Beauty only attracts a man to a woman but what determines his true love for a woman goes beyond beauty. *Rachael was not just beautiful, she was also industrious per excellence!*

Why do we have a lot of beautiful ladies today yet no husband? Because beauty without value and virtue is like a smoke. What impressed and attracted Jacob to Rachael was her industriousness.

While her brothers and elder sister Leah were at home, Rachael singlehandedly brought her father's flock to the well to give them drink. That was where Jacob met her for the first time. "No sensible man can resist a woman who is beautiful and industrious".
What would have made a man worked for seven years for the woman he loved and yet felt like he just worked for seven days? ........ Value!

My man doesn't respect me, it's because you are not a Value-Adding-Woman (VAW).

Do you realize that Jacob did not pay Leah's bride price? They gave him Leah as bonus. Because she has no value. This was why Jacob had no respect for her and her children, hence he set them as first entourage when he was going to meet his angry brother.

If you force yourself on a man, he may never respect you. If he got you cheaply, he will never respect you. If you are not adding value to his life, he will never respect you.

Even after marriage, Leah had to be begging and buying the attention of her own husband while on the other hand, Rachael was practically *in control of Jacob, no be jazz oooo, it's Value!

Rachael was a shepherd in the midst of her siblings, a profession meant for men. She was in control of her father's business. This was what glued Jacob to her.

Gen 29:9_Jacob was still talking with them when Rachel arrived with her father’s flock, for she was a shepherd.

How can boys be in the house and a girl (last daughter of the house for that matter) be the one to tend her father's flock and family business? Industriousness!

After Jacob slept with Leah, he still went for Rachael. Sex don't keep a man, value does.

Leah had 5 children, Rachael had none, yet Jacob still loved Rachael more than Leah. Having children is good but adding value is better.

Don't ever think you can pin a man down with children. If you like give him a nation, if you are not adding value to his life, he will walk away someday.

I'm passionately pleading with our parents not to raise their daughters in a way they will become a liability to a man.

Make your daughter a shepherd before her Jacob arrives. Give her a source of livelihood before marriage. If you want her husband to respect her, inculcate in her, great morals and values, give her quality education and hopeful future. Don't train her merely because of the bride price you want to collect on her head.

Laban wasted the bride price he took for his daughter. But he lived on the flock kept by his daughter even after she was married out.

This is why many men fall for their ugly hardworking housemaids than their beautiful but lazy house wife.

We indirectly train our housemaids to be industrious while we train our daughters to be lazy and dependent. Whatever you invest in your daughter today, the future will tell.....!

Be a Value-Adding-Woman and your man will respect you for life.

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this is a sermon that befit a typical youth convention/conference. You made a thousand and one sense in this write up. God bless you boss.

Labour during child birth no easy o........Oyin and you were just 17 omo you don see for your life. When I was 17 I never bleep o but I don.press breast normal normal

FlowerGirl040:
The thing weak me. As in I don't just get. Such irresponsible mother.

Smile......you sound so irritate hahaha. parents like that abound.

FlowerGirl040:
Infact I am still shocked and surprised at Ese's mother. See how she trained her daughter. Small girl having sex and got pregnant,yet she's happy.

I think say an only me dey reason ham o. Even a dog will likely train her offspring in a more responsible way. .....knowing that this story is not a fiction just dey surprise me wallahi.

Farfalla:
You seem balanced.

And that aspect about not caring whether people like you or not, it's called self-actualization. Kudos! You're one of the few self-assured people out there!

thank you.

[b][/b]Op come drop update na, we're waiting

Bro forget that lady. At least you've bleep are before

Oyin thanks for the update jare you try. I no encourage any to.do cult o wallahi

Op come do normal na, we dey wait o

Some parent are just like Ese's parent, they condone anything, friends can come around sleep pass the night, carry ashi come house.....just anything goes.

Too bad, your son for God sake.

Ryda:
I do reason this scripture sometimes.

I'll rather He prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies than my friends.

E get why abeg!

this picture you added is a course mate of mine o loool......do you know the guy? Just asking o, bcus if you do, I might know you

This life no balance ajeh.....Rip

Farfalla:
Introverts have friends. We only have deep and meaningful friendships though, most of which last for a lifetime. Some of our friends are extroverts, some introverted like ourselves.

You have to be worth it though. We sense negative energy very quickly and we'll avoid it by all means necessary. We tend to avoid toxic people (who we can easily detect) and that can be construed to mean we're antisocial and unfriendly.

We can make friends easily but only with people who respect boundaries. Introverts thrive well within their own boundaries. You cross it, you're a goner.

its just like you're describing me. But I still feel an an extrovert, because I can really be playful if I want to and can be stern and harsh if I want to. I make friends easy and I don't care whether you care about me or not.

Many attributes here n there jare

Mercychen:
That is why they are always looking for a working class lady who can bring to the table so they can continue gambling and spending their own money recklessly. You better dump his ass.

You don't need to go through all that stress of divorcing him because that will drain you mentally and physically except you plan to remarry which is not advisable as most of them are the same. So, just secretly get a place for yourself and unborn child and leave him without warning, before you lose your sanity.

When he's ready to leave the singlehood lifestyle and become a responsible husband, he can come for his family. Otherwise, forget about him. Life is too sweet to let one person keep you in sorrow all the days of your life.

Marriage is overhypped, especially in this generation of overgrown babies in men's skin.

Modified.

I'm ashamed of all the men attacking me for saying the truth. Anyways I'm not surprised. The truth is always bitter and a hard pill to swallow.

You want her to stay with a grown up man who lacks common sense to do the right thing just so she can answer married. What the heck do you men think you are?

I blame the women that hold some of you in high esteem; making you feel like something when in fact all that is left of the male folk is nothing but a bunch of lazy leeches.

My joy is that, there are still a few, and i mean, very few men who have sense.

sister I understand where you're reasoning this matter from, I do believe me.

First of, op has made the mistake of not knowing who she was getting married to very well..... Secondly , non of us human has that total ( All good quality) we would like our partner to possess. Op I feel is just too soon to start complaining , marriage is never easy wallahi ajeh.

What I think you should do is to seat your man down and talk to him, at least exorst all option to get him to his right senses before you're considering devouse. I sincerely wish you all the best.

chukwuibuipob:
conFUSED pipu with their conFUSED Nollywood story.

most you takes people's challenges for a joke like it is framed up. Common grow abegi

Nobody should discourage op na , abeg make update no tey o. Ose

This life is a battle no doubt, if you're not rugged and tough you might just want to chicken out. Rip mah nigger.

Oyinmiebiagric:
I went to see Ese that morning, I bought a Teddy bear for her,she was excited to see that I cared for her.

Ese: I never knew I could love someone the way I love you,I thought you will get me pregnant before you go, but there are still other time. She was emotional, I was emotional also,I don't know if I love Ese or what,but I know I care for her,regardless of what she and her mother did. She gave me a necklace and told me to always wear it,that it a symbol of our love and it will protect me.

Me: Ese, where do you have money to buy gold necklace from,hope you did not steal your mother's money to buy it?

Ese: Where else will i get money from if not my mom,i told her i want to buy something for you. If I don't buy gold, it will wash,but since its gold,please keep it for your life. She was doing as If I won't see her again,for the first time since I knew Ese, she refused to have sex with me,she wasn't on her cycle, she said she was not in the mood,give me Mouth Action,No,kiss me, No. She just hugged me told me to go,and when I come back,she would be here waiting for me.

Me: My heart was melted that day,if I was seeing the future I won't have left Lagos. As she was walking me down, we met Ajiri on the way,its been a while I saw him.

Ajiri: I hear say you dey go school today,you no say make you come dey with me make I give you small O.T wey you go use make you fit graduate for school. No go do wrong thing for there,anyway I trust Ebi, you no fit do that kind thing. Safe journey, dey come back come see your wife sha.

I got home my mom was back,she was angry I wasn't sleeping but walking around. Ifeoma stayed with me, each time she remember I'll be leaving her she'll start crying, as i am leaving there is no way I can communicate with her till I come back,same way with her.

Time to leave,my mom gave me five thousand, she said she will send the other money to my sister, she doesn't want me moving with cash. Ebi drove Ifeoma and I to the park,she was just crying as if I no go come back. We got to the park by five,but the bus didn't leave till about seven. I gave Ifeoma the five thousand my mom gave me,she wanted to refuse it,but I persuaded her that I have enough. Ebi later gave me two thousand. I boarded the bus and I could see her crying.

The reason I did not alight from that bus that day to be with the love of my life, is one of the biggest regret I have in life.

I sat there watching Ebi console her inside the car and they drove off. Enugu here I come. The second chapter of my life begins here.

Very emotional i must say. I can relate perfectly with this

In this life I can say I have been loved not one,not two time. My experience plenty o lol.