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if a guy says lets have a drink it means he is slightly interested and would like to get to know u better. but if a teacher tells u lets have a drink it means he is very interested and would like to get to know u better, problem is its a huge stigma here. something that is frowned upon,so if he is asking u then he definately does not care about rules, and best u stay away from him.

zule zoo

i dont remember the song's name but the light skinned one is very very sexy

u know after going back and readin the begining of the thread adn all the replies, i have come to the conclusion taht u are a slowpoke.  @ poster.  talking about hte girl is a good girl, oh boy she bleeped u when she knew u were with a girlfreind, decided not to use a condom so that she would get pregnant. finally did get pregnant and refused to abort, and now is forcing u to marry her.  that girls is a devil in disguise, u don't know these nigerian women, please don't let her smiles and cries fool u, people cheat all the time but don't get pregnant, so y her.  THat girl is evil and once u two marry if u decide to change your mind, i mean after all (she is a nice person) *rolls eyes sarcastically*  her true colors will come out and then u will see what she is truly made off. 

pathetic, she slept with u when u had a girlfreind, that speaks poorly, really really poorly of her, adn she is a Nairaland user, well i hope she reads this, and it shames her.  That chick needs to be shamed into feeling guilty for what she did, that is the only reason y i'm judging her soo harshly.  I still think u should tell her to mess off. she is a thief

ANd i pray that the next time u stick your privates where it doesnt belong it gets bitten off   u derseve every pain, guilt and insults that is coming your way

DUDE


dont listen to these lame advices, if u marry that girl u will resent her and hate her everyday u wake up and see her face on ur pillow. u wont love her enough, and wont buy her beautiful things. Worse as ur kids grow up htey will notice that daddy does not care for mommy, adn they could grow to resent u too. Everyone makes mistakes, but u should never ever go into marriage becaue some chick got pregnant for u. Imagine if she was a one night stand, would u still marry her. O boy u are just caving because the families know each other. tell her welcome to the life of single mother hood, people before her in nigeria have done it and people after her will. Be a great father to the kid, buy the kids stuff, and bring them over to your house when it is ur scheduled time but dont marry the broad. U WILL REGRET IT.

the person above me has a point, yeah your girlfriend might leave u emphasis on MIGHT.  

But check this out, u are a girl, and u are dating a boy, he says he loves u, then sleeps with his good female friend.  She gets pregnant for him, but yet he tells her to go to hell, that he made a mistake and wont leave u even for his baby mama.  Now if that is not love and committment i don't know what is.  look if your girlfriend is smart she wont leave, but of course she migh tneed to know what your plans for the future will be concerning marriage and all

OH and plus stop feeling bad for your stupid female friend after all she is the slowpoke who got pregnant.  stupid girls don't know that they should carry condom around if they are having sex.  girls can be such stupid, morornic assholes.  I MEAN FOR GOODNESS SAKE, of course men like to have sex without condoms, i mean by now we have already establish taht fact since the 1600 BC.  it's not like they are the ones getting pregnant, so they don't care whether they use condoms or not.  it is the woman's responsibility to make sure he has one or better carry it in your purse and stop making stupid faces when u get pregnant, like she wasnt the one that spread her likes kai. SO guys should stop feeling bad for girls that let themselves get pregnant.  If anything worry more about the STDs u might have contracted. IF SHE COULD HAVE UNPROTECTED SEX WITH U SHE COULD HAVE DONE IT WITH SOMEONE ELSE.

Jazzy Phizzle

let me give u advice from a woman who has dated adn is currently dating a man that women lust after constantly.  When a woman loves u, tha tis the best gift u can ever have.   IF UR GIRLFREIND LOVES You LIKE You MENTIONED, DONT WORRY SHE WONT LEAVE You, BUT You MUST NOT MARRY THAT IDIOT You CALL A FREIND WHO PROBABLY GOT PREGNANT FOR SOMEONE ELSE.  THIS MIGH TBE A MEAN ADVICE BUT START TREATING HER LIKE TRASH, JUST TO LET HER KNOW THAT IF You MARRY HER UR BEHAVIOR TOWARDS HER IS ONLY GOING TO KEEP GETTING WORSE AND WORSE. LET HER KNOW THAT IF You MARRY HER You WILL CHEAT ON HER, NOT RESPECT HER, AND ACT LIKE You ARE STILL SINGLE, You WILL MAKE HER CRY EVERY NIGHT SO THAT SHE WILL REGRET EVER PUTTING You IN THIS SITUATION.  PLUS WHILE You ARE IN HER PRESENCE FLIRT WITH OTHER GIRLS, AND MAKE HER LOOK BAD.  ALSO TELL EVERYONE You CAN WHAT A SLUT SHE IS, OH BOY CLEARLY You ARE A NICE GUY BECAUSE IF I WERE IN YOUR SHOES, THAT GIRL WOULD HATE MY GUTS.

NOW ON A NICER NOTE, JUST TELL UR GIRLFREIND AND REFUSE TO MARRY YOUR FRIEND, I MEAN AFTER ALL MANY PEOPLE IN NIGERIA NOW ARE HAVING KIDS WITHOUT HUSBANDS, AT LEAST THE DUMB ONES ARE.  ADN IF THAT DOES NOT WORK, TELL HER FAMILY THAT You WILL MAKE HER LIFE MISERABLE, AND THAT MARRYING HER WONT SAVE FACE, EVERYONE WOULD KNOW THAT SHE SLEPT WITH You ADN GOT PREGNANT WAY BEFORE You TWO GOT MARRIED, SO SHE WILL BE THE LAUGHING STOCK OF EVERYONE THAT KNOWS HER.

OK FINAL ADVICE.    TELL HER TO Bleep OFF.  AND THAT THOUGH You APOLOGIZE FOR THE MISTAKE IN HER BELLY WHICH THE AUTHENTICITY IS NOT PURELY VALID.  You WOULD MARRY HER IF You WERE GIVEN A MILLION DOLLARS AND THAT You LOVE UR GIRLFRIEND, AND THAT IF FOR SOME REASON You END UP MARRYING HER, SHE WILL ALWAYS BE SECOND TO UR GIRLFRIEND, UR MISTRESSES, UR DOG, UR CAR, UR JOB, UR ONE NIGHT STANDS, AND UR SHIT.

@ basetsana


u are willing to give him ur innocence. hmmmm, u are a bigger FOOL than I thought.
So u sleep with him, lol he still wont be interested in u. women treat sex and kids like men treat money. they think oh maybe if we have sex or i get pregnant for him things will change,but they wont. Just like how when a guy is toasting u and buying u all that stuff, if u are not into him u just aren't full stop.

Well let me tell u something, it is better to like him and him not notice u, and sleep with him, and still not be noticed by him. The only way this will change is if he gets attracted to u, which clearly is not taking place. Also u still have not mentioned if he has a girlfriend or not, because if he does, then u are definately the laughing stock of their conversation. Plus he might be interested in another girl, well goodluck with ur toasting or lusting. i really dont wish u the best in this situation because u have gotten enough advice from people. HOnestly girls like u really really piss me off, but guys like u are worse. If i was the guy i would curse u out and tell u to Bleep off if u came near me again. Geez do u know how annoying it is when someone likes u and u just arent into the person, its quite irritating, and i feel his pain.

ok lady

stop listening to all those lies, if hte guy doesnt like u he doesnt like u period. all those analogies about cream, and flies and shadows are useless fibs chicks tell themselves to believe that he will be interested someday. Clearly he is not feeling u so drop it. Or do u want to become one of those girls that chase other girl's boyfriends around because of ur delusion. So stop making a fool of urself and let this one go, for all u know he is probably laughing with his friends and maybe current girlfriend about this, pick up what ever is left of ur pride and walk away.

loser

any guy that dumps this girl deserves to be shot, hten run over with a bulldozer 15 times

driving with the AC on on the highway takes less gas than using the AC while on the city streets, so i would advice u to turn it on once u get on the highway. i personally believe its a luxury one can afford to have

sp basetanna


u are a LOSER, YEP THAT IS WHAT LOSERS DO. GIRLS LIKE U PISS ME OFF, GROW SOME PRIDE ADN GET OVER UR SELF. u will end up chasing a lover who u will never have and end up all alone when those other guys have found other babes. Also how do u know he doesnt have the heart for someone else. Stop being a homewrecker and buy yourself a clue.

chief one

pls copy and paste the music. now i know why naija movies have the dumbest most stupid soundtracks i have ever heard. Also whatever u do get a girl tha thas a nice voice, not some chick that is screaming at a high tune trying to fool everyone that she can sing.

i hope it works out for them, with all the economic hardship they seem to be doing better than nigeria in many aspects, especially when it comes to running a country. I pray that their success will be a learning tool for those idiots that are called politicians in nigeria.

WOW ALL 8 OF U heheheheheheheh

just because we can all sing in the shower doesnt mean that we should sing out of the shower. that girl sucks and her voice is horrible. It is an insult to people who actually have nice voices. Gosh, let me not even start on Genevieve that one chai. JUST USELESS

so a thread about ramsey noah's wife yet no pics, please let's end this

were those people high when they signed that contract with him

that is why u do it and make sure he never finds out, men are sooooooooooo naive these days sef.

for some reason i really dislike this group i dont know y. thier songs are stupid and their dance moves really really lame. their songs are only good when tehy collaborate with someone like timbaland, or when the lead singer sings with other people .

try dating when u are 30 again, hopefully it will be a lot less complicated then

rachiwise

its possible hommie, u can definately love more than one person, heck even three. u will jus tlove them differently. like say a person is dating two guys, she migh tlove the way the first guy acts but she might love the way the second one thinks.

clearly im referring to the chick who started this trend. Dont throw stones in glass houses girly

operation shake n slap, works every time

did he add weight

well if u ever get over your madness for him, tell him that he will regret being with this woman. i mean for goodness saked the marriage already has a rocky start. he will only suffer heartache adn pain in the future if he isnot careful

lololololol, u have already started cheating. And what happens tomorrow if u meet someone else that u find attractive, u cant keep jumping from one persont to the other. so put those stupid feelings aside, i know a lot of guys i find attractive and i know feel the same but i dont ever think or try and put extra efforts into impressing them.

it is very possible to love two people at the same time. trust mee it is very very possible. its not the smart thing to do but it happens all the time,

problem number one, u are too young to have had 3 heart breaks. what they hell are u doing, dating girl after girl after girl, or did u just date all three of them at once