DNSPro:


To be honest, me I Don tire to dey address this un "vexation" over 60k

DNSPro:
Recently,

I discovered that a lot of Nairalander men have been wailing about their sour relationships with Nigerian girls and it is not surprising to me.

You would be foolish if you do not have a backup when dating a Nigerian girl and I do not say this because I am a flirt or womanizer, at least I can boast that girls I have dated is laughably very very very low in comparison to what is obtainable out there.

It is no news that most Nigerian girls are unstable mentally and emotionally.

For the ones who lamented about money they spent or how they almost went bankrupt, I am not surprised about one not let other guys bully you as if they never fell "mugu" to any Nigerian girl.

However, you will run into problems when start treating them like wife instead just a girlfriend. This is were we make mistakes.

Early this year, I was chatting with my girl and before I know what's up, her whatsapp line became inactive. This was surprising to me and I called her immediately to know whether she blocked me to which she said why would she block me. I told her to check and she said she will cos she was charging her phone. Next morning it was still same thing so I kept calling because I thought maybe the phone had been stolen.

I didn't think she blocked me. Why would I? Eventually, she picked the call and told me she checked but the whatsapp is not on her phone and some other things were wiped off. I believed this because he had been complaining about the phone for which I sent her money to fix it prior to this.

Anyway, I didn't bother about it after while and I stopped asking and just kept communications on normal calls, at least she didn't block me there and that didn't give me any reason to suspect I was blocked. I also didn't want to seem like a pest if prop further (you know how Nigerian girls react when you do)

So last month, I was calling her and when I do, she would cut the call. This was unusual to me. She did this for almost a week until I reached out to her friend in order to know what was happening. The friend let me know that the mum's health is bad. Her friend sent me pictures of the mums condition and it was an eyesore.

I know my girl(I may not be her guy lol) to be one who does not like bugging you with her problem but why would her friend know this and I do not? I thought about this for some seconds and waved it off. I probed the friend further to know the expenses and the friend told me about 300k is needed. I wanted to sent 100k but for some weird reasons, I sent 60k with a plan to send 40k after a while. At least that will help start something.

few days after that, I noticed that the friend was getting response from her faster and relaying them to me on whatsapp since when I called she does not pick. I had to ask the friend if she is communicating with my girl (I may not be her guy lol) on whatsapp and the friend said yes, she is. I said okay.

Thereafter, my girl (I may not be her guy lol) called me, probably to thank me for the money, but I missed it so she left a text message. She told her friend that she called but I didn't pick and wondered whether I was angry. The friend messaged me in the morning and queried why I didn't pick the call or whether I am still angry. I told the friend I missed it because the phone was not with me and that I am not angry.

So this is where it got interesting...

last week, the friend upload a picture that looks like one from my girl's status wishing her happy birthday and today the friend uploaded another thanking my girl (I may not be her guy lol) for the cake.

At this stage, I was wondering whether I did anything wrong that made this girl not give me her "new" whatsapp number because that was what I thought. I looked at the status of her friend again, saw old pictures of both of them and concluded it is impossible to have new phone and still have this old pictures that were stored in an old phone.

I called her today after that and asked her whether there is any reason for not giving me her "new whatsapp number. That was all I asked and she went defensive and aggressive, saying am I not aware of what happened to her phone blah blah.. same phone I gave her money to fix? Was she expecting me to bring out another money to fix it again? She ended by saying she is not ready for this talk and that we talk about this later.

I said I know but it is just a question. She refused to answer a simple question. I told the friend her reaction when I asked and guess what the friend did? She tried to blackmail me like Nigerian girls do and said my girl is trying to make me understand something and that women like to be listened to all the time. That I should listen instead of reacting. I smiled and within me, I said this one think I am a JJC. What she meant is that I didnt do anything about my girl's phone and that is what she (my girl is reacting to ). WTF?

So, I installed whatsapp on a new line to check her status. Lo and Behold, the profile is active, which means I was blocked all along. I didn't waste time to let the friend know my findings that I was blocked. Same friend only replied "it is well"

Well, I went back to the new whatsapp line and told her I am aware she blocked me and it is good. At least I now know I was blocked instead of assuming

I am not so pained though because when dealing with a Nigerian girl, I have learned to always have backup... we move!

Jokerman:
All these flops.

Only icardi, bellerin and Thiago are worthy

MrPaul2:


What are you saying, because everybody is doing it, do it make it right, when naira is equal to zero against dollars?
Is it not yesterday we just received over $300m dollars from Abacha loot?
What's the hope for common man?

YorubaKinging:
Nothing is going to be the same

The so called " Antichrist" will announce In few days a global initiative of the post "coronaVirus Era"

He will also tell you how the only way to win this "war" is by vaccine

His name is Emmanuel Macron

Righteousness89:
The Trump Deal is the same Deal the anti christ will use to confuse the Earth After the saints are Raptured!


Everything is falling in place

The Sky cracks Open,and JESUS takes his people away

Anti christ comes on stage , claiming all is well and some Aliens abducted those of us who have left..

Creates some fake peace with Isreal using this Trump deal

Calls for People to take the identification mark 666

Breaks the peace deal with Isreal,

Great Tribulation begins..

Time is ticking !!!

There is no other Peace plan..

This is the only plan Isreal has agreed to full time..

Prepare to Meet JESUS!

Don't be left behind

There is no other way Except by Accepting JESUS CHRIST

The Sky Could Crack open at a just Any Moment!

calmG:
That woman is a legend... Burna boy is just starting...
indomie Generation will not understand

#Wombo lombo wombo lombo
Most of us sang this song but Never knew it was Angelique kidjo

coputa:
Only jnumber 3 is a serious issue here,one can live with the rest.

Frankyboy1:
The headline is not inline with the article! You can not preserve the spirit of man, so you can never guarantee immortality, na there God use senior man, d day humans can ensure immortality, then they have given credence to atheism, and validate their claim!

Tammynator:
Inmessage no dey again. The app died so fast.

majamajic:
from a small city that her country begged Nigeria for loan some 40 yrs ago

Nigeria told them , nothing good will come out from these deserts, how do u wan pay back ?

in 2018 alone 15 million Nigerians went to Dubai for sight seeing, to do business , seek for jobs and to give births

last week about 1500 Nigerian celebrities and about 500 up coming celebrities spent their weekend in Dubai

learn how to help , we don't know tomorrow !!

tillaman:
Dubai keeps making headlines for nothing other than wonder achievements, sometimes I wonder if they don’t record road accidents or serial killer on a killing spree abi, I have never read anything awful about them atleast not that I can remember, or may be they don’t just broadcast their woes, I really hope Our Nigeria gets better too, to think that 15 million Nigerians have trooped in to Dubai for different reasons all which will help their economy one way or the other!!
S/O to the Dubai peeps

kleverley:


Thanks
though it's not in my private part I experience the itching

ahmEenu:
I am currently facing same thing. I can't even stay in class for more than 10 minutes cause of the itching, I've been to the school clinic more than thrice, the doctors told me I'm suffering from reaction of something which I'm sure it's not what's happening.

bummyla:
Last year my 19 year old son had it, we ran several tests, the doctor said it was a bacterial infection. He took about 8 injections, some blue liquid to bath with twice daily, and some ointment to rub all over his body as well. He always sleeps in my room! At night then he will be crying and scratching all over his body. My son that hardy dress up in front his Dad, would strip himself naked, as he scratched and cried, but in the morning he will be okay, he said while in school, it will come again, h would run into their toilet to rub the ointment.

https://www.bummyla.com

dubra:
Mine has been so severe to the extent that I now have a permanent brush at home just for it, for years now, every evening, though there no visible effects on any part of my body but my people when this itching starts eehn it ll like witchcraft is pursuing you ooo and the worst is the sweetness, just like you as you are about to come on top woman

AcetylLily:
My househelp complain ed about this itching and have done series of test including HIV but nothing was detected she said it itches her badly and it brings out water and blood sometimes it’s majorly on her back and hand and neck I don’t understand this skin disease oooo biko need help and again how do I make sure another someone doesn’t can contact it biko help

dubra:
, pls I need same advice bro, this my WhatsApp number 08085508012, hoping to hear from you

Brightest04:
Yes! This is very real and true,infact it's happening in my familiar right now.Some guys visited us a couple of weeks back and they have this sickness and when they left we're all experiencing it,I don't know what to do.We've visited the hospital upon all the whole drugs it 's still there.

KushLyon:

The early stage is usually sweet as you scratch the itch..... But later it will become a nightmare when your private part have gotten multiple wound and starts bring out water and pus

Inehmesit:
Everyone talking about Benzylbenzoate like... That lotion is really hard on the penis, and the balls area, I'm presenting suffering from scabies too, each time I use the Benzylbenzoate on my laps and a little of it touches my balls, it's as if someone poured acid on my balls, or maybe there is a milder one you guys are buying, you guys could take a pic and post here, so we see. This scabies no funny at all, I just want to do away with it abeg.

kleverley:
honestly,this is a very serious issue
whenever I sweat or take my bath, this terrible itching starts its so annoying that one can even let out a cry

really need help

coolxpaul:
Am experiencin xame thing here.D itchin becums pronounce wen av sweat a lot,and dies down gradually after bath.D medicationhelped subside it buh it makes me dizzy xo I stop takin dem.I feel d itchin is relative 2 d hot weather
My 2kobo

fairfora:
This is a serious matter. I have a cousin who always complains of itches in her private part. She came visiting us the other day and she was scratching her private part so much that she's opening up her legs wide apart. It happens only when she feels severe heat around that place. She said the more she scratehes it, the more it sweetens her

Shes been to hospitals, run series of tests. But nothing could be said to he happening to her. The doctor only said she's reacting to something. Shes still on medication as I speak. She's not the wayward type and she doesn't mess around from what I have studied so far about her. Her husband was forced to run series of tests too and nothing threatening was found.

derrick015:
Good day.

I really need a personality change. I am always depressed when I find my mates doing what I want to do.

I struggle in a lot of things I find myself doing. At work (contrastingly a customer care agent) I am really struggling and I have been warned several times to sit up but I still struggle.

Some of my weakness are.

inarticulate speaking

Not been assertive

lack of confidence ( my voice and body shake when I talk)

I can't communicate well in my local language (this is because of my upbringing) it doesn't sound right in my month.


I don't have real friends!



I have tried alot of things. somebody recommended the usage of drugs (tramadol), alcohol or smoke. But I don't want to try them.

I have posted on this issue with more than 10 different accounts since the last 10 years of which one of it is aknopic.
And I have been reading and watching videos overcoming shyness for more that 10 years now but it seems things still get worst



Please help

pardon any blunder