good day house
I brought this here because this is one of the most active room, ok let go straight to the main issue. I finished my nysc 2018 and i meet my secondary school friend who owns a company, there is vacancy currently going on in his company and am thinking of applying. note that am working somewhere as a sale representative but i plan resigning next year because of how stressful my current job is.
so now i don't know if is just pride or not because my friend is someone i know everything about from is family, his Bleep up to all his girlfriend back then in secondary school an we do have some get together sometime and if i start working for him those closeness will have to cut off because he's now my boss.

I no d put my mouth for family issue

what business are u into, what challenges are u facing and what advice will u give to someone that want to go onto it

Notatribalist:
Sorry my brother. I went through same too..But it's the side effects that made me to stop,I mean I had no choice than to stop..See an,don't mind those that will tell you there is nothing wrong with masturbation..It took me many years before the side effects start..Till date I still suffer from most of the effects.If I dare masturbe today the next 4 to 5 days will be hell on earth for me..So my brother, the only way to stop is get married, otherwise the effects may stop you and it's not funny.

pls do u mind sharing ur side effects?

eating fast

MrHighSea:
wetin concern me na...

"save 60k within 2 months from 40k salary"

Guy, how?

rent, food, data, tp, the boys, cousins in university,

you better teach us.o

40k na basic salary but my insensive and other side hustle the raise am up... sometimes i no d even touch my basic salary self

JONNYSPUTE:
....Ask yourself why the females here are not commenting on your thread.?

The answer is because they won't even allow any of their brothers to do such rubbish.

Well,except you re doing it without any string attached.

hmm

JONNYSPUTE:
....Your parents are doing well and you re working in a place they pay you 40k a month? Smh.

When will fools learn to invest in theirsef first?

Your own simping is out of this world. Tueh.

Why not resign from your work place and put her there instead?

If you were in her shoes,can she do same for you?

am working because i don't want to sit at home demanding for money from my parents and I've invested on Forest trading...

Sha na me be Manager where i go put am there
and yes she has help me out when i had pending items at my work place...

falcon01:
I just read the Headline and skipped to the comment,
My brother Do Not I repeat Do not invest on any girl if she ain't your sister. haba with all the heart break stories wey you dey see and hear anyhow you dey ask this kind question.

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ok now I've read the Content, if you can throw the money away and won't feel anything at all, go ahead and do it else don't because it wont end well, besides you know her better than us and since you are contemplating, that means she hasn't reached the worth of you doing that for her so Don't.

I think she is worth it just that I've never spend big on a girl before.

4ckz:


I didn't read all that, I no get time, but don't ever invest on any lady that you ain't married to, especially as a struggling man.

Unless you have enough to waste, because you should truly see it as waste not investment.

strong words

Cutehector:
Don't you just have a mother or sister?

my parents are doing well, dad is even taking care of his brothers children. my sister's are all married. the only thing my parents need from me is my love and present not money

My girlfriend is very good in sawing and she has always wanted to have a shop of her own where she can expand. She is still in school and supports her studies from the little sawing she does at home, the truth is she's very hard-working.

Should i take a risk and open a shop for her. I work and i earn 40k a month i can easily save up to 60k from now till January but am scared, I don't want to take a risk i will later regret in life.

Pls has any body faced this kind of situation before or heard of it and how was the outcome?

vickydevoka:

U see de only promising business I see dere is biscuit business. I tried pure water it didn't work bcus alot of people are into it. POS for where mobile bank everywhere.
Buh u see biscuit. I buy at de rate of 970 n sell 1k buh bro I de sell reach 50-100 cartoons a day.
Buh if school closes de market drops. Now I'm thinking going into indomie business

I dey interested for this biscuit business o...do u move with them by hand to supply or u have a car that u move around with to supply

Perfectsouth:
yeah he slept with her and she felt cheated according to her..

I was legally married to her, do you wish I become promiscuous?

1st born Sept 2
2nd Sept 28..
We are not living together, we stay in separate states and body no be firewood.

I am not a gum gum guy, from what I experienced in my family, I decided to stick to one woman to avoid my kids going through whatever I went through in life.

i hope say u d sleep with am with condom

livingchrist:

1. There is nothing like 'give your life to Jesus' in the bible because you have no life in the first place to give.
2. Regeneration is part of salvation not separate.

3.instead of maintaining righteousness by new birth rather new birth empowers you to live right with God.

4. Heaven is not what you make, but rather is the natural home for all that are saved when they die.
Infact the hope of every Christian is at the resurrection when christ comes for the church not after death.
Infact this gospel of living to make heaven after death is a strange gospel not founded on the bible, living a holy and a righteous life can not get you a ticket to heaven. The gospel is simple, every one was born dead in sin, there is nothing anyone can do to save themselves, not the most holy and righteous life can, for they all filthy rag before God but we must all believe on Jesus christ and his sacrifice for us to get salvation and salvation in its entirety, works of righteousness after salvation gives you reward in the kingdom.

Lastly, study to show yourself approved a work man that need not to be ashamed but rightly dividing the word of truth.

I wonder y people think they can play a role in their salvation

Ozmar:
People easily hurt me cause they know, most times, I laugh it off. I can't even take a really tough decision!

"nature has vow not to help those who cannot help themselves"...u need to factory reset urself, learn from others that u admire and note " if u don't stand for something then u stand for nothing"... people don't take u serious because u don't have a stand. u like ball that they play up and down....
I have and assignment for u,( tell three people No tomorrow.)

lekki1444:
without the north we are dead. the south is overrated. north is the supplier of food

pls where is garri, plantain, palm oil, vegetables, fish gotten from? the North feed the South and the South feed the North... mutual benefit

TheCork:




Brother..our job as men is to giv women moiney & quit nagging like bus condoctor..pirrrriod. it dont make if women lie.. they need mouney, u giv them moiney. Our job is to protect gaddddddemit!!(real talk)

ur job not my job

TheCork:



...Brother being a man means being alpha mame...u either a man or man dressed as women...meaning u either a man or u choose to be gay. Women are supoose to be treated like queeens....
Sir, if u can afford women than u are free to wear womens cloths so guys can spend on u...QUIT MOANING I BEG!!!!!(no oofense)

u're not getting the point. most u come up with lies just to get money? now the guy ur asking of money, will u date him or u just want to chop and run!

Xristars:
it was making and answering calls, I dey sweat eh! But now its changing.

But I still get one wahala, I no fit toast babe. I have been babeless all my life, I just they use hustling cover up say I no get time. lolz

try making eye contact with everybody u are talking to and speak to them as if u are their superior...i been get that type of problem until i got my current marketing job, i had to learn how to speak, i became more bold....live is all about challenges u need to over come them or u will grow up regretting u never did...

united442:
o.p visit this link...

if you get sense,you will stop soupy, if you no get sense,CONTINUE..

https://www.menprovement.com/masturbation-addiction/

masturbation is 101% wrong, if you like twist the truth from left to right, bottom to top, what's wrong is wrong..

have you ever masturbated and after releasing,you give a joyful smile and celebrate your self? NOPE!

you will always feel that guilt,look's foolish,weak and frustrated.

read everything in that link and prove me wrong!

have been ignorantly doing it since i was in junior school, i did it for abt 9-11years, i stop last years, though, i cant actually remember the month again cux that's my pass life..

if you haven't beat up to that years i masturbated, dnt even bother quoting me back cux am not your mate..

that sh*it nearly ruled my life..

though have finally stop, am still feeling the after effect

bro i have masturbated for 13years... masturbating is the worst thing to ever happen to a man... am still feeling the after effect of masturbating (mode swing) although I have gone 2 month without masturbating but i just want to go back to the real me that was smart and fearless

Davash222:
You for kuku tell us to avoid girls entirely.

I taya o

Fact1:
You made top 10 among one of the most stupid soul I've seen in nairaland,,,,,,

If dis story is true,,,,,,,,,

How can you allow a total stranger to sleep beside you at the first instance,,,,?


What if she kill you,,,,shebi nah your gbola she hold,,,,,,


Despite the fact that you know your neighbor's lifestyle your brain suppose tell you say she will definitely be a prostitute,,,,,,,,

Thank god nothing happened to you,,,

But next time you don't allow a total stranger to sleep beside you,,


Aswear if you're beside me and you say this story i will slap you instantly because i don't entertain nonsense,,,,,

You gave your neighbor your room's key while you dey football house,,,,,jugbe yourself,, did you have sense,,?

What if they have planned something dangerous before your arrival,,,,,,

Op you need to walk with the wise set of people,,,,

It so sadden dat almost all this die hard football fans no get sense at all,,,,,,

Thank god nothing happens to you,,, if nah some idiots dem go think say nah opportunity to fvck pussy,,,,, the girl dat you didn't know where she is from,,,,

If nah me self,,, imma not allow her to sleep my house because I know the reason why she wanna sleep,,,i will give excuse to the other werey,,,,


Once again OP you're so stupid,,,,

Wise up my nigga,,,❤️❤️

that's y i hate loyalty, when u show to much respect to someone it becomes difficult to speak up ur mind...if na person where him consider inferior him for no gree but since him d look up to him neighbor as senior man to say NO hard am for mouth

am not surprised

Afamed:

Trump wannabe. He does not give a damn about your colour. He has said that openly in many fora

those Biden give a Bleep about urs

Explorers:

Please let me know when you know.

don't forget to share with me

I've have stayed away from masturbating for more than two weeks now and to be sincere my major challenge is fighting the withdrawal symptoms that comes with it....guys share how u where able to manage the withdrawal symptoms that comes with ur addiction

Ghost8889:
Many people are addicted to masturbating, I am addicted to it also...

The whole masturbation thing started when I was around 10, I felt like it's some kind of terrible sin or disease the first time that I did it — and I promised God to never repeat it again, but no matter how I try, It never worked ...

Now my problem is not only the masturbation stuff — but for the fact that I couldn't keep the promise I made to God...

I am so depressed now to the extent that if you are to give me a chance — I would choose to never been in existence

If you have stopped masturbating, please tell me how you did it , tell me what worked out for you please

read one of my topic on "how where u able to stop ur addiction" people shared some encouraging advice there

COOL10:
Laws like this will lead to the further emancipation of men.

Isaiah 4:1 approaches

lol... slowly that prophecy is coming to pass

as we await the new season some few days from now what the best betting site to pick accurate prediction from

Tillatalk:
I watched a YouTube video about it ever since then I still stated irritating me .. I cant believe for over 5months I haven't go back to it I'm just happy I overcome it

what the title of the video, I will like to watch also