Iykegodslove:
Good day everyone!! I am emotionally shattered as I type this message. I have been suspecting my wife for years now but no concrete evidence to confront her.

There is a boss of my mine who happens to be our family friend. Each time he calls my wife, she deletes the call history immediately. This has been happening for years but I keep quite because i love my wife and my children so much.

Of recent, i decided to know what is happening by hacking her call with him. Lo and behold, they are into deep relationship that my wife calls him baby. Infact, sleep has gone out of my eyes and am thinking of how to deal with the situation.

It should be noted that i am not working under the man in question only that we are church members and he has rendered countless of help to me. I am wondering what puts my wife into this mess. I am graduate but i decided not to work for anybody but to focus on my farming. I am doing well financially bcs i can boost of 500k or more every month. We are not lacking anything at all.

Please house ignore my typo and help with good advice.

Note: i dnt want to divorce my wife and am ready to forgive her bcs she has been of great help to my success and moreover, i love my family very well. What should i do to stop them?

Sabadon:


Do the math 15,000 divide a trillion dollars and one individual owning 251.3million dollars

Musk money long abeg forget it

Trimjos:
Same kogi we all know... These people re truly shameless and evil.

Yahaya Bello will go down as the worst governor in the history of Nigeria

victory36:
This one has started setting himself up and damaging his career himself. He should learn to let some things go.

Nonywendy:
I have been dating this my girl friend since 2017. She made me fall and believe in love, she ticked all the qualities I desire in a woman. When I we started dating she was in her 200L, and everything was going on smoothly. Now this is where the issue lies,
When she went for service in another state, I started noticing some changes, wen she comes back home during holidays I used to go through her phone.(note: she has access to my phone and I too).
So one of those period I realised she is seeing another guy in the state where she is serving. I confronted her and she opened up to me and confessed. I forgave her.

Then after like 4months again, I later noticed she is also seeing another guy different from the initial one I noticed, she denied that but I had to do my deep investigation and got an evidence, she opened up again, at this point I broke up with her and moved on. After like one month she came back begging for forgiveness, It took me time to heal and I forgave her.

Then this last one that broke the camel's back, I noticed she traveled to the state where she did her youth service for something and all this while I thought she was staying with her sister, not knowing she was staying with the first guy she dated while serving whch she apologised. She stayed with her for three good weeks. How I realized was, I called her line one early morning arnd 3am and a guy picked the call asking me who I am. At first, I froze cos I haven't been in that kind of situation, I calmed down and explained everything to the guy, and the guy also told me she has been with her for the past three weeks and that's the girl friend too. I was shocked. I have broken up with her finally cos I don't think forgiving a cheating partner is worth it.
The first time she cheated, 90% of my friends advised me to dump her ass and move on but I had to forgive on the basis of nobody is perfect, but this third time is a no no.
Now she has been begging and asking for forgiveness that she has really learnt her lessons. At this point I'm just so mad that I don't want to forgive her.
Now the big problem is that I'm always seeing her in my dream, I have not really moved on cos it's not easy for me. I have loved her for solid 6 yrs plus.
Note: all the family members from my side and her side are fully aware of our relationship and have approved but they are not aware that I have broken up. If you are my shoes will you forgive her for this very last time or will her cheating continues?
Your advise and suggestions will be well appreciated. Thank you

Jennyclay:
Mr Linus.

If you claim your girlfriend is doing well in her business and she want to expand by moving to a more expensive shop.. I don't see any reason why you should seek for people's validation.

Afterall, you took the first risk @ Dec 2020 and it's yield good results.. so why are you having doubts about taking another risk??

Yusufisraelj:


As long as there's spelt out responsibilities, roles and share allocation when it comes to revenue.

Personally I'll advise you only invest in her business and focus on yours, albeit provided there's a spelt out role the money will fill and the expected returns. Usually businesses built like the way you're pursuing to be a part of it doesn't really end up well, bkos largely you're not bringing any unique skill or leverage to the business neither do you have requisite competence on the value chain of the business. you're just the guy with the money, so I'll advise you test waters first before fully investing, give something reasonable and see how's it's managed before going in fully.

More importantly what is the business lacking to really become profitable, that's the question you should seek to address.

Emma2Seconds:
How much help have you rendered to your mother and sister b4 this GF stuff. Be wise your eyes go soon clear.

Jennyclay:
@firstandonly A.k.A Mr investor.

How many times will you seek for an advice about investing on your girlfriend's business .

You created same thread Dec 2020 seeking for an advice.. Here you are doing the same again!

Are you jobless? Or you just created this thread to broke-shame ladies? Abi do you have a new girlfriend now??

Below is the thread @op created Dec 2020 seeking for advice whether to start up a business for his girlfriend.

https://www.nairaland.com/6287460/should-take-risk-invest-girlfriend

Kingsnairaland:
Everyone except hypocrites can see that NATO caused this war and continues to escalate it. In fact the war is between NATO and Russia but being fought on Ukrainian territory while NATO hides behind the face of Ukraine........ If only the United States and NATO know the number of countries secretly supporting Putin, they will not be lamenting on social media as if the definition of the world is defined around them. The late Nelson Mandela once said that "The West want everybody to see their own enemy as everybody enemy enemy which can never be possible." Putin has come to put North Atlantic Terrorists Organization and the United States in order........... God bless putin God bless mother Russia

nurez305:
Osinbajo declaration is all planned by tinubu to give him more attention on social media. Tinubu would be voted for massively in primary election to make him look more stronger in politics.

Then the main election would be rigged massively by APC and tinubu will become the president of federal republic of Nigeria

Rainer8:
Omor! i once dated my neighbors daughter (my neighbor is a food vendor). seriously she was the best, i have never seen a girl like dat! she'll tell her folks she's going 4 all night, put rice 4 flash saying she might get hungry at night, roam around 4 quite a few minutes then enter my room, lock the door by herself. bang the living the daylight out of me, feed me the sumptuous cereal, and ride me back to square one. in the morning she'll be looking so innocent and holy, a totally different bitvh!

Reflect7:
This whole practice of the Ukrainian govt forcing all men aged 18 to 60 to remain in the country and 'fight' is fascist, authoritarian, and a clear human rights violation. That the UN and other rights organisations have been silent on this is scandalous, appalling and disgusting.

NigeriaNawa:


NATO defeated the Taliban comprehensively. They left Afghanistan because it was no longer popular back home and it became very expensive to maintain.

Let us look at some facts ;

NATO conquered the capital Kabul in less than a week and lost about 10 soldiers. Over the 20 year occupation they lost about 2,000 soldiers ( from all countries ). Compare this to the 15,000 Russia soldiers lost over a mere 9 year period in Afghanistan.

Russia is overrated.

caracas:
Chai Liberia is definitely a poor country
See president house like my 3 bedroom flat
My sofa is even better than this….
True true Nija better pass some country

caracas:
Chai Liberia is definitely a poor country
See president house like my 3 bedroom flat
My sofa is even better than this….
True true Nija better pass some country

athaboi:
Pav D

Chrislova:
him de make money per post
if is were me, i will be posting 15time a week

Ogalanyaidi:



Thanks for your response. I just got married and I don't want a divorce.
Agreed, she is extremely intelligent and I can't really predict her intentions. How did I know?
I play card games well but she would always beat me to any game we played together, even card games. She thinks very deep and it marvels me.

Ogalanyaidi:
First I want peace in my home and I've been enjoying relative peace in my home.

I've been married for less than a year. I called my wife to discuss how we could keep the house clean and I went on to tell her that she puts things where they shouldn't be. She got upset and called her mum, she was crying while speaking with her mum over the phone.

Her mom called and we both made peace I discovered that she was recording our argument but I chose not to confront her there and then.

A day later, I asked why she was recording me and she lied but I gave her facts and she agreed. She said if I've nothing to fear why am I being upset about it. She said I should record her too cus she observed that when we speak to her mum after an incident I don't say the whole truth.

We both live overseas and she is the only person I've here.

I want peace in my home and I don't like trouble

God1000:
Must everything be publicised?

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar

Thanking one imaginary being not existing...even if he is existing....he doesn't have power over what happens on planet earth

He survived today doesn't mean he will be lucky tomorrow

For everyday day we wake we are faced with more than a hundred ways to die of which car accident is among

robinso01:
If the price of rice is still not coming down, then it's useless. I see no reason why we will be producing rice and the price will still be high, compare to when it's being imported.

ChizzyBuna:
I had a fling with one of my work friends.
She lives 15 mins apart from my area
We have been having sex for over a year
She is a good friend.

Long story short, i was given promotion at work. My job is one of the hardest.
I'm in charge of recurring new workers and im the one that submit the names of those who will be sacked.
The M.D is my uncle and he trust me so much

Today i opened a file and saw this girls name on list of people to be sacked.
I have to submit it and prepare their letters.
I have defended her when my uncle wanted to sack her last year.
If i defend her again, my uncle will suspect im having fling with her. He almost caught us kissing so he is suspicious
If my uncle find out, he might sack me.
He sees me as an angel and i want to keep that reputation. So i can become M.D

modified
For those asking why they want to sack her
Last year, during staff meeting. She kind of challenged a senior collegue's idea infront of everybody, the man was not having it. It caused a riff between them. Since then the man has been trying to sack her. Based on he is my uncles alley.
I defended her privately to my uncle. They didnt sack her..
Last year my uncle annouced that he will be going to uk for hip surgery.
His wife has taken over as of January.
Maybe the wife has a hand in this. 
And i cant ask her why..

Both my uncle and wife are not on nairaland. So its safe to bring this topic here

foyeks2001:
I just bought Redmi note 10 2days ago at 100k.

hoilakes:
imagine having all these brands on the list, which one should we now go for?
no facts on the comments you gave either

Mthumbie:
Nothing in your thread shows that you work in a phone outlet. Even if you work in a phone outlet it still doesn't prove your claim. You just listed the top phone brands in the Nigerian smartphone market and brands that people buy the most.

Oowel:
What's the ranking, is it better for the top then worst at the bottom. Or the the reverse? Clarify on this...