₦airaland Forum

ElSudani:
You are the ignorant one, trust me.

The word 'trust' should never be used by a man that is eager to make false assertions without thinking.

ElSudani:
History will be kind to him despite all the anti Buhari cacophony. Years from now you will be able to point to one or two things he did. What can you point to in the 16 wasted years of PDP which you obviously supported?

I forgot how history showed kindness to Abacha. As for supporting PDP right from the time that evil cult was formed, I will leave you to enjoy the ignorance in making assumptions blindly.

ElSudani:
Obi lost his cool, amazing. I have seen president Buhari siting stoically in the face of obvious insult and not showing any emotion at all, that is a trait of a leader.
You don't start yapping like a market woman haggling over price.

Reason why you have been blessed with Buhari as President

OgideAgu:
Just find an excuse to beat that boy, if not you will never know peace.
You should have started beating him the first day u saw him but u went to call a witness.. Na the beat go wake the whole family up nah... I just de vex for you I swear...

If u like use ur family problem write novel.... Go beat that idoit... Wound him also...

I just de vex for u.. ..wish I can use voice note

I support this. Just engineer and start a quarrel then beat the shit out of his dick. Make sure all the blows land on his dick. Make him impotent and las las your family will settle una two

Wtf did I just read evil thrives when good men do nothing. I will take the law into my hands

With all the plenty write you still made zero sense. There is no excuse for killing innocent entrepreneurs who ply their petty trade without seeking paid employment in another land.

With this utterly repulsive clueless epistle you wrote, all the migrants in Dubai,Thailand and Malaysia should also face the same fate.

Must you write? OR does NL pay people to write nonsense

OldNairalander:
I disvirgin at least four girls every 6months from 19 and above and they all come back for more

Lol! see chest beating on a great achievement . This will remain the only achievement you will ever have till the end of your miserable HIV infested life.

OldNairalander:
I haven't been this low but thunder fire you for this advise. You are a disgrace to real men if at all you are a man. If you don't know what to say why not keep quiet?

Op divorce that hoe asap if this story is true anyway.

Ogun kee you and your bastard papa. Check this fool now him dey cheat left and right, babe, wife or mama dey Bleep pesin for street. Idiot.

Make e divorce am marry another one abi. Marry proper olosho next time. As all of una for that shithole country be thieves and cheats so make everybody dey manage am like that and seek happiness inside.

Show me one man wey no dey cheat for that una shithole make I show 1 woman wey no dey cheat. Fucking cvnts with cheating genes.

Op abeg no listen to these small boys. Manage am like that abi u no get body count too or fit find foreign woman?. Na chat she chat no be fvck.

Quote me again make ogun remove your blokos. Foolish idiot for cussing me over fake story

Why dem hol d babe

It's nice for holding like horse reins when riding from behind

You should go to jail for posting your wife's private chats on NL.

You are not man enough to handle a delicate matter in your home but rush to NL to get advice from strangers who can even pass for your kids. Very mumu somebody.

That said it is possible when a spouse fills you with so much doubt and anxiety you lose your mind and do childish things like this.

Bro keep your wife, sit her down and talk to her about boundaries. Get an elderly female relative of hers that will not spill the beans to confide in that will help you let her know what marriage is all about

Manage the one wey you get. Enjoy the one you get. Everybody in Nigeria has a high propensity to cheat and steal.Na who dem catch be thief.

Your case is good because you found out early so now try to deal with like a man. There is no damage yet. Body count does not determine how good a person will become in life. I get friend wey marry virgin. I no fit talk wetin dem catch dey do after 2 years. U go fear and thank God for your own.

Marriage na friendship and when guards are let down mistakes happen. Treat am like friend wey Bleep up and be happy. No damage yet

Kobojunkie:
1. I had to repost the comment as it seemed to have gone over your head.

2. If you, for example, cheated on your ex and she demanded an end as a result, do you force the relationship to continue all so you can correct things for yourself? Abeg, try to properly reason these things.

3. You are not making any sense me. If everyone knows their father cheated on their mother,how is that damaging to them?

4. So, they don't run away from it. Finally, we are were we ought to have been from the get go.

Lol...now a red herring?

Repetition of a question that was tackled. Naa, I almost believed the college grad bs

They don't run. They cut it off by learning from the mistakes just like you did that relationship. Again the college crap keeps amusing me.

You have no means of understanding what damage is. I can forgive the knowledge gap.

Kobojunkie:
1. Again,So all the man's kids are suddenly 18 and above now? Abeg, try some other meaningful approach

2. If you made mistakes in your first relationship and the relationship eventually ended, you don't go back to the relationship after 10 years in order to learn from the mistakes you made. Instead, you accept and confront the mistakes you made in order to learn learn them. You don't learn from that which you do not accept consequence of or responsibility for.

3. That makes no sense at all. The internet is a history book, yet near none of what I have posted online has come back to date to consume me in the manner you presume. Even my college record online pretty much out there with not even my person interested in looking at it.

4. So successful people run away from their past failings is what you are attempting to assert here?

1. This repetition and deliberate myopia shows you lost every argument

2. Why did you end the relationship rather than correct things. Your argument is diametrically opposed to the points you are making.

3.Good you said that. I was not referring to you by the way.Now this their damage is online hence we are sparring on the basis of it and the damage can never be repaired. Its even worse if you go by the 14 year resentment spilled by that young woman.

4. They don't run away. They learn from the mistakes, appraise the situation and where it will lead to collosal damage They use the knowledge and lessons to try a new venture.

I guess you prefer when one of them picks up a pistol so you can comment on the news of murder suicide

Kobojunkie:
1. So all the man's kids are suddenly 18 and above now? Abeg, try some other meaningful approach.

2. Have you ever known anyone to learn from failure by running away from his mistake?

1.I guess you never listened to the convo or watched closely. Only the one sitting by the dad is below 18 and still does not stop him from walking away from that toxic volcano and starting a family elsewhere. ( even better for the mental health of the last one). Same advise goes to the woman.

2.With all due apologies you made mistakes in your first relationship and I guess you went back to it after 10 years to correct it abi. The Internet is a history book what those young ladies have done will never go away but consume. Every successful person has made mistakes in the past and failed. You know what they do? They appraise the situation and where it will cause further failures they try new things. Marriage na do or die? Cut off the hand that causes your sin before we hear a case of murder suicide in that home

Kobojunkie:
1. I painted Africa as inferior by stating a fact?

If you meant that as a counter, I am afraid it was a miserable one given that parents are technically not able to up and "abandon" their kids without consequence here, hence the reason why I explained that many of the deadbeat dads live their lives almost as criminals they are running from the law wherever they go. The same is not obtained in much of Africa, particularly Nigeria, where a significant number of men, and women, abandon their wards without consequence.

2. Your advice rings like the foolishness of a man who was arrested for killing his daughter. The man's excuse, or at least it read like one, for killing the daughter, and then burying her in a shallow grave was because she held his dick during an alternation between them.

3. He failed to raise "normal kids" and you don't see how that potentially means he is a terrible parent and shouldn't think of attempting that, raising other kids ever again particular since kids aren't tissue paper you can use and toss for your own purpose.

If you think cutting off 18 olds has consequences in any part of the world even in Africa that you falsely label because of what you think of the western world ( usual African low esteem mentality) I guess there is no point responding to your type.

Kids are not tissue paper and those monsters aint kids anymore. Know that and know everyone deserves happiness. He should learn from this failure and try again. He already lost this one

Kobojunkie:
So, you are advocating the man joins the league of deadbeat dads, many of them living like criminals running from child support? See advice biko !

Try talk with a bit a intelligent reasoning. You just painted Aftica as inferior where parents abandon kids and I have countered you with the fact that the US is worse.

Secondly cutting them off is advisable as they are monsters and will drive him to suicide afterall 3 are above 18 and he owes them nothing.

He has failed to raise normal kids. Everyone deserves a second chance.

Kobojunkie:
So, when he does that, will his DNA in those kids be erased as well?

You lot think U.S.A is like Nigeria or Africa where you can wickedly abandon your own flesh and blood in effort to "start again" with another woman. Go ask those before you wey don try am see how dem end up.

President of the US. So dear president the huge number of dead beat fathers in the US live in Africa abi..People that don't even know MMA telling us about the US lol

Ecne:
That man should just goan start another family, all over. This one didn't work...
hahahahaha

I swear. He is living with monsters. He should learn from his mistakes and start all over again. He has failed on this project. Let him dust his feet and try another project.

Mistakes happen. Even the parents were negligent in a way

Discountsempai:
The USA is far more prosperous than Nigeria. It is so prosperous, that the houses of the very poor look like typical middle class houses in Nigeria (I am not joking).

Yet the USA has a drug problem that far outstrips Nigeria's own. Infact, the US drug trade runs into the billions of dollars, with 32 million people using drugs in that country...which is more than what Nigeria ever can concieve.

Are they using drugs there because of Buhari hardship, or GEJ hardship...or is Buhari the real president of USA and Biden is just a figurehead?

Drug usage is a far more complex issue than you think.

Drug usage is like a cancer. It spreads from one spot to a larger area just like yahoo yahoo in Nigeria and then becomes a culture amongst a people

Ole

Abelino:
It's such a pity for you... Keep living in denial, ignorance and in stupidity fucking Yoruba Neophyte. I'm done giving you the fucking attention you didn't merit Urchin.

Stop using that word under the wrong context. Yoruba?lol fvcking tribal bigot with zero sense

Abelino:
You ain't my class Fucking Neophyte. You sound so pathetic and insane.

Sure you just heard that word last night. Class!!! Trench rodent sef get class.LMAO

Abelino:
Ignorance is the greatest tragedy to befall a Man and that's exactly what you are really passing through.... Stupid Neophyte

Ode.You wey get knowledge wey never fit uproot am from trenches

Abelino:
Ignorance is bliss. I rest my case. Smh

You are so right. A trench rodent is often placed in that state due to ignorance and the shackles of false gods.

Arabic is a language and so is English. You guys should look for better things to do

Abelino:
May God have mercy on your evil Bitter soul

Which god? your god that put you in such state? I'll pass

Abelino:
Lol... Funny... I pity your wife thou because you are more evil and worst than the man in quote but one thing is for sure.. There is no Peace for the wicked.

Wife? lol. Get a brain. I can give you lists of well known real oyinbo people abroad who were caught cheating but how many times have you heard their kids behave in such despicable manner. Your genes is what carries this your backwardness and not the environment although that your environment is a complete example of a trench. Trench rat forming woke

irunoko:
all of them father,mother and daughters are all at fault

If the father was tired of his wife he should have divorced her but if you are still married to her you owe her accountability and respect

The mother too was wrong Because it's obvious that she has planted the seed of hatred, anger and bitterness in her daughters and it is full manifestation . they were all pregnant with hate but it Took the right circumstances to push out the anger to manifestation

The children are wrong because even though you know your Dad disappointed you it is not in your place to disgrace your father publicly.theres a Yoruba proverb that says irrespective of who your parents are- drunkards, adulterous, mad, stupid etc it is not in your place to dishonor them on that basis.the Yoruba adage is panmpe Iya Abi baba kosilowo Omo tobafe Ni alubarika.

You could have invited your dad to your room and show your displeasure to him respectfully and with honour.now you ridiculed your dad on social media forgetting that you also have your father's blood in you so ridiculing your dad means ridiculing yourself


With this ugly incident,which man will want to marry you seeing how you embarassed your dad in public? What if he's a man that holds his family in high regards,do you think he will be ok with you messing up his own family

I noticed that when women are angry they don't think again.they become like an uncontrollable flame.they don't even think of the consequences against themselves

We do not know the state of the marriage and there are things kids might not even know. There is a rule abroad. It is not a criminal offence to cheat although wrong. What is criminal is threatening a life, invading their privacy and then worse off posting their privacy online. If not that he is their dad he can press charges and let them smell the consequences. Any party can cheat and if they are caught the other party has a right to simply walk away from it. Taking it to this level is just plain wrong. Such cheating stories is what leads to the headlines we get especially from the US "Nigerian man shoots wife dead and commits suicide" If your partner cheats walk away and stop taking the law into your hands.

guiddoti:
This isn't a laughing matter at all. Some fathers are killed just like that for cheating on their spouses. You can hear one of the daughters, particularly, the one that is videoing the conversation saying: "I want to kill you". May the father receives sense before it will end in 6ft.

Out the abundance of the heart speaks the mouth. It starts like a joke until she does it for real then everyone will call the man a fool for not taking it serious.