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Ddworld:
Shush... You talk too much. Stop calling elders old enough to be your dad or granny, children.

If you are smart as you claim, you should know that the op is a liar. Next time, use your little brain.

Thank you

Dumbo. Chief lie detector of NL. It is easy to decipher that you have akamu in your skull.

So you know the OP is a liar and you read to page5 and still commented instead of going to the next tread. IDIRIN

A man gets married and keeps his children under his roof. A woman sends them away.

BoboKush:
U shld goan suck ur mum dry brez
Married woman is suppose to be flirting
Exchanging porn n all
Abi u didn't go to sch to read n understand
Sense is really far from u

So porn sent from a friend of husband then sent to wife and then to another by wife is cheating. If I were you I will stone your father to death for passing those mumu genes.

BoboKush:
Cheating is nt a deal breaker.... This is what u get from an infant

Op weigh ut options well

Too many juveniles on this forum. So flirting is cheating. Is there anywhere the OP mentioned she cheated. Na Se.un and cheap data I blame. Go roll tyre for street.

BoboKush:
Unfortunately she won't stop
Rather smarter this tym

ukaface:
So women wey Dey in their 40’s and late 30’s too Dey
Cheat? Them never tire?
Tor! Maybe you no Dey give your wife attention again

Ddworld:
Will you shut up there? You think they are all babies here? Can you dare to throw her out? From your explanation, it is so clear for anyone with brain that she is the bread winner here. The gift she was dsahinh out, who bought them? Mr. Man your last words spoilt everything. Send her packing if you hav the power and stop ranting

OP, this is what you get on a forum like this. Childish comments. Seek a mature person to counsel you. It is not a deal breaker

I dey shame say man wey know say woman don marry dey try tempt am like satan. E no go beta for dat man.

Savvy19:
Never get married in this life

5 bottles of star for you bro

bokondogi:
I plan to throw her out. Is this the best decision?

OP she got carried away without knowing the implications due to excitement that may have been caused by the absence of same over a long period of marriage. I do not think it is a deal breaker since it stopped at chats.

The man is evil. Tell her off in strong terms and report to her relatives. Let her cut him off and you remain vigilant. Any woman can make same mistake.

Wapgod:
Which lucrative business is your wife into?

Why you dey ask. You wan go rob dem?

dontrulee:
For you to type this at 3:44am shows how pained you're.

If you read ubanja's post about how good girls fall for bad boys, you'll understand better.

Every girl has both a good side and a bad side.
This knowledge unfortunately has made me explore the bad sides of most females both physically and online.

Many ladies that appear good are very bad inside, they're just waiting for a bad guy to touch them and make them express themselves.

I know this from experience, many ladies have told me that I am a bad guy but they can't leave me because their boyfriends is very boring and I am very exciting.

After a while, marriage will get boring with time. The bad boys will exploit this if you're not watchful and vigilant especially over your wife.

It's a very crazy cycle and I pray you don't experience it, only few ladies, very few ladies are chaste up to 70%. You see the remaining, they're either just pretending or they don't have the opportunity to express themselves yet!!

Haaaa, my Mom's friend a good and virtuous woman, one who taught many the way of God and married a virgin even almost fell into the trap, from that moment I knew that no one can be 100% tested and trusted.

Many ladies message me about how bad some of their boyfriends treat them and yet they can't still leave them! And the simple reason is because their bad side is resonating with the bad side of the bad guy.

Most ladies just want to catch fun and vibe, they follow their feelings more than their logic.

It's very funny how once, I was chatting with my ex and she was requesting for a breakup or a space and within five minutes, she was requesting I updated my Facebook profile to show that I am in a relationship with her, this was someone requesting for a breakup few minutes ago. To test my theory, I updated my profile to show that I'm in a relationship with her only for her to tell me that she can't confirm the relationship because she's scared and that she didn't want some of her friends to mock her that the relationship wouldn't work bla bla bla. This makes me to understand to an extent that most ladies don't know what they want!

Haaa, ladies don't know what they want most times, as a man, you're the driver! When I was still a top notch bad boy, I can video a very "SU" sister, we will have fellowship or devotion together, study the word of God and even pray together for like two/three hours only for me to turn the conversation sexual and the lady will be moaning for me on phone. Is this not the lady that was fired up praying few moments ago?? I have done this with more than 100 ladies who claim to be sexual Puritans many of them are virgins but with the right tools, any lady can become vulnerable to you! I have done some really crazy things in the past but thank God I am repented now.

Good ladies find it exciting to fix bad guys, it turns them on. Ladies will claim they don't fight over men, they want to be the only one but all ladies I have dated have always asked me, "how are your concubines, my rivals doing"? Some have even confessed to me that I like it as you're baba for the girls, they'll say, I hate a guy that has multiple girlfriends but I like you that have many girls around you! Does that not show that ladies are confused?

Marrying is tough job. Fortunately for me, my parents are very opened, they've passed through many stages in their marriage and it makes me wow at how opened such people are towards each other! Anyone in the house can access their phones at any time, they talk about sex freely and liberally, they'll tell you the right path and still tell you that you can choose the wrong path but can you bear the consequences? They're marriage counsellors and they paint and give scenarios of marriage situations they face everytime. They're open about their strength and weaknesses. They make marriage so sweet and interesting!

The solution for you Op is to be a bad boy to your wife! Women love to hear bad things especially if it's coming from a man they Love.

I hope this my long write up helps someone. Thank you.

Well said although I abhor that institution called marriage with a passion.

orisa37:
US UK EU AND NATO SHOULD PLEASE DRIVE OUT RUSSIA FROM UKRAINE NOW.
PLEASE PROVIDE THEM WITH AIR DEFENCE FACILITIES PLUS A RECHERCHE RICOCHET MACHINE GUNS.
GIVE UKRAINE SOME "RAMBO LIKE" MARINE GUNNERS TO USE THE MACHINE GUNS TO DRIVE THE RUSSIANS OUT OF THE OCCUPIED EASTERN UKRAINE.
PUTIN MUST NOT SUCCEED.

ORISAORUNTOSPEAKS.

Your Mkprumiri is obviously adulterated. No go find work

India is now fully 'developed'

Emmanuel602:
With such a huge Margin, you won't be asking of 3k from us

Abi oh. He will not even tell anyone

Women no get code. Guy code- Never date a friend of an ex.

Adjovi:
We are humans that's how we are made. We need companionship even introverts. No one wants to be alone. And old age is a different ball game. When you get there sha, you'll remember this convo

Lol.

Kingsnairaland:
You have not been following the news Russia left to set them up that why they are running away from that place... Ukraine is in darkness while winter is coming.... Don't cry yet.
.

Mayor of kyiv is begging for blankets go send one.

Can he afford a blanket? The little pennies he has is spent on data to read Western propaganda

The Chief Medical Director of University College Hospital, Ibadan, Professor Jesse Otegbayo is also planning to JAPA

Truth is we all want Obi to win but unfortunately he will lose to the Druglord of Bourdillion. Plain truth

They try that and lose their ability to strike IRG targets in Syria. Iran will just make Syria a colony and be at their doorstep.

Adjovi:
Anyways you have made your decision. Wait until then when old age strikes then you'll know money cannot be compared to having loved ones around. Your life your choice anyways

You speak like this though because you are in Nigeria where parents see their kids and wives as emotional and financial investments for old age. I forgive you

This town can give depression and 25k will become useless

Adjovi:
I lost my dad January this year. He's very much older than my mum. He died of old age and I know what my mum and I went through taking care of him. I was around for him because I was serving then.

So imagine on a norms an old man your children won't be there for you because they will be married and have their own life to face. Only your wife will be available that's for a man who's wife loves him she stays with him throughout life. So imagine a man that has baby mamas or is single at old age, you'll just regret every bit of your life and probably end up at old peoples home.

There's no template that applies to everyone. Your dad's case is unique to him.The greatest companion in life is money I will not dare marriage in this life. I never fit manage my baggage finish myself na to come add anoda pesin pikin join? Naa! Don't get me wrong there are few fortunate ones out there but with the stories everwhere these days it means on the balance of probabilities they are just plain lucky. I can never live my life by depending on luck.

Adjovi:
Na until old age comes before you know the importance of having a wife that loves you.

You don pass through old age before?Oga experience

Desusi:
So, you're a lecturer of adulterers, telling them,how to date someone's wife.Very good, continue.You will reap whatever you sow into other people lives.

May God cure your ignorance and inability to read or comprehend.

Desusi:
Lack of knowledge is terrible.It's like you witnessed where vehicle had accident a you said,don't buy vehicle again oo.

See who get knowledge. Let me help you. You see everyone driving through a bridge that has caved in and meeting their deaths then you wisely make a detour.

The witch took the cowardly way out. Hope she burns in hell

Zico5:
This is eyes opener for all men. You can never tell what's going on at Ur back.

Being single is best. The world is already overpopulated sef. Make money, surround yourself with friends and enjoy yourself till your watch is over.

Skooldeto:
RULES OF DATING SOMEONE'S WIFE;

1. Never take photos with her.

1. Never sponsor the child it's not yours

2. If you called and she hangs up, don't call her back, the husband is around.

3. Don't text her love messages.

4. Satan should not tempt you to sleep at her house even when her husband is out of the country.

5. Never book the same lodging every time you go for fun.

6. Do not involve your friends or her friends in your relationship.

7. If she calls you, receive but don't answer fast. Maybe her husband is the one calling trying to find out, let her talk first.

8. Don't call her my everything, he is borrowed. Stolen goods are the sweetest.

9. If you find yourself at her place, just lift the dress or lower the trousers halfway during voting. Don't remove everything. In case things go wrong and you need to activate temple run.

10. Most Important. STAY AWAY FROM SOMEONE'S WIFE AND FIND YOUR OWN PLEASE. JUST FIND YOUR OWN

Mumu comment

Pelosi knows laws more than many so called lawyers. She's a smart woman

Yes! Pelosi is the greatest lawyer in the US and the world. Smh

DropsMic:
Growing up as kids on the streets of Lagos, Suicide, kidnapping for ransom, terrorism, girls on panties dancing in music videos, etc were things we only saw in Hollywood… Today all of them don become part of our reality.

True

lifenija:
n u with ur 2k for account sent by the guy wen just fuk u how e take affect u

Knockout!!!

rvp20182:
No my friend.
US army said they have never met a cowardly force than Nigeria.
They said they have never met a corrupt force like Nigeria.

Recommendation to Obama was clear - ARMS EMBARGO to NIGERIA. Sleepy Buhari went to see Trump. US said NO US ARMS in NIGERIA. Nigeria went to Russia.

US send on 15 officers to assist Nigeria - and what they discovered was shocking.

A very corrupt force that sold arms to Boko haram and then run away

KENYAN WESTGATE MALL ATTACK REPORT
"Two weeks on, a detailed investigation based on interviews with survivors, their relatives, security forces and officers involved in the operation reveals how infighting, gross incompetence and a fatal friendly fire incident undermined the response and left the attackers free to prolong their slaughter"

Kenyan soldiers were seen running away from the ruined shopping centre carrying looted goods and drinking beers.

My biggest shock is that they even have a shopping mall in that country. Its the soldiers with beer that got me