₦airaland Forum

Nothing stop courts to have expedite action on authentic house assembly between the two warring factions. Well, since our courts not truly independent, we will continuing making mockery of ourselves, before the outsiders.

Afodot0022:
Happy Sunday to my nairalanders family, top of the day to you all and compliment of the season.

I need to know from experience men that have been through these and how they were able to navigate through this situation to cheap in their advice on how to make me deal with this situation and presently on.

What's the best and wise way to deal in situations whereby you got separated from your wife for years and because of that, she have been denying you access to be in the life of the kids despite all your intentions, you doesn't allow it. Presently I don't know the exact location of where my kids are right now and can't even speak to them. I am aware those kids are with her parents and anytime I call them, they refuse to pick my calls, I informed her to give me the address of their location but till now,she has refused to give me the address, I told her to give me the name and details of the school they attend but she said she doesn't know, maybe she feels I want to take the children away from her reason she is doing all these. I told her I can pay for school fee of the kids when I don't even have idea of the school they attend. This has really being an issue for me cos she knows I love those kids and reason why she is using them to manipulate me emotionally. Now am at the verge of just moving on and forget about those kids and start a fresh but I don't know if this is going to be a good idea. I want to take custody of the two girls age between 8 and 7 and don't know how to go about it. It's really draining me up and needs men that have been in this situation and how they sort things out.

Should I seek to take custody of the kids and what are the challenges of having kids custody as a man, despite the fact that I want to co-parenting, she is trying to frustrate me doing that. Pls matured and experience people, kindly advice on how to navigate, this issue have linger for long and just need a final solution to this, am making underground finding to know the location of where the kids are in her parents place and am going there, to pick up those kids but just want to be sure am doing the right thing.

So, u married a woman that born for you, more than one child, yet, you don't know the address of parents that gave birth to your wife? You also don't know any of her family as well?


It says alot about you as a man, keep on searching for them ok.

Zonefree:
Nigeria is a hoax.

I'm an Igbo man first before becoming a forced Nigerian.

Even in ur Igbo nation, some are still more Igbo, before forced Biafra.

I wish the head of Macron they decapitated, maybe, the next French's leader will sit tight on issues of jihadists.

Ever8090:
What does education got to do with marriage? . Education does not give you good character which is what every man is looking for from a woman...

Education opens eyes more ,...... to know your rights and your freedoms and might put you in a way to the pinnacle of your career which would increase level as independence woman.


With all these factors in place, it reduces the level,lady can secure and submit to husband, and inability to submit to man, would surely drive away good men.

That same tattered boys, won't be striving, how their lives would be changed for better, but instead, would be complaining day and night about failed relationships with girls, how ladies not faithful with them, and why they must marry a virgin girl at all cost.

Let him try it first, he himself will be the one to open the flood gates for them to return back.

Perhaps, it's ur sons and daughters that would be working in the farms that would feed Americans, or he has designed a tactics in which Americans won't eat food again and still survive, or he wants to embark on mass importation of foods and diaries.

FRANCISTOWN:
I've always been very silent about Islam, the reason is because, anyone with common sense should know that the Qur'an is just an adulterated version of the Bible.
So, demystifying the Bible God is equal to nullifying Allah and Muhammad his slave.

That being said. Lemme ask you christian sheeples one single question that you've not been able to provide any reasonable answers to.

As a christian, what do you have in your life that is not found in the lives of people who are not christians?

What has that Jesus done for you that has not been done in the lives of people who are not christians?

Once you are able to bring yourself to total sincerity and honesty, then you will understand what atheists have been saying all along.

You see, one of the most dangerous things in life is wishful thinking.

I'm not a christian, but I have several of them that I pay monthly some weekly, some upon a completion of project.
They address me as "sir" , some who are even older than me almost want to prostrate but I always decline.

If your bible said you shall be the head and not the tail, how come me, myself , who is not a christian is the head now and they are the tail?

The true things of life are the things you can see while the false things of life are the things you want to see.

All the things you have in the Bible are mere wishful thinkings. Yahweh is not a living thing neither is Jesus his errand boy.
There is nothing, I repeat nothing they can do for you.
Your life is your responsibility.

Atheist online, Sunday school teacher offline.

Anyway, everyone is doing something that would just make him/her happy.

Not easy to find joy during Tinubu reign Jor.

The funny thing is that , the same court that knows how he has been evading arrest for months, would quickly release him on bail in few days to come.


WHITE LION 🦁 FINALLY CAGED BY EAGLE 🦅.

Irony of life of life!

Salewa97:
The way some of you are just trying so hard to create something out of nothing, eish.

Make una no worry, we go eventually locate una

At least to remain relevant before his people, election is knocking.

christejames:
The best way to go, govt has not business with business

If govt doesn't have business in business, how would he feed his people?

Remove corruption, govt businesses would thrive like tree planted in streaming of water.
If corruption not removed, even the private entities would be struggling.


Indian owns Olam, Saudi owns Saudi Aramco, UAE & Ethiopia own airlines, yet all the investments are world class, given billions of dollars to respective nations.

EmperorCaesar:


Are these two things mutually exclusive?

How are they even related in the first place

Arrogance has nothing to do with facial features. People lack manners cause they are badly raised, not because they are the closest thing to Marilyn Monroe

Hope you know that, wen a woman comes to limelight or has connections, it takes almighty grace for her to be submissive.

Jumoke the bread seller,..... thou crying up and down as innocent.

Samantha125:
Of course she can... Most of them even decide to leave the limelight after they're done with beauty pageantry.

Because what I heard they normally subject them to, most especially MISS CAMPUS.

miss Anambra still fresh in my memory.

Still don't know, if a lady that once crowned a beauty QUEEN can still be a good and submissive wife to her husband.

DyshApp:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1SkOZMlrpXg?si=NF1JGNjstO8dvtAC

Pastor Olumide Emmanuel has challenged traditional views on submission within marriage, asserting that it is not exclusively a woman’s responsibility.

Speaking on the topic, he emphasized that Christian marriages should align with kingdom principles rather than cultural expectations.

He urged men to respect their wives’ perspectives and acknowledge the value of their insights, stating that submission is a two-way street.

“Men, I will tell you for free, respect a woman’s sensitivity if you want to do well in life. Ask any married man that will be honest with you—there are things that if we did not listen to our wives, we’d be in trouble by now. And there are times we didn’t listen, and we entered trouble,” he said.

Pastor Emmanuel criticized the cultural mindset that frames men as the sole decision-makers in the household, urging younger individuals not to adopt such attitudes.

“Don’t let Africa kill you with the ‘I’m a man of this house’ mentality. Marriage is not an African culture—it’s a kingdom culture. The Bible says, ‘submitting yourselves one to another.’ Mutual submission is a kingdom agenda for marriage. So, there are times you need to submit to your wife,” he added.

Headline misleading to gain traffics as usual.






Trust hopeless alpha pigs, a post to feast on, in other to release, already filled lamentations within, is on the front page.

SmartPolician:
Osita Chidoka is a very intelligent man. Intelligent people cannot stand nonentities in government destroying their country and keep quiet. If that's what you call talking too much, then you are also a part of the bigger problem.

That's why it would difficult for him to win election.

Well, since ur own assessment is pure base on criticism and sweet-talk.


This man had once led FRSC and latter MINISTER OF TRANSPORT.

Can you just mention 1 in each of the 2 offices he led. THE EXTRAORDINARY THINGS HE ACHIEVED?




Don't bend, twist, or complain oo, just answer.

SmartPolician:
LP should attract Mr Osita Chidoka to their party and give him the ticket. Dude is a bright mind that deserves to be the next governor after Governor Soludo. I cannot think of any other better politician.

Personality like Osita, it would be very difficulty for him to win election, as small as state assembly.


He talks too much and criticise way too high.




Meanwhile, don't base ability to govern people base on how someone criticise or sweet-talk.

How many countries Putin will fight ooo?

From EFCC boss perspective, Tinubu not given anti graft agencies enough backing to fight corruption.


I always saying it, instead of roasting masses to salvage the economy, he should channel the energy to recover every stolen money that are in the pockets of private citizens.

Can he do it? When he himself would be in the front page ,if they are, to list most corrupt individuals.

......but here on faceless forum, their own is reversed, .......it's only men, that normally take care of household and that, women, must be treated as maids, so that, people may see them as ALPHA AGAMA.

Definitely, Iran sponsored Uzbekistan .

Omodua:
Good!

But why can't they use same energy to confront Bandits, Boko Haram and other daredevil criminals rampaging northeast and northwest. Why only southeast they have this much energy

This selective warfare is uncalled for!😔

I will start taking you serious the very day,they kill any of your siblings.

How I wish it's your dad they killed instead of Dr Akuyili. If it was like that, I would now confirm, you are true born of dot-nation.

Artificial intelligence

Man has mistakenly invented, what would eventually overthrow him. The way Almighty regretted "invented" humans.

People joining cultism because of orientation that, "I will start oppressing people around me."


Mentality of leaving like Pharaoh.

Richtaiwo:
Nothing wey foreigners no go do for us in Nigeria. Poultry, pork and beef are available in Nigeria but it will take foreigners to now build factories to be processing them for us. When will foreigners invest in factories for cooking jollof rice for us?

As despicable and amusing as this sounds, those companies will build those factories and some fat criminals will rather patronise them all for the show off. Even some lazy women are not left out, and indeed will constitute the largest customer base.

I was surprised the day I saw well garnished semi cooked rice in shoprite. What you need do is simply pour it inside pressure cooker and steam it for 5 minutes, food is ready.

Yet, we sit down and continue screaming about everything.

I guess you are one of those screaming and lamenting on everything, well since you criticizing every policy and decision of govt.

Please can tell us your own solutions and let us analysis them?

Ok ooooo, let see the first man to arrest!



EU that not can't do without being policed by US and by extension Isreal which brain behaving most of US juggernauts"

NikoWinaman:
With the way things are going with APC who seem to be trying so hard to destroy all other political parties, do you think the major opposition party PDP would have a chance to take back power and give GEJ a historical comeback?

If the 2027 presidential election tickets are like this, who will you vote for?

APC - Tinubu
PDP - Jonathan
LP- Obi

Jonathan cannot win local government chairman outside power

bitbillionaire:
Then quit the marriage!

This is why I advise people against making the "for better or for worse..... till death do us part" vow they normally make at weddings.

Marriage need to be enjoyed. If you are not enjoying the marriage and you don't see anything good coming out of the union you should have a right to break the union.

But when you stand in the presence of God and vow that you will stay married 'till death do you part, for better and for worse' you have to stick to that vow at all cost otherwise you would be committing a sin!

We shouldn't be using our own hands to enslave ourselves

In other word, if you, as husband starts experiencing difficulties, wife should abandon you and moves on for better man.


foolish talks before examining his utterances!

ExAngel007:
Mike Bamiloye reveals how the attitude of several pastors' wives are causing their husbands not to enjoy their marriages

Mike Bamiloye has said that many pastors are not enjoying their marriages due to their wives' behaviours.

The Christian film maker said many pastors' wives use their husbands' pastor profession to blackmail them.

He said that the wives believe their husbands can't beat or divorce them like other men so they act as they like.

Not far from truth, many devoted Christians, enduring marriages, far more than ordinary Christians


Infact, many house wives deliberately frustrating their husbands in bed, claiming 'I'm your wife".

Wisdomkosi:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-jd2reMN7AA?si=c3F3omk_PcN-KTUm



Source : https://9newsng.com/gov-nwifuru-arrests-civil-servants-selling-materials-meant-for-primary-health-care-centres-and-hospitals-video/

Naija a very difficulty country to lead and hard nation to reside.

The same people would be the first to attack and cricticise both state and federal governments for turning Nigeria to pharaoh.

Dazave:
its a Global thing..record breaker in different areas of education dont get much...its all over the world not only Nigeria...the entertainment sector is more booming and more attractive financially than the education sector...Jay z, snoop dogg, dr dre, beyounce, and 50 cent will pay the salary of a top professor in the US comfortably without shaking..

You compare apples with apples and oranges with orange.


Jaz and all those are creative industries, in education sector too, you have to be creative if you want to measure up with those guys, stop comparing Beyonce with fresh graduate.

You compare Steve Jobs with Jackson

Elion musk with Rihanna.

Zuckerberg with 50 cent.

Kam2021:
Head of this and that were present and were not ashamed to give him that 500,000.

What stop you to give him, ₦500M.


Wen your mate making his family proud, you sit at corner of ur room, lamenting and attacking every post on faceless forum.

Keep it up!