₦airaland Forum

9jvirgin:
Labor party won both Lagos and Rivers but satanic men changed the votes for the evil APC party against the will of the people.

Wike has hypertension in Rivers, SanwoOlu has sleepless nights in Lagos. You destroyed and subverted the will of the people. You all will not see rest. 2027 is on the horizon.

Lukgaf:
In many parts of Yoruba land, it is common to organize congregational prayers (Fidau) on specific days after someone’s death—3 days, 8 days, 40 days, or even anniversaries, depending on the age of the deceased.

However, as widespread as this practice is, it is nothing but bid’ah (an innovation), and Islam does not permit it.

Allah has perfected this religion, and there is no room for adding or modifying acts of worship. If a practice was good, the Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) and his companions would have done it. But there is no evidence that they ever gathered for special prayers on specific days after a person’s death.

When a matter is unclear, we should follow the guidance of scholars who rely on the Qur'an and Sunnah, not blindly follow cultural traditions.

The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) strongly warned against innovations in Islam:

"Whoever introduces into this matter of ours (Islam) something that is not part of it, it will be rejected." (Sahih al-Bukhari and Muslim)

If Fidau was part of Islam, the Prophet and his companions would have done it. But instead, they taught us what actually benefits the dead.

What Truly Benefits the Deceased?

The Prophet (peace be upon him) said:

"When a person dies, his deeds come to an end except for three: continuous charity (Sadaqah Jariyah), beneficial knowledge, or a righteous child who prays for him." *
(Sahih Muslim)

Nowhere in this hadith is there mention of gathering people for a Fidau prayer. Instead, the best thing we can do for our deceased loved ones is:
1. Give Sadaqah Jariyah (continuous charity) on their behalf.
2. Spread beneficial knowledge in their name.
3. Make sincere dua for them as their children or loved ones.

Let’s be honest—many so-called Alfas exploit families through these gatherings. They turn Fidau into a money-making event, and perhaps that’s why a popular musician used the word "Ganu si". Families spend money on food, drinks, and unnecessary expenses, believing they are honoring the deceased, when in reality, they are following a practice with no basis in Islam.

Instead of organizing Fidau gatherings, let us:
- Pray privately and sincerely for the deceased.
- Encourage their family to engage in Sadaqah Jariyah.
- Avoid falling into the trap of cultural practices that contradict Islam.

May Allah guide us all to follow His true teachings and protect us from innovations in religion. Ameen.


Abu Afs Lukgaf

2mininuP:
This one just dey use court and issue with the Naija police to remain relevant. Everyone knows all these things he's saying

LilX2:
Why did you delete the part you wrote the act was amended in 2019?

You’re not even sure of yourself and yet you’re quick to bash people who are wiser than you .

TOPCRUISE:
They amend the act in 2024, same year and probably same month he was supposed to retire for his sake so that he can continue

GeneralPula:
Religious people and hypocrisy. Look at the way you quickly mention his religion… The other day, one Christain mofo in Abuja killed & butchered his girlfriend and you people were blaming it on mental health - you & other religion zombie didn’t call out his religion..

Wetin con be the different between the 2 religion? Has Christianity ever been good? Infact, the worst religion on earth is Christianity, to me. When it comes to hypocrisy and wickedness, they’re number 1… The only diff between them and the other calamity religion is that Muslim tends to do their wickedness openly!

They’re both into killings and destruction. Like I always say, both religions are nothing but a calamity to the entire world… politicians have been using Both useless Bible & Quran, nah hin our politician dey take sweet ever since, yet them dey steal steadily. What I’m I even saying, no be pastor’s wey dey tell you fornication / adultery nah sin dey knack their church members?

Disgusting set Zombies worshipping disgusting set of white man’s Religions!

kelechi50:
That is why we need sharia court in south west to protect our Muslim family's here.
Or what do you think?

Leadnaija1:
12 Ways To Destroy Women's Egos Instantly Without Violence

There is this saying that says, "They're Many Ways To Kill Rat Without Sharing Of Blood" meaning, they're ways to deal with situations without making issues out of it or resulting to violence.

Many relationships collapsed today as a result of the attitude of the partner which they find it irritating must especially the women/lady, this has been LeadNaija major concerns and done some research and eventually come up with this 12 Key tips on how to make her loyal:

1. Looking At Other Women

Yes, she needs to know that you're wide-eyed and always looking at others.

Don't be too obvious and say, "Damn, did you see that ass?". I'm not saying you have to overdo it, but when you walk with her, you can look at other girls.

Right now, we're not trying to fix you up with this girl.

She's not a good girl because her ego is too big. She doesn't know what she's worth, she thinks she's too important.

No, she needs to come down. So you can look at other women. Don't comment, but you can look.

2. Never Argue With Her And Never Get Emotional.

Yes, as soon as you start arguing, it's because you're getting too involved.

You're afraid of losing her.? Women will know you're invested because if you don't care, you're not arguing, Don't raise your voice, don't shout, don't get emotional.

She has to be cooperative if she wants to engage with you because you set your boundaries and you're like, there's no drama around me.

If she wants to engage in this kind of behavior, she needs to go home.

3. No Validation:

We don't give compliments, we don't talk about how good she looks or how beautiful she is.

No, we don't do that. You never put a woman on a pedestal, especially if she doesn't deserve it.

You can't give her free compliments and boost her ego. If you're already complaining that it's too high, keep doing it and you'll see it increase by the second.

All men do it, so what you say isn't really going to hit the nail on the head, especially if you're talking about her looks and she's a pretty girl.

4. Never Ask For Commitment:

No, she's the one who has to ask for commitment and the relationship, who has to ask for you to get more involved.

She's the one. Because if she sees that he's too involved, all of a sudden, she doesn't love you anymore.

So be careful not to ask for commitment. You don't have a problem with the current situation.

It doesn't bother you, because in a way, by asking her to be your girlfriend, you're showing her that you think she's what's best for you.

5. Dress Smart In Public:

Women are used to being looked at.

You know, if I'm walking around with my man, people usually look at me, but if you're well dressed, you're stylish, you're elegant, all that, women will start looking at you.

Even men can look at you and say, "Oh, you're well dressed.

Wow." You know, you're drawing attention away from her.

It's going to upset her because women aren't used to that.

Her ego is going to be hurt. Now she's going to realize who she's with and she's going to try to secure her place.

6. Don't Look Forward To Getting To Know Her:

If you're too eager to spend time with her and ask, "Oh, what about your life?" No.

Again, for this type of woman, you're stimulating her ego.

She's thinking, "Ooh, I look good today, I'm a god." No. Don't text with emojis because emojis show emotions.

So, no. When you text her, ask her out. Yes, you want to see her, you have to ask her, but don't act excited.

"Oh my God, I can't wait to see you, can we go?" No. Act normal. "Hey, do you want to go out? Yes or no?" Don't ask it like that, obviously, but you know what I mean.

7. This One Is Good

Don't be impatient to have sex with her.

I'm telling you, a woman who senses that you're thirsty and want sex at all costs, that's when she's going to play with you.

That's when she's going to use her sex as a weapon and as a monetary thing.

"Oh, you want sex? Okay, buy me that. You want some sex? Take me there."

No! You have to act like you don't care about pussy.

Click On Below Link To Read Full Details

https://leadnaija.com/12-ways-to-destroy-womens-egos-instantly-without-violence/

Sharpsharp00123:
I am a Christian but fact b said, what he did doesn't make sense n not all religion will embrace peace so people should use their head

Bobloco:
IPOB is a terrorist organization.

An unarmed group of people is being designated a terrorist organization.


When will the Yoruba Nation agitators be designated as terrorists? They invaded a police station, killed some police officers, hijacked a radio station, and declared the independence of Oduduwa Nation

Uchesis:
Oga, what if my dad and my mum are no longer together? How will you know?

Talking about Olu Jacobs and Joke, how come she is not bearing his surname?

See,so many marriages are hanging by the thread but till they tell you, you will never know.


Just last week i overheard my neighbours wife telling her friend who came to visit that she is tired of the marriage. And you will never know because they don't even quarrel.

Fear women oooo

EmperorCaesar:
A foolish wife is like a curse from the gods

But if thats the wife, then she's worth it

Uchesis:
Oga nobody drag the wife with him

Marriage is like every other phase in life. At a point you will get tired of it.

I'm sure Annie served 2baba dishes 10x more than this when they got married. Howfa the marriage today?

EmperorCaesar:


Just because of one normal wifey act, person go run go marry

Seems most men grew up so badly treated by everyone that a lil courteous act from anyone is enough to make them fall in love

Nnamdipapa:
So, I was in Walmart to pick up some items. We had already made a list before leaving home of what to buy. As a busy guy, I always like to stick to the list and the budget. After getting everything we came for, she suddenly remembered she had to buy herbal tea and some other items that weren’t on the list.

I stood waiting around while she wandered through the store, looking to add more items to our list. Why is it that women find it hard to stick to a shopping list and budget? This makes me angry, and it’s not the first time. Every time we go shopping, we end up wasting time.

I’ve also heard a couple of friends complain about this same issue. Ladies, women, you need to stop this habit—it drives us men up the wall!

Xisnin:
Most of the aids are neither money nor received into government account.

ahmedio2017:
Is this one okay at all? Omo ode

ahmedio2017:
Just listen to yourself, Sharia is meant for the Muslims, you mean Yoruba Muslims should move from our father land to the north? Can you now see the reason why I said most of you guys are bunch of Illite.rates honestly. Live and let others live.
A Sharia court is a judicial body that applies Sharia (Islamic law) to resolve legal disputes, particularly those related to family law, personal status, inheritance, and sometimes criminal matters. These courts operate in various forms across different countries, depending on the legal system and the role of Sharia in the national constitution.

CommonSense1967:
It's really pathetic..Muslims need to stand up and stop this nonsense. This is rhe result of having Christian Governors in all SW states. This had to change and change fast.

mariovito:
Yoruba don enter one chance.

Very smart game being played here,

Use an igbo Muslim to write your letters and communique to make it seem democratic where as same igbo Muslim lawyer can't lead them in prayers.

After the south West, next stop to set up shari'a law and court will be Imam Haroun Muhammad Eze Esq. Village and then the entire south east. Ndi iberibe

MasterJayJay:
https://x.com/NSCIAng/status/1884589162214408592?t=oW33Ol_6p_RRWsTdzwaxNg&s=19[/quote]Can you tolerate 1/10 of what others, are tolerating in you?


I doubt,if you guys know, you are a cancer to peace loving society.

Difrent:
You believe ElRufai

But don't want to believe others, but go to town with your own narratives


ElRufai behavior since the Senate rejection shows he really wanted a cabinet position. If not he would have rejected the nomination..... He won't be the first to reject a nomination
Me think he wanted to be NSA.