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Politicstoday:
Ogoni people will be well represented. If you know you know. Fubara camp members are leaving APC in their hundreds. Plan b, c,d are working.

Fubara is gone but, it wont go without putting a fight, his camp will still hijack some positions from Wike camp, but if chief judge is fully at their back. Because I'm seeing impeachment proceeding few weeks to come.

truthhurts2:
Good day NL!

I'm not bouyant financially, how possible/easy for me getting a divorce?

I have had it to the brim, I have been holding it for long and now I'm losing it. It's getting to being violent.

I don't want to lose my freedom by committing any crime.




A child is involved and one is just starting a journey.

I will advise you to calm down small maybe her sense will come back to normal, if she calm and remorseful, before you integrate her back to your life, you make sure you call at least 2 witnesses. 1 from her family and the other from your family, highlight what you want and what you don't want, and tell them, that meeting will be the last chance.

Meanwhile, from your own side make sure, you too, is not accomplice in the quarrel, do unto others what you want them to do for you.

Treat your wife the way you want your daughter or sister husband to treat her.

Eraddray:
As a supportive girlfriend and the moment she advice him to go back and complete the payment...and the guy refused to...she should have return inside and pay it by herself...e no require fight...
The guy also go feel remorse except he's dead inside

To me, that girl is more of red flag than the guy,.......she will be ordering the guy like toy, if they eventually married.

Anyway, it's good for foolish guys, who like treating girlfriend like egg, the same girl that some guys are treating trash.

symbianDON:
it's not about who pays the N500; it's more about honesty and responsibility. It's a big relationship red flag when you have a partner who is a potential thief.

Is the girl clean in this scenario going by your argument? HONESTLY DEMAND THAT, SHE REPORTS HIM or TO PAY THE MONEY. If she indeed an honest girl, but she is more of authoritative than honesty.

So, Why didn't she pay the remaining?

Why didn't she raise alarm in order to force the guy to pay?

Why did she follow the guy back home, with intention of eating from dishonest food?

Or you forget when you harbour criminals, two of you won't be free from long arm of law.

franchasofficia:
He should go back to his Okada riding job before Peter Obi's grace found him and lifted him up only for him to betray the party that raised him from the dustbin

Is Peter still in LP? in other words, Obi also betrayed party that projected him into national prominence.

Boladogailese:
That’s the only way we can have progress

So, he won't bombard his own tribe into govt just the way, the last two occupiers did?

More than 70% of Nigeria Arsenal fans celebrating today, Arsenal never win the trophy, as them as Arsenal fans.

Many were not born or too small to join surport base. At least, they must celebrate it as if their first world cup.

Anybody who is 28 downward today, cannot boast of wen Arsenal won last.

Short man will know everyone is not timid like oga Jonah, and that, the way we conspired killed owner of chicken, we cannot in same conspiracy kill owner of goat. ( Yoruba adage)

Left for Netayanhu, he will kill as many as those who volunteered.
Thank God for America system that still respect human blood small.

Better, since they are doing boiboi for a tyrant who only interested in his life long ambition .

They joined forces with him, not only destroy economy but also every democratic tenet of the country.

Thank God position of gigolo already traded even before his term expires.

They will all learn in hard way in his second and unlimited term

Wen she visited, I realised that she is a type of woman, that wanted husband to join her in doing house chores, "if I do 2 he must do 1".

This is a lady that was not working then ooo, I would go to office, while she doing nothing at home, yet expected me to come back and join her in the kitchen, infact, wen she served me food, she still wanted me to go and serve myself water, this is a lady who singing like an angel and praying like prayer warrior.

In summary, she is a type. I would be struggling to control, and whenever a man lost his position to be in charge of his marriage/family. He is finished.

Ten years after I discarded her, she was still in the wilderness of singleness, perhaps God has shown her Mercy now.

kiddaz:
I smoke loud daily and I know 100% that I'm better and stronger than you, physically, financially, mentally, psychologically, spiritually, in character, charisma and judgement and in every single way walai. And looking at your profile picture shows you are the very weakling yourself. This your psychological projection will not help you. Accept the truth and work on yourself

Stronger than him now but red flag for a wife that want to leave long with husband.

Which husband will be bragging publicly about his smoking ability if not .........

Hezmatosky210:
Beauty is in the eyes of one beholding it. Husband and wife material has made some beautiful women and well to do men remain unmarried today. Have you ever wondered why and how possible ugly girls with bad character and bad mouth gets Husband easily and the beautiful ones even at 40s still leaving with their parents. That woman you thought she is a complete wife material maynot possess the qualities that I want. Make i surprise you small, even as women like money reach, some women no still like super rich single guys. So, wife and husband material no dey exist bro

Wife material is not about beauty but character.

No specific qualities making people good for husband or wife material, it depends on individual preferences. The topic should be, WHAT MAKES "YOUR OWN" WIFE/HUSBAND MATERIAL?

Before you married, the couple should check on themselves and ask themself an honest question. Will I be able to cope and keep going forward with this kind of a person?

Take for instance, issue of fidelity. While some people, (both genders) take it extremely serious, some couples are less concerned.

The issue of women bringing things to table, while some husbands want wives to have incomes of their own, some husbands didn't allow wife to work, they even put them on payroll.

marlow1962:
Just imagine wertin some men dy pass through just because them wn fuc their fellow man wife, such a shame

Reason why husband shouldn't be too cold in overseeing what going on in his territory, some men can do anything to off pant from woman wait.
When I posted it yesterday that, Franc went on voyage and before he back, one small boy already having adventure back home in his garden, one foolish commentator saying rubbish.

If husband not vigilant, most faithful wife might fall for players manipulations

I won't be surprised if govt is the one sponsoring all these infidelity dirty stories just to distract citizens attentions away from calamities they created.

It started from Igbo, yesterday Yoruba actor and today Hausa infidelity. What a sequence!

Emeskhalifa:
Leave those who believe in her super story.

I blame Frank sef, u saw her sex tape video on her phone, not somewhere else o but on her phone and went ahead to marry her?

I always saying men have more blame to take wen marriage crashes, let God blessed some men little coins, their housewives won't know how to do it again. I biliv the spirit of first wife,is fighting for her.

I'm very sure, the useless man has been dating this olosho wen he still married to first wife, perhaps, is the reason they divorced and money he couldn't spend for first wife, he spent millions of it for olosho. Meanwhile, when Franc was still intoxicated with love from side chick, he saw all these tapes and other red flags, but show blind eye until after 2 kids, street girl proofs herself that she truly belongs to the street.

Im ashamed for Franc, the way women dragging him on tiktok ehn. Imaging how his family and close friends would be saving face now


Small boy that is not only younger to you, but also far younger than your wife, f∆cking shit from your wife and mother of your own kids! Double tragedies!

So many secrets better for a man to take to the grave jor.

53-41-33.

Boy which your wife older than by 8 solid years, Haba!

And for the adulterous wife, I think she started sensing "her own don FINISHED".

If you finally arrested these criminals now, the next 10 years you will still be taking them to different courts, until everyone forget about the incidence.

apexquest:
Hello gurus in the house, I need help and guidance.
Recently I noticed that in the morning when I want to leave the house, the car will hesitate to move after I have put it in drive 'D'. After about 4 to 5 seconds, it will engage sometimes with a jerk and begin to move.
For the remaining part of the day it will not do it again untill the next day.
It happens every morning and whenever I have left the car for several (over 5 to 6) hours.

It's a 2008 Rav4.

What do I need to check or attend to, please.??

Perhaps your spark plug is weak.

blaise26abj:
Oh so because the man is cheating the wife should cheat too and vice versa ? Really ? Don’t excuse bad behaviour . Yes we are humans and blood does flow in our veins but cheating because a spouse cheats is the stupidest thing to do . If there is any integrity , leave ! Life is about choices and choices have consequences!

I don’t cheat. I hate that with my soul . But if my spouse cheats , I will leave rather than stay and start cheating . What kind of nonsense life is that? Become single and feel free to mingle. Life is too short to live in a bad relationship

Keep arguing blindly in other to win cheap point, why should man cheat? Emotionally abandoned wife, among others?

You married, yet still want to be leaving like single, before it's too late, provided not too late.

I repeat, wen u start going voyage, claiming you are alpha male, before you come back, they would have sang a melody songs into the inner ears of your wife, she herself, would be thinking she is dreaming, when she open legs wide for intruder.


This is bitter but free information from someone who knows farrrrrrrrrr above you in relationship stuffffff.



Bye, but I pray you won't come back to gnash teeth that you met unknown man telling you bitter truth about how woman can fall into manipulations of players. See

blaise26abj:
Nope. It is just a house of irresponsible adults . Don’t feed that useless victim narrative that women give when caught. A cheat is a cheat . If you cheat because your spouse is cheating then you are the same because there will always be reasons to cheat in a marriage. Always do the Gaddem honorable thing and leave ! No self respect again

Wen you abandoned your wife and start doing all sorts nonsense outside, there are high tendency for her to cheat, blood also run through her veins,.......when you leave vacuum, players will come and start singing all sorts of beautiful rhetoric in her ears, almost impossible for such singers not to break into straits of homous.

Know this and have peace, if you are doing that, better reverse before it's too late, nobody is an angel, even angels once fell

How I wish my fellow gender can learn from this, I almost said it in previous thread, how did you treat your wife, before giving you bastard kids.

Now, he has shown it that he was irresponsible, and why another man bonk his wife, in as much I agreed married women infidelity is on the rise, many of these are caused by we, men When you put wife at home, and start chasing every hole outside, before you come back from voyage, small small boys would have broken into your territory and did enough adventure before you arrive.

EponObi:

You wan destroy your friend's career abi? Dey there dey run mouth like tap. And your friend, I hope he wont be the cause of his own downfall.

Instead for you to learn from experience and how to guard your own relationship/marriage, keep attacking and critical.


As if I mention a particular psychologist or certain clients or even specific infidelity.

Stop attacking every comment as if it's Obi vs Tinubu, you will learn from it going forward.

If men can come to realistic that, 9/10 of married women cheat. I have a clinical psychologist friend, whenever he shares secret things he heard from his clients In marriage for me. I trembling.

We are in era where husbands will have knowledge of "side man" of his wife, just like wife knows side chick of husband.

Kingpele:
Thank God am now in my mid40s because to marry this Gz girls is a very big problem to a man that wants peace of mind

....and you think women in ur age group different? The only difference is, while your own age group is a little bit conservative, Gen Z no send anybody.

Married women of all ages involved in infidelity, far more than how it was few years ago.
Only few men know what's going on in underground.

50 yrs old married women downward, 9/10 cheat!

QuantAnalyst:
Why always the science students? Is accounting, literature and commerce more difficult?

Those subjects are far easier, but students in science class are far far more intelligent. Apart from that, science students usually serious and more determined far more than students in commercial and art classes do.

In era of AI any student who still unable to read and pass on his or own, it means "book is not meant for him/her"

Anything teacher teaches you and you don't understand, just snap it into AI, it would summarise and break it down to pieces, even more than your expectation.

Image123:
El Rufai my man. The man dey brilliant oh, but made a 100million naira bail mistake. How do you explain confessing on live TV to tapping the NSA's phone? Even with all the problem of insecurity that the country is facing? Were you under a spell?
When Bible talk about the power of the tongue, E know wetin dey sup.

He is a type that, when thing doesn't go his way, he quickly lost calmness and emotions would overwhelm him.

The same way he said, people would be carried in "body bags" in 2019, when Buhari re-election was being threatening, then, he escaped, no thanks to person in power. He also talk recklessly about people of southern Kaduna and bandits, which is unbecoming of person of his status.

People should learn how to control tongues not even on national TV.

Wike own will come in next govt!

This man money would have gone into the pocket of lawyers oooo, anyway, he has stolen more than enough that will last his next generation.


These people are arranging him from simple to complex, they deliberately allowed DSS to come last, when they know, he would have been exhausted.

By now, he won't even have time to block Tinubu reelection again, but how he will be get off the hook 🪝

Offpoint1:
😂 That's why you should never let some women assist you

And if you don't have capacity? You will die trying!


Back to topic,.......must you tell anyone that you want to send money to whoever you want?

I hate wen people saying wife doesn't allow husband to send money to his own relatives, the husband himself doesn't want to, only hiding under my wife.

If you send money and keep quiet, no Jupiter will keep, let challenge you.