₦airaland Forum

DeltaBachelor:
LOL. Your friend (YOU) is just insecure. There is temptation everywhere even in that supermarket he intends to open for her. When there is no trust in a relationship, it is better for both parties to quit

How will you feel, when you take your fiancee to your people, they ask you where she is working and you say hotel

They throw the same question, among your friends and in your own working place.

You people should endeavour to use your God given brain to think appropriately.

The same people who crying about wife infidelity and DNA on faceless forum everyday, will be the one promoting nonsense that would lead to infidelity.

Not surprising, we are already in an era where husbands knowing the side men of wives!

Kobicove:
Na that one shock me pass, I no even know say Nigerian woman go gree allow that kind thing

As it stands today, 5/10 of married men know, wives have side men and they show blind eyes as if they don't know.

I know a woman who, I will say have two husbands, the real husband stays in different city from where she is working, at weekend, she stays with husband, but from Monday to Friday, she leaves permanently with concubine in the town she works, she has been involving in this type of lifestyle, not less than 4 yrs.

ElSudani:
Basically, Tinubu has been president since OBJ left office. This type of laughable criticism is the reason many critics are not taken seriously.
Throwing different things and hoping one will stick.
Where was the economy and the debt profile when Tinubu took over?
The same Nigeria where you were using Naira to buy Naira?

And now, when tyrant had removed subsidy and floated Naira, where is the economy?

The money he is borrowing up and down, where are the infrastructures? Anyway, the money is in pockets of his cronies he asked to lead agencies

SixSeven:
Weak content, they don't even make any effort to make it believable.

You think this type of stuff cannot happen in real life? Uhm, I laugh in French, more than this are happening, the more you look the less you see. Infact,It's the commonest!

If they show you dirty things going on daily basis, only few were leaked and extremely few are reported.

If Sisi Alagagbo dirty stuff didn't leak, would you believe, husband doing 3some together with his wife?

2mch:
Let your sister run far away from this man if they have no kids between them. Your father and the whole family should also block him. This is a mad man. You should also try to get a house in a new location. When hes tired of gossiping and telling lies he will move on with his life.

Such a person will make life miserable for your sister. He obviously has a very bad orientation and is a bad and dangerous person. Those who lie like that and tell such stories are dangerous.

Do you hear from pastor side before you call him madman? The way you people react with emotion ehn, no wonder, lot of crises globally.

Maybe, Op is the one that lying pathologically you don't know, you quickly given all sort of names because of one sided accusation.

Who, they will give chance to talk that won't side himself? Learn how to calm and neutral going forward, it would help you to take good decisions, most importantly if you opportune to get to leadership positions.

Stephen0mozzy:
OP's story get K-leg, for her to be there in this drama story, and she didn't cause any problem is because their split was amicable...

...things happen to relationship that can make it split, and it's not always problem. Sometimes it's opportunities, growth or moving in different direction in life, even after being together for a while.

It might even be "genetical incompatibility", no woman would come to such occasions, if their separation wasn't amicable.

Meanwhile, amicable or not amicable, I still don't see cogent reasons why exes should be attending ex wedding.

I see such action as intruder, and not maturity as some people claim!

obinna58:
Contentment still under economic progress

No, contentment is personal decision and not external factors, ....they give me food without meat, I might be contented with it and other person with two big meats might not be contented.

Nigeria love satisfaction is declining, mainly because we are not contented with whatever we have and only partly with economy reality.

yemmit90:
This is not mlitary era but democratic setting, governor is not that powerful withiout the backing of his key worriors in his party and government. He become powerless, vulnerable and isolated once these key players are against him.

Fubara problem is not Wike or Tinubu but his impatient to buy the loyalty of key stake holders in his government and party before starting a fight with his godfather. He should've negotiate for senate or ministerial position during their so called agreement instead of trying to be smart after making such mumu agreement not to run again with them.

Because of position they gave Wike, which is like gov of another powerful state, even if he waited for four years, he won't be able to buy them over, unlike other ex govs, who won't see anything to leverage on to bully the sitting gov.

In another dimension, Tinubu and Wike factors may still not save him, even if he had bought the law makers, they would have still used court to fight him into submission.

No one should pray to fight Wike and Tinubu in a combined fight, the two can go to any length to achieve whatever they want to achieve in a nation called Naija.

techbro1:
Very weak man. He's just like GEJ

If you are in his shoe, what would you do differently? I guess you will carry gun and face federal government.

obinna58:
Satisfied love life goes with the success of a nation and good culture practices

I’m not shocked no pure black countries are here even with our ladies having big chest and ass

Love satisfaction has to do with contentment and not success of nation, no matter how you successful, if you are not contented, you won't be satisfied in Ur relationship.


Those that married Dangote, didn't they have enough money, why can't it translate to marital success? What about senator nwoke, ambassador Fani Kayode and

So, Britain and America where they married today, they divorce next years, are satisfied with their love life, if they do why don't they stay longer in relationship and marriages?

sync:
I have been keeping my old clothes for a while now. These clothes are all in perfect condition. They were clothes I got abroad while I was a student and some I acquired as a working class.

So some time ago I decided to select a few of them to give to my hairstylist. I called her a day before then and I asked her if she was interested, she sounded kind of cold and said yes. I took them to her the following morning on my way to work. She received it and only said “thank you”. I expected her to at-least message me later after probably going through it (cos some of them were actually brand new with the tags still attached) and showing appreciation, but she never did.
Recently, I wanted to revamp my wigs and decided to take them to her. She wasn’t around at the shop when I got there so I had to wait. To my shock and dismay, I saw she was using one of my treasured dresses as her rag in the shop!! This was a dress that was in perfect condition when I gave it out to her, it was as good as new. That Dress Meant More to Me Than to Her and it dawned on me that value is truly personal

So my wig is due for collection soon. Should I confront her about it or just let it slide. Kindly advise

Yoruba adage says, we sell gold for whoever know the value!

My advice for u going forward, try not to give people your old clothes.

2. Any of your things or even assistance you want to render, make sure the person asked for it first, no matter what the person might be passing through, let him or her ask for it before you dash it out.

franchasofficia:
Let's not pretend, a lot of men are truly terrible beings, they treat other people's daughters and sisters bad and with recklessness, this can never be denied.


But then, there are more good men than bad men but the few bad men seem to be the preferred choice of most women, which is why the few bad men keep on painting the image of the majority of good men bad.


In summary, as a man, make a personal resolve to treat everyone; male or female kindly just the same way you would want others to treat you, your daughter and sisters, this has been my golden rule in life and my life's core principle.


Even if you want to have temporary fun with a girl or lady, don't lie to her, tell her you are not ready for committed long term relationship, believe me, it will only cost you more money and you will live a peaceful life devoid of unnecessary drama, curses and enmity.

You should also know that, many of these ladies saw it clearly and still put their heads into such relationships, most especially if small money involved, .....tell a lady this road you are passing is wrong, she would turn you to enermy of her progress until when she fails, and start blaming all men.

Let me tell you a brief story of my wife's childhood friend.

The lady was around 32 then, and every man coming her way only sleeping with her and left, so I decided to matchmaker her with one of our church brothers, a graduate and good looking guy o, but from Edo, after some weeks having traveled back to her destination, this brother called me and said, he didn't understand sister Taiwo again o, that she refused to pick her call, wen my wife intervened ....the excuse she gave was that, she met her town guy and she preferred the guy to my church guy, the town guy she was talking about, still learning job o, and didn't even have his own apartment then, she knew this, after he has impregnated her in his brother room.

Will you blame guy in this scenario or stupid girl?

Suspension is not enough, they supposed to replay the match in a neutral location.

Not only the bribe taker, even the bribe giver should feel the heat.

intruder15:
True. We are in a democracy. Thoughts of nationalization should never come up as an option.

Even the father of democracy, (America) takes over Chinese "tiktok", the way you people in this forum reasoning is something else. UK takes over Chelsea and sold it for another owners,even when it's not her citizens they were killings, how much more your own citizens.


It's not a must to contribute, thre is wisdom in saying rubbish just because you want to win an argument.

oliverwrites:
And who the f*ck are you to teach him how to react to something that hurts him badly.

The weakling man reasoning like clown, just as you.


Run away from drug, it destroys life.

It's not everything mature man should go out and say, most especially if you know, it would drag you into the mess.


If you catch your wife and you don't want to continue marriage with her, tell her to go without going to media to say anything about it.

I biliv this rotten story comes alive again, because of interview a weakling man granted few days ago, and shoshosho bloggers helped him escalated it.

Now, the muds will not end with him, but his siblings and even kids will continue receiving bully as a result of it.

Emma513:
I have a debate in my heart of the one I will join so I was so confused I brought it to the for advice, I am a young and upcoming fashion designer, I lost health tips, politics little football, and agriculture if Infact I never fail my agriculture science as a subject,

I Don't too like force like that, but I want to join because of the status and to avoid being intimidated, I am avarage statue person, I normally got intimidated I don't like being in cult instead of me to being in cult I rather join force,
I don't really like army because of war front because I not a rugged guy I am gentle

I will rather go for NDA to study and join as staff instead of direct soldier but I realize that I have past the age of being admitted to NDA (17- 22)


So decided to join DSS or efcc my question is how does it work,? how to join?, it's a good job, ? Can I combine the work with my fashion designing, it frustrating work , must I go to certain education to get a good grade in the job? And which educational section do the wanted most

The department they want to place you, is most important and not the organisation per say.

Every organisation has flourished and dry department, when you hear GD(general duty) run as fast as possible.


Meanwhile, since you have not yet a graduate, I will advise you to join EFCC or SSS, with such organisations, it's still far easier to go to university than military, for soldiers, your university education almost locked and you will do yes sir for life, also, you can't combine your fashion skills with military job.

Hoelujohn:
I thought JAMB had canceled the announcements of top scores since 2023? Am I missing something

They stopped because of criminal Igbo girl few years back, they restored it last year.

grandiose4ever:
Amazing. Private universities are showing greatly on this list. That's very interesting for a class of institutions that receive about 10% of all national applications, yet they are represented about 40% on the top 10 candidate list.

Rich people that not rich enough to send kids to abroad will prefer private university.

All these rethoric that private are not standard are fallacy, as we have standard private universities, so we have substandard, ditto federal and state universities.

Ko ni da fun Iya yin, tyrant must be defeated!

AdolfHitlerxXx:
Your 2nd paragraph says it all..

Beauty will not make a man stay AFTER he has accessed the vault. Character will keep him locked down.

Beauty and character alone cannot, but capacity of the guy to wife a woman and have kids, many of you running away from reality that, whole lots of single ladies are caused by single guys who are not capable to have a family.

Dpsychologist:
You said it well. The background shouldn't be an excuse.

Background shouldn't be excuse? I laugh in Swahili. In as much human beings can achieve whatever success or dream irrespective of background. Background on many occasions catapult children of privileged ahead children of poor parents.

Two students are averagely brilliant students and they scored 250 in jamb and wanted to study medicine. Poor child chooses OAU and privileged chooses IGBINEDON, who is likely to become doctor after 6 years?

Sons of gov and of unknown parent graduated as petroleum engineering, who is likely to work in oil company?

Two women wanted to go into business, one parent gives her daughter ₦20 million as start up capital, and the other went to borrow ₦500,000 for her daughter, as start up capital, who between them likely to develop the business to empire?

SlavaUkraini:
The man will not resign.

HE will find a legal loophole to remain as governor while still contesting for the Senate...

His tenure expires in January 2028....

The next Senate will be inaugurated in June 2027....

So if he wins the Senate seat, he will still remain as governor for the remaining 6 months to complete his tenure....

His constituency will not be represented in the Senate during that 6 months period....

As soon as Baba completes his tenure, he will head straight to Abuja to be sworn in as Senator representing Imo West...

Is any law bars him not to contest as a sitting gov? Law only bars him not to hold two positions at a time and he will resign, the very day he becomes senate President.

DrTee1:
It is deeply unsettling to witness the rapid disintegration of the values that once defined us. This modern "woke" culture is increasingly at odds with the foundational principles of our heritage. When did it become acceptable for twenty-two-year-olds to treat their fathers with such blatant disregard?

This is not our culture. In our tradition, a father is the head of the home. He is the provider, the protector, and the ultimate authority. While no human is infallible, our customs dictate a level of reverence that transcends personal grievances. A father’s methods of discipline and the way he chooses to steer his household were once respected as his prerogative, rooted in a desire to build a resilient lineage.

Furthermore, our cultural standards are clear: while a woman may choose to seek a path outside of a marriage, as long as she remains within her husband's house, there is a requisite level of cooperation and respect for the order of that home.

What has this digital age and the "Gen Z" mindset brought upon us? To see young people, somewhat public figures even, openly challenging or embarrassing their birth fathers for the sake of "trends" is a tragedy. Is there no longer a sense of shame?

Can a child truly find peace after publicly disgracing the source of their existence?

This is a clarion call for men and heads of households to reflect deeply. We are witnessing a cultural shift that threatens to leave us as a generation without roots.

So, father is the protector of the family and uphold value in high standard, yet, the same father and his friends jointly supported a 21 years old lady to a program, in which he himself knew, they could sleep with such daughter on national television.

Such father doesn't deserve epistle you wrote up there.

You sent your daughter to the street and expected her to remain the same.

From explanation of father, I can see a father who is entitled and became violence when entitlements are not forthcoming.

Yes, is good for child to remember his or her parents, but if she refuses leave her for God to judge.

Thundafireseun:
I wonder why a lot of people think and feel it’s ok for you to be smarter and wiser than your destiny helper?

And still doesn't know why some foolish people would think, you can have 3rd term through back door, the so-called destiny helper also had destiny helper few years ago and nobody treated him like slave then.

RISQUE:
A lot of people have given up on Fubara. He fvkkd up big time. If you must fight, fight till the end don't be blowing hot and cold. If Fubara likes he should stay there and watch Wike useless his tenure.

By now he would have been thrown out of govt seat and you and the rest of ur "a lot of people" won't do shishi. Abi what did you people do, when he was sent parking for six months?

If house assembly is not with you, such gov is helpless as lame duck, and this is what Wike had known, reason he made sure assembly not slip away from him, to make it worse, judiciary is also in his palm and partially backed the president.

If Fubara crosses to other party today, how many of the so called...a lot of people, will reject money from Wiked man and vote for him?

HacheNoire:
You think people like Putin care about how many soldiers die? He has captured what he wanted months ago and just holding grounds.

If the war ends today and status quo maintained, who lost and who won?

Trump strangled Ukraine and EU tried but could not match up.

If war ends today, Russia two of them lost but Russia lost more than Ukraine.

You may win war but end up lost battle, today, the way people see Russia as Almighty nation as been diminished on international stage, just as people ridiculing USA on Vietnam war, or even Iran now, you might kill or annexed land, but your aim and desire not achieved, and that pain leaders, most especially powerful nations, far more than any land or soldiers you might have killed.