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HydraFeeds:
We share the same thing ,I'm agnostic but most people don't know for smooth relationship.

My wife is Muslim while my family is Christian ,though we share the same ethnicity .

I did Muslim wedding and she's a practicing Christian once in a while (cos women converts to men religion*)

We've been living peacefully so far .

Women convert to men religion? Since you are agnostic, you don't suppose to be going to any religion, and your wife has no business converting to religion husband is not even going.

You are not a religion fundemtalist, yet you cannot do either church or registry marriage, maybe you forget the type of marriage parents will conduct for their daughter,is exclusive decision of bride family.


Your wife to be, still blinded by marriage palaver now, when she finally settles, she will realise that, she married boss and not husband.

In the story that you urself narrated, which is still one-sided story oooo,it shows l u are not compromised in everything you table down, meanwhile, marriage is all about reaching compromise, ORDINARY "COURT MARRIAGE" WHICH IS BEST IN THIS SITUATION, YOU STILL DOING STRONG HEAD.

use your own story to look at it, as if, you are the father in law........"you want to give daughter to husband, you now carry all your Muslim family & friends to church to do Christian wedding for her, how will your family and friends look at you ooooo

Wen u are famous, so many people will be willing to eat from Ur honeypot/dick, if you fail to raise Ur marriage above your popularity, you will start giving your goodies for every intending buyers, before you know, your partner won't be able to cope again, since blood runs in his/her blood as well

God1000:
Africa's most populous country is under US attack


The question I want to ask is this, do we honestly need US involvement to end terrorism in Nigeria?


US military intervention has caused a lot of devastation in several countries across the world, and terrorists and still there operating

We need them, not only to eliminate all Islamic terrorists, but those hidden under the keyboard to say nonsense on social media.

All of them are supposed to have left the church for you, so that you can start pastoring congregant, because I still don't know the teachings you want to be given the sheep you are leading,...... when you are going contrary to teaching of Jesus, who is supposed to be author and finisher of your faith.

DomPerignon:
Una never see anything.

US will bomb indiscriminately and claim they were targeting terrorists.

Is that not how to ensure a naval blockade, US Navy was bombing fishing boats off the coast of Venezuela?

From claiming to fighting drug cartels to now claiming he wants to recover US oil under Venezuelan soil, this is how Trump and his neocon will keep changing the narrative.

Now the US navy has now become a full time piracy operation seizing Venezuelan oil tankers.

Don't worry, una go soon see the final result.

Same Trump that deoloyed troops to Syria in his first term and claimed he was fighting ISIS in Syria who were killing Christians, has now recognized one of the leaders of ISIS as Syria's defacto leader and warmly received him in the WH.

Una never see anything.

At the end nah Shekau son or Mohammed Yusuf son dem go make una ruler.

I am very sure terrorist's sympathisers will link every action of gun and even "knockout" to USA, ....if your religion had allowed peace to reign in Nigeria, there won't be excuse for USA to strike in Nigeria's territory.

WorkTheTalk:
It is because the media houses have now realized that majority of the moslems are complicit in the fight against terrorism.
Was the bomb blast not happening on the Christian Eve? What if the bomb was kept in the mosque to be used for an attack at Christian gathering on Christians day?
You can fool some people some of the time, but you can't fool all the people all the time.

For USA to ask Muslim Minister of defence to step down for Christian Minister of defence, says, alot about Muslim complicity in fighting against terrorism in Nigeria. Most especially Muslim politicians from core north.

Now that Christian, who is not a politician presiding over ministry of defence, degrading of terrorists wont be difficult to achieve.

Tell your fellow Muslims to stop act of terrorism and see this type of news disappears.

malali:
God is greater than Dangote.

Bullying everyone with the billions God gave you.

Na money you get.......you no be God.

We stand with Professor kailani......the government should open a probe on all the money obtained from Emefiele's CBN to fund the refinery. The loans and payment plan and record should be probed and made available to the public.

This is the same man, Nigerians want to hand over the whole energy sector(petrol) of the country to ? A man that's so easily offended and vindictive to go after people that share a contrary opinion to his. A man who does not see eye to eye with anyone who dares to hold him accountable or try to correct him on any issue.
You can tell this man was made to read that apology under duress, he even sounds like someone, who is afraid for his life.

Even professor you are following blindly already apologizing for misleading mob, you still do Ur own coconut head on faceless forum.

In the word of oga Jona.....wen a man pretending to be sleeping, almost impossible to wake him up.

I still don't know how this man got his professorship , always talking off point whenever they invite him to talk on Arise Tv.

And for abobaku who are fighting for gigolo,


Let see what he-goat did for his people.

orisa37:
THAT MAN DIDN'T KNOW J E S U S, SO HE DIED USELESSLY!!!

If you urself know Jesus, you won't write a useless comments like a use-less guy.

Any farmer that fails to sell his or her poultry chicken/turkey today, has entered debt

Arowojobe86:
It's not in the future in your community

Check developed countries and browse of fastest growing religion.

Fact is different from feelings.

When people are growing technologically in other to make life meaningful to their citizens, you are blinded by fastest growing religion.

Fastest growing religion -fastest growing terrorism.

ppogba:
And yet, Ini Edo is still hawking her detty film all around Idumota and Pound road ABA without success.

Who God has blessed.......

I pray she won't even enter debt, since CAN has already given her negative advertisement.

AnonPoet:
https://applesbite.com/funke-akindeles-behind-the-scenes-shatters-box-office-records-as-2025s-top-nollywood-film/

Govt should tax her accordingly oooo, nobody should be earning excessive income at expense of masses

Dpsychologist:
Let’s stop pretending this isn’t happening.

When a man is struggling financially, society mocks him. When a man has erectile issues, he’s ridiculed and written off. When a man falls, people don’t ask why, they mock and move on.

But when the tables turn?
Excuses appear. Sympathy flows.
Accountability disappears. This isn’t bitterness. It’s pattern recognition.

Men are expected to be strong before they’re allowed to be loved. Women are often loved while they’re still figuring things out. That’s the reality many men learn the hard way.

So here’s the practical takeaway no emotions, just execution:

1. Build value: financially, mentally, physically. Nobody respects what isn’t solid.
2. Set standards: stop accepting imbalance and calling it love.
3. Demand reciprocity: effort, respect, contribution or walk.
4. Protect your dignity: your lowest moments will not be met with mercy.

As a man, no one is coming to save you. No one will cushion your fall. And no one will hesitate to judge you when you’re down. That doesn’t make life unfair it makes it clear.

So take responsibility for your growth.
Guard your peace.
Choose wisely.
And never outsource your self-worth to anyone.

Compliments of the season.

Not until you know you are head in your family, and the wife and kids your wife will bear for u through excruciating pains will bear your paternal name for life.



Genz guys getting lazy on daily basis, shifting responsible to women.

VeeVeeMyLuv:
It is really painful
He wants to implement such in a system that is Soo corrupt that lacks accountability and transparency.


This is very wicked and insensitive
Very inconsiderate.


You do this system of taxation, in a system where I don't have to know someone to get admission in school or to get a job/recruited/appointment for work.

In other words,....our own top earners should continue get extensive rich at expense of the poor and still allowing them to go with such load of money Abi?

Just this weekend, Funke Akindele and co, raked, 100th if millions, no thanks to masses that Troup out to cinemas to watch their films, you think govt shouldn't put in place mechanism to get back part of such money back to the system?

Burob:
Who made Fubara governor? Wike, he Fubara is a very weak politician, he is not coming back, Apc will win easily without him, because the opposition in Rivers state is been controlled by same Wike.

Fubara is a political desperado trying to play smart, & as usual not been clever.

If you can read handwriting on the wall and updating yourself on daily happenings, more so, not blinded by #30k data money your leader given you monthly, YOU WOULD HAVE KNOWN THAT SINCE FUBARA CROSSED OVER TO APC, SO MANY OF APC BIG WIGS, HAVE BEEN VISITING HIM PUBLICLY AND GIVEN HIM SURPORT, RIBADU STILL DID IT, JUST YESTERDAY.

ALL THESE ARE SIGNAL THAT FUBARA GROWING STRONGER AND WIKE DECLINING, WITH FUBARA IN APC, SO MANY APC STRONG MEN WILL JOIN FORCES WITH HIM TO DESPATCH WIKE.

Racoon:
Now what is democratic about this issue? He is busy cajoling and coercing everyone to galvanize for his own second term but here he is shutting the door for others.

Nothing new! This is the baba soope sophisticate brand of oppressive, suppressive and repugnant agbero gangsterism politics that his supporters called political sagacity. As for Wike, you will surely feel the heat.

I think werey is supposed to blame, his own kinsman that giving Fubara problem, if you people are not fighting dirty in your family house, Tinubu would not intervened.


Anyway, what can one do for eternal wailer?......just to allow him lamenting day and night, in other to shed small from his full bitterness.

jonsn:
You did not describe yourself to check compatibility.

It's for everybody, you check yourself and choose the best for yourself.

Omoawoke:
I’d go for the one with the biggest ass

Biggest ass not always satisfying man o, I guess you just started sleeping with women

fitinwell:
You will be forever enslaved, by selling your birth right to Lady A... If your option was based because of Money...

You don't trade peace of mind in Marriage with anything in the World .


Option B lady not good in Bed is a Plus for me... Ofcos she too would be curious to want to explore sexual fantasies with you... If you both genuinely love eachother and married together...

Yoruba adage says small swallow with peace of mind is better.. than big bowl of trouble...

You will forever in your life remaining in abject poverty, if you solely rely on prayer, even your holy books,say work & pray( work comes before prayer)

Usmanovic95:
Oga we can have different opinion about same thing. No opinion is an established fact. Saying someone's reasoning is shallow minded is a condescending and demeaning thing to say in a public forum.If my opinion doesn't resonate with you,you could have just ignore.

Yes, but different opinions on same topic, meanwhile, only one of such opinion will be true, while rest are not genuine, valid or truth.

For woman to poor in bed, is not a yardstick for fidelity.

Usmanovic95:
For me I will go for B. I don't see been lazy in bed as a weakness because a time will come sex will no longer excite like it used to,so at the time if you can't satisfy A ,she will definitely seek sexual gratification outside; the knack wey she good at ,na someone people knack am till she turn expert so she go still dey go for sumol extra training once in a while(my opinion 😂)
Since it's indicated that B is good at making hair,that means she has a skill she can monetize, it's better hustle sumol money and set up a salon for her so she can also become financially independent and can also contribute financially to family upkeep.

B strike more as someone who will give peace of mind which is what a man crave for.

You biliv every woman that good in bed is a whoorre, and if a woman not good in bed, she cannot involve in extramarital relationship?


Your reasoning is shallow minded.

Olachase:
Make I no lie the two of them carry back

But the second one "back" she cannot use the back she carries effectively, according to the story.

So, it is not useful for you as a man.

correctyourself:
This Monday morning does this topic worth discussing?

Yes, marital life is very important, Ur workaholicm will surely sent you to early grave if you fail to have good wife/husband

Sister A.
WORKING CLASS LADY.
FINANCIAL SUPPORTIVE.
CANNOT COOK/CLEAN.
GOOD IN BED.





JOBLESS LADY BUT CAN MAKE HAIR.
BROKE,BUT CAN PRAY.
CAN COOK & CLEAN.
LAZY IN BED.

For me I will go for sister A and cover up for her shortcomings
Prayer is habits that can be inculcated, and maid will be hired for cleaning.

APC mole in PDP, this one cannot even win his ward