₦airaland Forum

Kobojunkie:
If success in marriage is merely defined by the length of time the couples in the marriage have stayed without a divorce, then a good number of the sugar daddies fueling this baby mama phenomenon can equally boast of doing it the old fashioned way. No be so? 🥱🥱🥱

Yes, many of them we know of have been married to the same woman for many decades, never minding the fact that the details of the marriage as well the quality of living and living for the wife in the marriage may be nothing to write home about. But I guess, the married should be deemed successful because the woman has allowed it endure-or maybe has been forced into doing so-- for as long as she did. 🥱🥱🥱

Is it only woman endure it to make it last? Perhaps you don't understand the word compromise from both side, or you trying to proof a point with from weak defence.

aieromon:
None of these persons will climb up the career path except they back up with certifications and a postgraduate degree that aligns with their current posts.

DECEIVING urself. They would definitely get to the pinnacle of their careers, provided their productivity is topnotch, or their father or relative is one of biggest shareholders in the bank.


Before you arguing further, just go to website of any Nigeria bank and check educational background of 1st-10th personnel in its hierarchy.

In many jobs, they only needs your first degree, they know, for you to become graduate, you can use the knowledge to manoeuvre your way to make the company succeed.

After all, even bank & finance graduate would still undergo additional training before, he can fit in, in bank industry.

MMempire:
C!
This is where nairaland bot is useless as an answer as simple as an alphabet or digit can not be welcomed anymore without the bot asking for 40 more characters.

You totally ignored question Op asked but ranting and lamenting, why won't you guys have toxic relationship?


Go back to OP, it depends on the weight and extent of force applied by E, if it stuck in first hole, only D would suffocate to death, but if force applied strong, it may bye pass D and move forward to land on "C", definitely C would die. Meanwhile having landed on plank above C, it would catapult the stone and shift it to any of the them, including the person that pushes the stone "E".

IN CONCLUSION, IT DEPENDS ON THE FORCE APPLIED BY E

motymop:
Do not panic, do not run, call your friends or family member, if you have a lawyer call one and then report yourself to the police

Do not tamper with the body in any way., the girl has family members, they will look for her. if you do that, you have worsen your situation

Tell your lawyer to get a doctor to do an autopsy as they move you to jail. be prepared to be accused of being a ritual killer and a kidnapper and be prepared to be on blogs, which will destroy your reputation, only after the police have done their investigation will they release you.

And hope you dont live in the ghetto or low to middle income home or you might be lynched.

after you have been released, quickly go online and clear your name by giving interviews to known bloggers, if you have money buy spaces on newspapers to clear your name. if possible visit the girl family to also clear your name, move on with your life or change location.

Ur suggestions are good but not effective In Naija policing system. Infact, the family of deceased would also complicate the issue, even if they know their daughter dies of natural cause. They would still want to make you cough money for them to enjoy.

Case study is Mohbad death.

This is as a result of not be able to reach compromise in marriage, and not until we go back to how it was.

Nobody wants to drop his "ego/likes/cherish" in other to accommodate his/her partner.

Go and check couples who have successful marriage, that span decades, they lower their ego/cherish in other to accommodate partner, before marriage flourished.

Osebanjo:
Sadly it shouldn’t be a serious case at that. How about fiancée, GFs and likes. Can’t they just visit and spend few days over? No one dictates when death comes. Just the right people doing their job and investigating the crimes properly and giving the right judgement.

If we are to continue with that fear, I doubt anyone would be looking to even host/receive any visitors be it family or even friends. In all May God help us. We can’t be careful enough.

Abi, as if thousands of girls/concubines not sleeping overnight in the same night Yinka enters problem.

The problem is not where the person dies, but corrupt police that would use the opportunity to cash out

The sacred around sex has long disappeared, also self dignity that women of old had about their private parts, had since eroded, hence everyone indulge in it shameless,...... even in alters, the way men of God, indulge in it is shameful .

Girls talking about reckless sex far more than guys do now.

Girls are less concerned about body counts, unlike in early 90s

PulaPower:
Well, betting is a matter of choice, not as if you’re being forced to play it. It is people that will take money from their banks then walk into a sport bet center to play bet..

Me for example, I don’t play sport bet. I don’t even play anything gambling games at all..

I guess they should also allow hard drugs well, since it's a matter of choice like gambling.

Learn how to convey your information without insults, not even when you claim to be adult and old nairalander,....... even in Ur protest's letter, it still reeks of insults.


You people complained before they brought in BOT, to reduce loads of insults from teenagers and unrefined adults towards everybody, most especially female gender, and by extension, fierce ethnic bigotry, now that they regulate it, you still complaining.

Shame on Tinubu and his government, not even a man that comes from opposition from time of military to civilian.

Doing everything to cripple opposition.

Peacecore:
And that looks like a sack to you??

You'll browse post but fail to understand

No it's extension of contract. They disengagement you from job and become jobless, what's that.

Anyway, you don't know diplomatic way of conveying information. I will advise you to be listening to official information from govt, federal/ state, you may upgrade yourself.

Bye

chipet67:
He would rather resign and go for a sabbatical.

And what's that? Is that not diplomatic way of disengagement from job?

They will say they parted by mutual agreement

Go and check how Mourinho left Chelsea on his first stint.

Carl99:
Nah. No club is big enough to sack Pep.
I don't think it will ever happen

Perhaps, u started watching football,......Wenger once paraded invincible squad, he sacked last-last, infact, how did Pep end in Barca?

I won't be surprised if Guardiola sack this year, only God reigns supreme.

Reason why I think, civilian cannot rule Nigeria


This democracy has brought, whole lot of nonsense, contrary to what they were told us to biliv

Judiciary worse now, even more than the time of military.

accused:
What advice will u give to the Ladies sampling their bodies to the world without any atom of same?,shame is a measure of of ones spiritual or moral standing to all.but our sisters are perfect tool in the hand of Lucifer today

It's your life and career that would destroy and not the lady, I think you should be more concerned about your own future, career or life .


Shifting blame is the grandmaster of poverty.

Which advice you can give to the young boy & clergyman in the pictures below.

Me, for the boy, ......You still have so much hurdles to cross and you will enjoy it abundantly in future, "if" you can off your eyes now and focus on important things that will shape you future for good.


For the clergyman. Pastor, have you completely pulled down "carnality" in your life?

Samantha125:
I can't imagine myself getting intimate with a drunkard... The reek of alcohol would be enough to make me puke...🤢🤢🤢

If after 5 years of marriage and two kids, he started drinking?

To make it worst, let say PDP mistakenly comes back to power today, Wike will quickly reconcile and become part and parcel of PDP govt, all his sins would be quickly forgiven. Meanwhile, those who work tirelessly for PDP to stage a come back, would be pushed aside, for traitors to continue enjoying gudigudi.

Example of Ganduje that pushed aside for Kwankwaso political game, the game that refuses to materialise.

Only hard people can do politics

You yourself are not not funny too, the way you attack people , most especially women, turned you to overnight and underserved celebrity.

JackDaAlienz:
2 fine yellow sissi living in opposite me. Tonight for some reason they decided to quarrel serious quarrel and in the process started exposing their dark secrets.

The good news is the one that is my spec was accused of doing Hooks and in the process she accepted and they both started exposing each other.
It's over and hour and they are still yell at each other cursing each other.
I'm just enjoying the whole secret spillage with my ear glued to the window.

Now I know my neighbour is a Hooks ambassador how do I approach her now that her matter don cast fir open?

Easier to get than how you earlier tot it would be, meanwhile, dangerous than how you earlier tot she would be.

Easier to laid but, dangerous to be your sex-mate neighbour!

LillyandDaisy:
To be me been a drunkard doesn’t make you a good or a bad husband, you just have to be responsible… wise women understand

You don't know the meaning of being a drunkard, maybe you mistaken it for people who drink moderately.

Here is chatgpt definition.

Kobojunkie:
I think the answer is fear & anxiety. From what I have seen, most women who settle for drunks are too afraid to go it alone. Yes, they settle because they have had it drummed into their heads that they must have a man in their life. Even though somewhere in the back of their minds, they realize they are truly alone with such men, they convince themselves that it is at least OK that they have ticked the marriage box with even that one they have settled with. These women find it hard in such cases to take the step towards freedom because they are terrified of what awaits them on the other side.

You think so? But for me, I believe those women are there, in other to free to perpetrate all forms of immoralities, while in husband's house, because they themselves know that, it's only the type of husband, they married that can accept the kind of weird lifestyle they are indulging.
The little of such marriages I have seen, husbands do his own, wife also free to do her own, even to the knowledge of husbands.

Yet, they still keeping u in their camp as a member and less than 2 years, they want to present a candidate, who will compete with the same Tinubu.

PDP NEVER READY!

Have you ever noticed that the women that to drunkard, hardly divorce their husbands? What do think those wives always stick to them?

Is it because they are.
Good women.
Accept their fate.
Cannot easily convinced to leave husband.
They free to commit all sorts of nonsense.
Stay there because of their children.

Tohsynetita1:
I met a student of mine while I was taking some jamb classes lately and she told me that those times, she had crush for me. She said I was afraid of wooing her.
I laughed, if not for self determination and seriousness if I had used sex to worsen your posture, physically and mentally ,what would you say when you see me now.
Some ladies think being nice is foolish.

Many of them think, every man is weak sexually, I mean, every man must fall, if a woman open VJ for him and those who didn't fall eventually, are afraid.

Lifestone:
This guy is just rambling with no cohesion. I think Alafin should quickly remove this guy before he causes more damage. The entire stuff he wrote up there has no meaning and is not relevant to the current discussion.
The 48hours he gave Ooni has expired and Ooni hasn't reversed the appointment he gave Okanlomo Oduaa.
I was expecting the punishment Alafin was going to dish out to Ooni. Abi na only loud mouth.

Did Alaafin has power over the least person in his kingdom? We should stop deceiving ourselves, by placing ourselves on toilet roll.
Government is alpha and Omega of authority in his domain.

Na your morning be this? When overwhelming insults have already humbled you.

MufasaLion:
DO NOT TAKE A NGERIAN WOMAN ABROAD. YOU WILL REGRET.

STOP BEATING WIFE, YOU WILL REGRET IT. Learn how to blame urself, Ur gender, Ur religion, Ur tribe, even for once. Doing that would make society better.