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ATEAMS:
Mr homies...

Girls no de masturbate ?

ABI the evil spirit no go worry them too ?

jorion:
Celibate till marriage is for those who plan to get married. Fortunately, I don't see myself getting married except I somehow decide to live in Europe permanently

jorion:
So, if a guy stops masturbating, women goes from AIN'T SHIT to AIN'T NO SHIT for him. 😂😂😂😂

Make them know say KONJI dey catch you first and you need them, na there you go know whether they ain't shit or they ain't no shit 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

Akpabio22:
Oga stop talking trash here. Masturbation is not a bad habit it's not good when you are do it everyday. Because too much of everything is bad. Understand as many you must be Hot all this last for a short period of time in your life. There will be a time your body system won't be as active again. Please enjoy masturbation but don't be addicted to it. Masturbation can never ruin your life if you can control it. There's nothing evil about it it's a normal thing.

Everrich96:
Masturbation will ruin you. It's mental insanity.

It's my 7th day without seeing any porn or masturbating . I feel holy and clean when I pray . It's been a struggle .

For the first time ,I'm able to say no to the strong urges with ease.

I've never gone a day or 2 without it.

I WISH TO STAY LIKE THIS FOREVER RETAINING MY STRENGTH AND SEMEN TIL MARRIAGE.

CandyOps:
First off... Who u dey call boy? I no be ogbeni

Secondly, you lost me the moment you started talking about spirits. Means you r super religious/superstitious

I believe you be graduate or at least you attend primary school.. so my question is -- why your brain no think up better solutions other than spirit-linked ones?

You didn't think of therapy?
You didn't even consider counselling?
You didn't even try to Reiterate or reinforce the need to be strong-willed & disciplined.

You jumped all these simple logical steps & your frontal lobe somehow managed to come up with putting the blame on spirits.

I don't think you're in the right place mentally to propose medical/self-help tips. And if you do give out such advices kindly restrain from doing so.

If you are past 23yrs, It means you now have a fully developed brain yet because of religion & superstition you no even fit put your brain to work out the simplest of solutions.

I shouldn't be having this discussion with you

Ukalu381:
I made it a personal challenge to stop smoking weed since June of this year although it was a herculean task but I have to do it for my own good.

First step was by fasting, I lost appetite for food but at the same time it helped to eradicate THC and cbd from my body

exercise helped me to stop the feeling of being dependent on weed, anytime I get back from the gym I feel tired to roll up a jumbo wrap I always do.

The withdrawal symptoms, these symptoms always kick my head to buy weed again it wasn't easy tho at some point is started smoking again.

i started avoiding weed again that was during the August month, I notice my vocabulary has start to decrease but when I smoke weed the words will start coming into my head even during studies but it's was short term and next minute I don't even know where I kept my phone or my house keys

I stop following my friends to smoke weed I became a lonely and I hardly go outside except it's something important or purposeful

Things I used to do for fun no longer excites me, music don't even give me the dopamine rush unless I smoke weed

I had to Stay away from my phone and the social media for months.

Anxiety and depression became too heavy for me but since i took the challenge I still overcome it.

But honestly it not an easy thing nothing ever gave me the best happiness I ever had if not weed.

Since September till now I've not smoked weed and I'm good with it

CandyOps:
Them suppose ban that shitt
I done start my own from begining again

CandyOps:
5 days to 21 Days complete abstinence.

I dey go gym now as the urge done hold me again.

I get exams to take in 4 Days
So it's perfect time to break my fast... Right after my exams.

Or I may just continue to abstain.

For now, anytime I feel like to kpo, I go just enter gym go pump up my dopamines

SKhanmi:
You and the poster below misunderstood the OP. As expected. You’re the typical religious adherent so I won’t even bother

I just want say one thing. We have over 500,000 Gods and religions , much more before this our civilization even came into existence.

So you mean Jesus alone is the right one? The christian way is the only right way, the rest are headed for blazes right? So there no other right spiritual pathways for a human being?

In a universe like ours, you think Earth is the only planet with life?

It’s the height of self-delusion especially for a black man. Abrahamic religions are part of the scourges on this earth.

iLegendd:
As long as I know what she's safeguarding is crypto or her bank account, yes. I'm never interested in a woman's money, gifts or degrees. Anything that comes from a woman, I mostly reject it. the iPhone and Rolex women bought for me was through pleading before I took them.

I always feel whatever a woman gives you now, she'll use it against you in the future, so I don't want. I want to be the one to give instead. All I want is respect and faithfulness in return.

If what she's safeguarding is her Facebook or WhatsApp chats, it's a red flag and I'll just roll with her strictly on pleasure and not commitment—that's if the pleasure is worth it.

I love honesty, but I know it's too much to ask for such from women of nowadays, hence, most men are emotionless players with zero commitment in mind.

dkidd:
Okay

EreluRoz:
I don't like you too. It's as simple as that.

Mistral:
The man with lower consciousness thinks and believes that those who prioritize knowledge, idealism, truth and personal growth over external factors like money, power and status are fools who are naive about life. They fear for those who don't follow the status quo and view their qualities as a weakness, but their perception is 100 percent based on their very limited view and understanding of the world and the spiritual and abstract aspects of life.

The world often oppose intellectualism, spirituality and individual growth and romantize external markers of success such as office positions, college degrees, business attainments, hedonism and whatever the world deems to be markers of success. But what about your mental world, the spiritual mind, the quality that makes you a well rounded individual? You may get the external markers of success just like everyone else but any of those achievements make you a better person, did it provide you feelings of peace, genuine happiness and satisfaction? It has been several years now. Did the chase give you true freedom, understanding and depth?

You are a spirit extracted from God. You are similar to heavenly beings and spiritual entities. You cannot truly grow if you don't develop your spirit from within. You cannot take true joy and satisfaction in your life if everything you do is only based on the physical. That is why there is so much sadness, strife and confusion in the world. People have been tricked from the true meaning of life to live according to what society dictates to favour a corrupt few and put the majority against one another in strife, hardship, turbulence and dissatisfaction. Your energy and resources are being used to fulfill the pleasures of the corrupt elites while you are left drained, imprisoned, dissatisfied and mentally unstable. You are in a rat race that brings very little fulfillment at the cost of your consciousness. The money and materials you worship is what someone else throws away like it's nothing. You shouldn't be a slave to money, bodily pleasure and the government. You aren't supposed to struggle so much to acquire food, comfort and stability. Your quality of life is solely dependent on your perception of the world and the rules you follow. If you follow the rules of the society that makes you a slave to it and you won't be spared from the consequences that comes with being a slave to society.

Because your spiritual consciousness is low, you live your life like the rest of society, like the common man whose mind is solely focused on what he would eat, where he would sleep and what the community expects from him. Due to your low consciousness, you cannot recognize and struggle to understand abstract concepts, spiritual truths and laws. You have little idea of what it feels like to be free, to chart your own course and live as one with the divine. God cannot fully accept you as his own due to your poor spiritual life and consciousness but only watch from a distance supporting you where necessary out of mercy and justice. You are the average man who is asleep to the evil structure the world and it's government impose on you and your generation. Your aren't in control of your life, you aren't living the way you ought to but by what the society wants you to be because you handle spiritual things with levity and prioritize the physical things which puts you direct in contact with the deceitful world. The churches deceive you, the schools force you to adapt to societal structures, the workplaces extort your energy and time in return for money, the drugs company ensure you stay sick, the banks make sure to keep you in debt, the media ensures the truth never gets to you and the government ensures all these wickedness are legal. You allow this to happen due to lower consciousness of the laws of the universe, the world around you and the spiritual world.

But it shouldn't remain this way...

God cares about your desires and he wants you to be happy and satisfied in your life but you have to recognize him as God and practice his teachings in your life to get the benefits. God doesn't live in buildings made by man, he lives inside of you, your consciousness. You can access his divinity from yourself through meditation, learning and practice. There is no true peace, understanding and spiritual growth in the world. Following the lifestyle of the world will only put you at a lower level of consciousness and subject you to the struggles that comes with following the world - the hardships, the hatred and strife, the wickedness, the irrationality, the hope on a government which do not care about you or what you're going through.

You aren't supposed to stress over money, food or a good life. Most of your suffering come from the way you reason which doesn't consider God or the spiritual but majorly focused on the physical. The world is spiritual, life is spiritual. Your level of spiritual consciousness determines the quality of life you live. Your energy is what attracts things to you. If you run on a lower energy, you wouldn't attract the things on the higher level.

You need to understand that the world runs on low consciousness and even take pride in it because they have little idea the blessings and fulfillment of living with higher consciousness entails. Even if they have the idea, they aren't strong enough to work towards it thus they condemn it. They accept that life is all about money, position, lust and hedonism but these things can never bring fulfillment to the spiritual mind. It only gratifies the flesh and make them live their lives like the animals around them. Animals live for food, sex and hunting only. They do not care about spiritual things nor want to be a higher version of what they already are - to transcend their level of consciousness.

Money and status give only physical influence but on the hierarchy of consciousness, it doesn't elevate a man. The world is spiritual and abstract and the individual who excels in consciousness controls the physical and has an aura of confidence and stability which cannot be faked and which a majority of the world does not have. He makes decisions and influences through insight rather than physical means which makes him formidable, revered, mysterious and intimidating to the external world, even to those with physical status. This is because hierarchy exists in the mind, in the spiritual. The physical hierarchy is lower than the spiritual one.

My Personal Experience

By design, my life runs on a stable plane with very little imbalance once in a while. I live a very detached life with a large psychological distance from the toxic world. The only way I show I care is to share the things I know and have learned or in other cases, mere physical resources. External problems in my world are very rare, there is very little drama due to the absence of toxic people, my relationships are purposeful with an uncommon depth and compatibility. I also earn money easily through intuitive insight and not through brawn, deception or competition. In summary, my life is very measured, balanced and peaceful. All these I can attest to because I live my life in synchronization to the laws of the universe - the laws of God. I'm sharing this to enlighten and buttress this message.

Your thoughts and consciousness are what sets you apart from the majority and dictate the quality of life you live not your physical resources. Fulfillment comes from within. You need to prioritize your mental and spiritual world more than the physical one to truly elevate yourself and be free from the shackles the world and it's government has placed on you. Free your mind from it's prison and stop living your life the way the world expects you to but according to the truth of the universe - the laws of God. Learn and practice as many maxims you can acquire, study the Bible to increase your consciousness, eat healthy foods and exercise regularly. Practice faith, love and compassion. Embrace a life of authenticity, learning and discovery. This journey will boost and awaken your mind, increase your creativity and consciousness and distinguish you from a large percent of the population.

Living your life according to the laws of God brings a feeling of omnipotence, peace, uniqueness and stability. You stop trying to live to people's expectations of you but chart your own destiny with faith, confidence and determination. Remember this truth daily and put it into practice for your fulfillment. God bless you.

saphiere:
Drugs does not kill dreams. Most celebrities are living their dreams and they are smokers. Heard of Lil Wayne?