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You can tell a lot about someone, male or female with this simple test. Get a tomato that has a defect on one side, rotten, bruised, or just plain ugly. By one side i mean roughly half of the tomato needs to be unusable. Get ready to cook. Be sure to have additional tomatoes of perfect quality in plain sight. Have the other person cut up the tomato while you're cooking together.

If they don't wash the tomato this can mean they are careless. They also won't see the rotten part until they start cutting up the tomato because they failed to wash the tomato which is usually the same time most people would inspect the tomato for defects. Since they have now cut up all the tomato with the rotten part their carelessness has caused the wastefulness of the entire tomato and the time to clean up the cutting area before a new tomato is chopped assuming they clean up the cutting area.

If they throw the entire tomato in the trash and grab a new one this person will most likely do the same with other things in their life that are not perfect. This person most likely has not had to get through tough times and just expects that another tomato can be had at anytime without much effort.

A keeper would be someone who washes the tomato, inspects it, finds the defect, maybe points it out to you then cuts off the bad half and uses the rest. This person knows how to work with what they have and don't expect that a new whatever will just be there for them when they need it.

This is an upgrade on the Mario test from the movie a bronx tale.
You could share ways and techniques you can use to learn about someone without asking directly cos most people don’t even know themselves well enough.

My dad (wisdom overload)
My thoughts
Local man
Seye
Don Olukoma

Really what you all battling with this unhealthy habit should pray for is for God to help you I. Discovering your purpose. Once you discover your purpose it will give you the drive and passion to do away with habits that derails you from realizing this purpose. Most people as it stands right now don’t even have an idea of what their purpose is (anything you find challenging that adds significant growth and improvement to your life all round, it will challenge and break you, but your passion for it will exceed every pain you feel, it could be exercise, painting, teaching, service to others, e.t.c) Pray to God to help you discover ur purpose cos until you do, you will just keep drifting back and forth with this bad habit.
You see those two arguing up there that they don’t do this, I can bet my last cash that one of them if not both don succumb to the habit.
This is why the apostles of Christ warned about boasting and bragging. We wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities and powers.

Hmmm

I’m done with Nairaland. U hardly learn anything productive. Always same pattern of recycling contents. Quora.com is more edifying.

Oraimo is thrash. After sometime it gets faulty through no fault of yours.

This op is just a clown. I don’t know how you guys manage to enjoy sex with ladies you don’t build intimacy with. Here’s what you guys don’t know, “d more emotional you can make a girl, d more expressive and demonically anointed she would be during sex”.

If pictures speak a thousand words, then it will suffice to say this speaks a billion words. I no get strength to advise anybody again. Better advise yourself before God exalts little children above you. One love

Wahala for ghost citizens. (I.e those who have so much committed crimes that they are scared to go register for nin)

Nigeria of today, one is scared to voice their political view, as majority are angry and tend to believe I benefit from this government, but in reality I’m hanging on the word which states “they that know their God shall do exploit” “when others are cast down I shall be lifted up”. The joy of the Lord is my strength and I would advice you to adopt same too.

MrRelentless:
Unfortunately, God can't remove your masturbation habit.

Because God didn't ask you to go and masturbate and watch porn in the first place.

God gave you the free will. And you chose porn and become addicted.


But if God wants to help you, he's gonna send someone.

He has sent me to help men and women escape masturbation.

Porn and masturbation has no happy ending. It going to eventually cause pain for the person involved in the act

I rebuke you in Jesus name. The Bible says “with man it is impossible, but with God all things are possible”. He that is in Christ is a new creature, old things are past away and behold all things are become new.

Turn to God… there is nothing impossible with God.

Apt and concise.

kenn4rill:
Confirm urhobo man, Niger Delta son.
It's like people from Delta State live longer in Nigeria. The likes of Edwin Clack

No sir, as much as it pains me to admit, when it comes to long life na yorubas get am.

Jennifer70:
Abeg I need your advice
I have known a very good friend of mine for 3years I really wanted to have sex with her but she told me about her past and how she has been done wrong and used for ex by men and she has been celibate
We decided to meet up but I begged her to have sex with me and I will pay her 150k she was reluctant but later agreed after I lashed her through out the night the next day I gave her 50k and told her to go
She cried and cried and sent me a message on WhatsApp cursing me telling me I will never know peace and my life will crumble saying she is from the water, that she curses me with her tears
She later blocked me and I could not apologize
Will the curse follow me?
I only wanted to use her for sex

Oga relax your mind. Na transaction una do, the only way the curse fit work na if u use marriage take deceive her to bed. But you instead played on her lust for money and she knew what was forthcoming “sex without commitment”. So confidently disregard such curse.

In as much as this is wrong, it is at the same time very hilarious

This here highlights the power of forgiveness. People who forgive others of their wrong doings are not fools. I just want pdp exterminated completely.

Mehn this is just an awesome read. Truth is that a real relationship would prioritize and create the enabling environment for growth. It is always better to have loved and lost than not to have loved at all. Keep loving genuinely and maybe, just maybe you may find someone to love your soul and spark that personal development journey.

Sonnobax15:

Nigha said he borrowed his GF a phone

Nigha, lemme be brutal with you here and that's the fact that you certainly have no business to do with relationship if you can't make little sacrifices like this

Allow the smallie to focus with her her,cuz it's very obvious you don't mean well for her

You are one of the least sensible folks on this forum. For your mind now you don drop advice? Muchimuchi na u be.
Back to op, if you know you really mean well for that girl, stop doing hide and seek relationship and instead go straight to her family to register your interest in being her friend. I think for this you don’t need much, just one non alcoholic wine and a close friend you can trust is outspoken and smooth with words. They will either accept or deny your request.

EreluRoz:
The poorest man from the Uduaghan clan can overshadow this one. Hbd to him, he obviously lived a good and healthy life

Ur brain de pain u. We are talking about honorable men of influence, and money alone can’t be used a yardstick.

Ereluroz come and see one of the illustrious sons of Urhobo heritage.

DispatcherLagos:
"be blessed" with a zombie picture u used?

Fixed

DispatcherLagos:
Is it a horror song?

Listen and be blessed thank you.

I know the reform by Jagaban is biting hard for everyone and truthfully even we supporting Jagaban know it’s tough but still we are hopeful for a better future as all his policies are focused on long term progress of our nation. PDP really did Nigerians dirty but let’s not push blames here, we just have to be positive to pass through this mess caused by previous leaders since Naira was devalued. So to everyone thinking God has forsaken them I have a special number I want to dedicate to y’all. Listen and be blessed. For some reasons I can’t upload the song but I will leave a link and also song title.
Flowers by Samantha Ebert

https://naijapopup.com.ng/samantha-ebert-flowers/

Village people at work. Rest in peace champ.

SmartyPants:
Yakubu Maikyau, the outgoing NBA president.

Thanks so much. The guy na strong man. I don check am. Na men full this government, do anyhow you see anyhow.

Who is that bulky man on suit in the 4th photograph?
Tinubu is doing well, God bless Nigeria

Nigga de jonze. If na me dis happen to I go open the gate very wide for her to move out ASAP b4 she changes her mind.

The price of a prostitute is a piece of bread. It means you can never prosper patronizing prostitutes. Why not learn to discipline yourself?

Peter Obi boy. Deal with him accordingly