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sod09:
arsene Wenger .......
He's out till winter transfer is over

Ha.ha.ha...badt guy. You must really hate wenger. Seriously I like and hate wenger at the same time. It's like we are going in circle.

Marry her after 1year divorce her ass base on irreconcilable difference and also during that period of brief marraige conduct a paternity test. Supposing you were still broke ,would she still be fighting this hard to be with you.?

SAMBARRY:
both of them are fkin stoppeed.they both need to shut up

On that I agree....It's begining to get boring.

SAMBARRY:
that's what happens when men grown men for that matter still have the brain of 6 year olds.just like you have in a classroom in a primary school where a primary 2child reports his mates to the teacher and the other one to reports to the teacher in a bid to get attention from everyone

What would you have him do? Honestly this your post reeks of prejudice, Do you also feel her approach to the matter is childish.?

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Worst 90 mins of the season...we lacked motivation, I swear giroud no touch ball pass 5times and all na to spoil am, mertesecker should be stripped off his captain band na fowl that guy be I swear,,, we need to sack players like campbell, even carzola was awful today. All in All Arsenal was a shitty team to watch today all thanks to injury + that sturbborn man.

Abeg who be Dj here?? play me Kabiyesi by Dr. Sid make I calm down.

Dyt:
Is it my fault you don't understand what I wrote
Not like its of any use to you
Leave it and pass

Duh...and who said it's of use to me, and I don't even see how it relates to the dicussion. Park well jare Arsenal just piss me off this night.

DollyParton1:
Not changing for your partner. Change for yourself. Change because you want to stop hurting someone. Change because you feel you truly need to.
If you feel your character is not affecting anyone negatively, you don't have to change.

Example, I can't stand someone that lies, total turn off. Now if I discover my partner is a liar, am gonna try to understand why they lie, analyse it critically. Talk to them about their lies, let them see how bad it is affecting the people around them negatively. Let them come to the conclusion that they have to change. Not for me but because it is a bad character. If they are not ready to change, I take a walk because I can't live the rest of my life like that.


Don't hide yourself. Changing is not synonymous to pretence. Pretence is when someone from the example above tries to make their partner falsely perceive that they do not lie anymore. All their efforts will be directed at changing the way their partner sees them.
But when someone is changing, the way they view things change, they are concerned about how everyone around them feels due to their actions. Their focus shifts from how they are seen to how they affect people. They acknowledge that they hurt people with their lies and they sincerely wanna stop that.

There are some imperfection you love someone with, that is if you know you can stand that for the rest of your life. Accepting people's imperfections does not extend to their selfish traits. No one is perfect yes. But there is always a perfect one for everyone.

You can't keep nagging my head off everytime and expect me to stick with you for the rest of my life. Same way I don't expect you to stick with me if something I do hurts you most times, and I refuse to let it go.

My opinion is that if your partner complains about a character of yours to you. Sit down on your own and analyze it first.
How did they tell me? Is he being manipulative about it? Or going commandos on me?
Is that my particular character really hurtful? How would I feel if the tables were turned?
Will me letting go of that character make me loose my self or my identity in the process?
So many things to ponder on. After this is when you can sit with them and talk to them about it and if u wanna change, ask them for help.

Compromise is when I hate rice and he hates beans, but we decided to eat rice and beans mixture. Or eat those food on alternate days.
Compromise is not me coming home to a nagging husband after a hard day work everyday.
Or when my husband refuses to help me financially because he is stingy and not because he is financially incapable. Thats suicidal.

I like your analysis,she is just rambling and contradicting her self.

aieromon:
I need goals
C'mon Spuds

I endorse this statement 100%

Yes yes..I don show, chelsea abeg make una lose, thank you for your understanding.

Lol....What a revenge....She is a cheat but still expects a marraige proposal.
But the guy is mean..o...nice one...lol.

alwelldinho:
it has always been when THE WRONG ONE LOVES YOU RIGHT but I decided to put a twist to it. I can assure you that I have learnt alot from comments seen so far

Thats Good, to me they are all sounding like they are telling a fictional story. So when am inlove with someone am just going to lose myself entirely and spend my life trying to kiss their ass.....wow...thats hardwork.

He.he.he..This thread seem wierd to me. I can't relate with it. I think I can relate with "when the wrong one loves you right"

I wish to interact with people of different race, I want to leave Nigeria for a while most especially for educational purpose.

Offcourse, once a woman is the victim all logic flies outof the window, the man is the devil, he does not deserve the benefit of doubt.

She might be 17 but that doesn't stop her from saying No a 25 year old. She is not entirely innocent period.

Please for some one who intends to apply for msc....is it required of him to do NYSC first?

I wonder why people are attacking her, I too would be worried if I was her. That man should get a life jare and stop obsessing over someone else. If someone is always dependent on you, it will get to a point when that person begins to irritate you.
-Love does not die of starvation but of indigestion.

Most guys think so because we are projecting our fantasies on them. IMO women are human beign just like guys hence we have almost thesame reaction to certain things.
Just as some guys will find kissing a fellow guy irritating so would some ladies, also some might have had the thought of kissing a fellow guy or having feelings (even though many guys will not admit this for various reasons) so do ladies. In essence the human libido has nothing to do with gender.
PS: am not gay or bi, just thinking rationally.

Yes, The day my balls moves from their position to my forehead.

2Baba....One love bro.

Lol..Sweet story....You dey fear but conji still dey hold you ....bad girl

Are you trying to blackmail us to see your sister as a demon? anyway I've not heard your sisters side of the story....who knows, you guys must have beign rude to her in the past with you mum taking your side especially on her so called "Singleness". Maybe she is hurting on the inside, I can't believe someone can be so cold to everyone including his/her mother.

I totally get what you are going through.....Just try to stay away from them for somewhile till they rediscover themselves and the joy of friendship you guys once had.

Thunder fire Giroud...thankGod say dem don remove him...he just dey give away posession anyhow. Any ball wey come him leg.......GOAAAALLLLLLLL!!!!!! SANCHEZ...!!!!!

With the form wey ozil dey na only coutinho fit compete with for EPL player of the year....Nice one from the lads COYG..

Nice write up....in Timaya's voice..'' I concur".....thats another wack song with a good beat by the way.

This useless club wey no dey respect anybody....Naso dem go just dey flog anybody wey come their way...but make I no lie,I dey admire barca, those guys sabi ball die.....#Arsenalfan.

Dr.Ibe kachikwu be like "There is fuel, stop the panic buying, by saturday fuel will get to everyone...I've instructed DPR to sell fuel for free if any petro station is found hoarding petrol.".....mtchww..he must be high on minyan kuka.

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I will comment only when it has been confirm.

The gods of football were angry with us yesterday.....Arsene wenger was furious with campbell yesterday for missing that clear cut chance... the funny thing was that his nose instantly grew red....ha.ha.ha. But seriously, yesterday was bad, campbell and mertsecker were awful, giroud was no were to be found in the 2nd half. But Ozil, carzola, sanchez and koscielny all had a good game despite the fact that the 2nd goal was caused by ozil. Bellerin is still a little bit rusty.