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@Bluediva and Debrief

awwww...what a comfort!!!
thanks all

pufectskin: Tell ur specialists that pufectskin said they are quacks! Wat if I use the same pain relief drigs for a headache? It would affect childbearing too, won't it? Yea, I dint think sooo either

dont u understand the english i wrote?
i dint say it would affect childbearing
i said women at childbearing age, this means ladies of 21 and above

chai

thanks for this miss Ife

the house chores are nothing to me as i have been doing them ever since he has stopped but the fact is that, this is not how we started.

am getting used to it and i will stop complaining henceforth

Gaggi: Your husband spoilt u. Now u see him cooking as his responsibility when he was jst trying to be helpful. U are courting trouble for yourself and d young marriage. Leave MIL out of this and become the dutiful wife who doesn't nag and doesn't tell oga to go to the kitchen. Ur husband will start staying in ur flat when u learn to let him be.

it seems you dont understand it, I don't nag and that is the reason i don't have issues with my in-laws, they all like me.
i never dragged him to kitchen, he did the cookings voluntarily and when he didnt cook the day he got home early, i asked him jokingly and he flared up and i never asked him for that after the second time..his office is close to our house
he gets home around 7pm while i get home around 8.30/9pm, the cooking he does is just to make eba or rice not cooking soap or pound yam...
why didnt he bring out all those behaviours before we moved there?
please be sincere

CHESSBOARD: Then he should be ready to jail 3 million ppl in Ajegunle (ajay city)

hahahaha
Is it that bad

Forza p: Sanusi is a good EMIR but a bad economist.no story

KOWECT

My family stays in the same building with my mother-in-law but different flat…
Due to expensive house rent in Lagos, mother-in-law advised that we moved in to the vacant flat and from there we can plan how to start something on our own land instead of wasting money on house rent. Despite all advise from friends and family not to stay in the same building with my in-laws I turned deaf ears to them and assured them my mother-in-law is a very nice woman, I shouldn’t have any problem with her and moreover, we won’t be staying in the same flat.

To be candid, I don’t have any problem with my in-laws but the problem is my hubby.
After we moved in, he gradually stopped doing some things he normally did before, like helping me with domestic chores, taking a walk with me in the evening during weekends. He helped with cooking anytime he gets home from work early but now, it has stopped…he would be in his mother’s flat waiting for me to come and do the cooking. I asked him twice why he doesn’t cook anymore whenever he comes home earlier than I do, he told me he has spoilt me and he wouldn’t want that to go on. We started arguing where we raised voices at each other and lots more.

Now, any little misunderstanding between us, he would stop eating my food and eat from his mother’s, sometimes he would even abandon me in our flat to play and be with his family.

My questions:
1. Am I wrong to have supported my hubby in staying with my mother-in-law?
2. Can you live in the same building with your mother-in-law or can you and your wife live with your parent?
3. in this kind of situation, what can/should I do?

Pls I need your advice

pufectskin: Dats a darn lie! Where do ppl make up these lame stories from? Gosh!

why don't you research or ask women health specialists
talking from experience

I think our ladies should start learning from these experiences.
we should be content with what our parents offer us
following married men will do us no good, it will only cause pains and regrets.
this pretty lady might not have met her demise if she had not gone to the man's house.
please let's be extra-careful
who knows if this is the true story or it was just fabricated to cover up a serious crime

lemon in warm water before breakfast will do.
there will be normal flow with no pain
using pharmaceutical drugs will make u have less than normal flow which is not good as the flow will stuck up in the cervix and can also cause serious complication in women at childbearing age.

I also deserve a National Honour o
why is my name not on the list
afterall, ayam far better than most of them on the list :'

it is well

Dawdy: Who cares, if Patient rates self high on english.

hehehehe...*sealed lip*

LMAO

*thinking*

@Synthesis,
It seems you are not really ready for marriage with all these childish questions?
once you are fully ready to settle down, no one will tell you what to do.
you will definitely know...

kindly compare and contrast between Aba and Lagos in terms of technology, exposure, accessibility, fashion and business trends.

which do you prefer between the two cities?

Opoki: Summary pls.

An author said “if you want to keep knowledge/idea away from the black man put it in a book"
Please join the reigning crew guy

love her make up...not too flashy like the color blocking we see on our gurls' faces nowadays

Majority carries the vote...
South-south out of the whole Nigeria?
we are waiting......

berem: I wonder why he divorced his first wife! I guess now he must have learnt his lessons.I will advise him to go make peace with his former wife for the sake of love and the kids.

u re on point sweetie
only God knows why he divorced his first wife
MEN

berem: Ok I don vex! Shey na because I no be celebrity my own pisure no fit show for NL front page abi? Oya see my own pisure too.

awww u look cute here
wait o, u be typist abi wetin u dey do there?

Just wandering in my wildest imaginations, what Dame P would have to say about Baba Jona, about their youth?


#just thinking#

our president had said we would be eating cassava bread...
hmmm garri-bread

i cook for my hubby even when we have misunderstanding, i cant starve him cos he is the one who provides for the house. even when he says annoyingly that he is not eating, i will just leave his food in the pot or warmer, he will then go to the kitchen and serve himself after everybody might have slept at night

Danka7777: Hisssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss! Waste of money, time and resources.

frustrated creature

@Op some gurls can be so amazing, if she wanted to scare you away like some pple said here, why collect your number in the first place
she actually wanted to mugu you.

run for your life or do trade by barter

mafioso47: . Its Aston Martin pls

idea is needed o jare

obadiah777: dunno about the mans antics that much cuz i dont follow him but he hung out with chris tucker for a while and chris tucker was cracking up. thats when i knew this ol foo has a great sense of humor. he out humored chris tucker. chris tucker is like one of the funniest comedians in america

also remember a council they had in america. this naija american guy in the audience was asking him why naija is a mess and why there are no new decent politicians in naija. objs answer ? when fools like you are hiding abroad why will there be any improvements in naija. LOL. the guy shut up fast.

Do you have to call him old fool? i believe this man is old to be your father, if not grandfather. In what way, have you or your family contributed to the growth of Nigeria.
Obj tried in his little way.
start your own now...numb-skull