₦airaland Forum

Aristotle96:
Op but u don already dump her na like u said why u still dy ask if e go good make u dump her...

i will have to compare the positive nd negative answers before i take my decision

lily12:
English is a language, not a measure of intelligence. So while you were deflowering her you were speaking in what, tongues? Abeg, if you are too shallow to find ways to help her learn the language, let her go, for her sake. Would she make a good wife otherwise? Will you ever see oyinbo dumping a good woman because she cannot speak an African language? Nonsense.

nonsense indeed. This same problem of marrying an illiterate woman has forced many people into polygamy

Cutehector:
doesn't she make u happy?

she do but, her understanding is low.

obiorathesubtle:
who be this guy?? because you disvirgined her.. you feel you owe her some kind of duty/responsibility/obligation or whatever?? c'mon open your eye!



look.. the worst thing that'll happen to you in this life is having to share life with an illiterate.. it's worse than spending eternity in Hell..



look.. she no be your pikin.. go find fresh graduate marry, enjoy your life.. dy here dy reason to train another man pikin because of love.. dirty love wey no get head


what you feel isn't love but lack of wisdom

hmmm! What can i say?

kingofchess:
u r a wicked dude....no hating

wicked ? How? Coz i want to help her fr nt wanting to dump her jus lyk dat?

mayonnaise:
Enrolling her would be nice. Do that if you can. As per dumping her, if you're looking for a gently way to do it there isn't one. You obviously care about her or pity(i think its pity lol).

thanks bro

Cutehector:
Why not transform her into d lady u wish to marry?

its due to financial challenges.

Hello nairalanders, am in a dilemma. I seriously need your opinion.

There is this girl i met, age 22.


After falling in love with her i discovered that she can't speak, read or write properly in English.


Actually my dream is to Marry a woman who can atleast speak and write well in English language.


I never knew she was a virgin, until when i had s3x with her and deflowered her.


What i intend doing to her so as to compensate her is to enroll her into seamstress work. Enrollment cause, #15000 of which her father is not willing to give her.


I feel guilty dumping her just like that without any form of help for her.


With a better hand work like dress making, maybe she can get a good husband.


My fellow nairalanders, do you think my decision is wise?

If not, what should i do?

Donpre:
10 days

he will of course

deekseen:
Since he's clumsy, he makes a progress of 100m everyday. I think he'll make it in 5 days.

try harder bro

Selena06:
4 days

oh! Dear, try again

John's friend , Joseph , is climbing a mountain that is 500m high. Each day he climbs 200m and then must go back down 100m the next day, since he's clumsy and drop things. How many days will it take him to reach the top of the mountain?

Imagine i told one girl back then in sec skul that i want to finger her clitoris nd she did nt even what i meant.

Thats good move

CaroLyner:
you want to get married in the next 6years.Smh.
Dont waste that girl's time.

haha.. Time wasting ke.. By that time she will be 27.. Is it bad?

menabae:
2yrs or less is ok..if u are mentally,financially ready sha

ok ma

hmath3991:
40yrs is perfect. then she would be 85yrs nd you 134yrs.

i sense u ar still a teenager

ronald4lif:
You're 24 and intend getting married at early 30's? Which means you're looking at getting married at least years from now. So why the question when you're 6years away?

good. Coz i want to hav a good married life. I dnt want what is happening in the case my parents to happen to me... Failing to plan is planning to fail

Cholls:
my brother if you fit provide for her.

true nd that is y i need time to identify at least 50% more of her features. If she is d type dat can cope.

CivilzedTyger:
whenever you're sure you can live with her forever and she feels the same

cool bro

smithsydny:
wait till 202020

i early said matured minds.

Hello nairalanders, i think i have found the woman of my dreams, my lost rib.


The woman i have been dreaming of sharing my life dreams with.


The question i have for my elders on nairaland (most especially married) is, ' for how long should i be with her before i official propose to her?'


because we are into relationship not up to six months. And she possess at least 35% features of my dream wife.


How long can it take me to identify at least 50% more of her features?


And i want to get married at early 30s. (MUST)


On the 25th of may, 2016 i will clock 24. With the hope that at early 30s i MUST marry.


Over to you nairalanders.
(matured minds)


thank you all.

Hmmm...... Wetin pesin no go hear

EfemenaXY:
Why are you so heavily involved in someone else's marriage? What's in it for you?

y won't i ? When the husband in question is my relative

EfemenaXY:
It's myopic of you to jump to conclusions without first hearing from both sides, then asking relevant questions before arriving at one-sided conclusions.

~ Have you spoken to his wife to find out the reasons behind her actions?

~ What is / was the gap between the pregnancies? Were they in quick succession of each other?

~ What is their financial situation like? Can they afford the additional costs? Or are you of the simplistic school of thought: Have as many as you possibly can because "God and well meaning Nigerians will provide"?

she doesn't hv any reason what soever to commit abortion. Why dint she have family planning secretely instead?? Must she kill?

Here are my 2016 prophecies

1. There will be election in some state in nigeria.
2. APC and PDP media rant will continue
3. There will be jobs for unemployed youths.
4.There will be a lot of marriage annivasries.
5.Biafra will be heard of no more.

Prettiepearlz:
Oh no,that's where we get it all wrong in Nigeria,he shouldn't have involved his family. Now its all complicated now. He should have tried talking it out with her. And to clarify things right, Are they legally married? Happy new year dearie.

nt legally. 'enlopment'

Guys i have a question for you all as we are few hours to a new year.


Will you #marry a virgin that is HIV/AIDS positive , possesses all the good ingredients of a wife material?


#end time question?

Well, i call it
#CountDownQuestion.


Over to you guys.

Girls cn also comment.

Exponental:
Maybe she had cheated on him and she wouldn't want to have a bastard in her home.
On a contrary, she could be experiencing psychological trauma which should be identified and resolved.

actually she is a cheat.but this her husband does not knw...

Joavid:
She's aborting cos you both poor.

y do she hav to marry the poor guy in the first place?

Prettiepearlz:
Yeah,I understand you. Same goes for my aunt. She does nothing,her hubby opened a shop for her. But she is the outgoing lady who likes clubbing with friends and all sort of going out. So she thought having a baby would tie her down,so she was always aborting back then,before her hubby got to know and told the family members and God was merciful to give her a second chance. Now like I said earlier she has two kids(boys). Let the husband talk it out with her. Its either,there is more to it or she doesn't love her husband.

u knw, d husband still has some iota of love for d girl. But his relatives hav vow nt to accept her into their family

EfemenaXY:
Fake thread with no substance.

i can see a Thomas in you. Tinz dat ar happening these daysu cnt just condemned this thread frm ur myopic point....... Of view