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Op as much as I would like to sympathise with your plight, I don't know why I am suspicious of you.

I have heard this before.

Guy forget this your wakeup call, the igbos WILL never rule this country.

I know the story will be from vanguard from seeing the headings, we all know vanguard newspaper is an anti-Buhari government and policies. Proceeding on the case has started, vanguard should leave the judgement for the court to decide and stop inciting sentiment.

Op your story is deflated. How did your mum have a gsm in 1991 to have a phone number that instrumentalist were asking form?

Battery is an inbuilt instinct, God just made him demonstrate it to made realise what you are going to experience in marriage with him, if you are wise is better to council the wedding now.

You reminded me of King Solomon son that received counsel from the elders of the land and turned it down and went to seek counsel from his folks. I guess you have made up your mind on what to do, you only came to nairaland to obtain the approvals from the people that sees things the way you want them to. Since your parents counsel did not make any sense to you, I wonder how mine can. Please go ahead and do what is on your mind to do.

Try not fix your mind on it as a problem, the less you rate as a big problem the less its influence is on you. What you are concerned about and fear takes control of you. Always see yourself in control and overcoming, stop seeing the experience as part of the life you live and gradually the thought wil leaves you and before you know it the habit will be broken. But devotion to God in all ways is the key to victory, it should be underestimated.

I can't imagine how a lady you attested to be engaged in runs, who must have several men sleeping with her before you met her and after you have had sex with her could have a baby and you are here on nairaland acting as someone who just recorded an achievement in child production. To me from all I could bring out from your story, you are desperate and indirectly begging the lady to identify you as the father of the boy. First, the lady did not open up to you about her pregnancy even when you noticed she denied it, the lady did not inform you when she put to bed, you only found out when you asked her about it after a long a time of no communication, with all these you are jumping to conclusion to be the father of the baby. Guy you are CHEAP. Beside what made you a nice guy and the lady a bad girl? I don't like when people run down others to overestimate themselves.

The question should have been " should you allow her to continue using it as a substitute or she should get help from outside?". In my opinion, since it is obvious you can't satisfy her libido and she's not seeing another man outside, you should allow her ease herself with the machine if that is doing the work for her after all you still have her loyalty. On the other hand you also try and work on yourself.

Happy birthday to a great general of God. I wish him a more fulfilling year ahead.

You only need to accept Jesus and ask God to feel your heart with Love people and to also teach you to walk in love and forgiveness.

Psauqre are just over rated pervert.

Now I understand how myopic pdp and Jonathan supporters are to be equating the most corrupt leader ever reign in Nigeria with Jesus. It should be remember they have been having this coming a long time. I hate anything pdp.

I wonder if you are here to seek advice from someone else to go against your husband instruction. Why not have a mutual discussion with your husband on it so the two of you can have a common ground on this?

Girl run for that guy, I smell fraud. You don't have to regret knowing him If you end that relationship now.

I guess freeglobe and erakamus can now desist reasoning with their anus.

Freeglobe, erakamus, your hero is going to jail.

With all the unfounded allegation against this man, call him to any enquiry agency anytime he makes himself available to defend himself and nothing has been found against him. Whereas PDP heroes like GEJ and Saraki are running around to stop corruption trials against them.

Truly I remember reading that thread around August, I had also wonder why it took so long for it to come to the front page if were ever meant meant to be there. Now I understand the problem is with the inefficiency of the moderators. I suggest Seun should look into it and penalise the moderator involve.

Now we know the reason why Sanusi Lamido Sanusi was removed from the office before his time. GEJ knew that Sanusi will never play along with game of looting.

I am sure Alameiyeseigha said this for the gullibles that wants to believe the lies, Nigerians are not deceived.

That you cannot leave because he threatened to kill you and himself with knife is a lie. If indeed you want to leave you would have done it when he leaves for work.

Igbo men bringing inovation into criminality, this will be the first of its type anywhere in the world. Igbos leads in crime and others follows.

Another chuckwuma again!!

I trust the nigerian police, they will rope the man to high heaven just to hang him.

Squig:
@ all, the new guy or my man are not rich, just average guys. I met the new guy when my man and I had an issue and we didn't talk for almost 3 months and I thought that was the end even though we've agreed to marry before then. the wedding issue has been dragging on for a long time and I got fed up. I believe he's scared of losing me that is why he demanded we get married now.

I'm not a bad person or cheat, my man was my first. I just feel this new guy really cares about me and he's optimistic about having me in his life.

PS. the new guy doesn't know we've worked out our differences and we are not dating officially, we just spend a lot of time together and he's talking about getting married.

I still insist it's absolutely wrong for a decent lady to double date. I foresee you having an affair with a side man everytime you have issue with your husband in your marriage.

Tashaamania:
The nonentity might turn out to be Mr. right. I'm just saying..
She shouldn't ignore any signs. Staying with someone for five years isn't a guarantee just as knowing someone couple of months back isn't. Anyone can pretend for any length of time.

OP weigh both options. if need be, take time off the wedding planning, postpone and figure out what you really want. Marriage no be beans especially when you're going into it with doubts, that's alot of pending trouble.

for five she was certain of her love for the first guy, just few month to her wedding a distractor came and she suddenly having a doubt. In your opinion the new man might turn out to be Mr. Right, and while she's in the plan to wed the new Mr. Right another man with super features comes around again to distract her, she begin to have her doubt again, I guess you will still consider him to be Mr. Right again. Why don't you just tell her she has lust problem or are you also in the game of dating a guy and looking side way to find a better alternative to the guy you are dating? Get an advise, no angel man anywhere, no man is perfect.

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Before I read about the new man I was going to tell you not to go ahead with the wedding because there's no point getting married to somebody you are not connecting to. But now that I know that another man's involvement is the cause for the disconnection I will still tell you not to go ahead with the marriage if you will not deal with the lust in your life because you are just going to make life unhappy for your hubby and your children with the double standard of life you will be living. Honestly the poor guy or any decent guy does not deserve your type of a woman, your type really belong to those irresponsible guys outside there.

grandstar:
And we will gladly give them!

How much? 1k I guess, hehehehehe!!