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Sam I really feel your need but am also concern about some dubious men that will soon be on the prowl to take advantage of your situation to exploit you, just watch and decide for any offer carefully and prayerfully. I wish you the best.

Mbu the brave should have been sent to sambisa forest.

Don't tell me you believe the story that "nothing sex happen between them". Anyway I wouldn't believe that she will kill herself until I see her stab herself at a terminal point and I wouldn't believe she dies until they lower her corpse into the grave and cover her with sands.

In Africa not just in Nigeria, the igbos leads in crime others are just following far behind. Anytime a crime news is released, I immediately make my guess that the culprits will be Igbos and 90% of the time my guess were correct.

Igbos and crime be like lipton and milk.

Igbos the criminals of Nigeria.

I wonder if am the only one that notice that 89% of the criminal acts mention in nigeria involves the igbos.

How are we sure these are soldiers and not hoodlums dressed in military uniform?

All these frauds were perpetrated under Jonathan, Lomarde was a product of Jonathan. That indicate that Jonathan represent nothing but a disaster to Nigeria, thank God he was booted out of power, if we are still under his rule the revelation about rot in EFCC would never have come to the open.

Sahara Reporters remains a major nightmare to Jonathan/PDP during and after his reign, is always digging out all the lies and deceit of PDP. SR weldon, keep up leading in investigative journalism in nigeria.

agarawu23:
this one is just a greedy Igbo guy, Igbo guys I know hustle and work so hard to get money.

NO shortcut to success.

selling kidney in Malaysia isn't a new business for Nigerians who are eager to get rich or die trying.

If I sell my one kidney, how am I sure the second one is working perfectly?

no wonder some ppl are just too stingy to give ppl their money......

"hello bros a beg I need 20k "

"you dey mad, why can't you go and sell your kidney too. "

I hope you you enjoy your self deceit that this one was JUST a greedy igbo guy? As a point of correction and average igbo man has greed flowing in his vein. Talking of hustle, yes igbo guy hustle but including that they can commit nay crime in hustle.

Now Sekibo and the pdp know how it feel when they were using the security men to trouble Amaechi government in Rivers State it was like they were party.

The scholarship offer is still on.

HeartRobber:
Lol

What is your take?

My take is he should ignore all those mounting pressure on him and upgrade himself, opportunity for a brighter future await him out there, by God's grace he won't be 30yrs before God turn his finances around and he can now settle down with a woman. I don't always like the idea that implies that money is not an important aspect of our living, to me the place of money cannot be overlooked though I advocate legitimate means of possessing it.

Some women still amaze me with their degree of stupidity at this age. What stop her from taking birht control before now after four children? Well, the government will not always be taking over the welfare responsibility of some baby factory that the husband will abscond soon.

Madam you should have acted wisely before you begin to get pregnant every now and then. If your hubby has refused you birth control, you should have done one without his knowledge, remember your life and not his is at risk here. Well on the matter at hand, involve his family members and your own to interfere. Involve his friends and the family pastor.

HeartRobber:
He said he's not yet ready for marriage for now, but siblings and uncles are pushing him to the wall because he's the only son

What do you mean by "he should take his time to avoid everlasting regret?

Am curious

He should talk to himself that those uncle and siblings will not live with the wife with him and let them leave him alone to organise his life for a better future.

kentochi:
he can go ahead and marry together they will build new generation.
25k is good enough for them.

hia, this kind of counsel!! Hope you will drop your contact in case of emergency.

BeeBeeOoh:
He isn't a kid anymore not to know what he wants. Even with 25k as his salary, with plans he can still make it but; he should take his time to avoid everlasting regret...

That he's not a kid anymore; I agree, that he can make it with 25k;;please educate me, that he should avoid everlasting regret; a word they say is enough for the wise.

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Op sorry, I could have given an opinion but at the opening of your post you sounded above board, you sounded even wiser than King Solomon that others opinion would be nothing but silly to you. You know what to do so go ahead to do it.

I met this lady at the immigration office some 2yrs back with this guy, then I knew that the guy was not into her, she was the one tripping all over the guy, you could see her desperation then.

Well I think a little bit of moderation is needed here. To visit yes it is not bad but shouldn't be too frequent otherwise you begin to lose your value by the day as they are getting more of your attention and you are no longer becoming as special to them as they begin to find so weak points in you. To go their as early as 8am and live by 10pm or even sleep over is only sending a message of how free, lose and if you permit me to use the word cheap the lady is, cooking and doing some house chore is not bad but should not be frequent. In conclusion creating artificial scarcity of yourself makes them demand for you and values you the more as they consider it that you are not easily available so it will always be a privilege anytime they have you.

There are women just as there as there are men that will still react badly when they catch their spouse on the cheating game upon the fact that they are cheating on the same spouse, so it all depends on the individual.

Cutehector:
Because food is better dan sex.

funny, though you are right but I can be calm when hungry but get angry when sex starved.

I don't know about that but I am normally calm when hungry.

You can't mortgage you studies and your future on the platform of 70k, that amount may seems huge to you now but it will soon become too little for you to build your life on. What education offers you is more than knowledge, it offers you platform, it offers you leverage, please go ahead and complete your studies so that you can provide employment for some tomorrow.

No one is wrong among the three of you, just that you need to exercise patient till the marital rights is observed to legalise your union. The two of you need not threatening one another, vist should be mutual, visit her in her school and she should as well visit you at home even is has decided not to sleep over.

Barcanista should be counting, these are some of the achievement of Buhari that his hero that almost sold out Nigeria to his cronies cannot boast of for his 6years reign.

Guy let that lady go, love and respect in a relatioship should be mutual. A situation where you're the one that wants the relationship more the other only makes you suffer because you will always be at her mercy and it shouldn't be so. Beside ladies don't like a man they slap and accept it as his due like a house boy, even if you are not going to hit her back she will respect you more when express your displeasure and warn that such should repeat itself again. They like a man that has ego (I don't mean arrogant) and will not allow it to be trodden on, they believe such a man is able to defend them when they are threaten.

SUGARBEE:
I love that babe, she's taking the bull by its horns.. I guess she's trying to avoid you dumping her in future..

does packing to a man that is not married to you prevents him from dumping you whenever you are expire before him or is just making you a cheap desperate b!tch?

Igbo groups are not relevant in Nigeria, they should find work to do.