₦airaland Forum

Na una no go no peace.

Igbos remain in opposition and playing politics of hate but want presidency to fall on them. Till Jesus come Igbos will not smell presidency, let them keep playing politics of hate.

Jonathan should go to court and deny the allegation rather media denial he's doing.

StarUp:
First and foremost, what did she do? Most times people don't ask that question, they will instead start bashing the guy with words... Even a mad man won't assault you just like that... It's possible what she has been doing to him is worse than this(maybe it was compound-payback)...#justsaying

I guess you only made your comment to garner likes from folks like you beside you are never into a relationship or you came from a home where dad kicks mum like bucket and because you were already used to it you considered battering mummy is justify since daddy is the money bag.

Wait until you get into a relationship and you have a beast as partner, then try to justify his actions when he beat you like this because you did something wrong.

Jonathan can call it fabricated because this is Nigeria where wicked and corrupt politicians have fans.

If the Sudan approach to their past president is applied i doubt if Jonathan will say this.

generationz:
I always wonder what motivates people to tell such lies against someone who helped them

fame?
psychopathy?
Narcissism?
Demonic possession or what ?

cc LordKO

Am a fresh victim of such. A pastor i have been helping to come out of economic hardship tried to play a fraud on me and it was blown and i scolded him for descending so low, he apologized and i forgave.

The next thing was that I received an invitation to appear before a pannel to answer some charges. Getting there I was faced with serious falsified issues but thank God after the panel heard me and he was queried he was exposed that was how God exonerate me on something that would have proceeded to police invitation and he was shamed.

Right now I'm in serious consideration whether I should stop helping people or not.

bigpicture001:
Trust me...you will run away if I tow ur path nd respond with insults.....follow my comment nd you would b grateful am nice this morning.......

Mind your words!

He just served you what you deserved. Go and digest what he said and become wise rather than jumping everywhere on social media spewing trash since you are finding it difficult to differentiate between what is right and wrong.

And again learn how to mind your own business, your state has enough trouble of its own to keep you busy enough.

PDP should die already

Niorte:
Please what can be done? The company i work for keep deducting pension money from the salaries of its staff every month without paying to the Pension Fund Administrators.

What is the consequence of this? Who is supposed to act, me or the PFA?

Is there any known labour law which allows this.

This has been going on for more than a year now.


Please help me move this to front page.
We may not be able to challenge the management but it is believed that social media can help turn around the situation.

Write a petition to PFA and EFCC.

Fayose has used ajatuka for them.

If you know you know

Wallade:
How reasonable is it for traditional rulers to avoid politics?

Our politicians hate truth. Being neutral is the best way for tradional rules, let the people decide the fate of a politician seeking for an elective position.

Obi will never be VP of Nigeria, VP of biafra maybe

The lesson here is that the traditional rulers should stay out of politics to avoid embarrassment if the person they opposed win

All i read was the ranting of a senseless group.

If this is a report from Osun state or any APC ruling state this children of hate will all be here making their useless noise.

PDP is pathetic and sucks.

asokoromadam:
Nigeria is finished

The appeal court victory take style pain you

bentben:
So I will try to be as brief as possible, because story is very long.

Started having an affair with this close friend of my wife who now happens to be my colleague in the office now... I helped her got the job before we started having se. X. I have been her target, Infact that was why she came so close to my wife, I'm introverted, so that was the only way she could get close.

Yes she's not happy in her marriage, because her husband is promiscuous and don't give her attention . She used me to ease her pain. I consented to the affair because I kind of felt I was assisting her ease the pain in the marriage... I was totally wrong... I goofed, along the line we fell in love with each other... Deeply in love, even  we knew what we were doing was wrong.

Every fuc, king persons in my neighbourhood and office feels I'm straff1ng her, but we were never caught in the act.
The more I try to resist and stop this whole affair, the more the bond, considering we work in same office space.

She wants more attention than I give to my wife her supposedly friend .. She flares up most time when I pick my wife's call... Forgetting we are close family friends and can easily be caught.
She steal kisses whenever she visits, not minding my wife is in the kitchen.
We both have kids... That are friends.

NOW THE BIG ISSUE :

Because of the less attention she's getting from me, considering the fact that I want to play safe, she has decided to start straff1ng our boss who seems to be giving her the whole attention as it seems now.

Our boss his a nice handsome guy.

Myself and our boss are very close Pal, he knew I'm so close to her but choose to get is own pound of the flesh... Even though he claim he wasn't... But I was privileged to hack and  read their chat and got knowledge of their sexcapade...

She still wants an affair with me, she's fuc. k1ng  sleeping with two married people in an office.
I found this very hurtful, shameful, disgraceful and disgusting... Even though what I'm also doing is terrible...
I'm trying to heal and stop this whole affair... I took some days off work to clear my head already.

I'm deeply hurt by her actions, blocked her on all social media handles.

I need matured advice please on how to scale through all this without going back to my vomit looking that we work in same office space and I got to see her every other day.

This story is no fiction... Pls bash me, but don't forget to drop a word of advice for me and probably her.

I'm using a new moniker... I have been an active nairalander... I want to hide my shame.. kindly also ignore my typo... It was done on my phone.

Thank you.

MOD will appreciate if it can get to FP plsssssss.

Tell yourself it's over between the two of you and keep assuring yourself of it even when you see her.

Ensure that you maintain strictly a working relationship with her and nothing more. Bar her from visiting your family henceforth and if she threatened bringing your wife into the know tell her she should feel free as you are ready to own up to it and also assure her you will equally bring her hubby into the know both what you doing with her and what she is doing with others in your office.

Now how does he it was the same thief that snatched the wife's phone that was caught or he's just excited that a phone thief was caught?

Disgruntled and frustrated Ayo Adebanjo should go to court and prove his evidence against Buhari and should stop making noise.

If this Nigeria now CNN will blow it up. Useless USA

The disgruntled children of hate will always have something to say against this...

With all the naysaying of their brothers on the internet see how the Igbos are agitating for the #10,000

PDP in blackmailing mode and sifia pain.

Tonto is a fool. Let all hailing her tell her that when her child grows up he will hate her more than she hate her ex right now.

The drama she will do then will be part 2 but titled "Tonto Dike threatened to lay curse on her son"

Tonto Dike is a disgrace to motherhood and a toxic to a relationship.

The problem Tonto Dike has like most Igbos is that they hate, they don't forgive and they don't forget.

Tonto Dike is now boring with her endless hate and allegations against her ex husband now.

Wow the north has taken over from the south east in local crimes, i supposed is because the hardworkers have taken their to the international scene, the bureau d change robbery in Dubai lately by our brothers quickly come to mind as a case study.

Atiku just involved himself in what will expose the long hidden secret of his life and will eventually stop his political future in Nigeria

Another Igbo in the act.

If they are not sleeping with their mothers, they are beating them to stupor, if they are not killing their father they are slapping their father in the public or waking him up with karate kick.

Toks2008:
Oluwa o... I dey loyal sir.

I sent a message to your Facebook messenger but no response.

Olakoredey@gmail is my email


Please send me your contact.


Thanks sir.

Good to hear from you man, have really missed you.

I have about four Facebook account maybe you sent to the one am not regular with

godwind753@gmail.com is my email

Toks2008:
Titi, a young beautiful lady has vowed never to share her man with any lady and at 27,she got married to her prince charming who gave her all the love and faithfulness beyond her wildest dreams. But unfortunately at the age of 36,she lost her husband to a terrible accident and she was left as a widow who has to cater for her 2 kids but no serious single guy wants her except countless married men who want her as a legit concubine.

Caroline's case is an interesting one...she has been so unfortunate in the hands of single guys and at 38 and still single,every single guy she meets just want to have a taste of her pudding whilst the married men have promised to make her a concubine and take good care of her emotionally and materially.

Faith is a never married single mum who have given up on single guys because most of them just don't want to be with a single mum and the more she tries to look away from married men,the more difficult it is for her to get a serious minded single guy.

Ngozi with her two children were thrown out of her matrimonial home by her husband because she was accused of bringing bad luck to him and at the young age of 30,she kept her hope alive that she will find love again and have made up her mind to do away with married men but now at 40,she has not found any decent single guy but Alhaji Danladi has promised to take good care of her and her kids if only she will agree to be his concubine.

And what about Regina,a very beautiful 19year old girl with a bright future but from a not so rich background...luckily for her,she meets a married man old enough to be her father who is ready to sponsor her academic career, change her life and that of her entire family only she will agree to be his legitimate concubine.

All these aforementioned situations have forced many ladies to seek solace in the hands of married men and as you read this,there are several single ladies having a swell time with married men but many young ladies will never agree to this until they find themselves in any of these situations before the reality dawns on them and as i always tell people..."Never say it can never happen to me cos life has a way of proving people wrong"

What does the word legitimate concubine mean?
A Legitimate Concubine is a woman who is also married to the man(Secondary wife),has rights as a wife but of a lower status to the Principal spouse so the position of the main spouse and her child(ren) is never replaced which means a man can have Just one Main wife and can also decide to have a legitimate concubine or concubines IF HE DESIRES.

Below are some facts i want everyone to understand

I.A married man having concubines is an age long practice even in the biblical days “I have never seen anywhere in the Bible where prophets and preachers prayed for single ladies to get married. The Bible men had several legitimate concubines and every lady had a husband,” Yes it may not be the Original plan of GOD but he permitted it. The Bible has only come out strongly to condemn adultery, which is taking another man’s wife or a married person sleeping with someone he/she is not married to. Which means if the man marries another lady the proper way,she becomes a legitimate spouse and there will be no case of adultery.

2.Better than a man keeping mistresses or a lady becoming a mere mistress of a married man;
In my opinion,no lady should stoop so low to be a mere mistress to a married man that will be used and tossed aside like a piece of pad but it is very ok if he decides to make her his legitimate concubine..GOD is not against it and as far as the Bible is concerned, the number of wives or concubines that one has does not matter and is not a standard for righteousness.

3.Pastors and general overseers can have concubines if they so desire:
Many pastors and General overseers have been destroyed because they got involved in adultery. This never ending menace is bringing so much ridicule to the Christendom and many ignorant people are always fast to call Christianity a scam. Whilst i totally agree that adultery is a sin,i will blame these ignorant pastors or general overseers for their own downfall because they try to box themselves in the heresy of ''POLYGAMY IS A SIN'' whilst they continuously get involved in sexual acts with another woman secretly.

1 Timothy 3:2 states ''An overseer must have a good reputation and be faithful in marriage. They must be self-controlled, sensible, well-behaved, friendly to strangers, and able to teach''....some translations use the phrase(Husband of one wife) and many people take this to mean it is a sin for a pastor or G.O to have more than one wife but many Theologians have agreed that this Bible portion was simply instructing Pastors and G.O to avoid adultery and a man marrying more than one wife is clearly not adultery...it is sleeping with another woman you are not married to that constitutes the act of adultery.

Shall we say it is ok for a man who has more than one wife to divorce extra wives because he wants to be a pastor or General overseer? will this not be a sin in itself? or should I turn down the call of GOD to be a pastor or G.O because I have more than one wife?


4.It is the viable hope of many ladies in need of a man in their lives:
There are some women whose answers to a life partner rests on becoming a concubine rather than for them to be used as intimacy tool in the hands of randy men or never married single men.

5.It is not for every man:
Not all men are cut out for this cos of its a complicated way of life and it is advisable that men should stick with their principal spouse and only have concubines if they are financially,psychologically and and emotionally ready for it.

6.It helps stabilize the marital institution:
We have seen situations where man dumps his wife because she is opposed to his decision to get a concubine and at the end of the day,the wife packs out just to be the concubine of another married man. In the western world,divorce is on the rise because the western ideology does not accept this age long viable practice which has turned many women in the western world to depressed divorcees and single mothers.

7.The fact that the missionaries, who mostly came from Rome, began to preach against the act does not mean that this is what the Bible teaches. “It is unfortunate for the Church that today, when our dear brothers and sisters attend theological schools, they are fed with so much gentile-tilted theology that upon graduation, they are well equipped to vigorously convince the world to buy into the Roman immigration of Christianity that suggests that it is a sin for man to marry more than one woman.

8.This practice is not about men needing many wives: but it’s about women needing husbands and to save a generation of women who are ageing without husbands...No woman deserves to be without a husband”

9.It reduces immorality: Many ladies and men are psychologically boxed to think it is a sin to marry more than one woman or for a woman to marry an already married man but nevertheless,adultery thrives but if every man in need of another wife tows the path of having a legitimate concubine and every woman who wants to be with a married man becomes his legitimate concubine,the immoral act of adultery will be reduced. If pastors also tow this path,there will be less cases of pastors getting caught in the act of adultery and ministries collapsing as a result of this avoidable act.

This thread is not about promoting polygamy but a realistic one aimed at bringing sanity into the 21st century matrimony...for women who are always quick to run out of their marriages because their husbands have eyes for another woman.Monogamy is not a must and polygamy is not for every man but a choice. If you leave your marriage because of a concubine then you must be ready in most cases to be an intimacy gadget in the hands of randy men or become the concubine of another married man.

I hope this makes sense

Mr B this is Mr D. Such a long time, nawa for you you o. We n to go talk for real, i will pm your email.

Elnino4ladies:
Wetin concern IPOB with Nigeria issue??

They are confused.