₦airaland Forum

Gerrard59:
I am curious, how do you express genuine desire to a guy?

This love thing don dey hard pass further mathematics.

Oh, he would know.

Pele. The mathematics don dey further. 🤣

Magnoliaa:
You can imagine this.

I've never met a dumber group of people.


Their mums have literally gone through the worst shit at their fathers' hands in real life, but they'll come online to come and be painting a different picture. Performing for the validation of other men.


It is the mums who usually end of contributing the most to their lives that they'll reserve all their vim for but their wicked, deadbeat dads will remain an idol in their eyes, even if they cannot say their favourite colors.

Very dumb set of humans.

Lol I know right. Always coming online to act picture perfect, meanwhile their reality is different.

He should channel all the anger to his father, and leave Nigerian women out of his shenanigans.

By their utterances, you can know if they're loved at home or not...

I really like Sanusi's accent. Seen and heard him talk at one conference I attended years ago and was just amazed at his intellectual prowess.

kkins25:
OP was just panicking and probably scared.. Make una show am mercy. E fit dey wonder why he even called. 😂😂😂..

I need that kind of confidence though.. I hate video calls or anything face to face.

I was in napep the other day, opposite me was a beauty. I was stunned. Forgot all my pick up lines. Even my thoughts were scattered. All that "alpha" ego vanished. So disappointed in myself😂.

I wanted to initiate a conversation, but remembered reading folake4u incident of some guys approaching them at a restaurant(or so). And she said she was irritated by it.

I was like "this girl no fit dey find love now".

To folake, thanks but no thanks. 😭 I've been thinking of the incident for the past 3days..The girl was really my spec.

Indeed, what we watch and read influences us in ways we are unconscious of. I thought it was esoteric BS, but now that e don happen to me, I now agree..

Sarry sarry, don't cry. 🤣🤣😭😭

Nor go use me as standard abeg oh, before you come say Folake nor make you find your missing rib.

Oh about that hangout with my girlfriend, we just wanted to have a good time alone and gist after a long day. So those men approaching us was really irritating.

Some girls would not mind though, but we simply weren't interested.

I also wrote here that when I was going to work and I entered keke with a man, he talked nicely to me and I gave him my number because he asked nicely. It was when we started chatting that I saw he didn't have sense and was bombarding me with questions, I just had to block him same day for my sanity.

We women like peace of mind, yunno.

jorion:
Yes, a working country where people treat each other with mutual respect...

Where a man is truly appreciated...

Don't worry about me... I know married Nigerian men during my masters who even forgot that they were married after they saw REAL WOMEN... WE KNOW OUR WAYS... DON'T WORRY ABOUT US...

GO AND FIND SOMEONE ELSE TO EMOTIONALLY BLACKMAIL. NOT ME

Lol real women indeed. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

No one's worried about y'all. You just cannot eat your cake and have it. Here's you endorsing your fellow Nigerian men cheating on their wives, whereas your own mother went through hell in your father's hands.

You really should heal because all your posts show you have no regard for women. No one blames you for being raised in a dysfunctional family but you owe yourself the duty of personal development.

No one's emotionally blackmailing you but it seems you're heading to your 30s/40s, maybe drop this attitude? I mean, as you're aging, you're supposed to be wiser and not dense.

Lastly, you can reach out to Mentally Aware Nigeria on Twitter for free counseling services.
https://twitter.com/MentallyAwareNG?t=n_LSesHlS-pQC5zMvt_Z_g&s=08

Your mental health matters and I'm rooting for you.


Goodnight.

jorion:
You don tire abi...

YOUR EMOTIONAL MANIPULATIONS WON'T WORK.. YOU CAN CALL ME MENTALLY UNSTABLE ALL YOU LIKE.. I DON'T CARE, AS LONG AS IT IS COMING FROM A NIGERIAN WOMAN...

You're hurt, I understand.

I will pray to God to heal your broken heart.

jorion:
Planning to go for my PhD before 40 overseas when I will still be very sexually active. This time na the ASIANS na I dey go for...

HEARD THOSE GIRLS ARE UNFORGETTABLE...

Nigerian girls hands dey like STONE. I don tire for them

Yen yen yen, no one cares.

Go there and disgrace yourself na. Sheybi fúçking is the bane of your existence.

I'm always happy when y'all Nigerian men go to a working country and realize that if you do anyhow to women, you'd sleep in prison.

Go there and disgrace yourself please.

jorion:
Find NIGERIAN as WIFE ke... When money dey??

I go rather marry man... No woman go manipulate me for this life...

Yeah yeah. Go and follow your type, nobody's stopping you.

By all means, marry a man. No one cares.

Lastly, I pray you heal because all these emotional outbursts are a result of your dysfunctional mental state.

Do us a favour by seeing a therapist, it's a form of self care. Your soul would thank you. 😘

jorion:
Na me talk am... The Greek woman still dey pain una abi...

If you know how those girls dey soft... God, you go just dey look Nigerian girls like men.

The soft body massage, the discussions about almost everything, the sweet sex,

MAKE E CONTINUE TO PAIN UNA... 120 POUNDS WELL SPENT PER SESSION

In Lala-land, I know.

Magnoliaa:
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

See ehn. These people will not kill someone. I honestly did not even pay any attention to that when he said it. I just thought 'okay, people from different parts of the world are on NL. Big deal. He's still buying sex from women even if he travels around the world, so don't care about that.' Only for me to check his profile and his face and location. Nigga is chatting from Warri, and flying Deltan Spiritual Airlines. If you hear the scream I let out 😭.

Lmao. It's usually the empty ones that make the loudest noise. I'm not surprised.

Na him type go dey find Fagin wife after spreading his smelly preek everywhere.

1Sharon:

You're too nice, I usually guard my number because once they have it, it's easy for them to get your Facebook or insta from there. It's better to give your socials first, then block from there

Men always mistake friendliness for attraction, it's annoying, that's why I smile at women and not men

Lol. They can't even link my Facebook or Insta from my number. So it's a futile exercise.

Before it escalates sef, I don already block the werey.

Do you gettttttttttttttt?? Men mistaking friendliness for attraction irritates me to the high heavens. I'm more friendly to women too. And when you reject some men's advances, them go say rubbish.

Better that girl too proud rather than she too mumu.

pocohantas:
Smh😂😂😂

But nor be lie na.

Magnoliaa:
No nau. 😂

You sef look at it.


These guys will just come here and pick a name to project the characters they are in their head, meanwhile they are very far from it in reality.

No lies, Maggie.

Alfa meil in the mud.

I saw where one said he has fvcked a Greek woman before. You sure say nor be Greek yoghurt him dey fantasize?

Magnoliaa:
"I fuvk well," but ordinary interest you cannot elicit.

😂😂😂😂Your mouth nor good.

1Sharon:
Omg. You're one of those double texters. It's making you look desperate. She's clearly ignoring you, so just move on. She probably did like you, but your desperate typing put her off. How annoying you are.

It is also possible that Op is deluding himself that the lady's into him.

I'm a friendly person and very playful when talking to people. I will even smile and crack jokes with the person. Some guys think it's "green light" from my end whereas it's just basic courtesy. They try to seize the opportunity by asking for my number and when I refuse, they insist saying they won't disturb. I don't like stress, I'd give him the number and he begins to chat himself daily.

GloriousGbola:
Lagos government workers. Lagos civil servants.

I was in such a hurry to bully you I failed to fully clarify

I know what you meant. I will identify as a public worker just for tomorrow.

GloriousGbola:
Olodo lawyer

The holiday is for Lagos workers only
If you like no show up for work
You will find out how to answer to query in a professional manner

I'm a Lagos worker please.

God bless you, Sanwo Olu.

dacool1:
Beware of your visitors and where you visit. Trust me it has nothing to do with neatness o. You can easily import them from anywhere.

Wow. That's crazy.

I'm reading the replies and it looks scary.

cococandy:
My lawyer my lawyer. I trust you to know

Lol certainly.

cococandy:
Me sef no know

Imagine. 😂😂😂😂

cococandy:
Folake 🫢🫢🫢

Ma.

Gerrard59:
This is not fair na. But the food by Coco looks so yummy. Good food is good. A major feature I miss about Nigeria. Maybe if I were in the UK, things could have been different.

We don't need you in her house please. Go and look for your fellow man to adopt you.

Yes, the food looks yummy indeed.🥰

This type of meal, you eat it and the person who prepared it and sleep. You'd wake up fully refreshed.

Gerrard59:
Yes, he is the one. I wondered what he scored in WAEC and JAMB. I just need my money to plenty, I will literally raid their offices for facts and figures!

He is a counsel at the IMF. Damn! His compatriot then in the academic brilliance journey is an attorney at Chevron. Girl, those men's brains were hot!

Lol. You can ask him on IG oh. He's a very free person actually.

Kenneth Okwor has always been a brilliant person. I had once pleaded with him to mentor me but his hands were full as at then but I was welcome to message him anytime I needed direction.

The other one at Chevron is Reginald Aziza. But he went to OAU. https://www.linkedin.com/in/reginald-aziza-dphil-law-11301b73?utm_source=share&utm_campaign=share_via&utm_content=profile&utm_medium=android_app

cococandy:
I don’t believe you

He go scatter your house. 😂😂

cococandy:
With pleasure

Yayyyyyyyy! So how can we start the adoption process?

Gerrard59:
Generally, the Japanese don't like strangers to live with them for extended periods. Visit? Yes, but this takes time to even get an invite. Live? Hard hard hard even as a domestic servant. Besides, Japan's neighbours are equally rich. Singapore is different as there is an endless supply from Indonesia and the Philippines. Also, Singapore is English speaking compared to Japan where such people have to learn Japanese. It is a reason the policy of hiring foreigners as domestic servants as introduced by South Korea will likely fail because they exhibit the same characteristics as the Japanese. To prove it, the availability of foreign domestic servants did not improve Singapore and Hong Kong's fertility rates.

Nothing, not daycare or domestic servants, beats the care of a mother.


The best graduates from there move to Lagos (one of Templars' alum had a first class from Unijos). One of the top JAMB scorers in my threads works in Lagos. That said, the government should limit the production of law graduates and tighten admission requirements. It is way too much for a country where the law hardly works.

Hmm. This is quite an insightful piece. Thank you for that.

https://www.linkedin.com/in/kenneth-o-d-okwor-a6319121?utm_source=share&utm_campaign=share_via&utm_content=profile&utm_medium=android_app

This is Kenneth Okwor. I'm sure that's the Templars person you're referring to. He's no longer in Nigeria sha. He went to Havard and Cambridge, plus married now too.