Family › Re: I Want To Sue My Ex Wife And My Inlaw by folake4u: 8:09am On Oct 24, 2024 |
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Education › Re: Lawyers And Law Students...please I Need Your Help. by folake4u: 7:52am On Oct 24, 2024 |
Hello folake4u, happy belated birthday. No need asking if you had fun cos it’s obvious from your update that you did …lol. Hello chitheo, Thank you for the birthday wish. Lol yes, I had much fun.  |
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Food › Re: The Kind Of Neighbor Everybody Wants Right Now (pics) by folake4u: 8:12am On Oct 23, 2024 |
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Food › Re: The Kind Of Neighbor Everybody Wants Right Now (pics) by folake4u: 6:07pm On Oct 22, 2024 |
Larrysung: Yes ooo..
Infact, every social media is now toxic. Twitter is now crazy too.
Lmaoooo.. who are my brothers ? Abegggg 😂😂😂😂😂
I no sabi their papa ooo!!! 😂🤣🤣 Ikr! Twitter is a mad house abeg. Hahahaha na your brothers oh.  |
Family › Re: Frustrated And In Need To Advice by folake4u: 9:13pm On Oct 20, 2024 |
Sapasenator: People pretend a lot before marriage and change afterward. I have intervened in many marriages, and you will shake your head if you hear tales. One even threw his wife's load outside for abroad o, she ran to sleep in the women's shelters. Your career first and foremost, have your assets before venturing into marriage and having only one child. True. People pretend a lot but for how long?? That's wild!!!! Yes, certainly. I'm not joking with my career and finance before venturing into marriage. So help me God. |
Family › Re: Frustrated And In Need To Advice by folake4u: 8:08pm On Oct 20, 2024 |
Proserpina: That Sense is very important and it comprises a lot of things. Maturity and Emotional intelligence are part of the things Sense contain. Be matured enough to communicate and let things go, these things are missing in Op's husband abeg.
You think you have your list on point until you hear tales like Op's and you have to recheck if you are certain you have all covered it's tiring biko .
Lol make them no come match you with wahala.
Bible don talk am finish my sister, may God help us. You know! Omoo. Nor be lie oh. Make I even go recheck that list again and add to the red flags. It is tiring, no jokes. Seeeeee!!! I'm just a soft baby girl, I nor like wahala for my life. Amennn oh. |
Family › Re: Frustrated And In Need To Advice by folake4u: 6:40pm On Oct 20, 2024 |
Proserpina: Like! It's crazy!
Honestly, what I've learned is choosing a partner is way deeper than what we think. Craziest part is qualities to look out for keeps changing everyday.
I don kukuma talk am no matter how much I earn the man must provide. That percentage thing is not for me. I used to be an advocate but these Men don't deserve it. I know right!!!!!! Really crazy! Ahhh about the qualities ehn? Topping my list is "If the person has sense" because Omooo! That one is just non-negotiable for me. And my list hasn't changed too. Previously when one of my friends tried matchmaking, I Just asked him if his friend has sense, he just laughed. He couldn't even vouch for him, I told him not to bother. Toh! I've never been a fan of that one oh. If we are to go by that rule, make him carry the belle too na.  A man that can't provide for his family is worse than an infidel, nor be me talk am sha. Na the Holy Bible.  |
Family › Re: Frustrated And In Need To Advice by folake4u: 6:31pm On Oct 20, 2024 |
Onegai: Many, MANY men globally, fumble the good women. I've read forums from different countries and I'm frankly so afraid for my sons.
Because there's so very few good resources teaching men how to be Good, Upright Men.
Even the Church and the Mosque are failing. Now, add Red Pill to it.
Even my male uncles that are elderly now, look back at their mistakes and are full of regrets, some have remorse. But nobody's listening to them and learning from them.
Marriage rates are plummeting, even in Nigeria (it's not yet noticeable, but young people are legit delaying marriage now).
There are a lot of resources and teachings and admonitions for women and very little for men. So women fumble good men, but at lower rates.
Like a wise man once said, "the Divorce rate rising, fewer people wanting to get married and have children and the rise of Feminism can all be attributed to man failing in their godly roles. Because those are all the world trying (and failing) to course-correct the roles a godly man should have filled". You are totally spot on! There's little or no guidance/resources for men. Everyone seems to focus on women grooming right from childhood. The men murmur that there's too much focus on the girl child, yet these men don't want to team up together and start focusing on raising the male child from infancy. Or maybe, they're still waiting for women to do this for them.  This is why I simply laugh at all these Alfa meils, because body go tell them for old age. Of course, marriage rates are plummeting and divorce cases are on a high now. One of my friends is always happy when he gets divorce briefs. His favourite line is "What God has not joined together, let me put asunder".  The economy too isn't friendly for prospective couples however life must go on. It only takes wisdom for couples these days to navigate their marital journey. And also, my generation isn't really interested in this "marriage" institution. They see from their parents experiences and do not want to repeat same mistake; others are insisting on financial stability before venturing into it. It is not well. |
Family › Re: Frustrated And In Need To Advice by folake4u: 4:38pm On Oct 20, 2024 |
Proserpina: This is how it should be but most women have learnt otherwise before they are accused of "hoarding" sex .
I really feel bad for Op . Another virtuous wife down  The virtuous wife these men are supposed to love and cherish, they ALWAYS fumble them so bad. I read this thread at 1am and was really sad. I kuku nor wan be Proverbs 31 woman.  |
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Fashion › Re: How Many Remember "Stella Pomade" The Popular Household Cream Of The 1980-90s? by folake4u: 5:21pm On Oct 19, 2024 |
Never heard of it. |
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Career › Re: How Much Money Do You Have To Make Monthly To Be Considered Rich In Nigeria by folake4u: 2:45pm On Oct 18, 2024 |
ayotukanmi: Thank you Folake, Will get the application moving ASAP You're welcome, Ayo. Wishing you all the best in your endeavours. 💜 |
Career › Re: How Much Money Do You Have To Make Monthly To Be Considered Rich In Nigeria by folake4u: 2:45pm On Oct 18, 2024 |
ayotukanmi: Helloo Oh, Thank you. I'm so sorry. Figured you got banned.. Yes I got banned. |
Romance › Re: Top 5 Romantic Line To The One You Really Love Wins A Prize by folake4u: 2:44pm On Oct 18, 2024 |
Fattprince23: Omo, they go for use sweet mouth finish you. Where you get all this? Lol. Sweet words nor dey move me, I'd just burst into laughter. Na action! |
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Romance › Re: Top 5 Romantic Line To The One You Really Love Wins A Prize by folake4u: 8:05pm On Oct 17, 2024 |
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Romance › Re: Top 5 Romantic Line To The One You Really Love Wins A Prize by folake4u: 8:05pm On Oct 17, 2024 |
guobe: Send account Thank you for the offer. Please send mine to any random person. |
Romance › Re: Top 5 Romantic Line To The One You Really Love Wins A Prize by folake4u: 7:31pm On Oct 17, 2024 |
1. Have you been covered by bees recently because you appear sweeter than honey.
2. Others will tell you better days ahead but I'll give you better days and head.  |
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Celebrities › Re: Verydarkman Receives N172 Million And He Is Scared ! (video) by folake4u: 11:06am On Oct 17, 2024 |
DeeScan: there are actual persons of integrity out there .. Even if integrity isn't a lifestyle you practice ... If your parents knew you'd grow up to be a senseless troll on Nairaland, they'd have time travelled to wear a condom to prevent your useless self from existing.  |
Career › Re: How Much Money Do You Have To Make Monthly To Be Considered Rich In Nigeria by folake4u: 9:43am On Oct 17, 2024 |
ayotukanmi: Hi Folake4u, It's been a minute, I trust you are doing great. Happy belated birthday. I know for a fact you enjoyed the day. I took this out of Dairyland because I wanted to sort of restrict the views. I'm on the Look out for VA jobs and I would happy to get a referral. I would provide my portfolio on request if I get any. You can reach me on funbiayotomiwa@gmail.com if you need to reach me. Thank you for time. Hi dear. I had posted some links to check online for remote jobs, but got banned in this section. So let me see if I can write it here again. 🧘🏿♀️Fiverr 🧘🏿♂️Upwork 🧗🏿♀️ Dribbble .com 🧗🏿♂️ 99designs .com 🤹🏿♀️ Mediabistro .com 🤹🏿♂️ZipRecruiter 🙊SimplyHired 🙂Monster .com 😘Idealist .org 😁Translatorscafe .com 😉Glassdoor 😄EuropeRemotely 😆Travelmassive .com 🤪Hitmarker .net 🤓Remoters .net 🧐Mturk .com 🤭Businesstalentgroup .com/ 🤼🏿♀️ Remote4Me .com 🤾🏿♀️Remotejobsclub. com 🤸🏿♀️Indeed .com 🤸🏿♂️ Twitter (use hashtag and follow industry experts or recruiters) 🏋🏿♀️Powertofly .com 🏋🏿♂️Authenticjobs .com ⛹🏿♀️Sitepoint .com/jobs ⛹🏿♂️Joinrise .co (for women) 🚣🏿♀️ Landing .jobs 🚣♂️ Gun .io 🏇🏿 Dice .com 🙂Felxjobs 🤫SolidGigs ✍🏿JustRemote 👊🏿Dynamite Jobs 👍🏿LinkedIn/LinkedIn ProFinder 📢 remoteok .io 📣 remotive .io 😃 weworkremotely .com 🤗 remoteglobal .com 🤷🏿♀️AngelList There are a lot more and you can apply to them but one must surely click. Cheers! |
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Celebrities › Re: Verydarkman Receives N172 Million And He Is Scared ! (video) by folake4u: 9:31am On Oct 17, 2024 |
HedgesTV: Nah, VDM is a man of integrity. I trust him to use the funds for the NGO projects and not personal gain. Lmaooooooooo. Nigerians NEVER learn. |
Career › Re: How Much Money Do You Have To Make Monthly To Be Considered Rich In Nigeria by folake4u: 1:28pm On Oct 16, 2024 |
ayotukanmi: Hi Folake4u, I couldn't read your message. I think it was deleted by the bot. Hi dear. I sent a long ass paragraph yesterday but got banned by the mods in this section. Apologies. |
Politics › Re: Dapo Abiodun: Most Handsome Governor by folake4u: 5:20pm On Oct 15, 2024 |
Magnoliaa: Oh em gee. Who is this zaddy? 😍💅
No, no, don't answer. 😹
Sanwo is my ayanfe and I won't betray him. Just tell me you can't see it. 😩
Modified: Nairaland nor gree mai upload my handsome bobo o. Hahahaha 🤣🤣 werey girl. |