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Shadbay:
I've been in extreme emotional pains for the past few months. I don't even know where to start to narrate my ordeal. I do not want this experience to damage me emotionally and psychologically, that's why I'm seeking help. Please pardon the length and blunders.

Earlier this year, just two weeks after my birthday, my ex-gf (gf of almost 7 years) broke up with me. I had just visited her and left two days prior to the breakup.
I went through the most challenging period of my life because I just suffered some job and graduate school rejections that period. The breakup worsened my situation and pushed me into a depression. I have never felt defeated in life till that point. She blocked me on all mediums of communication. It was too extreme. I went from 91kg to 85 kg in less than 3 weeks.

I visited her to understand the whole situation cos her behaviour was too extreme and I got a toxic dosage of embarrassments. She said she was done with me. She said a lot of hurtful things to me. The height of the embarrassments was calling her new boyfriend (barely 3 weeks after breaking up with me) right in front of me and telling him she doesn't know what I'm doing in her place. She even called some of her friends to inform them of my presence. They all sounded scared and concerned for her as if I was some kind of predator. They told her to leave her place at once and come to their place. All these calls were on speaker! This is someone I invested all these years and emotions for. I went through hell that period cos I was dealing with some other personal tribulations.

I can't imagine treating her or anybody else the way she treated me. I NEVER cheated on her, NOT ONCE or by chance! I have walked away from compromising situation countless times because I placed her so high. I had so much respect for her. She now went on to slander my name, accusing me of cheating!!! When I asked who was feeding her all those lies, she said her friends told her. How? Did I date you or your friends? It still boggles my mind to think she'll believe them and go about spreading those ugly rumours about me.

The straw that broke the camels back was when a friend of mine told me that she said she's grateful to God she didn't contract any infection/disease from me! I couldn't believe my ears. I broke down. This didn't just break my heart, it shattered my spirit. This is someone I imagined spending the rest of my life with. My whole family (even extended) accepted her as one of us.

I had to accept that things were beyond salvaging because any attempt from me to fix things kept doing the opposite. The minute it involved my sisters I had to accept defeat.

I never harmed her or attempt to lay a finger on her. I might not be perfect but I gave it my all. The situation is far worse than I described it here, it's even painful remembering them. I loved her to a fault.

I got a text from her about a month ago after I refused to answer her calls because I had just lost a loved one. She said she's getting married and hopes I find peace as she has found hers. I stared at those words speechless. The worst set of people one could ever encounter are those that hurt you, know that they hurt you and still turn around to play victim accusing you of hurting them. If there's anything I'm proud of is my level of self-control. I know few of my friends who made fun of me being extremely loyal to one girl, warning me severally that I'm wasting my time and good looks, that my youth is passing me by. At least I have a clean conscience that I never betrayed her trust. I never went about telling other people our business. Now I understand why they say good guys always finish last.


Women don't deserve loyalty, forget all their cliche that men are not faithful and honest. I went the faithful, loyal path what did I get in return? Venom! I feel repulsed when I hear women say "Men are dogs", "Men always cheat".

I just don't want this experience to turn me into something I'm not or make me an embittered soul. I'm traumatized beyond words. This was my first and only relationship and I gave it everything. I'm in my mid-twenties and I don't think I can ever love genuinely again. I need mature advice on how to come out of this ordeal a better person. I don't want to transfer any aggressions or micro-aggressions on anybody because of this experience. Please mature advice needed. Thank you.

I truly am Sorry for your current emotional state. Search for ubunja on this forum. Study all his teachings. Ask him questions. Dont forget to thank me later in a few months or years from today.

EVILFOREST:
CHARACTERISTICS of a BLACKMAN;
- dirty
- crafty
- greedy
- poverty
- wasteful
- religious
- unkempt.
- tribalistic.
- insincerity.
- impatient.
- aggressive
- destructive.
- wickedness
- complicated.
- shortsighted.
- disorganized.
- loud mouthed.
- proud and empty.
For the TRUTH will always be bitter

Dont be an idiot. Is this not stupidity?

bartundey:
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jaz:
Greedy and cold hearted Nigerians like you are the reasons this country is a mess today. Your type do not care about human life as long as money is being made. Sharp and criminal practices like deceptively packaging accidental cars as clean titles is contributory to accidents on our road. Would you drive a rebuilt title with your family in it as a daily driver?? Why put your fellow man at risk just for naira notes. I don't expect you to value human life beyond yours and your family's. But someday there would be reckoning. We buy used cars from USA believing all details advertised as gospel, yet bring the same vehicle here only to alter critical Information relevant to the buyer, his life and his property. GOD PUNISH YOU THERE

You are plain wicked and with your kind of heart you will do worse if you were in the OPs position. Whats worse is you are also ignorant.

dirtycoin:
What exactly is your point?


Are you in support of Bigdeals for putting up a refurbished Tacoma and claiming that it has a clean title? Bigdeals intent is to deceive unsuspecting potential buyers.

Is this a case of same feathers always flock together? I won't be surprised though because you just gave yourself out.

Therefore him and his family deserves to die in a car accident right?
I always knew you were a jobless fool. But now i also know you are an insensitive asswipe
I dont like excanging words with your like because some of my brain cells die off each time i do.
Now run along look for cosplay and carry on with your asslicking.

jaz:
Thank you for revealing these fraudsters. May God continue to bless you.

As for you Mr Bigdeals you and your family shall perish in road accidents for advertising an accidental car of this magnitude as clean title

You are a wicked soul. I am 100% sure if you were in bigdeal shoes you will do worse.

Sundayadesina:
Some people don't know the meaning of "MUMMY" that we usually call our mother and some old women
According to OXFORD dictionary "MUMMY" means bad things examples are (1) Mummy means dead body (corpse) or dead animal (carcass)
(2) MUMMY is also the way Egyptians preserved (embalming) dead body before buried

Stop carrying foreign people's language for head.

Well done amdman !! well done!!

Just be very cautious of the fact that Many people here are not happy with you. Some have already attacked. Others are still pretending. So expect some challenges in the future. i can only pray those obstacles they think they are setting up for you will continue to be the stepping stones to even greater things Just like you have demonstrated already.
But more importantly i hope you continue the way you started. Remain professiomal and God bless your hustle.

Cherryf:
Make sure he has a good bath...before you eat poison

But you still suck it thou

GRACEGLORY:
Here's my last response on this thread:

1. Take the time to read OP's.

2. Technically, you're correct, but practically,
things stopped working that way.

They term our country "technology starved."

NOTE: We've been making sales before this article, during, and after this article was written. And my perspective and experiences are edited (plus/minus) as we proceed in research and gain more adequate knowledge in the field. And one thing is certain, there are no used without new. Thanks for sharing from your perspective too.

I dont want to negate your line of business so i will not respond further.
I just wanna let people know that global brands do not produce different quality of there products. They rather toy with functionality to serve for different world zones.

fm4real2k6:
I'd wanted to buy TV preferealy LG basically because of their energy saving technology.
I have researched about their 50' Smart TV, UHD, which I feel its cool for me.

I reside in Iorin, Kwara state. I did a window shopping yesterday and I was totally disapointed.

First, I didn't or couldn't get 50' I wanted, all I got was 49' , 55' inches respectively, but they are even from a company called FOUANI. Although a bit cheaper than my envisaged(researched price).

On further research, I discovered that FOUANI is a sole distributor for LG product here. Although thy ought to be assembling those product here as knockdown or semi knock down but a report said they are doing full importation, but that isn't my point.

However, to cut a long stories short, my conclusion is that we might not get REAL original LG direct from them any longer unless some people are doing direct LG importation. I think what we might be getting is the specifics they made for FOUANI to bring here.

Now my challenge and maybe dilemma, is it seems real LG quality is seems "watered down" with these FOUANI made. I also think those products made for FOUANI might not have all the LG functions they advertised on their original TV on their website.

My question is how can one get these TV directly from LG not the one made for FOUANI.

And I will also appreciate if anyone can suggest better energy saving Smart TV uhd 50' than LG. I will really appreciate.
Thank you

Fouani is the sole distributor of LG products in Nigeria. And it is not restricted to just electronics. From LG flash drives to even computer keyboards.

Having said that. LG is a big globally known brand. They do not have a factory in nigeria the factory that produces the electronics that is imported to nigeria also makes the electronics that is sent to other countries that the factory serves. Making different quality of products for different markets will not only cost them more since mass production of these things are mechanized but it does not make any sense. It might be profitable for a small factory run by an individual in china that is ready to produce for his client whatever quality of product the client wants because that is how it was set up but that blueprint does not apply for global brands.

Personally i don't think fouani will go and strike some kind of deal with LG to reduce the quality of items they get from them.

Before you conclude that there are functions missing from the products you saw at fouani. Please know that items like TVs are complex, what i mean is one model might have more than 5 submodels under it and they all have very small negligible differences. And be missing some functionality another has. So before you conclude make sure you get the complete model no of that item down to the last letter. And research its functions. Thats why you will see a remote control and some of the buttons dont work on your TV, just know that button is meant for another model.

Finally, recently LG Tvs are sh*it.

EVILFOREST:
Why did they allow BLACKS to head the Power sector..??

Dont be silly.

Ofcourse why wont they. How can you bury and waste such wealth in the name a gold coffin in the midst of all these hunger and poverty and expect to rest in peace.

Farm tool in training.

tempex88:
My issue is ur price ....am not willing to spend more than 15k

Chai !! Nigerians

nonhuman:
the year is written there now can't you see

Thats rude.

nonhuman:
I weighing my options for ACURA MDX and Honda pilot, I got both cars at same price range for the Nigerian used, please if any one have used any of those mentioned should please help me make a choice, what i want the one that more efficient, and roomy to drive with good fuel economy and no gear troubles. thanks fellow nairalanders in advance

secondly what are the usual problems associated with these two cars

What year

MARKone:
In time, this guy will be our very own Mandela

Gbam. Just like the biblical jesus. He is currently paying the price so nigeria can break free from the strangle hold of evil men holding the country to ransome.

Many shallow minded or paranoic fellows wont understand. But in time they will come to appreciate and respect him.

Whenever the FG finish fooling themselves and release him. He will continue from where he stopped and we will always solidly be behind him.

agwom:
The African Action Alliance (AAC) has expelled its National Chairman, Mr. Omoyele Sowore from the party. Also affected were 28 other national officers of the party.

The party took the decision at the National Convention of the party currently going on at Rockview Hotel, Owerri. Sowore was replaced by Dr. Leonard Nzenwa Meanwhile a Federal High Court in Abuja has approved the request of the Department of State Services (DSS) to detain the convener of #RevolutionNow, Sowore for 45 days pending investigation.

Justice Taiwo Taiwo on Thursday directed that the 45 days can be renewed if investigation is not concluded in the allegations of terrorism made against Sowore. Justice Taiwo said the court would not ignore the facts presented by the security agency as it is such that must be investigated to be proved with a view to prosecuting him or it will be discarded. He said the use of the word: ‘may’ in Section 27(1), 2015 of the Terrorism Prevention Act gives the court the discretion in determining the matter, adding that the word connotes ‘directory’ rather than ‘mandatory’ meaning.

Exhibits presented by the DSS includes: Digital video display of a conference between Sowore and one Nnamdi Kanu; and a digital video display of comments made by Sowore in paragraph 4 of the affidavit that members of proscribed IMN were going to join forces with him to bring down the government.

The DSS had on August 6 brought the application through its counsel, G.O. Abadua seeking to further detain Sowore, who is the publisher of Sahara Reporters and presidential candidate of the African Action Congress (AAC) in the 2019 general elections, for 90 days pending investigation.

Read more: https://www.dailytrust.com.ng/breaking-aac-expels-sowore-28-others.html

The evil we are fighting in this country is extremely powerful.

Oya the government e rats food don done oooo.

Bloody liar. This is probably good news to chronic masturbators. Any body that believes everything they read on the internet is a fool.

majamajic:
nice

playing time is confirmed at Everton

Gbam. Thats all he needs. The guy is is good player. He will shine there.

Now this is a classical example of why women are powerful.

Same soldier the army denied.

HUAWEI
Huawei announces Harmony OS as its potential Android replacement
Joshua Swingle by Joshua Swingle / Aug 09, 2019,
2:34 AM

Huawei announces Harmony OS as its potential Android replacement
After years of development and months of rumors, today Huawei has revealed a custom operating system called 'Harmony OS' at its annual developer conference in China.
It works on everything from phones and tablets to cars and computers

The new platform, which was previously referred to as Hongmeng OS, is based on microkernel just like Google's Fuchsia OS. CEO Richard Yu says this allows for flexible deployment across a wide range of categories including smart speakers, automobiles, computers, smartwatches, tablets, and, of course, smartphones. To ensure this compatibility, Huawei has ensured the platform can work with RAM sizes ranging from mere kilobytes to hundreds of gigabytes.


Apps built for the HTML5, Linux, and Android platforms "will all be able to run" on Harmony OS in the future. To make life easier for developers, Huawei will be providing access to its ARK Compiler which will help compile code from multiple languages including C/C++, Java, and Kotlin. A new SDK to ensure compatibility with different devices will also be provided by the company. To avoid any future security concerns, it has been confirmed that Harmony OS will not allow for root access, something Huawei says is a security risk on Android and other Linux-based operating systems.

Huawei announces Harmony OS as its potential Android replacement
Huawei's CEO reiterated the company's commitment to Google's Android platform and their wish to continue using it internationally. However, if at any point it "cannot use [Android] in the future," the Chinese giant will not hesitate to "immediately switch to Harmony OS." It's unclear if the company would receive access to Google's services should this happen, but the company boasted it could take as little as 1-2 days to complete the transition.
Harmony OS will eventually be an open source platform

The focus for Harmony OS at the moment appears to be the Chinese market, but Huawei isn't interested in limiting the platform to its own devices. Because of this, Harmony OS will be made completely open source at some point next year, therefore giving rival companies such as Oppo and Xiaomi the opportunity to co-develop the operating system with Huawei. Regardless of what happens, though, Huawei is more than willing to go it alone. Development on the current version of Harmony OS began two years ago, but this year the company has accelerated the process considerably and expects to bring version 2.0 to market in 2020 and version 3.0 in 2021.

Harmony OS 1.0 will be first adopted in Huawei's upcoming smart screen products, many of which are due to arrive this year, including the new Honor Vision TV which goes on sales in China tomorrow. Over the course of the next three years, Harmony OS will be optimized further and deployed across a broader range of products including wearables, smart speakers, and many of the other categories mentioned above. Huawei hasn't yet confirmed plans to release a Harmony OS-powered smartphone, but reports suggest the company's Mate 30 Lite could ship with the operating system pre-installed.

Lalasticlala, seun, mynd44, dragnet

Anyone male or female that slaps me better hope i'm in a good mood.

Bamangan:
Bad move

Excellent move.

damiBJ:
Why must he park in front of a 2star general house....is he mad?... Dey politely told him...yet he refuse... Haba...he(the car owner) can be accuse of anytin....

You people have been have been oppressed to the extent that you piss your pants at the mere sight of any security force in nigeria.

Ok lets even assume that it is a crime to park in front of someone's house. Does that justify the matchet cut to the head?
Now the media is involved you will see the speed they will use to do the right thing. People like you should stop ass licking these our nigerian forces. It gives them the confidence to continue to abuse you.

Juell:
U were even told not to park there, u still went ahead

You should go see a psychiatrist

The intelligence of this country's security forces have so much detoriated that they can no longer tell a sensible lie anymore.

I pray it makes sense.