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Kakamorufu:
you are what you wear, and first impression matters a lot.

Illogical thought pattern.

nuelzz04:
u didn't ansa ma question

I'll never be in your *area*.

nuelzz04:
OK .....wen will u b my area .......ah don't v a prob seeing n unclad lady ...n I v plenty of self control

Good. Time to stop being illogical with your thoughts then.

chigoizie7:
Not all logical things are good or perceived good.

Isn't it logical for men to feel pains down their groins when having sex for the 1st time? The same way women do?

Or isn't it logical for a man to feel used by a woman after having sex with him too?

No, it isn't logical. Because nothing is being stretched or broken when a guy loses his virginity - that's what happens to women.

Physical trauma causes pain. The man goes through no physical trauma. Therefore pain is illogical.

Ontarget:
I hate feminists because they don't really know where they stand practically. They preach feminism but their actions is quite the opposite. They actually want to reap from both ends in a way that perfectly benefits them. They choose juicy aspects where they need equal rights and ignore the tough ones.

Examples please. I am a feminist. I don't subscribe to stereotypical gender roles.

I pay my way and expect a man does the same.

So what's wrong - apart from the fact that I'm a woman and you dont like me?

nuelzz04:
men r very visual I guess u knw dat already .......so objectifying a semi nude lady is almost certain .......how many guys walk around in just der briefs

Lots do. But they're not called slvts.

Why is it a woman's responsibility to control a man's thoughts?

Men are capable of self control. Besides, if you have sexual thoughts then that's your problem to deal with, not a woman's.

chigoizie7:
Den stop lamenting or complaining

I'm not. I'm highlighting illogical thought process in patriarchal societies.

Certifiedbillio:
I reason with you, I'm just saying breast and beards cannot be given equal chances

Why not?

VaginaTerrorist:
since your are shaking your head, tor, okay ooo bye bye ooo.

It's like you can't read or comprehend anything I have said, you just say the same stuff to me that every man says. That's why I'm shaking my head.

Why don't you read rhe arguments I put forward and see for yourself how unjust it is to assign women the task of controlling men's behaviour and thoughts?

nuelzz04:
i don't objectify women dat don't want to b objectified .....der is dis saying "u are addressed d way u r dressed" I hope I got dat saying right

This is an illogical thought pattern.

Dress does not indicate desire to be objectified or not.

Respect all humans. Regardless of dress.

jamalnation:
Huh

No. Men walk around topless. Why can't women if they want?

Certifiedbillio:
baby girl, if that's the case base on your saying, you are not to show only clevage, show the entire breast as we guys show all our beards

Yes. What is your point?

However, women should not be told what to wear. Women don't exist merely to please men and decorate the world.

Kakamorufu:
naaah. They shld cover it, they look more decent when those stuffs are covered and get more respects from men

In your opinion.

But a woman's life doesn't revolve around you, or what men think.

I don't give two hoots whether you like me or not.

I care whether you respect me based on the fact that I'm human, not judge my entire character on what I wear and then decide whether I'm "worthy" of your respect. It's illogical.

nuelzz04:
I'll support 'body autonomy' wen d full view is shown .......who cleavage epp

Yawn.

More useless objectification of women.

chigoizie7:
This type of thinking and reasoning is the reason why some people will always be used and dumped.

People that always have reasons to justify every single thing they did, weda it is good or bad.

Omg not logical reasoning! How dare I?!

A woman's life does not revolve around relationships with men.

jamalnation:
Women cant go out and showing der boobs any how.

I'm talking cleavage not a whole breast. But if women want to walk around topless they should. Men do.

VaginaTerrorist:
1. Nobody blames anybody for being victim. It only the animal kindom dat one can rush behind a girl and bang her without some formal process. And no one blams victim for their woes. But with all due respect girl, PRECAUTION is very good, dont forget SELF SECURITY CONCIOUS, SAFTY FIRST!


Dont follow a guy you are to ready to sleep with to his room. Dont walk through darkspots because they are shortcuts. If You are one of those blessed with big boobs, ensure you ware smart loose cloths, stay off extem short skirts. And for the boys with Big Dickson, dont wear tight jeans.

2. Avoid friends that may take advantage of you. Stay off drinks. These are some safty tips to prevention. Then if a silly boy still goes ahead to capture the lady and bang her. Abeg dat lady should not wait one min,,,, just come and lay a report fast so he can be made to pay for his crimes.

Do you know any victim in you area? Have you any evidence? Feel free...

Smh.

Yet nobody respects prostitutes.

Willing to say good things about them, but not respect their profession or their human rights.

Prostitutes are people too.

Cronnie7:
This is the problem with inferring "how to behave" from science.... I don't think the term "secondary sexual characteristics" means they can be exposed simply because science isn't in the business of telling us "how to behave". Therefore I take issues with trying to prop up a " how to behave " topic with science

I take issue with women being told what to wear based on varying subjective opinions of men.

The science highlights the hypocrisy of patriarchal thought, it does not tell people how to behave.

jamalnation:
cut d crap u cant practice dis.. This is Africa

What are you talking about?

adedayoadedeji:
seriously?where is "have a better handle of logic than you" coming from. it's uncalled for?

hope u don't av a complex issue sha.

just lost every iota of respect I had for u wt that statement.

You didnt respect me in the first place. I'm a woman.

ehikwe22:
I don't want to see your tits. Just don't get how telling women to cover their body is infringing on their rights. opening your boobs is invitation to calamity. you're in Africa. except maybe you're not

Because telling women what to do is demeaning. Treating them as if they're stupid and less worthy of autonomy than you.

Treating people like that infringes on their rights to do what they please without judgement.

Kakamorufu:
well, am aware of the beard, thats why am tryna culture some. Buh d apple, i av buh damn.. Girl own get as e be. Later na d earlobes go dey turn dem on

Just because something may turn a man on doesn't mean a woman should cover it.

Men are responsible for their own thoughts and actions. Women are not respobsible for men's thoughts and actions.

jamalnation:
Madam Practice what you preach or keep quiet

I preach women's rights and I practise that every day. My right to wear what I want.

overdrive:
y d subtle aggression? practice what u preach ma'am.have a nice day.

Why accuse me of aggression because I don't care about you? It's not aggressive at all. It's a fact.

I don't know you. Yet you demanded to see my breasts. That's aggressive.

Nova15:
Yes they maybe be classified as sexual characteristics but do u knw they are also the female erogenous zones?

So why would u want to exposed that?

They *may* be erogenous zones, differs neyween women.

I personally don't want to expose my whole breast. I am defending women's right to dress as they please.

Kakamorufu:
bullshit, so u telling me some get turned on by seeing the adam apple. Thats bizzare

Or a beard. Or anything you so wantonly choose to expose in public. Why don't you ask?

adedayoadedeji:
Okay ma.

ti o ba gbo temi, ma gbo tie(if u no gree my own,i go gree ur own).

you sound vast and intelligent.

nice weekend ahead dearie

Don't patronise me. I have a better handle of logic than you do, even though I'm a woman.