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jamalnation:
Oh defender.. Defending women right to show boobs abi... Prove it (show us)

I don't WANT to show my breasts to you.

eph12:
The weather in Nigeria shouldn't be an issue. We only waiting for a Moses to take the lead. You fit this description.

I am not Moses. And I dress how I want. All other people should do the same - dress how they want, or not dress at all.

Nova15:
He's not harassing you na, after all according to you, they are not sexual organs

No, they are sexual characteristics.

This thread is not about my own personal behaviour, but defending the rights of women to dress as they want.

I do not WANT to expose my breasts to you. Respect my choice.

Nova15:
No, you are qualifying them as secondary sexual characteristics and not sexual organs. And therefore should not be necessarily covered. So why cover pubic hair too?

There is no reason to, and I don't. I don't choose to walk around without pants, but I don't remove hair under my arms and wear sleeveless tops in hot weather.

In addition, I am defending all women's right to dress as they please without judgement from a patriarchal society. I am not making a comment on my own actions.

overdrive:
certainly would love to c u baring ur cleavage.

I don't care what you want.

orisa37:
You're a Scientist but show us some pictures of cleavages to demonstrate your observations.

Because I don't want to, as is my right.

eph12:
I agree with you too. I support walking around nakked for both sex sha.

Good. It may be impractical in cold weather, but our ancestors did it without judgement.

jamalnation:
wow oya show us ur boobs

Don't sexually harrass me.

Defending women's rights does not mean I am obliged to show you anything.

Nova15:
Hope u knw the pubic hair is a secondary sex characteristics. So you can as well expose your pubic hair too.

Yes. And so what if I do?

This thread is about cleavage, facial hair amd adams apple. Keep on topic.

DrDreWise:
Like, a woman can walk about without even having braziers on

Can you Wed a lady like that? Dumb talks coming up always. I believe you guys write only out of the random desire to and not for a purpose.

A woman can do what she wishes.

If you won't marry her, so what? Her life doesn't revolve around you. What makes you so important?

Kakamorufu:
Dnt wake up and be feeding us craps. So we shld be wearing turtlenecks coz our adam apple is exposed, or u get turned on by seeing the adam apple. Coz wetin u want, i never know

How would you know what turns women on? Women hardly have a voice when it comes to sexual encounters.

overdrive:
how come I have not seen u baring ur own cleavage

You have never seen me at all.

adedayoadedeji:
Honestly dear, I am talking about decency in ladies.

Let me put it this way, I will admire a lady exposing almost all her breast in d name of fashion, I will even turn back and look at her very well. But when it comes to choosing a life partner? They don't stand a chance with me and most guys out there.

That is actually my point

Yes, I know. And it's a sexist point.

When you talk about "decency" you are talking about YOUR ideals. You do not represent all men's ideals.

The world doesn't revolve around you and women don't exist to please you.

eph12:
No o. I thought somebody needed some resetting o . But on a more serious note we do get seriously turned on by the mere thought of boobs not to now see it whether in pictures or live. It's the way we wired. No vex

You are capable of self control.

Anyway, why should women care how you react to their clothing choice? The world doesn't revolve around you.

ojuu4u:
ok. keep going naked in the name of fashion, pls when u raped dnt hestitate to post it on NL, surely i wil console u and voice againt who ever that gang rape u

I might wear small clothes because the weather is very hot. Stop judging people, especially women.

ehikwe22:
Where's your boobs pics? Do you walk around the streets bare chested? I'll take you serious when you begin to do that

I wear whatever I want, whenever I want.

Defence of women's rights doesn't mean I must show you my naked body.

GesiyeBenjamin:
Oh yes right. That's the spirit. Thats why it's nairaland. We are here to talk.

I didn't say invite them into your life. I only said don't pursue then with 'gun and matchet'
You can still get rid of people in your life without been rude. I seriously believe so.

And yes, I might as well advice the men.
Have a good attitude towards the women in your life

I hope that settles our quarrel

In future, please address your original posts to both genders.

adedayoadedeji:
Am not .

okay,good luck wt exposing ur breast dear.

Yes you are. You apply different standards of behaviour to men and women based entirely on gender. That's the definition of sexism.

eph12:
So you saying ladies can walk around with their boobs in the open?
Foolinlove please open the door I want to talk to you

Are you threatening me with physical violence? The image suggests so.

Goes to show what a "great" guy you are.

I stick up for women and you threaten to beat me.

Nova15:
Because you said it doesn't mean it true. Prove that all these things you posted are true?

Don't be lazy, go and look it up.

"In humans, visible secondary sex characteristics include enlarged breasts of females and facial hair and adam's apple on males."

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Secondary_sex_characteristic

adedayoadedeji:
I actually did. Just curious,u want to promote indecency by encouraging your kind to expose cleavage.

A word of advice, no right thinking man will approach such a lady with marriage on his mind except just to use and dump.

Am sure God did not make a mistake by putting your boobs there and our Adams apple where it is.

Just saying tho.

Good morning

So you're sexist. Congratulations.

gsley:
u will nt bt income u need some touch still let me no

Is your translator around?

GesiyeBenjamin:
Hahahaha. I see that you've seriously misunderstand me. All this women love people.

What I mean is that any lady who wants to get married someday should have a good attitude towards the men in her life. Wether she thinks the person can marry her or not. My message is that simple. Sorry if it wasn't clear to you.

Good attitude to all men? No thanks. Some men are a$$holes. I'm not going to be nice to horrible people and invite them into my life because it *might* result in something I want.

And if this is your argument, don't make it gendered. Apply it to women AND men. Eg, men should have a good attitude to all women all the time, if they want to be married.

charix:
Many times and with different females however after breakups they somehow forget and claim I was mediocre in bed.


Lesson: Never go all out to satisfy females, they "forget" your good deeds everytime it suits them.

Same for men.

eph12:
Faint ke? Are you pregnant?
Abeg no faint o. But am just tired of this same complaints or school of thoughts from guys. They won't face their career and when they fail or not doing well they will bring out their frustrations on the ladies.

Highly unlikely.

And I'm sick of being blamed for any error of men, too

gsley:
so dis is wht u hv been thinking all through d night, do u need some touch?

What do you mean? I don't understand what you are saying.

adedayoadedeji:
This thing u talk now get sense at all?

If you don't understand, read it again until you do.

ayoolataiwo:
Who cares, their life nd cleavages their biz....who cleavages help self

This is addressed to men who get all worried about cleavage, not men who support women's bodily autonomy.

Love Machine:
I pray they listen and follow it up.

Omg. You don't like feminism but want to benefit from feminist principles.

You can't have it both ways. Wise up.

eph12:
How should they treat the guys around them? Declare sex-free days? Or cook and serve them food daily? Or dry clean their clothes foc as the need arises?
Seminars should be arranged for these our young men o. They need to know that the world doesn't revolve around men only and females are not born into this world for the sole purpose of pleasing guys.

A sane person! I feel I am about to faint.

You say women should cover their cleavage because breasts are sexual organs.

Breasts aren't sexual organs. They're secondary sexual characteristics.

Just so you know: your facial hair and enlarged adams apple are secondary sexual characteristics as well.

So if you think people should cover secondary sexual characteristics, feel free to shove your entire head into a bag at any time.

GesiyeBenjamin:
All these girls wanting a good husband, I wonder which excuse they will come and give me for wanting to marry you when you cannot treat well the men around you. Check am now, which unique thing will they notice about you that will make them approach you. Or is it plenty make up? Make up is not new anymore, it has become common look on the street ni.
Treat those ones around you as potential husbands, or at least husband bringers. make yourself stand out from the crowd. Even self, if they can't marry you, they will tell one of their friends what a great girl you are. You never can tell o. Serve them well.
Market yourself!

This is silly advice. Womens' lives don't revolve around attracting men for marriage.

You act as if women are objects whose sole purpose is to please men.