₦airaland Forum

ThinkFreely:
The world is losing regard for trump.
As a matter of fact, WHO is far more respected than trump who is scientifically illiterate. Go on twitter U.S trends and see how they make fun of him everyday.

Twitter na reality? With d amount of noise PDP made on social media u would think buhari would not gain a second vote but las las who won...Social media no b life N if u are one of those deriving joy to see trump fail den ur joy will always b cut short. Man always proves his critics wrong. Dont worry he will still win d next election so u guys have more years to castigate him

Ogiandplantain:
My name is Dayo Adepoju, Rate my look

How u go post person picture 2 catch fun

Anni3e:
I am buying the land and investing on myself and kids. Since he does whatever he wants with his money, I will also use my money however I want.

Okay ma.U are bitter.please calm down and look at it witout emotions

I doubt if its diz man dat is pulling d strings in aso rock o.He is jst a figure head.D main deals are done by d caucus men

Miarose:
Be the Abigail or Esther of your family. Some times, these men need someone to save them from themselves.

U n dat bukatyne lady are advising her to use calm 2 address diz issue she is listening to comments from pple dat bitterness has clouded dier heart n sense of reasoning. Imagine sumbdy advicing her 2 suck her husband dry.....I cant remember dix story exactly sha bt dere was a man david wanted 2 kill in d bible but d mans wife after hearing from her servants dat her husband insulted David went ahead n met david on d way n pleaded for her husband. It saved his life. Wat if d wife had fled wit her belongings before david gets to her husband? Her husband would hav bin killed n her life probably safe bt she knew better. Wisdom is important in solving problems. Thank you for not judging diz issue wit sentiments coz its d norms wit ladies on diz forum. Ur conscience is clear u gave her a good advice. Its now left 2 her to do wat she wants

merieam16:
U too suck him dry nd save the money. simple!. He actually knows u'll fend 4 d family if he does'nt provide anythin.

Just b wise sha

its obvious u aren't married not with diz kind of sour mentality. Its why marriages dont last any more.Majority of u wont think of how to solve problems wisely. Advising ur fellow woman to suck her husband dry. Wen u marry den u do d same

Anni3e:
I am not buying behind his back, I would tell him but I am not including his name. Do you know how many times I have told him to buy a land and start a project. He won't, he prefers spending all the money on his siblings.

Two wrongs don't make a right o.Brute force is not d best to solve problems. Y not listen to wat dat lady is telling you. Learn to solve issues with love its for ur own good.Later ur husband might see reasons wit u and change his ways.You both know urselves sha.Do wat suits you

bukatyne:
Instead of telling your husband to stop 'spending on his family', point him to projects he can spend money on.

E.g. 'My friend said there is one cheap land at Igbo Tutu' or 'how I wish we had our house, we wouldn't be bothered about Baba Mulika asking for rent every year' or 'there is one mutual funds that the entry is N200k and you get 15% returns per year. We can be paying Junior's fees from the interest'. You can also bring up investment for your kids etc.

You know what works with your husband so explore that. Also appreciate him for what he does so far.

@buying your land: I am not a fan of spouses buying stuffs behind each other so I will say deposit the money in mutual benefit/Chapel Hill/Piggybank for now while you try to make him see reason. I particularly don't like the fact you want only your name on the land; recipe for disaster as your husband is not hiding his own funds; he is just not spending it wisely.

You should also understand where your husband is coming from: in some cultures, the 'worth' of the first son/husband of the first daughter is their ability to fund everyone's lifestyle without complaint while their own immediate family suffers.

It is a recurring theme so you re-orientate him in love and harmony to see that his family can and will survive without his handouts.

Also note that if he goes 360 and stops funding his siblings, it can cause problems for you'all.

First time on diz forum a woman actually comment without sentiments. I tip my hat 2 you

MelaninSkinGirl:
The typical Nigerian man is a misogynist, you will have daughters one day and your fellow male comrades will destroy her like you have destroyed women. #Karma#

'typical' No,'Average' Yes. Generalization is wrong incase of next time abeg

MelaninSkinGirl:
The typical Nigerian man is a misogynist, you will have daughters one day and your fellow male comrades will destroy her like you have destroyed women. #Karma#

'typical' No,'Average' Yes. Generalization is wrong incase of next time abeg

Oh my country Nigeria. 2020 n governors are still counting water projects as achievements. Smh

PS:Before u attack me witout thinking. Am not a political supporter or a tribal bigot. Just think like a human being 4 once n see if water project should be worth praising a governor for wen even you personally can construct one.

jericco1:
Despite all these, the price of rice keeps on increasing at a geometric progression

na diz one i no jst understand. Weda na greed on d part of our farmers o or sumtin else i no know

HeadShot:
That's to show you the audio achievements of these politicians

Diz one no b politicians problem na jst greed on the part of Nigeria farmers. How u go sell locally made rice 25-30 n foreign made na 30.I no go jst close eye buy d foreign made

logon599:
If this had happened a few further kilometers "North" of their location, they would've been facing a firing squad right now rather than apologising.
Meanwhile I don't understand the wisdom behind the need for all these artificial fans in stadiums. As a footballer, I would rather play in a totally empty stadium, than to be watched by static mannequins while playing. It's really creepy and will affect concentration.

I suggest crowd noises should be played over the PA system instead. Atleast players can feel sumtin even though d stadium is empty.

harmony940:
The us working seriously to break the republic of China just as they did........... ! America with her very powerful politics.

na wa o.How US tk concern diz mata?Na dem start d bill or dem oppose am? Una eh

wamide042:
Bros forget that most parents nowadays don’t flog like the olden days parents, i remembered the day my Mum,(iya Ola) of blessed memory caught me while trying to smoke it wasn’t even cigarette then oo na ordinary paper wey i roll come put fire, even the devil that pushed me then sef begin dey pity when my mum started beating me..
Anytime i go out and return mumsy go first smell my mouth and body, search my school bag, sometimes comes to my school unannounced and that happened from pry sch till I graduated from the uni..
Till date i have never tasted any alcoholic drink or even try to smoke..
So you see most parents just believe in talking and advices, you think the bible is wrong when it says ‘Spare the rod and spoil the child’..
I really miss her

I didn't mention if d bible was wrong all i said is,flogging only cannot correct a child. Wisdom is needed too. Wat if d child gets use to d flogging wat will u do den.U go use gun?

Which buhari? APC jst dey fool dierself. Weda u guys like to hear it or not,buhari is just a figure head.Dere are cabals ruling this country

Walexdubia:
When Dem no dey flog pikin,if Dem dey flog pikin all these things no go dey happen.. example like homosexual,drug abuse,etc mtcheeew....
Even God said it that the Demon reside in the heart of children so u have to use cane to chase that demon away, imagine a child taking drug since 13yrs of age...

U made sum point bt i no reali agree wit d flogging part. Even wit d flogging here we still dey get high cases of homosexuality n drug abuse. Flogging alone no dey correct pikin

jeffizy:
Addiction for 3 years, died short of his 17 birthday.

Now, is that a failed parenting or misplaced priority from the kid.

Failed parenting. The lad didn't clock 17 sef. What values were instilled in him before he grew up

LadyGCrueDKilaB:
You people will be bringing your trivial marriage issues to Nairaland every time as if this is a counseling office.

Your wife shits 14 times a day, you'll rush to tell us.
Your wife lied about having big breasts, you'll rush to tell us.
You wife cheats on you with your side chick's daddy, you'll rush to tell us.

Okay now, what do you want us to tell you? she said she took the virginity herself noni, what do you want to hear from us? That it is a lie?

A lot of you are very immature and have no business being married if you cannot handle simple issues in your marriage without running like cowardly chickens to Nairaland. Oya divorce her and send her packing since there was no hymen in her vagina. Brainless goat.

E neva reach quarrel na

lightpurple:
Exactly. For f.0.0.ls like you. Better watch out. Ediot

Diz one no jst get plan 4 life

ifeanyija:
Why not today?

D lie go dey fully fabricated by then

Xisnin:

Really, so patients can now tell if they have a disease or not?

The test says she is positive, she asserted she is negative.
What a covidiot!

A test result you or her didn't see.You are trying to sound smart.

lightpurple:
Because your mentality is far smarter? Empty head

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thoosing:
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lightpurple:
Because your mentality is far smarter? Empty head

u go open new account just for clap back.See ya life...smh

You didn't default diz 12 den why are you not successful? Una neva even understand life sef

Everybody don know say na pre recorded speech so they had to back out.

(Using Psquare's voice) Story Story Story eh

I don't know abt other regions o but delta here pple dey fear to go hospital o mk dem no record u as covid case.

I no know d basis dem tk tag d woman pastor. She doesn't have a church so...If una no post abt pastors 4 diz forum una no dey feel at rest

Alwaysachick:
You sack your chef because he stole a can of milo and you bring such news to social media shows how boring their marriage is, they needed the attention they are getting now

. I'm not supporting the thief though.

D end point is that he stole.Stealing is wrong on evry level. I don't know anytin abt dier 'boring' marriage n e no concern me.Evry mallam wit e kettle