₦airaland Forum

Busta:
like i said before. . . .sit him down, ask questions now than later.
just let him know how u feel rather than posting it here. it won't help!

I think you should listen to Busta here

I wonder why gals always undo themselves, even when they are seeing the handwriting on the wall just for the sake of marriage.

I suspect the guy is not telling you all you need to know. I think the both of you should sit down and have a long talk.

jennykadry:
@frando

i want to ask u this question,i pray u don't find yourself in such situation,but what if u find out d person u love wt all your heart and want to marry is an osu,tell me what will u do,will u go ahead in d marriage or not?

Well, thank God i am not in that situation. I am about to get married. Like i said earlier, it is a very difficult situation, especially for the guy. If i were in their shoes, I would follow my heart and make a choice between my family and my wife to be.

@jennykadry
I bet you are a lady, u  may not understand how very dificult this is for the guy. There are some things that is bigger than a man, that he can't just handle. It is when u get there, that u know how it feels.

Everybody seems to agree for the lovers to get married and leave the village, thereby rendering themselves "villageless". In as much as I dont support the OSU thing that has eaten deep into the root of the igbo culture, I dont think leaving your village is a good idea. You would have lost your roots and mind you it is also going to affect your generation, both born and unborn. And if i may ask, where are you going to claim as your village or your roots by the time u leave your village? Or do you think you will be easily accepted anywhere else? It is unfortunate that these two love birds had to be a victim of this OSU nonsense. Actually this is a tough situation and like someone said earlier, even the chuch has failed in the fight of this OSU culture. I am from Imo state and i understand how this thing works. It is very deep rooted in the igbo tradition. It is really a pity!

I think what is confusing the poster is that she agreed to enter the bedroom with him, even laid on the bed with him and at the same time refused to play ball. Could be frustrating you know But I think that is ladies for you. Needs a little pampering and sweet talking.what do you think?

@poster,
U made it sound as if the gal was asking you for money to do her hair or to buy her some clothes. In case u don't know, the guy should see it as a point of duty to make sure that the gal he asked out got home, either by driving her home or getting a taxi for her. I dont see anything wrong whatsoever in her accepting the money, more especially when u offered it. Had it been she rejected the money, you would have insisted she accepted it from you. As for your wife hunting, I must advise you to be careful not to make such things a criteria for wife selection, cos u will end up with the fake ladies that will ruin you for life. Go for the natuaral ladies man! Goodluck in your search.

That is the reason why the spread of HIV/AIDS is on the rise. You can imagine the increase in the rate of unwanted pregnancies. No wonder the spread of HIV/AIDS is on the rise. Please people zip up or better still use a condom. It saves life!

OpeLovely:
I'm suprised that people are having a hard time replying/responding to this topic. Nawa o!!

lmao, the thing is dat most people are still at work. I used to like mercedes benz those days, but now i prefer the BMWs and I am a proud owner of one now. Very great car

lami4life:
@ poster
Cmon, this ain't the joke section. Are those cars for real? If those cars are for real, then I'm Queen Elizabeth!

To be fair, they can come in really handy as Mechanized dust pans. Lagos needs some of those.

LMAO   

I feel you, those mechanized dust pans will be very handy in Lagos and Onitsha

If you can deliver in Port Harcourt and it is brand new, holla me!

victor4u:
@ frando29

Wetin naa if u really can't contribute, thn its better u b a silent observer.

Just want to hear people's opinion

@ efua
Well u talk sense small. but don't 4gt there ar stl sum decent guys out there who will only yield to your request.

from that post i pasted, d guy comes home very late n only wants to make a little extra cash.

Well jst want to hear your opinion

@ poster

If your guy actually wants extra cash, then why is he particular about sharing his flat with a lady? Advice him to go and get married. He is too old for this kind of crab.

@poster

Pls look for something more productive to do.

@annboga,

Hey, I feel you. I also lost my oldboy about 10yrs ago. It is hard at first, but once the funeral is over and the mourning period is over, you will slowly get over it. May God strengthen you. Take care. E go better!!!

st1:
Its not good for Nigerian road

I don't know if you noticed the distance between the ground and the base of the vehicle. Any attempt to drive that car on Nigerian roads,will send it back to the garage with only the tires, driver's seat and the steering intact!

All that has happened and is happening is just an indication that Nigeria is ripe for a revolution. Unless our grandparents, parents, children and grand children take to the streets to protest the injustice, corruption and looting meted out on this our beloved country, things will never get better. We have stayed in the gallery for too long watching things get messed up in this country. The sufferings of Nigerians get worse everyday and our prayers is that "it will be well". Nigerians are far pushed into the wall and if care is not taken, will go through the wall. This is the time we need our heroes!

@poster
Please let us have more of the pics and lets know their specifications like a/c, alloy whells etc. and how much they are going specifically.

It's already too bad as it is. If you know what is good for you, run away fast before something very bad happens to you. If u don't know the meaning of Adultery, look it up in da dictionary.

Let's see the pic of your d**k for starters!

uwex:
@ifyalways

I love asking too many questions inorder to give best answers to people who have such problems. You can say that again. T ake care all the same.

@uwex, Now you are making us think you are not the one with the problem, Abeg forget that thing, your balls are strong!

Has anyone driven a Bimmer before?