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Wittyduchess:
If the same guy were to impregnate someone else at this junction,he will gladly dump the op and marry the new lady. Hope you know that .

I am just saying that the fact someone is pregnant for you doesn't make it mandatory that you must marry the person.

hope you know that.....

authority2006:
We joined cooperative society, we obtained loan and I went into business.

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Then your partner is lucky to have you.

authority2006:
You didn't mention the most important piece of information: how old are you?
Break free from the guy, don't mind the number of years you have wasted with him. Give attention to new suitors. How is he going to make millions by doing 60k a month job? I got married with far less amount but discovered that crappy monthly salary wasn't the way at all.

so after your discovering, what did you do to elevate both of you financially??

UjuJoan2:
I hope you are not the type that will collect money behind closed door and want to be worshipped in public as “Lord and Master”.

You guys need to pick a side, and stick with it.

So your only definition of gaining respect in Marriage is the man solely providing financially in the family.

And the woman, being available at anytime to render sexual services. (let's not delve into the mutual enjoyment of this conjugal duty).

Like, you don't think there is more to marriage than these.....

stormborn28:
Chai..... Wahala wear Shokoto....Any relationship beyond two years is a SCAM....tell anybody say na STORMBORN talk....I am a man and I will never except a relationship beyond what I have stated reason why I discourage teenagers from dating.. You go just "Ku sibe" without any result...

OP your man is a liar...60k can do something for a start since you are still working...it is the free pvssy he has been banging that is making his head not to buy the cow....leave him and forge ahead.. Nonsense everywhere

Marriage validates pvssy eating only.

Is there no other thing to offer bikonu.....
what about happiness, what about strategic planning by both parties, what about many other things.....

Wahala dey.

purples25:
If he wants you and wants no one else to get you, he will snap you up no matter what it takes. A man that has his eye on a woman, have you seen him? He wastes no time. He is stubborn that "That is the one I want."

He will do whatever it takes, even if it means getting you pregnant, even if you yourself don't want. He will do all to make it happen. Okada riders and beggars get married too. They are stubborn to clinch that small girl they want in the house.

Watch him. When he sees the girl he wants, he will chase her mercilessly, he will become a romantic and do everything to sweep her off her feet and the moment she relaxes, its married.

If this guy has truly chosen you and his mind is with you, he would even do small traditional rites to make damn sure that you are not going anywhere. He is not serious and he wants to eat you without paying and he is enjoying you but he has not chosen you yet.

That is what boyfriend and girlfriend causes. Its a cheat code for guys to get their way for free.

"it's cheat code for guys"

are you insinuating that all women offer in relationship is "allowing themselves to be eaten....."

Like after the marriage, the only thing that can be rendered by the woman license to be eaten since due payment has been made.

the standard is so low in this part of the world.

Smh.

Realhommie:
Hehehehe... I was just laughing reading that part, lol.

My sister called me yesterday and was telling me about one of her husband's extended family relation whose wife is frustrating now ehn, to the extent he's become a drunk.

His salary was 50k, the girl was working too and she was an angel, lol. Cajoled the bobo with loyalty and an overdose of sweetness, saying we'll manage and all. Now his 50k can't do nothing anymore coz they have a kid together who's a few months old. He's been borrowing to float his family and he's become a laughing stock to his in-laws. He's frustrated.

My sis was almost crying when she was telling me coz of how close this guy is to her husband. That the guy called her husband and was crying seriously, a mature man. But i blame him coz he gave in to pressure to get married.

No man should ever attempt to get married if he isn't financially stable, otherwise he'll struggle for life and it will take God's mercy to maybe liberate him. So forget all this "we'll manage, I'll manage" which they always say. Once you marry them and can no longer meet up to your responsibilities then respect goes out the window, you become a rag, your life becomes a living hell.

The dude is a very sensible dude with a good head over his shoulders, I like him for his stand. It's either she exercise more patience or move ahead rather than worry the young man for marriage.

"I'll manage with you", "we will manage",

Lori iro.

Run o

DEMZEE:
Don't u get my point

Women are hypergamous and will always seek a man who has high value And his value is higher than hers for mating and for commitment.

Women hate building with a man because she will be forced to b masculine and she detests entering the masculinity essence. It kills her femininity bro

Only a weak and useless man will depend on his wife for financial support or use his wife as backup plan for finances!!!

this is so funny, wahala for who is considering her hypergamy and femininity.

so wait, what will be her role in your life if she can't support you financial when need be......

we give ourselves too much burden in this short life. Always placing ourselves in an overreaching pedestal to maintain our ego.

If a woman renders financial support to you and feel she doesn't need to respect you because of that, you shouldn't be in a relationship with her at the first place....

Kingstanding:
. For good eight years? I hope he married you later if not the person that will marry you in future I pity am. And he had been making love with you for that right years? I swear if I didn't marry you your future husband cannot meet good thing there anymore. My candid advice is to leave that guy, he can not marry you I swear, he will just be posting you.If guys really love a lady it's the guy that will be begging that please marry me na if money no dey today money go come tommorow because he will do anything just to convince you. The guy in question is tired of your pussy I swear the truth is bitter. Majorities of relationship that is more than two years na cry dey end am. You have used your body to play betnaija.

why is it that when issue of relationship is discussed in Nigeria, the only tangible thing people use to rate the woman is sex, elasticity of the pussy...... it says alot about relationship in this country and it's bad, really bad.

The standard is so low; not great ideas, plans, intellectual engagement, career growth, or at least being at par with the other in terms of social live and exposure.
It's always the issue of the man having enough coitus with the woman, or the woman's exceeding marriageable age.
Or the woman trying to trap the man into marriage with pregnancy.


There is need for more......

Wittyduchess:
Let me make this clear to you the op and the Ladies reading this ;


THE LONGER YOU DATE A GUY THE LESS LIKELY HE WILL MARRY YOU.


You see there are phases in a relationship, the important phase in a relationship is the *see finish phase* ,it is always advisable to go through this phase in marriage, this phase usually spans between the first five years of a marriage. But when the relationship prolongs it spans into the *see you finish* phase with no proper commitment.


Now I am sure he is not more than five years older than you, that even makes it worse for you my dear op. When he finally makes his millions the probability that he will want to settle down with a woman he has *see finish* and also close to his age group is very slim.

Leave or stay it's your choice, but just know one thing ,the chances that this guy will end up marrying you is 0.1% out of 100%.


If you do decide to stay, you can only force marriage out of him by getting pregnant for him. That is the only way as it stands. Goodluck with the *time waster* cos you are going to need alot of luck.

at this age and time, you still think that getting g pregnant for a guy will force him to marry you... lol...
The only thing that can make a guy commit to you after a long time is of he really loves you.
Every lady knows a guy that loves her .... when you are confused on whether or not he loves you, clarify things with him and move on.

Alexgman1:
You can never satisfy a woman. You give her too much money but less sex she will go outside. You give her less money and too much sex she will go outside. What do they really want?

wahala for who wants to satisfy woman.....
find a like mind and be with if you start noticing any changes, tell her, if there is something fishy tell her and if your mind keeps telling you there is something fishy please end it......
this life is very delicate for all these.....

Ikenna94:
Yeah I got it too...don't even know how it's like

could you describe how the test was....

reasoning, Abstract or mathematics

Glistinin:
I got test invite from them to hold tomorrow.
Please who knows about them?

how. did the test go and what was the test about?

ecowas:
God will punish you, wait covid awaits you, scammer.

do you have ExxonMobil past question

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Saimeritus:
No assessment, just interview.

can I get your number and chat you up on whatsapp. mine is 08176534532.
I'd appreciate that.

OwlaRowl:
Lol, i have dragged many nets administered by dragnet (Sarcastically speaking), literally i have written tons of dragnet tests, right from my undergraduate scholarship days down to recently. Trust me it never gets easier.

Dragnet questions aren't that tough per se, their testing method just has many factors that question their willingness to even give candidates a fair attempt at the chosen form of assessment.
Yes people still scale through, but then, everyone ain't super-fast or brainy. A lot of folks have potential and are employable, they can do much better than these tests.
Dragnet making these tests super tough to meet client specifications (The recruiting companies) is killing whatever little hope these folks have.
At the sight of dragnet in an assessment mail invite, some people now just lose hope even before the assessment itself.

1-The timing for these tests are crazy, before you even read some voluminous verbal questions, or use the uncommon shortcuts, your time is speed-breathing its last.

2-The calculation given to you needs more time than you're availed, sometimes a lot of candidates know how to attempt these questions, but for the speed and volume of calculation involved, you'd rather zap through and answer all questions than commit the little time to answering just a few you conveniently can solve under considerable timing.
In some cases you end up solving the question, getting an answer, only to hold onto your mouse for that one click, the system takes you to the next section #painful. (This usually happens towards the end of a particular section).

3- The Abstract reasoning is the most annoying part, the patterns are not easy to decipher within the little time frame given, or probably the sequence/patterns are too easy, we (candidates) are too busy looking above our noses.

The one that has to be addressed is the quality of image you're meant to decipher, the quality is something I would love them to take seriously. How can i figure out a pattern from tiny boxes with illegible tiny objects inside them, (i don't even have a medical optical condition, how much more an individual who suffers such) ?
KINDLY NOTICE ALL THREE SECTIONS DWELLED ON ONE MILESTONE; TIME.

I really do hope they see this and make improvements on their testing method.
If these reviews are adopted and considered in making improvements to Dragnets testing format, they'll gain more credibility and win the hearts of all major recruiting firms and candidates as well.


Ps: i am not saying Dragnet should sacrifice her standard of testing or make their tests easier, i am only pointing these facts out , leveraging on the downsides i experienced during their most recent tests; Exxon Mobil GT recruitment, NSE GT recruitment.

I could be wrong on my assertion and i am as well open to intelligent criticisms, but then i have said my bit, Politely.

#Gracias

hello can I get through to you.

I want to know the mode of assessment for ExxonMobi graduate internship.

I will really appreciate if you reply this. if you have any sample for practice...kindly send to franklinstephen950@gmail.com

thank you.

Saimeritus:
Nothing yet o.

did you guys write any assessment test before the interview and what was the mode of the assessment and interview.

angelusbrut:
Well what have I to say,I'm I'm in a similar situation like yours just that my guy huzzle legitimately but payments couldn't come as expected and he is pressing on getting married today tomorrow, life no just balance,I still dey observe sha but will follow my heart next year. Luv is good but a man has to be doing something,very important!!

so what would a woman be doing?

BaddieFreak:
Please if you want all control over your woman and dictate to her as you wish, do the needful, pay her bride price and marry her. Stop wasting her time and expect her not to have other options. You even beat her, no wonder she is cheating on you woman beater.

so you think paying her bride price will automatically stop her from cheating or as you called it 'having other options' nothing changes in marriage.

gunners160:
Marriage is an achievement to a Lady and to most men a liability. Whenever a man should propose to a lady, the first thing you see is she is crying or shouting out of excitement. She starts flaunting and making paparazzi out of the engagement ring because she has seen some one who has helped her in accomplishing a goal. Just like the feeling of building a house

in addition to this,marriage to a woman is like a childhood fantasy come true. Ever since she was little, she has been made to belief she is a Queen and special so there is a Mr Knight somewhere who will one day marry her and fulfill all her fantasy.
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A man looks for financial independence before getting married but a woman crave for good shape and a good dress sense before getting married. She knows all what she needs is a man who can shoulder her responsibilities. that is why men get married late while women get married so early. You hear words like " i need a rich man even though he is ugly"

Also, marriage to a woman is a respect on its own. She is given respect both in and outside her home. At church she is called madam, at work she is called a Mrs and at the society she is called a mother

Finally marriage can be an achievement and also a liability depending who u end up with. they either destroy you or makedo

flesh and blood did not reveal this to you... �
I need no liability pligs

Benzoway:
Bro, you don't know yahoo. I guess you just hear about it. Yahoo is one of the hardest jobs to do.
You can work every day for 6 months and not make even a dollar.
And mind you, the yahoo guys you see clubbing and driving flashy cars are just 5% of the yahoo Nation. The other 95% are broke, hustling and being hopeful.

being hopeful of what exactly
hopeful of scamming people of hard earned money.... we have normalised crime in this country smh

CHoccolaTE:
Men these days are the ones who are liabilities in marriage, very lazy and entitled golddiggers.

You want a woman that will be breadwinner and share the bills but you cannot share cooking and cleaning house and taking care of children equally. No, you still expect women to be in charge of the household even while she is stressing herself to provide money.

Marrying men of these days has no benefit whatsoever, it's just losses after losses, fvcking liabilities.

if you later get married the joke is on you.

virginprincess:
All this broke men creating nonsense tread self , haven't you people see real men that get married then ask their wives to sit at home, that is becoming full time housewives, those men do they have two heads? are they not the one taking the whole responsiblity? mtcheeeeew.

Eiya Oya goan marry those men naw

Lonelypenguin:
I'm gay and I don't really care about having kids, maybe in the future adopting could be an option but it's not really a priority

so whose kids will you adopt?
kids from heterosexual relationship?

lol, you people don't want to accept the truth sha.

deliveryboy:
Men have been brainwashed into being willing slaves by the mainstream media, Hollywood creates Cinderella stories where the man comes and saves a damsel in distress(poverty). Nollywood is now worse, it’s always a story of docile but cheating men they continuously bombard you with. Men being slapped at will and women being overly aggressive. Men doing everything to save aggressive hoes. But look at it, men attended primary schools just like women, secondary school just like their female counterparts, they then proceed to university and sit in the same classes just like women, suddenly it’s a man’s duty to feed you, clothe you, build a house, buy the car, pay children’s school fees, cater for health care and take care of his Inlaws. Who came up with these lies?

I have been asking this question for a while now.
like, what's the essence of the exposure you got from being educated?
you had the same opportunity and exposure as your male counterpart, still you depend on him for money. Either it's greed or it's pure laziness.

MajorOvakporaye:
I need rich Irish guys to date
Not all these broke NL guys littering the space with their cheap poverty talks

Are you rich?

MajorOvakporaye:
I need rich Irish guys to date
Not all these broke NL guys littering the space with their cheap poverty talks

Are you rich

As a true Christian, where do you think your first fruit should be paid in.

do you think using it for a charitable and non-profit engagement would be in line with the instruction in the Bible?

mrkings84:
SEX EDUCATION


Conclusion:
Sex is sweet.
After Jesus Christ, it is the next sweetest thing on Earth.

point of correction, after Jesus Christ, accumulating wealth is the next sweetest thing on earth please.

Michelle55:
Not worth it... Just stick to one because one woman is enough problem already,why are you trying to die young by having massive heartaches?

PS: and if you must become polygamous, make it 3 instead of 2... Because when those two will gang up against you, the 3rd will snitch on them to become your top priority and favorite heard this secret from one baddest grandpa in my area

why must women be a problem at the first place and be proud saying it......

kaikubura:
Wow! I read every single word from start to current page. It is quite shocking how hardworking people lose money. One thing for sure is that, through constant learning and not giving up, success is inescapable.

What I indeed noticed was that in doing any business you need to be smart about using all your life savings, no matter how lucrative it seems.

I lost 240k to crypto this year and another 100k to bad debt. I have since moved on.
I will just go back to Fiverr where I provide spreadsheet services (I am an expert in Excel, VBA and PowerBI).

I will advise those online biz enthusiasts in previous comments to freelance with their skills, no initial investment required.

how??