₦airaland Forum

Samantha124:
Maybe it has something to do with you men being territorial, especially African men... They can have these big egos.

But if you ask me, SA men are the nicest men ever, it's just that most of the time your brothers would come here and start bad mouthing them, hence they have this negative energy towards you guys.

I have to admit that we can be annoyingly irritating sometimes too which doesn't exactly help.

Waste of time and resources. Religion is complete bullsh*t.

Natural selection. While at Delta State University in the late 90's a guy who was a year my junior in the department broke his leg in an accident and while he was still walking with crutches had another accident that claimed his life.

Not every accident claims lives, not all accidents claims the lives of all involved. That's life for you. No God is involved.

lexy2014:
did you dream of the word "believe"? why are you on about believe? I am not believing anything. am only responding to your opinion based on your experience by saying that


and i also said that there's nothing you have said subsequently as a rebuttal that negates the comment you responded to.

Phew! I give up.

Samantha124:
You sound like an honest man.

So tell me this, why do Nigerian men hate SA men?

Hate is quite extreme. I'd rather say "dislike". The feeling is actually mutual. While in Joburg I discovered the women were far more accommodating and friendly to foreigners than the men. I maintain contact with female friends even after over ten years of leaving SA.

I believe it boils down to competition of who is superior in Africa.

Samantha124:
They're all criminals and breaking the law at the end of the day.

Their offences are just different, but no offence is better than the other.

They will even be put in the same jail cell.

The penalties show which is more serious. At the end of the day everything is relative.

lexy2014:
can you show the argument you referring to? i only said There's nothing you have said here that negates the comment you responded to.

Did u dream of the word "negate"? Why are you on about negate? I am not negating anything. Just saying my opinion based on my experience. And I also said you can believe what you want.

Samantha124:
No one is better than the other.

We're just different.

Well, you could say that but the truth remains that a thief is better than a murderer. Just an example.

lexy2014:
There's nothing you have said here that negates the comment you responded to.

You are clearly looking for grounds for unnecessary argument. Like I said, believe whatever floats ur boat.

Samantha124:
Thank you for your honesty.

Most of your brothers are in denial.

South African women are some of the best anywhere in the world. I am talking out of experience. The men are a different ball game. However, I make bold to state that there are different sides to every coin. I believe Nigeria has better men while SA has better women.

lexy2014:
There's nothing you have said here that negates the comment you responded to.

My brother, believe what you want.

lexy2014:
theres a difference between taking care of your woman and using money to entice a woman so you can have sex. the picture you painted above isnt about taking care of their woman. it is about enticing women for sex. many nigerian men dont have confidence in front of a woman. what gives the average nigerian man confidence is the small change he thinks he has and he thinks once he has it, any woman will sleep with him. thats wack. if a lady feels you are her source of income and you are ok with it, then you are a dead man

Taken completely out of context. The average South African woman is is by far more hardworking than the average male. Many Nigerians involve their women in whatever business they are into. There's a huge difference between paying for sex and taking care of your woman. There are many things Nigerian men do for their women here in Nigeria that South African men will never do for their women. The men have a weird sense of entitlement.

Gajagojo:
Are you people not afraid of HIV?

What HIV? I thought people will be falling left and right, dying of HIV but all na cruise.

Chetas81:
xnophobic is their first priority

Xenophobia is merely transferred aggression..

I lived in SA for six years. It is usually said there that when a Xhosa girl gets a Nigerian boyfriend she calls home (Eastern Cape) to tell them she's gotten a job. SA guys no send their girls for transport money or hair money or any money for that matter.

Naija guys take care of their women. That's the difference.

Holditup:
God isn't dead

Which God?

Reminderz:
I'm sorry for you.. you think you're enjoying abi? you're killing yourself slowly... ever wonder why the food and drinks we consume this days slowly damages our health? have you ever wondered why we treat ailments that were not heard of from the past? the things we consume daily slowly deteriorates our health.. and when your immune system can no longer take it anymore, you begin to spend money to regain back your health...

and you might not even be working out, I'm really sorry for you bro.. you won't understand what it is now, but later when you need your health most...

Too many dos and don'ts. I can't come and kee myself. Live forever if you want.

LeoDeKing:
The death of Chinwoke Mbadinuju, former governor of Anambra state, was just reported. The least expected of you is to type RIP.

No, you ain't bothered about his death or wishes of peaceful rest. What bothers you is Buhari, who has nothing to do with his death. Maybe if Buhari hadn't visited London, Chinwoke Mbadinuju wouldn't have died.

His death, his business.
It's not by force to type RIP. Very few politicians deserve it and Mbadinuju isn't one of them.

Odogwuzack:
Tinubu is still the best we've got at this time.

Nobody is even close.

Something is inherently wrong with a country that prefers an old invalid drug peddler like Tinumbu over a Peter Obi.

Buhari failed woefully.

Tinumbu presidency is wrong in many fronts.

Fish smell.

IyaebeTheGreat:
No one cares for your explanation.idiot. Stop quoting me and face your front

IyaebeTheOde

Mufasa27:
Who gives a f***

If una like participate, if una like make una ignore. Nigeria must move forward with or without you hypocrites.

Says a nonentity. Product of hypocrisy.

Good one. The Last Style Bender is a terrific athlete. Proud of you, Champ.

Yeah, whatever.

delkuf:
living with eternal life. After this life, I will reign with Christ in heaven. Again, it is my believe.

Okay. Good.

delkuf:
thank you for this. Of anyone don't believe he exist that is there problem. We believe he died on the cross in the flesh and resurrected from the dead in the flesh

You will really believe anything.

delkuf:
so that I can live today. That is what up

Lol! How? People have lived before you and people will live after you.

Good. About time too.

It takes time sometimes to settle in a new environment with new routines, etc. Calm down.

I wish we can trade places. Nigeria is hopelessly annoying and frustrating.

Stay put.

Jahlivesforever:
It just like saying, the earth moves round the sun is a fluke because it is not in the Bible or Koran.

It's myopism because the evidence of it is in sciencetific journals, why look for the evidence of solar system in religious books if you are not myopic

If you believe in Christ then you are a Christian. You are blinded by faith. And what is faith? If Jesus resurrection was real you won't have to believe it, you will simply know it. Science journals publish results of experiments not results of belief systems.

The Jesus story is the greatest scam of all times.