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So many tribalistic fools on NL

Putindbutt:
You want to obtain TCO and bypassing relevant agencies in your country and you think that's possible?. abeg try dey use your brain.

Seems you know the inside gist...Allen has given us his oya give us yours pls

NaijaCoverBlog:
https://punchng.com/bauchi-police-arrest-man-for-stabbing-brother-to-death/?amp

Foolish man

Gistmedia10:
In a shocking incident caught on camera, a woman was seen indulging in an unconventional method of smoking shisha through her nose, leaving onlookers and viewers bewildered.

The footage, which quickly went viral on social media, shows the unidentified woman confidently inhaling shisha smoke through her nose instead of the traditional method of using the mouth. The video, filmed at a local hookah lounge, has sparked a mix of reactions, with many expressing disbelief and amazement at her unusual technique.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QNmwU6HJJgo

Ride on baby, it's giving vibesss

Ouchbabe:

Why u dey mention me naa

Wanted you to see that generalising never helped anyone

purples25:
Bruh....
Google is a friend to us all. I would've quizzed you so that you know that you don't even have any grasp of what women are planning these days.

Ok. Let me educate you. It's called the 4B movement. Pic attached. You can also consult our friend Google. The matter is as I said, even if sadly😁... It is not to your liking. You think women will continue to swallow all this shii?

Okay okay, let me add a video of an actual South Korean talking about this. Or you can go to YouTube or whatever.

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMM57CPMY/

Not everyone likes to risk their lives and be treated like they just went to poop.

You are still generalising... i personally don't even want kids, i prefer we adopt cause i have seen what childbirth CAN (not WILL like it's 100% of the time) do and don't want to take the risk but my woman wants 2 kids, hopefully we get twins and that will be the end of that...
On the korean front, there can be multiple reasons for a situation, the fact that 4b is part of the reason does not mean that my assertion does not stand. 4b is still an upcoming thing and the movement is definitely not old enough to have started affecting korea for several years. If you check, korea's birth rate has been declining way before 4b so you cannot attribute the issue to the movement.

Aonkuuse:
More.....

Wasted life...wasted funds and wasted future.

wany:
May you never happen to any lady , you just as same as the man in question

Funny...I'm happily married ma, even if we're currently not in the same timezone. I can bet that my wife is much happier in our marriage than you are in yours if you're even married.

Jennyclay:
Nigerian men can’t go a day without committing crime especially the broke good for nothing poverty stricken men

The court should just sentence this animal to death ASAP!!

Bunch of rapist and murderers!!
Evil men!!

1sharon
Ouchbabe

See your sister

1Sharon:
And so what? Why didn't he insist that she relax? Why didn't he order food or at least help? I've just watched the video and that joke makes him seem much worse, why make a self-centered joke like that? He thought about himself while his wife was delivering his baby

And if the lady had an issue with it, she would have voiced out. You people will leave abusive homes and husbands and be castigating loving spouses...

purples25:
Lol I heard in South Korea, US, and some other countries, the birth rates are really low. They say that women are slowly revolting. They have many old people but no younger generation to care for them. It's actually a secret team effort. Many women are coming out on social media to say, since we are unappreciated for having babies, you say we did nothing, despite the mental and physical life changes it impresses on me, then why have a baby? Why have a baby and be a breeder only to be treated like nothing by the society I'm raising these kids for? Go through pains and body changes and life responsibilities only to be told you're nothing. I'd rather travel the world. That's what most of these foreign girls are saying. They rather choose to die out as women, than go through all this for nothing.

This particular massive movement of women are saying that until their importance is acknowledged, and they are treated well, they will not have any children. Let's see what happens when men continue with this attitude towards childbearing.

A classic case of f around and find out.

Well this is a lie ...if you actually bothered to do some research you'll see that korean women aren't giving birth more due to financial capability and the impact childbirth has on their career.

https://www.reuters.com/world/asia-pacific/south-koreas-fertility-rate-dropped-fresh-record-low-2023-2024-02-28/#:~:text=SEOUL%2C%20Feb%2028%20(Reuters),or%20to%20not%20have%20babies.

US ladies on the other hand are getting gayer, aborting a lot more and just prefer the freedom of being unmarried and of course prefer to focus on jobs and promiscuity, just like how almost 40% of the young ladies are on onlyfans or showcase their body all over the Internet like hookers.
Don't come here thinking you can give false info and no one will fact check you

1Sharon:
If it's a situation women can never experience like being kicked in the balls then yes. Do you see us trying to belittle and diminish your pain like men do for childbirth?

Lol...your comment is funny

1Sharon:
I only see one or two comments belittling her, most of the heat is being directed to the husband. The husband is not a gentleman. Couldn't he cook for one day or at least order food as a treat if he couldn't afford a push gift?

There's several comments belittling and castigating both husband and wife. You also fail to catch that no one told the woman to cook, the man simply said he told his wife that he misses her cooking and she decided to hit the kitchen, i don't know why you people are crying more than the bereaved

1Sharon:
Obviously you haven't, so why then are you commenting on other women like yourself that haven't experienced childbirth?

The point is, just because you can, doesn't mean you should.

Obviously you haven't thought this thru...so by your statement, a woman should not comment on topics for men abi?

And i believe I've stated already that I am a man not a woman

Ofodirinwa:
Many are not happy, but regardless this is a great thing to celebrate.



Bashir Ahmad



Dr Penking


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wjzu0WZ-HrE?si=TEL4_9Ssxm14BbqA

Where's the supposed outrage? Must you people use sensationalised headlines??

Oga Allen, abeg after UK route has stabilised, face canada biko, them wan cut person neck

1Sharon:
Do you see your hypocrisy? You haven't experienced childbirth and you never will, so who the hell are you to speak on childbirth as If your experience is more valid than those other women that also haven't experience childbirth? Are you the only person with friends that have given birth?

Don't pretend like you haven't seen other men up there equally lambasting him. What are your words for them?

The husbands lacks courtesy period. A commenter here gave the perfect analogy, imagine going to a hospital and asking to eat the patients food, some of them might be okay with it, does that mean you should do it?

Where's the hypocrisy? Did i ever say i experienced firsthand childbirth? Your analogy is so flawed i don't even know where to begin, plus i don't even see the correlation to the op

1Sharon:
Do you see your hypocrisy? You haven't experienced childbirth and you never will, so who the hell are you to speak on childbirth as If your experience is more valid than those other women that also haven't experience childbirth? Are you the only person with friends that have given birth?

Don't pretend like you haven't seen other men up there equally lambasting him. What are your words for them?

My opinion has always been the same, the lady obviously was not forced, her husband loves her and she loves her husband, what gives you people here the right to curse or belittle her If one's childbirth experience was traumatising, there's other women who didn't have traumatising childbirths so why the hate? If you say it's because the woman is encouraging your man to treat you differently even when your experience was worse, then that's on you for marrying a foolish man, not on anyone else.

1Sharon:
Alaye, have you experienced childbirth?

I'm obviously a man but i know several women that have experienced childbirth. I have been to the hospital for a friend after childbirth. Some ladies that have gone thru it have come out to say that the op is not a new thing, that they have also experienced something similar but some children here are trying to shut them up. I can bet you that several people lambasting them have not gone thru childbirth.
Some of you here make it seem like all men are heartless creatures, imagine what some foolish girls are posting in the pages. Personally, i wouldn't let my wife cook for a couple of weeks, even if she wanted to, but that's a moot point anyway as i did most of the cooking when she was in Nigeria and I'm good with that. What you people should understand is that we have different strokes for different folks and this habit of fallacious generalisation helps no one.

Maryam1234:
I'm A Kogi Woman living in Niger State
I'm not from Bayelsa..

Scenes like that are common in my ancestral home town...

You'll see women going about their normal duties after childbirth because in the village no one cares much....

I don't see anything spectacular in what the woman did because most women do that.

It was the Internet that makes it look special and some are even insulting the man..

And she just cook food using gas in modern kitchen

It shows the birth was without complications hence she's supposed to be on bed rest for some months to make her enemies happy

Silly isn't it? Staying in your house and coming online to insult someone simply for showcasing strength and love towards her family.

1Sharon:
Is her situation the norm?? Why are you happy to take the exception as the NORM?

Most women do not have a seamless delivery.

Have you ever been to a Labour ward before?

And why are you happy to take terrible deliveries as the norm? I don't understand you ladies on this platform. Women give birth all around the world, some go through hell, some deliver like hebrew women, some go through some difficulty....but you people, especially little girls that haven't experienced childbirth, come online and make it seem like it is worst pain in the world for every mother and when women that have actually been through it come out and debunk you, you lose your shit.

purples25:
There is no guilt tripping or debasement here. I congratulated her and showed happiness for her case, but I asked her not to generalize, because she seemed to be addressing all women in her post.

Men really want to grab at those stronger women as an example of all women. Yes, they mostly do that. Then the ones that need rest and care cannot get it because of the strong ones mouthing off all about how easy it is. I had an 'easy' birth yet I appreciated every little consideration for my health. Even easy wasn't easy but, how would you understand. Maybe you think easy is without pain (I laugh). Yes, even if I stood up minutes after and the nurses praised. I still wanted and needed that petting. Superwoman my foot.

She didn't push or have contractions or pains and fears abi? Lemme just keep quiet on that.

You want women to be saying it's easy so that y'all can deal with all of us and in fact forget about all tender care. That's what you guys secretly want. And the women who trivialize childbirth are opening the door wide for you.

You and the women that want to spring clean after having babies should meet up and get married. They should just not turn back on any day claiming mistreatment, lack of appreciation, stress or neglect, because that's how it usually ends. My soul might come out of my body to slap their mouths.

Maybe you don't know what guilt tripping is but you definitely did it in the comment i quoted. I've seen terrible childbirth, my woman's sister almost died, lost her beauty, shape and got depressed a little...I've also seen difficult deliveries as well as mild ones. You want us to generalise using terrible childbirths while complaining that all men want to generalise using easy deliveries....are you not seeing the hypocrisy

Ouchbabe:
Anu mpama, I know idiot like you who think a woman is a slave will support the rubbish the man posted. Wait until your daughter whether born or yet to be born cooks for her husband right in the labour room

You have no decorum, just coming online to spill trash

purples25:
Why do you like to make life hard for your fellow women, belittling the effort and pains of giving birth.

Do you know that because of women like you who make it seem like giving birth is not a big deal, many wicked people will judge all women to be like that? Because of women like you, many don't even consider letting those that gave birth in many pains and complications to be going through anything. Because of you so called superwoman, they expect every woman to be like that, to just enter the kitchen and start housework too.

See, if you like stress, if you like carrying everything on your head with no help so that Nigerian men can call you a strong woman, do it. But please, for the sake of your fellow Nigerian women, don't underrate the pains and efforts of pregnancy and childbirth. Have mercy on those who cannot do it like you and have weakness or pains. Many women keep lying and stressing so as to be called strong woman. They don't consider the effect on other women. They are in competition with other women rather, they want to be considered as more of a wife material than other women, showing themselves up and down. Why can't we protect ourselves rather than look for the praise of men at other women's expense?

Thank God you are so strong, but please don't belittle the effort of childbirth please. Don't belittle all the effects to make them rate it as nothing. Men don't suffer any of these things and they want to undervalue our pains to make themselves a more valuable gender. Also to avoid doing anything special for us. Many of the men you are trying to impress hate us, they don't want to do anything for us.

That's right, guilt trip her for not lying....childbirth is different for a lot of women, I've heard about women who lost so much blood and almost died, my favourite colleague is one of such. I've also heard of women who washed clothes, gave birth, came home and packed the dry clothes on same day. Infact the pregnant lady was washing clothes when my colleague saw her that morning, by the time my colleague got home in the evening, the woman don go clinic, born, come back and packed the clothes she washed in the morning.
Childbirth is not the big bad wolf you people make it out to be all the time, everybody no go get your experience. No need to debase the woman that had a seamless delivery.

Ouchbabe:
I don't like using insulting or abusive words online or offline but right now I'm dropping my home training.

This man is a selfish, inconsiderate and self centered idiot. What will be his reaction if the wife were to be his daughter and another man is posting this kind of trash?

I'm a mother, child birth no be moi moi.
I guess the wife is an uninformed illiterate who doesn't know what happens to the body after childbirth.

You're very silly for posting this, so everyone is supposed to go through your childbirth experience? Are you okay? Imagine calling the woman an uninformed illiterate....something must be wrong with you

Maryam1234:
What of me wey cook Breakfast in the morning, enter labor 6am
Gave birth 10am came back home 12 Pm🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣My neighbors came back from work 2pm and were shocked....

Until them see the baby they didn't believe..

We chop dinner that day🤸

After the labor pain and baby is out with normal delivery any woman can climb mountain💪

I heard of someone like that in bayelsa state, u in bayelsa?

Bahamas95:
Complications or not it's too early to engage in house chores. No need to form superwoman, it's unnecessary.


I think she's either doing it for social media or trying to please her husband.

There's nothing wrong with pleasing her husband. The man was the one that videoed and posted online, she clearly was not expecting the husband to make a video.

etrange:
Hhmm... She seems happy in the video though, but then again, even if she was willing to cook, I don't think it's fair to let her. Would she have done if he had provided alternatives or did just do it because there wasn't any other option? Giving birth is not a child's play. Let's pity our ladies, please.

I believe they were alternatives there, i saw an old woman there, probably a parent and i saw a younger lady, possibly a relative. It's clear the lady wanted to do it herself for her husband, nothing bad there. Also, the man said a day after returning from the hospital, not a day after childbirth.

NwekeUG:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zv7PJlyCXXg

He said a day after they got back from the hospital not a day after childbirth....why can't you people read, listen or watch to understand? Always jumping to conclusions

bmaster2000:
Ex-convict.
Ex-inmate
Newly released

The stain will be indelible on his image and personality till ......

There's no stain for sensible people. Everyone knows how corrupt, inept and politicised Nigerian police are, most people don't take them seriously.

korm2me:
How is it title decider. Where is liverpool. And still up to 10 games left

E no understand wetin title decider mean, no mind am

WriterNig:
@DiscloseTV posted;


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Mynd44
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Mynd44

I'm not even a religious fellow,,,but may ogun and sango punish this fool

lexy2014:
"I am not an advocate of God fatherism" but at the same time "Loyalty is compulsory .. Ingrates should be dealt with with utter violence".

how then are u not an advocate of godfatherism?

Lol.

The quintessential "talking from the two sides on one's mouth"