₦airaland Forum

Asgard73:
Yoruba people..

See as them explain like say dey follow their pikin Dey the school..

When peraon wey die and other kids wey witness son already explain truth.. this ones Dey play tufaced diplomacy.

E Dey always hard to see this take responsibility of their actions... they must find excuses or change narratives like say people Na mumu or outrightly deny you.

Ndia sef

You are an idiot.

Any other family from any other tribe would have also tried to defend their own.

Why have some of you guys made a deal with dumbness!

othermen:
I think the family taking bold in the direction of this tragic incident, is a commendable and intelligent decision.
or served.

It's so obvious you are doing PR for the boy. You are trying to swing public opinion in his favour. You tried covering it up, but you did a poor job at that

DubaiLandLord1:
Igbo land have always been landlock.

Even Oyo land is landlocked

FutureIsFemale, how far?

If the future is handed over to people of your gender, it will be a bad future for everybody.

GardenOfGod:
Please understand the angle am coming from, not from the angle of ethnicity but from the point where the yoruba leaders have kept quiet over the killings of their people by fulani herdsmen.

The so-called leaders are politicians. What do you expect from a politician?

However, the politicians are rarely representing the viewpoint of the people. They are representing their selfish viewpoints.

Asgard73:
Normal Yoruba two faced idibia diplomatic sophistication..

Trust none.. don’t make the mistake .

Ojukwu sold Biafra to Hausa Fulani for his retirement benefits after deceiving your grand fathers with Biafra.

Will you also call Ojukwu a double standard, double faced idiot?

Your head is not correct

BigSarah:
Forget about Nigerians you are doing a good job Buhari.

Lolz.

What a dumb senseless statement!

Your president should forget about the people he is supposed to be leading?

Are you under a curse or what?!

GardenOfGod:
Ok. But why are yorubas forming alliance with the same people that murdered their king and people, and even took away their land? I don't understand please.

And who told you that all yorubas belong to APC?

If APC is Yoruba/Hausa/Fulani party, what's Umahi, Akpabio, Okorocha, uzodinma, et al doing in APC?

Considering the number of southeast politicians in APC, I can as well ask you why are igbos forming alliance with the same people that murdered and are still murdering their people during the 1966 progrom and 2021?

abeggnow:
is this talk about buharis government?? i tot it was about differentiating between a government and a country.

When I wrote "government", which other government would I be referring to again?

GardenOfGod:
But did Afonjas really fled Ilorin during the war for fulanis to occupy as I use to hear on this forum?

No, he was killed by the fulanis in his palace

Atiwaye:
God punish your English teacher.

Forget the English. Focus on the message

abeggnow:
not necessarily. there bad governments with very good images thanks to good PR. and there are good governments that are not too popular internationally.

Can you mention how buhari's government has improved Nigeria's images internationally?

abeggnow:
sure . a government comes and goes. a country doesnt go any where

The image of your country to the outside world depends on the quality of its government

Idiko1:
Yoruba, a fellow southerner to Ndigbo and Biafrans, joined forces with northerners to fight Ndigbo and Biafrans in 1967. This single idiotic act clearly made Yoruba the mortal enemy of Ndigbo and Biafrans.

Dumb.

Didn't Igbos join forces with the north to outwit yorubas and Midwesterners during the 1959 general election?

Should we just join you just because you are fellow southerners? What if your reason for going to the war is selfish?

Do you know that the first point of attack by the Biafra army was southwest? Why didn't Biafra army face the north first?

Your reasoning is stupid and dumb.

MufasaLion:
In the write-up, did you see me enforce vasectomy on men? Go back and read to understand and not jump to comment.

And if I had a son or brother, I wouldn't care if they do vasectomy or not. I don't interfere in people's private life.

Easier said than done

Seun360:
As far am concerned, you did say anything.

Artful Dodger

Seun360:
APC will win in Lagos and the general election whether Una like am or not.

That's because APC is good in election rigging.

APC had always rigged itself into power in Lagos and Kano. So, you aren't saying anything new, Mr election rigger.

Jig5aw:
So you think elections will change this Land? I pity people like you.

Yes, it can

DamianX:
Yoloba destiny is also tied to Nigeria. without mNigeria or Nigerians all conehead would have perished. Even if Azikiwe was useless to Igbos atleast he did die by rat poison like the other conehead that is always making N100 dirty.

Azikiwe didn't take rat poison; how has that set Igbos free from the prison called Nigeria?

You reason like rifraf

Finewarriboy:
Oga u went too far with ur play.

You won't see Americans insulting George Wellington or Abraham Lincoln...

Make ona dey restrict ona tribal play to ona age mate... Stop being a nuisance.

I am not an American, oga.

Stop placing the standard of your life on America. It is a sign that you are a mental slave

Lionnation:
then you are not important
Just a rifraf

Lolz. That's how an idiot would reason.

Ayomi90:
Keep on shouting PVC as if it's useful, arrange election is what u still having faith in.

PVC is still important

oliverwrites:
Such a good wife. I lost 8m naira about 4 months back had to sell a website of mine to meet up with. I was almost sick with a bp of 60/70 which is alarming for someone with high BP issues.

Make sure you do the right medical checks, and support your husband as much as possible. Men are really trying you women may not agree but we are. Many of us do things they ordinarily won't do just to see you smile, they need things for themselves but look for excuses not to buy those stuff cos they consider you and the kids first.

Please appreciate your man and support him and I know you do hence this post but don't stop.

How can bp be 60/70?

Oga, there is no bp measurement that is 60/70.

Aufbauh:
I can't factor why people who are supposed to be carriers of good news, hope and bright future has turned their selves to doomsday preachers & naysayers.
May Nigeria succeed.

Can you point out a good news about Nigeria government today?

You want people to keep quiet while your uselss president continues destroying the country?

conductor20000:
Yeah, also Oduduwa did not fall from the sky and land on his cone-shaped skull

Oduduwa is not the reason why Igbo flaatheads are tied helplessly to Nigeria. Go and sort out your problems with greedy, selfish, myopic Azikiwe.

Kobojunkie:
Why do you assume she shot herself in the foot though. I mean if I am in a relationship and I want one and only one kid, what is selfish about making that known to my partner?

From what she relayed, things were already flowing between them - he even called her "darling" - before she made her intentions known. Was she supposed to maybe wait till the night before their wedding to get it out or something? I mean when exactly will be more appropriate to let you partner know of a thing like this?

Well, they were having the conversation so he revealed what he wanted and she said what she preferred and argued for it. Isn't that how you reach agreements in any relationship?

What is wrong with a vasectomy? I read somewhere that the cost is around N 100,000 and it is reversible with less side-effects. What other family planning method comes close for couples who are serious and in it for the long haul?

Why can't the girl do to her body what she wants the man to do to his body?

Selfishness and evil, right?

May your son's marry women like mercychen

Kobojunkie:
What is wrong with wanting just one kid?

Must all your kids friends and companions come from the same sac and womb?

And what's wrong with her being the one to go for hysterectomy? Isn't the idea hers?

MufasaLion:
Vasectomy needs more awareness. Most men don't understand how it is and most people don't even know it exist. You just gotta talk to him and explain things to him. Most people believes family planning is only done to the females.

Moreover, ego is among the reasons he kicks against vasectomy. An average African man wouldn't want to live his life knowing his semen is useless.

Can you allow your son or brother to do vasectomy, you dried brain idiot?

Beastus:
Skull miners. How far?

You mean okija shrine skull miners?

The people are using this available avenue to express their displeasure against APC. Unfortunately, maybe just a handful of them have PVC

Mercychen:
Hi fam.

Something has been bothering me of late and leaving me emotionally and mentally stressed and drained for the past weeks and I'm cut between the devil and the deep blue sea.

There's this bro we're trying to see if we can work things out. though, I never really wanted anything relationship again or at least for now until I'm decided later in the future on what I really want for myself.

Before, I delve into the main discuss , let
me quickly highlight how it all started.

Some months back, My publisher came to deliver the books I ordered for. So while sorting the books, he just got teasing me like " Babes, na wa o. What's up with your romantic life now?. I've never seen you pulling with anyone. It's always work, biz Money money money I see you pursuing. Lol... I just told him, guy, free me abeg and I went on counting the books at the boot of his car.

He now walked up to me and said, on a more serious note, what is happening? So I told him it's a personal choice cos I dont have the strength for relationship brouhaha now. He agreed with me that truly its not easy and even as a married man, he too feels the heat but the good thing is, he married in the Lord. So I should choose wisely from among the brethren.

So he said, he has this family friend, an eligible bachelor, who wants a decent lady and I'm the one that comes to mind each time the guy mentions it because since he's be dealing with me, he can vouch that I'm a very honest, hard-working and decent lady. So he would want the bro to have me.
That was how I got to meet bro.

Now fastforward to the main reason of this post.
There was this particular day we tripped out to cool off and discuss about US. So we got talking and planning on how to build our home in a way that we will not be caught unawares with some setbacks and unplanned responsibilities. So the issue of children came up and I suggested we have only one, which he reluctantly accepted after much convincing. So we tried to look at ways we can maintain that decision and I suggested a vasectomy. citing the possibilities of health risks (as a result of mismatches ) and failures that might occur if the family planning is done on me but with vasectomy, no issues. He looked me in the eyes and said, "my darling" no!

I was dumbfounded.... And became a little worried because, if he has no plans of having more children, why would he kick against the idea of a vasectomy?

If we are going to be one and follow one course, why shying away from a plan that will benefit us as a couple and a family?


Could it be, he only agreed to have one with me and plans to have more else where?
Is vasectomy a life threatening condition?

I was still trying to wrap my head around his refusal, when he said, it will be done on you ( the family planning). That instant, I felt all alone, like im on my own. So I told him I needed to cool off, and he said feel free.
I left the tent and went to the waters prentending to be playing with the water. He came and dragged me out of the water. we strolled without a word and I asked him to take me home. He did.

He called when he got home. I was cold to him so, he promised to call again but since then Ive refused to pick his calls or reply his texts.

The big question is ..
WHY DID HE BLUNTLY REFUSE A VASECTOMY?

COULD HE HAVE ULTERIOR MOTIVES?

IS IT NOT BETTER TO OPT OUT NOW THAN PRETEND I DIDN'T GET THE MESSAGE AND END UP IN REGRETS?

WHAT DOES IT MEAN WHEN A MAN KICKS AGAINST VASECTOMY?

You are a wicked, selfish being.

You are the one who wants just one child. So, you should be the one to be sterile and not the poor bro.

You wanted it to be done on him, but when he turned it back to you, you felt alone. So, how do you expect him to feel when you wanted vasectomy to be done on him, you wicked manipulator?!

That guy will be an idiot to agree to your selfish plan. You can't take it but you want him to take it.

How I wish I have his number, I would have told him to throw you to the gutter where you belong.